MargaretF

Why Do You Punt?

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So - I'm sure there are already posts on this topic...can't find them...sorry!

But I've been an escort for a year and a half, and I still don't get it: why do men pay for sex? How satisfying is it, compared to having casual sex with a stranger for free? Does paying for it add or detract from the enjoyment?

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I think if most people could get it for free, they would. I've been trying various adult contact websites but as soon as you say you have a partner you have no chance. Might as well say you have leprosy, no one's going to want to get involved (or maybe it's just me...). In the end I really felt I had no other recourse than to book a session with a girl from here. It cost me a bit, but it took care of a need I had, just like any other service, and in the end the wife's none the wiser and I've had a great time away from the daily grind so it was worth it.

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Sometimes I think that the attraction is as much to do with escaping the humdrum 9-to-5 mortgage slave existance for a brief time, and do something totally outside "normal" society, than it is about the sex.

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I find it more morally acceptable to punt than to chat up a non WG for she sole purpose of free sex. A non WG may interpret your attentions as the begining of a relationship and could be rather upset when she finds it isn't. With a WG you have non of those problems.

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Sometimes I think that the attraction is as much to do with escaping the humdrum 9-to-5 mortgage slave existance for a brief time, and do something totally outside "normal" society, than it is about the sex.

Exactly. As I was going back from my first punt recently I had the feeling that all of a sudden I was back "on the grid", so to speak, ie where I was supposed to be and not in some fictional business meeting. It's like coming out of a bubble and back into reality again. For a little while I was who I used to be, then it was back down to make dinner and put the kids to bed.

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To temporarily alleviate some of the tedium of my current existence.

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So - I'm sure there are already posts on this topic...can't find them...sorry!

But I've been an escort for a year and a half, and I still don't get it: why do men pay for sex? How satisfying is it, compared to having casual sex with a stranger for free? Does paying for it add or detract from the enjoyment?

Simple answer :

Instant gratification with an attractive girl of your choice and an absence of complications of any sort

If you have the disposable readies............whats not to like ??!!

:D :D :P :P

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Even if you can get it free:

You pay them to go away/for you to be able to walk away afterwards.

Paid for sex is usually less expensive.

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So - I'm sure there are already posts on this topic...can't find them...sorry!

But I've been an escort for a year and a half, and I still don't get it: why do men pay for sex? How satisfying is it, compared to having casual sex with a stranger for free? Does paying for it add or detract from the enjoyment?

You will find most subjects have been discussed before but newbies are always joining and posting so it might be new to them.

I punt because its no strings guaranteed sex with a WG i choose and not being Brad Pitt i would have to put the effort in i no longer wish to into pulling otherwise. The game of pulling holds no interest to me nowadays. I find it very satisfying unless i am scammed or ripped-off but they are thankfully rare occurences to me. Paying doesnt add or detract from my enjoyment, i look on it as a great pastime and am more than prepared to pay for the fun it offers. :)

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It's a less dangerous hobby than bus surfing and shark wrangling ?

Nah, I punt because I'm a greedy bugger, I like to have my cake and eat it.

The current Mrs Jones ticks all my boxes I every sordid way I can think of but I stil enjoy a bit of fun elsewhere and why not, I don't drink (well I do but I don't pay for it), I don't

Smoke, I don't gamble, I don't do mountains of columbian marching powder, I don't follow my team up and down the country every week watching football so have to find someway to spend my salary. :-D

It's not some kind of mad addiction, if I never punted again I doubt I'd miss it and replace it with something else, it's just a bit of fun on the side of normal life.

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You will find most subjects have been discussed before but newbies are always joining and posting so it might be new to them.

I punt because its no strings guaranteed sex with a WG i choose and not being Brad Pitt i would have to put the effort in i no longer wish to into pulling otherwise. The game of pulling holds no interest to me nowadays. I find it very satisfying unless i am scammed or ripped-off but they are thankfully rare occurences to me. Paying doesnt add or detract from my enjoyment, i look on it as a great pastime and am more than prepared to pay for the fun it offers. :)

And I'm the same.

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It gives me endless sexual variety and allows me to cheat discreetly, without the dangers of casual encounters with civilian girls. Plus it is instant, hassle free sex.

