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I have never tried it, I don't think I have ever been interested. But while arranging a booking recently, the sweet lady over the phone asked if I wanted a-level as well, which really got me wondering. I am the kind that believe you should try everything at least once in life. Still undecided though...

Been browsing through to find a similar thread but no luck. So, to all the experts and ladies here: why a-level? Do you enjoy it? How difference is it? When did you first try it?

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I have never tried it, I don't think I have ever been interested. But while arranging a booking recently, the sweet lady over the phone asked if I wanted a-level as well, which really got me wondering. I am the kind that believe you should try everything at least once in life. Still undecided though...

Been browsing through to find a similar thread but no luck. So, to all the experts and ladies here: why a-level? Do you enjoy it? How difference is it? When did you first try it?

Why not? It's not as if you're trying to make babies when punting, is it - if you like it (as I do) do it, if not then don't. It ain't rocket science, and it's hardly a subject that merits lengthy discussion, surely? You're not deciding whether to tombstone off Niagara Falls, for Gawds sake.

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For me it's the naughtiness of the situation, and I find it very erotic that a girl will let me enter her anally, especially of she's giving those looks that only some women can, that convey a mix of pleasure, mischief and a little discomfort.

Although, my ex never used to grant me access, and it pisses me immensely to this day that the first bloke she jumped into bed with after me was giving it her in her arse every time. :angry:

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Why not? It's not as if you're trying to make babies when punting, is it - if you like it (as I do) do it, if not then don't. It ain't rocket science, and it's hardly a subject that merits lengthy discussion, surely? You're not deciding whether to tombstone off Niagara Falls, for Gawds sake.

If subjects that didn't merit lengthy discussion were proscribed then 99% of the Internet would vanish overnight.

I'm with the OP - I've never tried it, and I'm not that bothered about doing so, but also feel it's a box that needs to be ticked at some point. Yet other punters consider it an essential ingredient, and will pay a premium for it. It's interesting to hear what reasons people have for feeling this way.

If we can't discuss it here, then where?

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All I meant was that there's no point asking other people whether you should or shouldn't do something, surely? Agonising over it on here will just make it into an disproportionately massive deal, and won't make any difference to whether you enjoy it or not, as nobody here is going to have any idea :blink:. Then again, I've always been a try everything (at least) once, glass-half-full type :).

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I have never tried it, I don't think I have ever been interested. But while arranging a booking recently, the sweet lady over the phone asked if I wanted a-level as well, which really got me wondering. I am the kind that believe you should try everything at least once in life. Still undecided though...

Been browsing through to find a similar thread but no luck. So, to all the experts and ladies here: why a-level? Do you enjoy it? How difference is it? When did you first try it?

Here's a couple of threads that might prove to be of interest to you:

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I have never tried it, I don't think I have ever been interested. But while arranging a booking recently, the sweet lady over the phone asked if I wanted a-level as well, which really got me wondering. I am the kind that believe you should try everything at least once in life. Still undecided though...

Been browsing through to find a similar thread but no luck. So, to all the experts and ladies here: why a-level? Do you enjoy it? How difference is it? When did you first try it?

I have tried it and dont like Anal penetration, it doesnt float my boat but i do like anal play. Having a big cock can be a distinct disadvantage with no chance being the response you may get if you have such a cock so bear that in mind. A WG will need to see it hard before committing herself in many cases. :)

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have tried it quite a few times with different girls over the yrs and really enjoyed it :D

but when most girls charged £20 it was a bargain but the parlour price for most places in manchester is £40 so not so good value if you shoot your load very quick !!

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There are plenty of ladies offering such a service, so why not give it a go?For it is one of those things I've tried, and never taken to so is to be one of those things to put on the don't list. Talking of which I did run a quick search on a certain site for ladies who do offer this, and found quite a high number of ladies have it on their 'enjoys' list - albeit with a price tag attached. Rather than wonder whether I'm going to be left behind, I actually have started to think I might end up one of the few who simply 'don't'.

Glass half full for sure!

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I agree with Amy - its no big deal with a lady who likes it and you really should try everything once (excluding incest and Morris dancing obviously) - who knows? you may find it a huge turn on. As someone else said, with the right lady, it can bring added intimacy and arousal to the meeting so why not.

On a purely practical level, if you are at all desensitized physically, you may find the added tightness beneficial and visually it is quite someting too.

