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Are You Picky Due To Punting?

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There are so many WG's out there to choose from that you can afford to be very picky and choosy about who you see and spend your money on. You see stunning WG's but choose not to see them for one reason or another. Do you think that this can spill over into your "normal" life, and you have overly high expectations of a girl you go on a date with?

My mates always say im quite picky and particular about the type of girls i go for in my private life, and im sure its partly due to the WG's i see as i have higher expectations of what i want in a girl now. Anyone else feel like this?

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I feel the opposite, these days I'm more confident and more likely to try my luck just to see what happens, rather than agonising "Is she the one for me?". Punting should teach you that great experiences come in all shapes and sizes (and skin colours and hair lengths etc etc)

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There are so many WG's out there to choose from that you can afford to be very picky and choosy about who you see and spend your money on. You see stunning WG's but choose not to see them for one reason or another. Do you think that this can spill over into your "normal" life, and you have overly high expectations of a girl you go on a date with?

My mates always say im quite picky and particular about the type of girls i go for in my private life, and im sure its partly due to the WG's i see as i have higher expectations of what i want in a girl now. Anyone else feel like this?

I think your view of what is hot may spoil your real life experiences if you are not careful ?

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There are so many WG's out there to choose from that you can afford to be very picky and choosy about who you see and spend your money on. You see stunning WG's but choose not to see them for one reason or another. Do you think that this can spill over into your "normal" life, and you have overly high expectations of a girl you go on a date with?

My mates always say im quite picky and particular about the type of girls i go for in my private life, and im sure its partly due to the WG's i see as i have higher expectations of what i want in a girl now. Anyone else feel like this?

I am infinity more picky than in my youth when as long as the lady WG or not had a pulse i would have sex with her given the chance.

In my case i have become more picky due to evolving as i have got older and this includes relationships as well as punting. With a non-WG i try not to compare her to a WG who i am paying to offer what i like, i want mutual likes and dislikes to be discussed. :)

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No but I am more picky in my personal life due to being a service provider! ;)

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I've always been picky with girls I choose to be seen in public with.

I think that's mirrored in my punting life. I like a girl to be in shape, well turned out etc etc.

That's not to say I don't allow the occasional transgression...should the mood arise.

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As an oldie my pleasant encounters with wg's are infinitely better than anything I could possibly hope for in outside life.

Come to think about it my two attractive ex-wives would have struggled to look as good as some of the wg's I've known and as for 'bedroom gymnastics' they would be almost non-starters! :D

So, the majority of girls are ok for me with a few being extra special - any pickiness I might have is reserved for the services provided - I'm none too impressed by those who do just about anything ....... :unsure:

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No but I am more picky in my personal life due to being a service provider! ;)

Being a service provider is a great leveller I think. It has shown me (even more than I probably already knew) that looks do not mean a thing, and personality, sense of humour and kindness are everything.

If you think about it, punting can be terribly superficial, and I know, that is why men like it and pay for it, but for us, it gives many an insight into the human psyche and we see all sorts of people with different 'state of mind'.. i.e.... some happy and some sad, and some positively unhappy souls....... and some deluded souls who think that this can be a relationship.

To the guys.... please leave your other life at my door when you visit, and be sure to collect it on your way home. I once said this before and it always makes me smile.. "you've had your cake and eaten of it, and now you can go home and have your tea" "You lucky bugger"

LOL

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Being a service provider is a great leveller I think. It has shown me (even more than I probably already knew) that looks do not mean a thing, and personality, sense of humour and kindness are everything.

Have any WG's found that the work has changed what kind of guys you go for, or your outlook on dating?

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I'm not picky, i just know what i like now.

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I'm not on the look out for any additional sex outside of my punting or relationships outside of my marriage. Therefore the concept of being picky is moot to me.

Over the past 2.5 years of my punting life, I have certainly learned to be picky in choosing my punting partners. My pickiness is now due to attitude and overall friendliness (as much as I can judge from a website and/or a quick phone call) rather than looks. Give me a friendly normal looking girl over a cold stunner any day. In this game more than any other, I appreciate the adage "never judge a book ...".

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I'm not on the look out for any additional sex outside of my punting or relationships outside of my marriage. Therefore the concept of being picky is moot to me.

Over the past 2.5 years of my punting life, I have certainly learned to be picky in choosing my punting partners. My pickiness is now due to attitude and overall friendliness (as much as I can judge from a website and/or a quick phone call) rather than looks. Give me a friendly normal looking girl over a cold stunner any day. In this game more than any other, I appreciate the adage "never judge a book ...".

..."by it's cover"...

I agree with this.

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Oh yea i agree that looks arent everything. Said it before but i once saw a stunning WG - probably one of the best looking girls ive ever seen - but she hardly said a word in the room and it put me off

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Not more picky just due to punting, probably more picky because I'm older and am not likely to go along with a possible relationship if I know it won't last. When I was in my 20s, I would just welcome the experience.

