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On another thread a poster complained that using WG's made him a less than considerate lover at home.

My own experience is quite different.I have learned a lot of new tricks from WG's and put them to good use at home. When any comment was raised I said that I read it in a men's magazine.

What is other guys take on this, and do any WG's enjoy teaching their clients tricks to make a session more enjoyable?

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Oh yes the other half has certainly tried new tricks with me, but then I know where is has learnt them from. So I should say thank you ladies'

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On another thread a poster complained that using WG's made him a less than considerate lover at home.

My own experience is quite different.I have learned a lot of new tricks from WG's and put them to good use at home. When any comment was raised I said that I read it in a men's magazine.

What is other guys take on this, and do any WG's enjoy teaching their clients tricks to make a session more enjoyable?

I would be really happy if my partner was at all interested.

However I can use my cumulative experience on my punts, and I certainly do that.

More to the point, as an experienced punter, encounters with non-wgs, although rare, can be very spicy as they are not expecting anything special :P

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I got a lesson on how to finger a girl from a WG. I ended up staying 20mins over my time and she was fine with it as she was enjoying herself! I've tried the technique out on 2 other WGs since and they both (at least seemed to) orgasm from it! So score 2 for Sweet-Pleasure's "Devil Horn" technique!

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I've learned EVERYTHING from Wgs. Whether it was mish, doggy, CG, RCG, some kinda spoony position.. standing doggy. How to lick a pussy properly lol :P I feel confident now in bed at nearly 23, opposed to an ignorant virgin at 18. I think it's farcical someone can complain you've learned something new, this knowledge isn't secret. Just say you saw it in a porn.

I think i'd still struggle trying to take off a bra though haha B)

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I have learned a lot of new tricks from WG's and put them to good use at home.

What kind of thing do you mean? I honestly don't think I've learned any "tricks" at all that I have put into use at home. I find the kind of sex I have at home is usually very different - much more "vanilla" for sure, but with more genuine passion (most times anyway) and a kind of organic understanding of each others bodies, as opposed to "can we do this now?" with a WG.

The best thing I have done to improve sex is start going to the gym so that I am physically stronger and fitter than I used to be (I have never been overweight), and so can support myself more easily in a a number of positions :)

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What kind of thing do you mean?

How to give pleasure, for example, especially licking out a lovely pussy. A WG is far more likely to tell you how you are doing and will usually let you know very clearly if you are doing it wrong.

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What kind of thing do you mean? I honestly don't think I've learned any "tricks" at all that I have put into use at home. I find the kind of sex I have at home is usually very different - much more "vanilla" for sure, but with more genuine passion (most times anyway) and a kind of organic understanding of each others bodies, as opposed to "can we do this now?" with a WG.

The best thing I have done to improve sex is start going to the gym so that I am physically stronger and fitter than I used to be (I have never been overweight), and so can support myself more easily in a a number of positions :)

A wg will only ask the above question of "can we do this now ?" if the guy is laying on the bed like a sack of potatoes and not giving indication

to what he wants. wgs are not mind readers.

Fortunatly most guys I come across are quite good with language of communication as well as using language of tongue. body language too. *smile* *smile* wink and wink wink

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Oh yes the other half has certainly tried new tricks with me, but then I know where is has learnt them from. So I should say thank you ladies'

Carrie your post made me smile :) You should introduce a few new tricks yourself, and let him wonder where you have learnt them from. I'd love to be a fly on the wall when you use them!! :D (not in a perverse way!! :blink: ) There is a great book called 'Sex Tips for Straight Women by a Gay Man' it helped me out no end in the early days.

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A wg will only ask the above question of "can we do this now ?" if the guy is laying on the bed like a sack of potatoes and not giving indication

to what he wants. wgs are not mind readers.

I think you misunderstand, I was referring to myself as the Punter having to ask for change of positions etc. as opposed to sex where both partners seem to read each others minds as to what the other one wants.

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I think you misunderstand, I was referring to myself as the Punter having to ask for change of positions etc. as opposed to sex where both partners seem to read each others minds as to what the other one wants.

I understand totally what your saying Vindaloo and my interpretation was generally speaking.

Some clients when a punting it falls naturally where he will not ask for postion change. All depending on the client.

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I understand totally what your saying Vindaloo and my interpretation was generally speaking.

Some clients when a punting it falls naturally where he will not ask for postion change. All depending on the client.

I call what you are both talking about 'Pure Chemistry' it is a very rare thing, words are not needed and everything just flows. There is no better feeling when it happens and you feel that you never want it to stop...

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I call what you are both talking about 'Pure Chemistry' it is a very rare thing, words are not needed and everything just flows. There is no better feeling when it happens and you feel that you never want it to stop...

Not necesarily chemistry Louisa, just a client that does not have to ask "what position now ?" or a wg that asks "what postion now ?" haha!!!

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Not necesarily chemistry Louisa, just a client that does not have to ask "what position now ?" or a wg that asks "what postion now ?" haha!!!

Actions speak louder than words (have you seen my PM my lovely?) x

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Actions speak louder than words (have you seen my PM my lovely?) x

Yes, this is true honi :-) I will take a peek now lol !!

