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Time to name and shame another timewaster WG -

I was going to be in the City area a while ago, with the possibility of nicking an hour for a local-ish punt, so I decided to try Sexy Candy 20, and had a bad experience, I'm afraid. I called her the day before to see if she'd be free, no problem, and she said call me tomorrow morning to confirm, everything's fine for 2:00. So I called her the morning of the punt and she gave me the address in Middx St. We confirmed the time of the booking. I got to the flat rang the bell no answer - 3 or 4 times, so I called her mobile. Not answering. Tried 4 or 5 times over the next 10 minutes, no answer. So, she's double-booked herself and I've lost out. She has not contacted me to say sorry and explain.

If it had been something genuine she would have called or texted, even if after the event to say sorry and explain.

It is my policy to name and shame on PN girls who do this - I've done it before and I'll do it again as often as neccessary.

Sorry but there's just no excuse - if you get a better offer at least call me and say you've got to go and pick your sick child up from school, or your period's started or something, so I don't waste the afternoon.

Of course I always have a plan B with girls I've never seen before, which is just as well.

One down to experience, I'm afraid, but Candy's lost a (potentially) good customer - I spend a lot of money on punting, none of which is ever going to go her way now.

I hear she's good if you actually get to see her (although her flat looks pretty scruffy form the outside), but be aware that she's quite capable of bumping you if she gets a better offer.

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Shame as I've also heard good things about her service. :(

Her unsmiling face and slightly flabby tummy and thighs kinda put me off already though, so to hear she can a timewaster has really done it for me.

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Shame as I've also heard good things about her service. :(

Her unsmiling face and slightly flabby tummy and thighs kinda put me off already though, so to hear she can a timewaster has really done it for me.

Shewas recommended by someone who has good taste in girls (or, at least, the same taste as me :D ), but there are so many good, genuine girls around why take the chance of having what for some guys is a rare and precious punting opportunity wasted by a flaky, shelfish WG?

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SM, as per my PM, Candy was unwell this week so am surpised she took a booking. Not that I condone timewasting, did you actually send her a formal booking through the other site? I actually called her after receiving your message, and she was on the border of crying, as she was so upset by what happened and claims that she never took a booking as she wasn't well.....nevertheless, thought I would just say that I get on extremely well with her and she's more than an escort to me, so am probably very protective, but just wanted to say that I'm sure there was a genuine mistake here, but as you say, she could have let you know.....

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Time to name and shame another timewaster WG -

I was going to be in the City area a while ago, with the possibility of nicking an hour for a local-ish punt, so I decided to try Sexy Candy 20, and had a bad experience, I'm afraid. I called her the day before to see if she'd be free, no problem, and she said call me tomorrow morning to confirm, everything's fine for 2:00. So I called her the morning of the punt and she gave me the address in Middx St. We confirmed the time of the booking. I got to the flat rang the bell no answer - 3 or 4 times, so I called her mobile. Not answering. Tried 4 or 5 times over the next 10 minutes, no answer. So, she's double-booked herself and I've lost out. She has not contacted me to say sorry and explain.

If it had been something genuine she would have called or texted, even if after the event to say sorry and explain.

It is my policy to name and shame on PN girls who do this - I've done it before and I'll do it again as often as neccessary.

Sorry but there's just no excuse - if you get a better offer at least call me and say you've got to go and pick your sick child up from school, or your period's started or something, so I don't waste the afternoon.

Of course I always have a plan B with girls I've never seen before, which is just as well.

One down to experience, I'm afraid, but Candy's lost a (potentially) good customer - I spend a lot of money on punting, none of which is ever going to go her way now.

I hear she's good if you actually get to see her (although her flat looks pretty scruffy form the outside), but be aware that she's quite capable of bumping you if she gets a better offer.