Its maybe not something to do every week but every so often it can be very pleasant.

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If you haven't done it before probably best to go for a girl who doesn't charge extra so if you don't enjoy it you don't feel cheated. Also, the majority of ladies will like advance notice if you do want A so they can prepare which means you can't leave the decision until you arrive but must say when booking or (at latest) at confirmation.

I like A when the girl likes it. I have seen a couple of Thai girls who did A but grimaced badly during which made me feel it wasn't really their choice to do it and made me cut the anal short as soon as I noticed and feel rather bad about myself afterwards. But when the lady enjoys it (or, at least, gives a good pretence of enjoying it) it is a very intimate and pleasurable shared experience.

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I have never tried it, I don't think I have ever been interested. But while arranging a booking recently, the sweet lady over the phone asked if I wanted a-level as well, which really got me wondering. I am the kind that believe you should try everything at least once in life. Still undecided though...

Been browsing through to find a similar thread but no luck. So, to all the experts and ladies here: why a-level? Do you enjoy it? How difference is it? When did you first try it?

Never tried it, never even been tempted, total turnoff

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Only tried it for the first time, five years ago, I was 49, the girl in the parlour knew what she was doing, it only cost an extra tenner, I havent been so pleased with myself since I first swam without assistance, or cycled without using my hands. Its basically one of those "to do", experiences. Its fun, but to be honest, I have always found men keen on the practice, to be fairly nasty types in life. I reckon they get off on the discomfort that they know it can cause. As a general rule, girls will turn you down if they think you are too big, and not just in the parlour.

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it's not my cup of tea, not something i desire. I think i've tried it once, i honestly can't remember.

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Apparently women are more likely to try anal if they are being satisfied sexually and in turn are more likely to have an orgasm during the act itself:

Experimentation, orgasms, and the rise of anal sex. - By William Saletan - Slate Magazine

A new national sex survey is out. Published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, it reveals who's doing what, with whom, and how. It clarifies the prevalence of gay sex, teenage intercourse, and oral gratification. But the big story is the increase in anal sex reported by women—and its possible connection to female orgasms...

...Here's the big story. In 1992, 16 percent of women aged 18-24 said they'd tried anal sex. Now 20 percent of women aged 18-19 say they've done it, and by ages 20-24, the number is 40 percent....

...So what's with all the buggery? Is it brutality? Coercion? A porn-inspired male fantasy at women's expense? Apparently not. Check out the orgasm data. Among women who had vaginal sex in their last encounter, the percentage who said they reached orgasm was 65. Among those who received oral sex, it was 81. But among those who had anal sex, it was 94. Anal sex outscored cunnilingus...

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Apparently women are more likely to try anal if they are being satisfied sexually and in turn are more likely to have an orgasm during the act itself:

That's never happened to me from anal alone. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy it ;)

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I guess it must have something to do with porn - I read/watch porn from my teenage just like the next guy and I went through a phase that I crave anal sex. Tried many times with WGs but never completed it successfully. Usually they are tight and I can't bear the thought of causing anyone pain during the act so as soon as I think I cause significant discomfort I lose my erection. That changed when I meet a girl recently who seems very experience in that department and I completed the act quite successfully. To my surprise, it's nowhere near as arousing as watching it in porn. I guess it is the visual naughty element that added to it's appeal. To me anyway, have done it and been there but it doesn't bother me and i won't particularly seek that service.

I guess if a girl (working or non-working) actively asks for anal sex which I doubt I will ever in my life encounter, then it will be a whole new story...:-)

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I guess it must have something to do with porn - I read/watch porn from my teenage just like the next guy and I went through a phase that I crave anal sex. Tried many times with WGs but never completed it successfully. Usually they are tight and I can't bear the thought of causing anyone pain during the act so as soon as I think I cause significant discomfort I lose my erection. That changed when I meet a girl recently who seems very experience in that department and I completed the act quite successfully. To my surprise, it's nowhere near as arousing as watching it in porn. I guess it is the visual naughty element that added to it's appeal. To me anyway, have done it and been there but it doesn't bother me and i won't particularly seek that service.

I guess if a girl (working or non-working) actively asks for anal sex which I doubt I will ever in my life encounter, then it will be a whole new story...:-)

I feel the same way. Going to try it for myself this week with an experienced wg to see what it is like. Bit anxious that it will not go well so have thought long about who to experience this with.