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How to give pleasure, for example, especially licking out a lovely pussy. A WG is far more likely to tell you how you are doing and will usually let you know very clearly if you are doing it wrong.

Really? I was under the impression my job was to make a man feel great and wonderful and sexy, I would never critisise a clients sexual technique unless he asked specifically for direction or advice or if he was hurting me (pointy fingernails anyone?!)

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What kind of thing do you mean? I honestly don't think I've learned any "tricks" at all that I have put into use at home. I find the kind of sex I have at home is usually very different - much more "vanilla" for sure, but with more genuine passion (most times anyway) and a kind of organic understanding of each others bodies, as opposed to "can we do this now?" with a WG.

The best thing I have done to improve sex is start going to the gym so that I am physically stronger and fitter than I used to be (I have never been overweight), and so can support myself more easily in a a number of positions :)

I agree with Vindaloo on both points. It helps to keep fit. Like him I find sex with WGs an entirely different experience from sex at home or with non-paid friends. I have up till now attributed this to being bareback with wife and pals, but Vindaloo could be right about the long organic understanding. Most of my non-punting sex is with ladies I've known since we were students sharing a flat together, and as we are growing older together our understanding seems to make sex better when we meet. Not that it is going to make me give up punting though, so long as I can afford it!!

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Carrie your post made me smile :) You should introduce a few new tricks yourself, and let him wonder where you have learnt them from. I'd love to be a fly on the wall when you use them!! :D (not in a perverse way!! :blink: ) There is a great book called 'Sex Tips for Straight Women by a Gay Man' it helped me out no end in the early days.

Perhaps I should arrange a liaison with an escort and learn some new things that way. That would be a fun way to learn:)

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On another thread a poster complained that using WG's made him a less than considerate lover at home.

My own experience is quite different.I have learned a lot of new tricks from WG's and put them to good use at home. When any comment was raised I said that I read it in a men's magazine.

What is other guys take on this, and do any WG's enjoy teaching their clients tricks to make a session more enjoyable?

The point for me is as every WG is a unique individual they prefer things to be done in their own way so its a continual learning curve for me. Ones too hard is anothers harder harder while shagging for example.

I have learnt to be able to pack in a nights sex with a partner into an hour with a WG in that what i require i concentrate on in that hour, great if the WG enjoys it as well but pretending to by good acting is just fine with me.

When punting is the aim it is always nice to go to an incall and just have a good punt thats no strings, no expectations on me but just a fun time. I have learnt most WGs offer such a service and punting is a great pastime.

I have also learnt to respect WGs who offer what they agree more and more, punting with strangers is a potentially dangerous job and sadly generally socially unacceptable as is punters punting, so i appreciate the good very much but not the minority of bad. :)

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When I first saw the thread, I thought, no way. But then I remembered years ago and my second visit to my first WG and I had never, in spite of a number of regular partners, never seen a woman masturbate. Now although Carol (her name) was obliging, she was not the most articulate or interested of WGs, and also given the big variety in the ways women masturbate, it didn't promise to be a great tutorial. But what it did give me, I realised in retrospect, was the opportunity and breathing space to ask such a question, without the emotional risks or possible misunderstandings that could have occurred in a relationship, especially in my emotionally less-developed early years.

Sex can be used as bonding, as a means of exchanging affection, and all the other functions so admirably listed by Desmond Morris. But an area where escorts can excel is in the pure physicality - whether gymnastic or simply the mechanics unobscured by emotion-laden concerns. So the potential is great. Then there is the opportunity for trying less usual practices, which one might never get round to with regular partners.

Pornography maybe (just maybe) has a place here too, especially if watched unemotionally in order to learn. Practicalities of positions, how to orchestrate a threesome, or, if you get the more 'realistic' girls porn such as Abby Winters or Girls Out West, seeing the ways girls get off (this can be helpfully supplemented by reading the Hite Reports for those wanting a more serious and thorough understanding, as well as Masters and Johnson to appreciate the physiological mechanics).

Apologies for droning on . . .

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Apologies for droning on . . .

Not at all, a very thoughtful post IMO

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Really? I was under the impression my job was to make a man feel great and wonderful and sexy, I would never critisise a clients sexual technique unless he asked specifically for direction or advice or if he was hurting me (pointy fingernails anyone?!)

I thought the same. You can never learn anything from a WG because

A ) they're probably lying about what they like and how much they like you doing it to maintain the fantasy

B ) even if they're not lying how can you be confident that they're telling the truth?

The only thing I ever learned from a WG is to let them focus on their own enjoyment and I'll focus on mine.

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I would be really happy if my partner was at all interested.

However I can use my cumulative experience on my punts, and I certainly do that.

More to the point, as an experienced punter, encounters with non-wgs, although rare, can be very spicy as they are not expecting anything special :P

LOL I have to remember not to get off the bed and start getting dressed as soon as I've cum if it's a non - WG

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WG's have been the bext sex of my life. each time i find some new experience.

what was I missing pre 2009?

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WG's have been the bext sex of my life. each time i find some new experience.

what was I missing pre 2009?

More new experiences giving you the best sex of your life. ;)

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