Sarah Summers

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If someone sends me an email asking for services I do not do, I obviously write back and thank them for writing to me, and politely decline (whatever it is they are requesting such as domination or baby minding as examples) but some guys write to me and the emails are too lurid, or full of instructions so the appointment will be one long scripted gig where the guy calls all the shots and does not allow me to be me.

I don't do domination but I don't also want to be dominated to the point where spontaneity is not allowed.

I will not see anyone who insists on the full address before he sets off from home.

What about you.. to the guys, what specifically puts you off seeing a lady and to the girls, where do you draw the line in making a decision whether to see a new client or not?

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If she offers bareback or as optional extra I won't see her

Blatently photoshopped pictures

If its on the other site - 0 or negative feedback, or 1 or 2 feedbacks written by other guys with 0 feedback that feel iffy

A mountain of extras that all cost differing amounts of money, its just a sign of extortion to me

Excessive use of exclamation points, marks, inappropriate grammar and terrible English E.g. "COME NAOW I WAIT YU I SSEXXXTYY!!!!!!!!!!"

I think that just about covers it, but the essence is if she sounds like a lunatic then I'll take my chances elsewhere :).

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Call me old fashioned (and I'm not that old) but any profile that is incoherent and/or full of bad spelling and grammar is a real turn off, no matter how attractive a lady might be. I can make allowance for the fact English might not be the first language but it's just lazy not to at least ask someone who does write reasonable English to check it before publishing. It also rings alarm bells that there might be some communication problems if I was to actually see her and I believe good communication (before and during the punt) helps to increase the chance of a mutually satisfying encounter.

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I agree with PVC man. Also I would not choose to see someone too close to home, or where I know relatives live.

I feel there has to be an element of trust. I like to chat briefly on the phone before committing to a meeting and be given enough information about the location to know I would feel safe there and that my car would be safe while I left it there.

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I refer specifically to profiles on the Purple site:

Pictures that are too slick, that have the appearance of being professionally taken - they put me off. I find that I prefer amateur pictures, and I also am very unlikely to contact or book a lady if I can't see her face in at least one picture. Even just a bit of face will do.

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If someone sends me an email asking for services I do not do, I obviously write back and thank them for writing to me, and politely decline (whatever it is they are requesting such as domination or baby minding as examples) but some guys write to me and the emails are too lurid, or full of instructions so the appointment will be one long scripted gig where the guy calls all the shots and does not allow me to be me.

I don't do domination but I don't also want to be dominated to the point where spontaneity is not allowed.

I will not see anyone who insists on the full address before he sets off from home.

What about you.. to the guys, what specifically puts you off seeing a lady and to the girls, where do you draw the line in making a decision whether to see a new client or not?

After i have located a possible WG its the phone chat that i go on as to whether i will make a booking or not. I look for seeming friendliness and enthusiasm going on the fact they if the lady isnt either at this stage how bad could she be after i have paid her. So her phone attitude is a deal maker or breaker.

Some WGs are very good on the phone, some are poor or worse so i avoid those and go elsewhere. If foreign i make allowances but still want a welcoming attitude. :)

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Things that mean I will not be enquiring about an appointment include :-

- any hint that bareback is or has been on offer

- a working/profile name that sounds like a bad porn film (e.g. Suzie-takes-it-up-the-ass)

- website text that sounds like it has been written by a man ("I'm a real horny bitch, cum and fill all my holes")

- profile text that looks identical to several other girls in the same area

- complex pricing structures

- no photos

- old photos

- photos only in the private gallery

- zero feedback when the profile has been active for months

- no kissing

- average hourly rate greater than £150

- only accepts bookings on the day (I have been known to break this rule, but usually as a plan B )

- indications that her english is as good as my cantonese

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Good question!

I like to think I judge each individual on a personal basis, but those ones that text constantly after you have made the booking for later that day I tend to take with a pinch of salt. You know the types? They call and book for say, 3 (it is now 11) then bombard you with texts like "What will you be wearing?" or "I am getting hard for you NOW". You just know they are going to have a wank then forget about it...

Or someone who sounds so miserable, or asking constant questions about the incall premesis in a negative way, I tend to feel slightly jumpy over.

Bad command of English (from English men!), or mumblers are annoying too! Sort it aaahhhhht!

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Good question!

I like to think I judge each individual on a personal basis, but those ones that text constantly after you have made the booking for later that day I tend to take with a pinch of salt. You know the types? They call and book for say, 3 (it is now 11) then bombard you with texts like "What will you be wearing?" or "I am getting hard for you NOW". You just know they are going to have a wank then forget about it...

Or someone who sounds so miserable, or asking constant questions about the incall premesis in a negative way, I tend to feel slightly jumpy over.

Bad command of English (from English men!), or mumblers are annoying too! Sort it aaahhhhht!