Sorry to hear about this and well done for naming and shaming which is what all bad SPs deserve, its just a pity the sticky we discussed on a previous thread a while back hasnt happened so punters are always aware of bad SPs. Seeing as a punter cant do a FR on an attempted punt like this BUT has still wasted his time and possibly travelling money such a permanent sticky would be good for punters in my opinion. Her loss mate.:)

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SM, as per my PM, Candy was unwell this week so am surpised she took a booking. Not that I condone timewasting, did you actually send her a formal booking through the other site? I actually called her after receiving your message, and she was on the border of crying, as she was so upset by what happened and claims that she never took a booking as she wasn't well.....nevertheless, thought I would just say that I get on extremely well with her and she's more than an escort to me, so am probably very protective, but just wanted to say that I'm sure there was a genuine mistake here, but as you say, she could have let you know.....

If the OP was right, she made the "genuine mistake" twice, two days running. Second time to confirm this "genuine mistake". Ever heard of crocodile tears.

I had a similar experience this week with Sweet21Sophie in Cardiff. Booked her by phone and through a formal booking which was confirmed. In fact alarm bells did start when I booked by phone and then confirmed via booking form and she made contact again as per the booking request.

Anyway, got to the hotel she was in 10 minutes before booking to have a beer and sent her message asking for room number or if she wanted to meet in the bar. she replied drink first. Did notice a girl in the bar that was similar to her profile photos but she was reading a book and looked ready to go out as she had a holdall and coat with her. She left when some guy appeared and obviously nobody turned up and all communication stopped.

Not 100% the girl was her as I wasn't in a position to see if she was using her phone during the time she was there.

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If the OP was right, she made the "genuine mistake" twice, two days running. Second time to confirm this "genuine mistake". Ever heard of crocodile tears.

I had a similar experience this week with Sweet21Sophie in Cardiff. Booked her by phone and through a formal booking which was confirmed. In fact alarm bells did start when I booked by phone and then confirmed via booking form and she made contact again as per the booking request.

Anyway, got to the hotel she was in 10 minutes before booking to have a beer and sent her message asking for room number or if she wanted to meet in the bar. she replied drink first. Did notice a girl in the bar that was similar to her profile photos but she was reading a book and looked ready to go out as she had a holdall and coat with her. She left when some guy appeared and obviously nobody turned up and all communication stopped.

Not 100% the girl was her as I wasn't in a position to see if she was using her phone during the time she was there.

Sorry to hear about this as well Freddie. :)

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I have seen Candy and Sindi and had a good afternoon with them about two years ago (when there was another girl there as well). Unfortunately, they don't do everything on their enjoys list but were good fun to be with. Then around Christmas time last year I tried to see her again. She remembered me but really messed me about. I remember calling her the previous day, telling her I wanted a booking for the following evening (she saying that both her and Sindi could make it), phoning her to confirm the following afternoon, her telling me that she would call me later, not calling, me trying her phone her (particularly as I needed her address again given I had lost it and had told her so) and she not answering on about 3 separate occasions. Ruined my evening.

I just think the girls in that flat have so many customers that they are not really bothered about service. If you are going to call these girls; have a back up.

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SM, as per my PM, Candy was unwell this week so am surpised she took a booking. Not that I condone timewasting, did you actually send her a formal booking through the other site? I actually called her after receiving your message, and she was on the border of crying, as she was so upset by what happened and claims that she never took a booking as she wasn't well.....nevertheless, thought I would just say that I get on extremely well with her and she's more than an escort to me, so am probably very protective, but just wanted to say that I'm sure there was a genuine mistake here, but as you say, she could have let you know.....

Ade -

There wasn't a "genuine mistake" here - I booked the day before, speaking to the girl herself, and confirmed on the day, speaking to the girl herself. If she was ill, fair enough, but why take the booking and then confirm?

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If the OP was right, she made the "genuine mistake" twice, two days running. Second time to confirm this "genuine mistake". Ever heard of crocodile tears.

I had a similar experience this week with Sweet21Sophie in Cardiff. Booked her by phone and through a formal booking which was confirmed. In fact alarm bells did start when I booked by phone and then confirmed via booking form and she made contact again as per the booking request.

Anyway, got to the hotel she was in 10 minutes before booking to have a beer and sent her message asking for room number or if she wanted to meet in the bar. she replied drink first. Did notice a girl in the bar that was similar to her profile photos but she was reading a book and looked ready to go out as she had a holdall and coat with her. She left when some guy appeared and obviously nobody turned up and all communication stopped.

