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Sexual Acceptance And Race.....

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I am not wishing to extend my "Men of African Origin" topic so I present this just as a curious thing that I saw on the profile of an escort who obviously has highly tuned preferences. Just goes to prove how powerful the human brain is......or how civilising even a drop of White blood can be in the eyes of some

"Frequently Asked Questions...

Q. Do you see all kinds of men?

A. No I don't see full Black or Asian men although I will see mixed race guy's this is a personal choice i'm not a racist just had a bad experience in the past some of my good friends are Asian & Black just not for me im sorry but if you have good feedback i will consider your booking and if you are really old n smelly I won't see you sorry I prefer to see clean polite men from the age of 20-50 x"

It just crossed my mind that maybe this is a joke......?

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I am not wishing to extend my "Men of African Origin" topic so I present this just as a curious thing that I saw on the profile of an escort who obviously has highly tuned preferences. Just goes to prove how powerful the human brain is......or how civilising even a drop of White blood can be in the eyes of some

"Frequently Asked Questions...

Q. Do you see all kinds of men?

A. No I don't see full Black or Asian men although I will see mixed race guy's this is a personal choice i'm not a racist just had a bad experience in the past some of my good friends are Asian & Black just not for me im sorry but if you have good feedback i will consider your booking and if you are really old n smelly I won't see you sorry I prefer to see clean polite men from the age of 20-50 x"

It just crossed my mind that maybe this is a joke......?

Flippant reply alert ....

I must admit that tickled my sense of humour, I mean what man is going to phone and say, "I think I fit into the smelly category, but I have good feedback. Any chance ?"

Sorry, it's been a long day... :blink:

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Yeah....I know; no other way to take it really...

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It is funny, but it's not a joke. I feel sorry for black guys in the punting world because some girls won't see them because of bad experiences with some. But, if they have a bad experience with a white guy will they stop seeing them?! I've never seen a 'sorry i don't see white guys because i've had bad experiences with them, i'm not racist.. really i'm not!!!'

But i feel bad mainly for the wgs who have to put up with any type of horrible punter, whatever their race

There's only one race and that's the human race :)

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It's really funny, a mate of mine was always turned down by some escorts, the response he always got was that blacks were either too big downstairs or too rough, the ladies complain about pain after being with a black client hence their justification for not seeing black clients.

Well the bottom line which cracked me up was that the persistent guy called sporadically and on one occasion, he managed to book the lady, not sure the agent knew the guy was black, it was a bit of an awkward moment when she noticed the guy as she walked into the room, the funny part of it all was that she charged a bit extra which didn't put the guy off, not sure she expected the guy to stay, but he did and finally at the end of the punt, she kind of explained that the reason for her not seeing black folks was because she was attacked by a black guy with a knife once and she's heard of WG's robbed of their money and valuables. well maybe they need to do a CRB for these guys before they see them. :lol: The punt ended well and the lady probably had her first black encounter :lol: .....

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Barack Obama's mother sent him back to Hawaii from Indonesia to live with his white american grandparents while he did high school. his bank manager grandmother used to walk to the bank but then she asked him to drive her to work every day. It dawned on Barack, after doing this for a few days, that a group of black lads had taken to loitering on her route. The irony was not lost on her grandson (see his autobiography, 'Dreams From my Father')

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If a working girl looks too much like my ex-wife, I walk out of the booking. I'm not being ex-wifeist, honest!!

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I'm trying to drag something from a book I read ages ago about Victorian life. Either Liverpool or London had prostitutes who specialized in black sailors. The prostitutes were seen as a cut above the other girls as their clients paid better, treated them better and were more loyal.

Tempus fudgits and all that.

(I think it was "The Victorian Underworld by.....................???)

Edited by Lessingham

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"I think I fit into the smelly category, but I have good feedback. Any chance ?"

This made me chuckle!

I saw one WG a while back who kept saying things like "Oh your so dark skinned!!" and when she kept mentioning it I asked her "why do you keep saying that?" and she replied "Because... I'm so jelous!" Even though she ment it as a compliment it made me feel a bit weird. I guess in this respect I would rather know where dark skin is not wanted.

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I am not wishing to extend my "Men of African Origin" topic so I present this just as a curious thing that I saw on the profile of an escort who obviously has highly tuned preferences. Just goes to prove how powerful the human brain is......or how civilising even a drop of White blood can be in the eyes of some

"Frequently Asked Questions...