Paying for it is actually a turn on for me too, though I don't like to hand over all that cash much lol. But doing something bad, taboo, is exciting.

Group sex at parties and massage with extras are what particularly get me going. Hard to have regular group sex without paying for it, that is if you are either single, or have a partner not interested in having sex outside the relationship.

Do you enjoy the sex you have as an escort?

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So - I'm sure there are already posts on this topic...can't find them...sorry!

But I've been an escort for a year and a half, and I still don't get it: why do men pay for sex? How satisfying is it, compared to having casual sex with a stranger for free? Does paying for it add or detract from the enjoyment?

Why does the sun rise? B)

Is the sky really blue or is it our perceptions which make it appear blue?

What is blue?

I started punting because i didn't want to be an 18 year old virgin, so i lost my virginity in Amsterdam on my 18th. I tried the normal way and failed to get that far. I hate rejection. I punt now because it's easier then pulling and i take the easy way out to avoid possible rejection. I got sick of being made to feel embarresed and ashamed. Money talks. Paying for it detracts from the enjoyment in the sense that i'd prefer to get it without paying for it. Other reasons; because it's there, because i can, i like embracing liberalism to the fullest, while i'm young. I'm taking a break now til my bday in October.

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I have never found not being Brad Pitt to be a problem...

I punt because I am a fit healthy male with a decent sex drive that is not met at home. I travel and work for myself, I have spare income. So there you go, motive, means and opportunity.

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Sad to say I'd have no chance of getting any in the real world, ugly enough to turn milk...

I have a platonic female friend who makes it clear she's sexually voracious but we can 'only be friends' (you'll have to imagine the condescending tone). This used to piss me off incredibly- but now I make sure I've seen a teen or twentysomething escort before meeting up so that I have fond memories of young firm and naked flesh. Whilst my friend is in good nick for a woman in her early 50's there's no competition.

A few years ago I put a lot of effort into dating sites and found the only women interested at all were as unattractive and screwed up as me; that's when I decided to go for the occasional fantasy of beauty rather than reality of grimness.

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My relationship is a sex free zone and I don't want to spend the rest of my life just wanking for sexual pleasure. I did embark on an affair but both parties involved realised that whilst it was great fun, it had the potential to get complicated with all the attendant heartache so we cooled down and became just friends. I punt therefor to interact sexually with a woman and experience all the pleasure that goes with it.

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At my age, and with my looks, no woman I would want to have sex with would want to have sex with me......unless I was paying.

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So - I'm sure there are already posts on this topic...can't find them...sorry!

But I've been an escort for a year and a half, and I still don't get it: why do men pay for sex? How satisfying is it, compared to having casual sex with a stranger for free? Does paying for it add or detract from the enjoyment?

Seriously, a year and a half and you haven't worked it out?!

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Sorry, that came across as a bit rude! I'm off out now but I'll repost my theory on the reasons later!

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I will use the 'take-away' analogy.

Every night you cook up the usual; curry and rice, steak and chips, sausage and mash. So now and then you have a takeaway for a change, sometimes you go to the chippy or sometimes you go out to a resteraunt.

I have a girlfriend and we have good sex, inc. the usual pervy stuff, but now and then I like to eat out!

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Variety, convenience and lack of complication.

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im married but the small amount of sex is a bit vanilla

i dont want an affair -that would be too complicated.

so i pay for it and have had some amazing times. and i hope the ladies have too. rally.

and the whole thing about punting. selecting the lady i wanna see, doing the booking, going to the punt. paying, writing FR's. reliving the experience later. thats fun tpp.

guilt? yes, blowing the money in. far more than the shagging other women guilt.

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How else would I, on my own at 71, have the pleasure of the intimate company of a lady of 40, or 30, or even 20?

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Simple answer :

Instant gratification with an attractive girl of your choice and an absence of complications of any sort

If you have the disposable readies............whats not to like ??!!

:D :D :P :P

My dear fellow, there is simply no way on this earth that you or anyone else would get the same amount, variety and quality of woman on the dating scene as that for which you pay - married or not married, Brad Pitt or not Brad Pitt. :rolleyes:

It simply does not happen, despite what you hear down the pub. :D

Do stop kidding yourself, you have nothing to prove.

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