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Great to listen to all your experience and thoughts. Anal porn has never appealed to me, but It's certainly one of the boxes to tick. Not agonising about it, just not sure whether to try it with that particular lady, although I have to say it turned me on when she asked if I would like a-level over the phone. But I am going to search for a lady that really enjoy it, I like my punts to be enjoyable for everyone involved. :)

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Great to listen to all your experience and thoughts. Anal porn has never appealed to me, but It's certainly one of the boxes to tick. Not agonising about it, just not sure whether to try it with that particular lady, although I have to say it turned me on when she asked if I would like a-level over the phone. But I am going to search for a lady that really enjoy it, I like my punts to be enjoyable for everyone involved. :)

I love seeing Anal, DP and triple penetration in porn, in real life the anal and dp was a turn-off though and i never got round to triple penetration. ;)

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I went through a "anal phase" a few years back, I would not see a girl unless she did it. In the end I thought, apart from the entrace (which can be a little bit tigther) once you get going its the same as vaginal, but I was ending up paying extra for this service.

Much prefer a girl that is eager and keen, and knows how to be sexy rather then one that offers up her ass as a quick "PSE". So for me now, anal is a bonus but don't look out for it. If I do longer bookings 2hours+ then it becomes more relevent as it give more options to pay with in a long period.

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Apparently women are more likely to try anal if they are being satisfied sexually and in turn are more likely to have an orgasm during the act itself:

I think that's a bit misleading - I had a look and the report actually says that the figures refer to the percentage of women who had an orgasm at some point during the whole session, NOT during/as a result of the specific acts (and mutual masturbation was also on the list).

So the more different things a couple (presumably) included in their encounter, the more likely the woman was to have an orgasm which I don't think is that surprising; it certainly isn't stating that 65/81/94% per cent came as a result of vaginal/oral/anal sex and nothing else (no batteries, no fingers, nothing?) On the other hand if I'm mistaken and it is, I'd like to know where these women are and whom they're shagging.

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I think that's a bit misleading - I had a look and the report actually says that the figures refer to the percentage of women who had an orgasm at some point during the whole session, NOT during/as a result of the specific acts (and mutual masturbation was also on the list).

So the more different things a couple (presumably) included in their encounter, the more likely the woman was to have an orgasm which I don't think is that surprising; it certainly isn't stating that 65/81/94% per cent came as a result of vaginal/oral/anal sex and nothing else (no batteries, no fingers, nothing?) On the other hand if I'm mistaken and it is, I'd like to know where these women are and whom they're shagging.

Sorry, I did slightly misphrase that comment last night in hindsight. I suppose it's all about the accumulative effect of having all erogenous areas stimulated (I've heard that anal sex can stimulate the G-spot in a different manner to vaginal sex?) which leads to the best orgasms.

This final paragraph of the article sums it up rather nicely:

Only 6 percent of women who had anal sex in their last encounter did so in isolation. Eighty-six percent also had vaginal sex. Seventy-two percent also received oral sex. Thirty-one percent also had partnered masturbation. And the more sex acts a woman engaged in during the encounter, the more likely she was to report orgasm. These other activities are what gave the women their orgasms. The anal sex just came along for the ride.

So why did the inclusion of anal sex bump the orgasm figure up to 94 percent? It didn't. The causality runs the other way. Women who were getting what they wanted were more likely to indulge their partners' wishes. It wasn't the anal sex that caused the orgasms. It was the orgasms that caused the anal sex.

If anal sex is a trailing indicator of women's sexual satisfaction, then by all means, let's toast the new findings. Here's to you, ladies. Bottoms up.

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Sorry, I did slightly misphrase that comment last night in hindsight. I suppose it's all about the accumulative effect of having all erogenous areas stimulated (I've heard that anal sex can stimulate the G-spot in a different manner to vaginal sex?) which leads to the best orgasms.

This final paragraph of the article sums it up rather nicely:

I think that's spot on (no pun intended :P ), although I'm not a G-spot believer meself.

In the case of the stats, the only other really surprising thing (to me at least) is that the first two figures are so high - I could quarter them both and I'd still probably be exaggerating. The anal one I'd leave as it is or even raise a bit, but then it's all personal preference, I suppose :unsure:.

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