Q. Do you see all kinds of men?

A. No I don't see full Black or Asian men although I will see mixed race guy's this is a personal choice i'm not a racist just had a bad experience in the past some of my good friends are Asian & Black just not for me im sorry but if you have good feedback i will consider your booking and if you are really old n smelly I won't see you sorry I prefer to see clean polite men from the age of 20-50 x"

It just crossed my mind that maybe this is a joke......?

I very much doubt its a joke, but she is limiting her pool of possible punters here.

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I'm trying to drag something from a book I read ages ago about Victorian life. Either Liverpool or London had prostitutes who specialized in black sailors. The prostitutes were seen as a cut above the other girls as their clients paid better, treated them better and were more loyal.

Tempus fudgits and all that.

(I think it was "The Victorian Underworld by.....................???)

Kellow Chesney. :)

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I am black and I have experienced this three or four times in 9 years of punting since migrating to the UK (and I have punted with hundreds of women from every race). Not an issue as women who provide services have every right to choose who they want to see and my mates and I who are African totally respect that. Just wanted to add that 99.99% of working girls I have booked do not have exclusions based on race and will see polite, respectful and hygienic men whatever their race. I think this should be pointed out and long may it continue. Punters I reckon should pay your money like the next man, be courteous, do the deed and go on your merry way. We are in this for sex not to change the fucking world!!! No pun intended. :P

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Kellow Chesney. :)

This site is fast overtaking The Hitch Hikers Guide to the Galaxy as the source of all knowledge!

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I guess in this respect I would rather know where dark skin is not wanted.

This is shocking. I will never understand how any sane person can discriminate on the basis of skin colour alone.

I speak to all prospective clients on the phone and if I like the sound of them I see them, and if I don't, I don't. So yes, I discriminate against idiots, aggressive types and general arseholes, but these come in all shapes, sizes and colours. I saw a gent yesterday who called himself by a very English-sounding name but still, after we had discussed an appointment time etc, felt the need to say to me: 'I'm Asian; is this ok?' When we were talking later towards the end of the appointment, I asked him why he had pointed this out to me (and by the way he had a strong scouse accent, so from talking to him I wouldn't have known) and he said it's because some ladies won't see Asian men, and was even of the opinion that it was the ladies' prerogative and he wasn't even a bit offended. I know us WGs should have the choice about who we see, but I just find it incredibly sad that some people use such an arbitary factor as skin colour.

Edited by The Woman in White

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When I started this I was shocked how often I got asked 'Do you mind that I'm Asian?' If I did mind (especially considering the area I live in) I'd not be very busy!

And there's no such thing as 'too big' when it comes to men!

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When I started this I was shocked how often I got asked 'Do you mind that I'm Asian?' If I did mind (especially considering the area I live in) I'd not be very busy!

And there's no such thing as 'too big' when it comes to men!

Yep, I have had this said to me too. I have also had it said to me that Asian men know that some of their counterparts spoil it for the majority by haggling the price, and come on girls - we all know this :) One guy told me it is a culture thing :)

It also has to be said, that the majority of clients will be white, that is obvious and some good - some not so good. The same can be said of other races, but the ratio is vastly different and that is why some girls will not see black men.

Edited by Sarah Summers

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I am not wishing to extend my "Men of African Origin" topic so I present this just as a curious thing that I saw on the profile of an escort who obviously has highly tuned preferences. Just goes to prove how powerful the human brain is......or how civilising even a drop of White blood can be in the eyes of some

"Frequently Asked Questions...

Q. Do you see all kinds of men?

A. No I don't see full Black or Asian men although I will see mixed race guy's this is a personal choice i'm not a racist just had a bad experience in the past some of my good friends are Asian & Black just not for me im sorry but if you have good feedback i will consider your booking and if you are really old n smelly I won't see you sorry I prefer to see clean polite men from the age of 20-50 x"

It just crossed my mind that maybe this is a joke......?

What if the person is mixed race (Black and Asian) would that make it OK? :blink:

Mixed race doesn't automatically mean white and some other ethnicity...

It also has to be said' date=' that the majority of clients will be white, that is obvious and some good - some not so good. The same can be said of other races, but the ratio is vastly different and that is why some girls will not see black men.[/quote']

This makes no sense to me.