But also due to punting in that I'd want a new partner to be as openminded as some ladies I've met...

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Hehe reading some of the field reports

I can't imagine how that level of pickiness doesn't subconsciously waive into reality for some guys.

One punter used to say he'd never punt a girl over 20 -he pays his wage for a good body'. It must be his double life to then see the girls who he has encounters with for free. Encountering women, cash in hand or not is an ordeal related to seeing WGs.

Anyway...

It's like all of us. We want different things. To the guys who have arm lists like CIM, OWO, girl-on-girl, blonde; it stands a good chance it's an entirely different thing altogether to his actual dating life.

OR conversely it's a mirror of dating life. I've spoken to many akin to this. They forego the dating and reality in favour of what's simple and fantasy on a plate - exclusively WGs. Some men live with Miley Cyrus in front of a computer.

For all, the comfort we want from reality is best found without standards. It's a lonely life where standards and ticked boxes get in the way of everything else.

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You would think by paying you have a seemingly endless supply of stunning women to sexually explore but I think I only met one girl who I would describe as jaw dropping stunning and it was far from the best date despite her being a lovely girl.

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Hehe reading some of the field reports

I can't imagine how that level of pickiness doesn't subconsciously waive into reality for some guys.

One punter used to say he'd never punt a girl over 20 -he pays his wage for a good body'. It must be his double life to then see the girls who he has encounters with for free. Encountering women, cash in hand or not is an ordeal related to seeing WGs.

Anyway...

It's like all of us. We want different things. To the guys who have arm lists like CIM, OWO, girl-on-girl, blonde; it stands a good chance it's an entirely different thing altogether to his actual dating life.

OR conversely it's a mirror of dating life. I've spoken to many akin to this. They forego the dating and reality in favour of what's simple and fantasy on a plate - exclusively WGs. Some men live with Miley Cyrus in front of a computer.

For all, the comfort we want from reality is best found without standards. It's a lonely life where standards and ticked boxes get in the way of everything else.

If you can understand that paying for sex is totally different to meeting a woman you love then its really easy to view both as completely separate in my experience. I punt as its the easiest way to have sex with women i fancy, but i dont view things the same in a relationship so even though i am infinity more picky than in my youth its because as i got older i wanted more from life than just strings free sex with WGs. I desired to be loved and didnt prejudice that with what i knew i could get within punting which is a fantasy that i am paying for. :)

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You would think by paying you have a seemingly endless supply of stunning women to sexually explore but I think I only met one girl who I would describe as jaw dropping stunning and it was far from the best date despite her being a lovely girl.

Fortunately in my 28 years punting i have had a virtually endless supply of WGs i fancy to punt with so our experiences are certainly vastly different. :)

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Fortunately in my 28 years punting i have had a virtually endless supply of WGs i fancy to punt with so our experiences are certainly vastly different. :)

And No doubt our taste in women too !

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I sometimes wonder if sometimes punters choose to see WG's for the kind of sex they don;t get in their relationship, nit because their partner would not do it because they don't wish to defile their wife in some way. For example if a guy likes dirty talk in bed he can do this with a WG but not dream of calling his wife/mother of children a dirty fucking whore. A guy once told me it would 'feel wrong' to come on his girlfriend's face.

Personally, escorting has made me even more cynical about the fidelity of men!

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Fortunately in my 28 years punting i have had a virtually endless supply of WGs i fancy to punt with so our experiences are certainly vastly different. :)

There is a difference between counting a wg fanciable (what you are talking about) and counting her stunning (which is what Vulvasailor was talking about). The majority of women I have punted with have been fanciable but, not unlike Vulvasailor, I would only count a tiny number genuinely stunning (and I have had a similar experience of the stunning women not being the best punts in terms of service).

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I sometimes wonder if sometimes punters choose to see WG's for the kind of sex they don;t get in their relationship, nit because their partner would not do it because they don't wish to defile their wife in some way. For example if a guy likes dirty talk in bed he can do this with a WG but not dream of calling his wife/mother of children a dirty fucking whore. A guy once told me it would 'feel wrong' to come on his girlfriend's face.

Personally, escorting has made me even more cynical about the fidelity of men!

Being faithful in a monogomous relationship would be hell on earth to me, i couldnt and more importantly have no interest in being so, to me its not natural and my moral compass of being a selfish git has always ensured i shag around without guilt, both traits that are great advantages to have in punting in my experience.

For me its never been about what i dont get at home from a partner, its been because i require variety and punting is the easiest way to get it for me. :)

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Personally, escorting has made me even more cynical about the fidelity of men!

If it wasn't for WG's there would be a fair few punters who would only have sex with the wife, girlfriend or not all. You could argue that prostitution encourages infidelity. Not that infidelity is always a bad thing.

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You're right to be cynical, the words fidelity and men do not belong together.

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You're right to be cynical, the words fidelity and men do not belong together.

Quite. Actually it's not my partner shagging around that would bother me, it's not telling me that would.

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