What she said!

Totally know that type!

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If someone sends me an email asking for services I do not do, I obviously write back and thank them for writing to me, and politely decline (whatever it is they are requesting such as domination or baby minding as examples) but some guys write to me and the emails are too lurid, or full of instructions so the appointment will be one long scripted gig where the guy calls all the shots and does not allow me to be me.

I don't do domination but I don't also want to be dominated to the point where spontaneity is not allowed.

I will not see anyone who insists on the full address before he sets off from home.

What about you.. to the guys, what specifically puts you off seeing a lady and to the girls, where do you draw the line in making a decision whether to see a new client or not?

I am quite happy to be told to call to get the full address when on her street but if I am then given additional instructions to go elsewhere before getting the address then I will call it off. It does happen and experience tells me when it happens it best to leave it. I would not travel more than 4-5 miles without an address.

I have also learnt that it is best not to give too many instructions to the lady prior to meeting. I do confirm the range of services on offer but try not to be too specific about what kind of session I like. This approach is personal to me and may not work for everyone. I think too many instructions may put the girl off given that she has not met you yet. I think the detail is better sorted face to face when she can see more of a person. It is important to have a good idea of the range of services on offer prior to arrival.

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Here is a perfect example of what puts me off a client:

hello sexy darling wow nice pro - would lov to come n visit you for some hot steamy ln horny action :-) I lov oral and like to RIM both ways as it turns me on n make me very erect -hopefuly make you very wet and even try to make you cum if you want to :-) pamper ur perfect body and sexy lov holes and you can work on my cut , erect shaved cock and make it harder and then we have a bit of hardcore fuck - lov to see u cum with me while doing it - :-) would see u for a 15-20 min session - will offer you £40 for this ultimate mother of quickie - do let me know so we can have real lov play :-) can see you some time after 6:30 pm darling :-) xxxxlov xxxx -

xxxxx

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Here is a perfect example of what puts me off a client:

hello sexy darling wow nice pro - would lov to come n visit you for some hot steamy ln horny action :-) I lov oral and like to RIM both ways as it turns me on n make me very erect -hopefuly make you very wet and even try to make you cum if you want to :-) pamper ur perfect body and sexy lov holes and you can work on my cut , erect shaved cock and make it harder and then we have a bit of hardcore fuck - lov to see u cum with me while doing it - :-) would see u for a 15-20 min session - will offer you £40 for this ultimate mother of quickie - do let me know so we can have real lov play :-) can see you some time after 6:30 pm darling :-) xxxxlov xxxx -

xxxxx

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What time is the booking ? :lol::P:D

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Here is a perfect example of what puts me off a client:

hello sexy darling wow nice pro - would lov to come n visit you for some hot steamy ln horny action :-) I lov oral and like to RIM both ways as it turns me on n make me very erect -hopefuly make you very wet and even try to make you cum if you want to :-) pamper ur perfect body and sexy lov holes and you can work on my cut , erect shaved cock and make it harder and then we have a bit of hardcore fuck - lov to see u cum with me while doing it - :-) would see u for a 15-20 min session - will offer you £40 for this ultimate mother of quickie - do let me know so we can have real lov play :-) can see you some time after 6:30 pm darling :-) xxxxlov xxxx -

xxxxx

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That £40, is he paying you or expecting you to pay him for the pleasure he intends to give you? :rolleyes:

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That £40, is he paying you or expecting you to pay him for the pleasure he intends to give you? :rolleyes:

Well as an offer I couldn't resist due to it's wet knicker making allure I have suggested the 3rd of never.

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Rudeness, tattoos, piercings (esp girls who dangle a set of cutlery from their belly button), breast implants.

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Things that mean I will not be enquiring about an appointment include :-

- any hint that bareback is or has been on offer

- a working/profile name that sounds like a bad porn film (e.g. Suzie-takes-it-up-the-ass)

- website text that sounds like it has been written by a man ("I'm a real horny bitch, cum and fill all my holes")

- profile text that looks identical to several other girls in the same area

- complex pricing structures

- no photos

- old photos

- photos only in the private gallery

- zero feedback when the profile has been active for months

- no kissing

- average hourly rate greater than £150

- only accepts bookings on the day (I have been known to break this rule, but usually as a plan B )

- indications that her english is as good as my cantonese

I share some of your reasons listed here for not enquiring in the first place, i dont mind about the WGs text or her profile being similar to others or a lack of feedback as i dont believe any anyway and i often book sameday. For me not having a displayed phone number is a complete no-no as you probably recall, i have mentioned it enough. ;):D

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Any hint of offering bareback, anyone over £100 hour (I can't afford any more).