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Why does my comment not make sense? The vast majority of punters here in the UK will be white.

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Why does my comment not make sense? The vast majority of punters here in the UK will be white.

From what I understand, we are all of African descent.

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From what I understand, we are all of African descent.

My post was in relation to the reasons why some girls will not see black men. It has nothing to do with my own views. PFFFt..........

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So what are your views Sarah ? I'm not Caucasian, well presented, polite and respectful and quite attractive (so my

Mummy tells me anyway) - would you see me ?

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So what are your views Sarah ? I'm not Caucasian, well presented, polite and respectful and quite attractive (so my

Mummy tells me anyway) - would you see me ?

Oh bloody hell !

If you read my website it says I welcome anyone who is interested in having mutual fun but this is NOT about me...............

On a previous thread I said I would not see any visitors from African countries because of HIV. This meant men of ANY colour. For the record...... *sigh* I was married to a black man. Bugger this for a circular game of wonga up my own gonga :)

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oh Sarah Sarah Sarah, you should really think carefully before you write. As well as contradicting yourself repeatedly you also display almost laughable ievels of ignorance or just lack of understanding. And yes i know your ex is black...

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Why does my comment not make sense? The vast majority of punters here in the UK will be white.

I literally don't understand the path of logic and conclusion you come to in your previous post is all. I'm not even sure at this stage that I'd disagree with you.

The ratio of what? Good/Bad black male punters, if so that's just outright prejudice (based on anecdotal evidence or circumstantial evidence and not a true sample of all black punters). Or is it the ratio of the number of minorities in this Country. Still not seeing that as a justifable reason.

I'm just asking for clarity.

Here's my view on it.

A punter makes a decision on physical attraction. Even if you're a "all races welcome" kinda guy there will be days when you might prefer one type of girl over another. This doesn't even limit itself to race it could be hair colour, hieght, size, angle of the boobies whatever. The business is about attraction and pleasure we ain't in this to judge and question preferences. Whatever "floats the boat or brings the tide in" ;)

With that being the case then I don't think it is right if we begin to criticise a WG for having preferences and making a choice. Sure, we may begin to question the reasoning behind those preferences and they may be founded in racism but 30mins - 1hr is too short a time for me to get worked up and challenge/change an individuals perception of society/culture/race etc.

If a WG doesn't want to see me [a black man], as has been the case then fine I'll move on. I'm in this for two things attraction and pleasure... and when I did move on to the other girl working there I put in such a heroic performance I left feeling like I should have been paid.

That or she may have just done her job really well.

Either way job done.

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TBH it's just lazy copy and pasting in a lot of cases i mean how many times have people on the purple site seen this classic quote.

please note i am ok to see guys of all races with the exception of men of african orign / heritage. i m not ok to see men of african origin as have had some really bad experiences here in london. i am not a racist but not my type. all others are welcome . I am OK to See Indian(all asian) , White , Asian , Oriental , Arabic

It's amazing that all these ladies some of them 'new in the UK' have already had "bad experiences" with only black guys, I don't know what that says about their judgement? or seemingly lack of it. Though i believe because most of their profile is copied and pasted anyway they haven't actually had any contact with black guys.

I'm sure many ladies on here know when they speak to someone on the phone know whether they'll take the booking or not and that's before they know the callers ethnicity.

As a test i should ring up one of these woman have a good conversation and get along and then i tell her i'm black. Will she suddenly say she won't see me as she may have a bad experience despite a minute ago being up to meet that's what makes this whole thing so silly.

I understand that for some people race and punting is a very touchy subject it shouldn't be though.

i just wish people would have the character and honesty and just say they don't want to get intimate with a black male. I would actually respect that openness. Instead we have silly excuses as they must know that to be so blatantly racist would be off putting to a lot of their preferred punters.

I once had a great punt over near embankment with a girl who shared her flat with two other ladies she was from poland afterwards we got talking about life in london. I was the second black guy she had seen since she'd been over here and we got talking about her flatmate who refused to see black men again with all the usual reasons. The lady told me they'd talked about this and her flatmate felt that white guys were one thing but if she allowed a black man inside her she would feel completely and utterly degraded as she saw black males as lower.

I would imagine that kind of thinking is sadly not exclusive to her...

Edited by AntonyB

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