Not 100% the girl was her as I wasn't in a position to see if she was using her phone during the time she was there.

Sorry to hear about this - we need a "sticky" thread up here permanently, so that WG's who fuck people about can be exposed. Mods - we've discussed this before, and there's a genuine need. How about it?

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Sorry to hear about this and well done for naming and shaming which is what all bad SPs deserve, its just a pity the sticky we discussed on a previous thread a while back hasnt happened so punters are always aware of bad SPs. Seeing as a punter cant do a FR on an attempted punt like this BUT has still wasted his time and possibly travelling money such a permanent sticky would be good for punters in my opinion. Her loss mate.:)

Naming and shaming girls who double-book and waste punters' time is one of the most important things this forum can do, in my opinion. Sending PM's to other punters who you keep in touch with is OK but all members of this forum need to able to share this information.

Formal request for a permanent threat to expose timewasters please.

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One of the last contributions to this thread mentioned girls in a certain flat. I'm wondering if, while Candy has been unwell, someone else has been taking her calls to work as her but without explaining that they are not actually Candy. Maybe someone with a different work ethics (happy to double-book, not keep punters up to date, etc). I just can't understand why Southernman says he spoke to her, including on the day of the booking to confirm it all, and then she denies all knowledge of a booking that she supposingly confirmed by phone. The only thing a formal booking would have done would be to give Southern Man a chance to leave feedback afterwards.

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SM, as per my PM, Candy was unwell this week so am surpised she took a booking. Not that I condone timewasting, did you actually send her a formal booking through the other site? I actually called her after receiving your message, and she was on the border of crying, as she was so upset by what happened and claims that she never took a booking as she wasn't well.....nevertheless, thought I would just say that I get on extremely well with her and she's more than an escort to me, so am probably very protective, but just wanted to say that I'm sure there was a genuine mistake here, but as you say, she could have let you know.....

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One of the last contributions to this thread mentioned girls in a certain flat. I'm wondering if, while Candy has been unwell, someone else has been taking her calls to work as her but without explaining that they are not actually Candy. Maybe someone with a different work ethics (happy to double-book, not keep punters up to date, etc). I just can't understand why Southernman says he spoke to her, including on the day of the booking to confirm it all, and then she denies all knowledge of a booking that she supposingly confirmed by phone. The only thing a formal booking would have done would be to give Southern Man a chance to leave feedback afterwards.

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Pru

Pru -

Maybe it was another girl, but Candy shouldn't be letting other girls pass themselves off as her, should she? Would you do that? Thought not.

Best to take Enzio's advice and avoid this flat on Middlesex st, near Liverpool St, altogether - it's pretty dingy-looking and the location's not great either

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One of the last contributions to this thread mentioned girls in a certain flat. I'm wondering if, while Candy has been unwell, someone else has been taking her calls to work as her but without explaining that they are not actually Candy. Maybe someone with a different work ethics (happy to double-book, not keep punters up to date, etc). I just can't understand why Southernman says he spoke to her, including on the day of the booking to confirm it all, and then she denies all knowledge of a booking that she supposingly confirmed by phone. The only thing a formal booking would have done would be to give Southern Man a chance to leave feedback afterwards.

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Its fortunately been a long time but i have had the same scenario as Southern Man where i booked and confirmed i was on my way to the WGs place by phone which took about 20 minutes and when i got to her place i rang her to say i am here and got no answer and continued to get no answer for the next hour half, then went elsewhere. I rang the WG the next day the last time it happened which i posted on here about like Southern Man and she did answer but then denied i had even had a booking with her and started getting abusive so i smiled and thought that was a lucky escape. She more than likely got a better offer after i booked her perhaps from a regular, who knows and just couldnt be bothered to let me know, she had that little respect. This isnt an isolated incident either, its rare but has happened to me a number of times.