Cheers

S

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Here is a perfect example of what puts me off a client:

hello sexy darling wow nice pro - would lov to come n visit you for some hot steamy ln horny action :-) I lov oral and like to RIM both ways as it turns me on n make me very erect -hopefuly make you very wet and even try to make you cum if you want to :-) pamper ur perfect body and sexy lov holes and you can work on my cut , erect shaved cock and make it harder and then we have a bit of hardcore fuck - lov to see u cum with me while doing it - :-) would see u for a 15-20 min session - will offer you £40 for this ultimate mother of quickie - do let me know so we can have real lov play :-) can see you some time after 6:30 pm darling :-) xxxxlov xxxx -

xxxxx

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ELG.this sounds like the perfect place to use that "C"word we were on about the other day.!!

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I share some of your reasons listed here for not enquiring in the first place, i dont mind about the WGs text or her profile being similar to others or a lack of feedback as i dont believe any anyway and i often book sameday.

I think you are right to mistrust the actual words on the feedback, but at least having some indicates she actually works. If the profile is new, I am happy to accept zero feedback on face value. If there is no feedback after several months, usually that means something is fishy.

For me not having a displayed phone number is a complete no-no as you probably recall, i have mentioned it enough.

Now you come to mention it, I have a vague recollection of you saying something similar before ;):D .

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What puts me off booking a girl ?

-an overly restrictive service (too many 'don't dos')

-webpage descriptions such as 'high class', 'elite' or 'for the discerning gentleman'

-a rate of £200/hr+

-blurred face on webpage and/or poor or limited selection of photos

-badly designed webpage

-just don't fancy her

-overly explicit photos on webpage

-lack of independent FRs or reviews (one of the biggest deterrents)

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If someone sends me an email asking for services I do not do, I obviously write back and thank them for writing to me, and politely decline (whatever it is they are requesting such as domination or baby minding as examples) but some guys write to me and the emails are too lurid, or full of instructions so the appointment will be one long scripted gig where the guy calls all the shots and does not allow me to be me.

I don't do domination but I don't also want to be dominated to the point where spontaneity is not allowed.

I will not see anyone who insists on the full address before he sets off from home.

I'm with you on all of this.

In addition: anyone who phones and asks if I'm 'open' today (I'm not a parlour!), anyone who books an appointment a week in advance, then spends the entire week sending me graphic emails about what we're going to do together (wank fodder), and anyone who emails me in txt spk.

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I'm with you on all of this.

In addition: anyone who phones and asks if I'm 'open' today (I'm not a parlour!), anyone who books an appointment a week in advance, then spends the entire week sending me graphic emails about what we're going to do together (wank fodder), and anyone who emails me in txt spk.

Makes perfect sense to me and i would do the same if a WG. :)

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Location (near home).

Limited choice of WGs, so I might end up with a choice of one who is not to my taste.

Certain services not on offer.

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Things that mean I will not be enquiring about an appointment include :-

- any hint that bareback is or has been on offer

- a working/profile name that sounds like a bad porn film (e.g. Suzie-takes-it-up-the-ass)

- website text that sounds like it has been written by a man ("I'm a real horny bitch, cum and fill all my holes")

- profile text that looks identical to several other girls in the same area

- complex pricing structures

- no photos

- old photos

- photos only in the private gallery

- zero feedback when the profile has been active for months

- no kissing

- average hourly rate greater than £150

- only accepts bookings on the day (I have been known to break this rule, but usually as a plan B )

- indications that her english is as good as my cantonese

Agree with all that:

Also added:

- Despite not doing BB and her saying in her profile stressing that anyone who does is a disease-ridden psycho, sticks a photo of her being barebacked...

- All photos are close ups of her muff with her legs apart....(err classy...)

- Loads of feedback but of her doing phone sex and sales but 0 for escorting.

- Girls who have nice clear photos where its obvious that it not her or set in britain (i.e. posters in a foreign language, electric plugs that are difference socket)....

- Positive feedback from a girl saying what a nice GUY she is! DOH! (Yup Ive seen that a few times before)

- Spelling the name of where you're based wrong..(I've lost track of the number of profiles that have milon kenes!)

- Pricing of 50per half hour, 100 per hour then 400 for 2 hours... (so can I have 2x1 hours then?)

- Conflicting services (French kissing AND french kissing (at discretion), Oral (with protection), Oral (Without protection) AND oral (without protection at discretion) (Huh? So which is it? Did they just select all?)

- Profile "Text pictures" (Like of a naked woman, or a heart shape) Found many to be known fakers using the same thing so obvious all those profiles and people who give them feedback are fakers in my view. Also looks tacky and a waste of space..

- Priced too high. 300 ph, no kissing, no oral, no penetration, no clear photos, Also no clear indication or her likes or dislikes so I cant gauge whether Id being willing to pay her rate.

- Priced too low. 30ph. Hmm why so low?

- Feedback from people I dont trust or only first time reporters or ones whose last report was 2003.

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