Other WGs in the same flat answering as the WG whose number you have rung does happen, but they want your business so would answer the phone and they then rely on either putting you off the WG you actually booked by saying she offers a bad service or will charge you for extras or the WG standing in front of you will say she is better and will give you a better time. Basically trying to steal my business off her colleague. :)

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"This isnt an isolated incident either, its rare but has happened to me a number of times."

Sorry - I think this happens quite a lot, actually, and we need a permanent way of informing punters who these timewasters are. This is the only way that this sort of thing is going to be sorted out. If irresponsible girls know they're going to be exposed here it will make them think twice about bumping customers if they get a better offer.

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"This isnt an isolated incident either, its rare but has happened to me a number of times."

Sorry - I think this happens quite a lot, actually, and we need a permanent way of informing punters who these timewasters are. This is the only way that this sort of thing is going to be sorted out. If irresponsible girls know they're going to be exposed here it will make them think twice about bumping customers if they get a better offer.

I was talking about only myself so god knows how many others this happens to. :)

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I was talking about only myself so god knows how many others this happens to. :)

Every time someone like this gets named, several other punters come out and say, "yes - she's done that to me" - So any response from the powers that be as to a permanent thread for the exposure of this sort of timewasters. Given that a FR can't be filed because the meeting didn't take place. This is as much in the interests of the vast majority of genuine girls as it is the punters, so how about it?

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I agree that the OP was done and has a valid moan, but I'd just like to put what may sometimes happen form the other side.

Had a gent ring in the morning from a landline and book for a half hour at 2.30pm. I asked if he could ring from a mobile (the landline was some golf club). He replied he'd have to go home to fetch it. I told him there was no need to go rushing off that moment, but to call me from it within the next couple of hours and not to leave it till he actually turned up.

I heard nothing, so continued pottering about at home till I set off for my hour appointment at 3.30pm. You guessed it, he rang at 2.30 to say he'd arrived - NO GOOD! I was 30 minutes away from the flat and even if he'd hung on for me to get there, I'd no time to see him before the 3.30pm.

He maybe thought I was the timewaster or that he'd been bumped :unsure:

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I agree that the OP was done and has a valid moan, but I'd just like to put what may sometimes happen form the other side.

Had a gent ring in the morning from a landline and book for a half hour at 2.30pm. I asked if he could ring from a mobile (the landline was some golf club). He replied he'd have to go home to fetch it. I told him there was no need to go rushing off that moment, but to call me from it within the next couple of hours and not to leave it till he actually turned up.

I heard nothing, so continued pottering about at home till I set off for my hour appointment at 3.30pm. You guessed it, he rang at 2.30 to say he'd arrived - NO GOOD! I was 30 minutes away from the flat and even if he'd hung on for me to get there, I'd no time to see him before the 3.30pm.

He maybe thought I was the timewaster or that he'd been bumped :unsure:

In your scenario the punter clearly didnt follow what you very reasonably asked him to do. I always have my mobile with me whether on the golf course or not myself and certainly wouldnt book a punt without having it with me.

As i posted previously i always arrange to confirm the booking as i am leaving mine for her place, if i get no answer i will try again over the next half hour but if i continue to get no reply i go elsewhere and assume she has had a better offer and hasnt the courtesy of letting me know. When this happens as i havent travelled to her place i view it as a let off in that if she hasnt the courtesy to answer her phone or let me know she wouldnt be the type of WG i would want to punt with anyway. If as has happened but rarely, that like Southern Man i get to her place as agreed to find her not answering then i get annoyed as well as thinking it was a let off. :)

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In your scenario the punter clearly didnt follow what you very reasonably asked him to do. I always have my mobile with me whether on the golf course or not myself and certainly wouldnt book a punt without having it with me.

As i posted previously i always arrange to confirm the booking as i am leaving mine for her place, if i get no answer i will try again over the next half hour but if i continue to get no reply i go elsewhere and assume she has had a better offer and hasnt the courtesy of letting me know. When this happens as i havent travelled to her place i view it as a let off in that if she hasnt the courtesy to answer her phone or let me know she wouldnt be the type of WG i would want to punt with anyway. If as has happened but rarely, that like Southern Man i get to her place as agreed to find her not answering then i get annoyed as well as thinking it was a let off. :)

What happens Smiths if at the time you are about to set off, she is with another client or in another situation where she cannot answer?

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Sorry to hear about this - we need a "sticky" thread up here permanently, so that WG's who fuck people about can be exposed. Mods - we've discussed this before, and there's a genuine need. How about it?

What about exposing punters who call, book and don't show up? We should do that too. They made us loose money too so it's fair enough.

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What happens Smiths if at the time you are about to set off, she is with another client or in another situation where she cannot answer?

I would of previously agreed the time with her but if she had a booking or something else unexpected happened after this was agreed i always agree for her to contact me to let me know and give me a time to call after her punt or whatever has finished knowing that she is aware i need to confirm with her. I dont always receive that contact but do contact her giving her half hour to respond after the agreed time. If i cant get her or dont hear from her as was agreed i go elsewhere. No grey areas in the communication is what i aim for.

Just turning up without confirming is something i would never do nowadays, too many WGs have let me down in the past to even consider it although most dont let me down and the above works fine generally. :)

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I would of previously agreed the time with her but if she had a booking or something else unexpected happened after this was agreed i always agree for her to contact me to let me know and give me a time to call after her punt or whatever has finished knowing that she is aware i need to confirm with her. I dont always receive that contact but do contact her giving her half hour to respond after the agreed time. If i cant get her or dont hear from her as was agreed i go elsewhere. No grey areas in the communication is what i aim for.

Just turning up without confirming is something i would never do nowadays, too many WGs have let me down in the past to even consider it although most dont let me down and the above works fine generally. :)

Yes I also personally will ask for confirmation on the day, it works both ways for both parties in a very unsure world. I do agree a time when I know I will be free to take the call or text, which is usually quite early on in the day. On occasions where I've had chaps say they'll call to confirm on their way, or can't confirm at that time we have ended up missing each other. Just recently I almost 'bumped' a new client who could only give me a vague arrival time, the appointment length would also depend upon his ETA too. On the day he told me first thing that there was a problem at home and would text when he set off. I heard nothing and the earliest arrival time came and went. Still just about within our window another guy keen to see me popped up, was closeby and I was put on the spot. I texted the first, to confirm he was on his way but no reply. At the last minute within the 'window' of time for him he phoned to say had arrived, had got lost then couldn't get a signal and to top it off he hadn't noticed the texts I sent because it was a different handset to his usual and the notification sound/ringer wasn't working.........his was a 2 hour journey, and so you can imagine how gutting it would have been if I had given up on him - but if I had it would have been knowing I'd tried my best!

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What about exposing punters who call, book and don't show up? We should do that too. They made us loose money too so it's fair enough.

Why not? Seems only fair to me - 2 threads, one for punters, one for escorts.

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Yes I also personally will ask for confirmation on the day, it works both ways for both parties in a very unsure world. I do agree a time when I know I will be free to take the call or text, which is usually quite early on in the day. On occasions where I've had chaps say they'll call to confirm on their way, or can't confirm at that time we have ended up missing each other. Just recently I almost 'bumped' a new client who could only give me a vague arrival time, the appointment length would also depend upon his ETA too. On the day he told me first thing that there was a problem at home and would text when he set off. I heard nothing and the earliest arrival time came and went. Still just about within our window another guy keen to see me popped up, was closeby and I was put on the spot. I texted the first, to confirm he was on his way but no reply. At the last minute within the 'window' of time for him he phoned to say had arrived, had got lost then couldn't get a signal and to top it off he hadn't noticed the texts I sent because it was a different handset to his usual and the notification sound/ringer wasn't working.........his was a 2 hour journey, and so you can imagine how gutting it would have been if I had given up on him - but if I had it would have been knowing I'd tried my best!

The couldnt get a signal is extremely rare in London of course, only when the whole network is down has that happened to me and once with outages at a number of masts, and never while punting that i can recall. I also only use a certain mobile for punting so that scenario wouldnt happen either. Lack of organisation and/or communication can prove to be a big handicap, i know as i used to be very disorganised in my youth. :D

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