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As A Newbie How Do I Encourage Men To Leave Field Reports?

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I am having difficulty expressing myself with my men to ask for field reports. I've had several meets so far and I've always thought I was clear when I requested that the guys leave me FR's but so far no one has taken the time to write any on me :-(

Would it be rude to follow up with men and request a FR within a certain time? Or should I just lie low and wait until a decent punter comes along and writes one up?

I'm only stressing as it seems punters tend to visit girls based on FR's from other punters.

Thanks in advance.

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Hi,

I am having difficulty expressing myself with my men to ask for field reports. I've had several meets so far and I've always thought I was clear when I requested that the guys leave me FR's but so far no one has taken the time to write any on me :-(

Would it be rude to follow up with men and request a FR within a certain time? Or should I just lie low and wait until a decent punter comes along and writes one up?

I'm only stressing as it seems punters tend to visit girls based on FR's from other punters.

Thanks in advance.

As its completely up to the punter if he wishes to do a FR all you can do is discuss it with him if you want to. Many punters dont know about Pnet so wouldnt know anything about it.

I no longer do FRs under any circumstances so when asked its a polite no and i wouldnt appreciate being contacted post punt about the matter, in fact i wouldnt appreciate being contacted post punt about anything unless it had been agreed and i had given permission to be contacted, discretion is important to me as it shows professionalism in my experience. So my advice is mention it to your punters but do no more than that. I wish you well with this. :)

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Thank you smiths - I do suspect many men would not be happy about a follow up email or text with a nudge to write up a review. I will take your excellent advice and hope for the best!

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Thank you smiths - I do suspect many men would not be happy about a follow up email or text with a nudge to write up a review. I will take your excellent advice and hope for the best!

I tend to agree with Smiths but as someone who has written a few FRs, I'll normally ask the lady if she would mind if I write one. Some say yes, others prefer if I don't. I'm not sure if you are new to escorting but as said above, only a small proportion of punters know about Punternet and its FRs. Best thing is just to bide your time and if you leave your customers satisfied then one or two will probably end up writing one.

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I always declined when asked , feel it's a bit pushy and presumptuous , however I've written a few reports, non of those were ever asked for so I have no problem with that.

Its all really down to how the individual feels I guess, I love writing them, but don't like to be pushed into doing them.

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I tend to agree with Smiths but as someone who has written a few FRs, I'll normally ask the lady if she would mind if I write one. Some say yes, others prefer if I don't. I'm not sure if you are new to escorting but as said above, only a small proportion of punters know about Punternet and its FRs. Best thing is just to bide your time and if you leave your customers satisfied then one or two will probably end up writing one.

Oops, sorry I didn't read the thread title properly, doh!

But as Mr Jones said, it's perhaps a bit presumptuous to ask for a FR.

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Oops, sorry I didn't read the thread title properly, doh!

But as Mr Jones said, it's perhaps a bit presumptuous to ask for a FR.

I recall a long ago thread in which a WG asked if she could offer discounts off her prices to punters in exchange for a positive FR, Galahads reply was no that was against the rules but it transpired it was ok to offer a discount in exchange for a FR GOOD OR BAD that was a true account of the punt. Maxes Angels used to advertise this discount on their site.

Whether thats still ok or not i have no idea but would advise anyone interested to PM Galahad to seek clarification first. :)

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Hi,

I am having difficulty expressing myself with my men to ask for field reports. I've had several meets so far and I've always thought I was clear when I requested that the guys leave me FR's but so far no one has taken the time to write any on me :-(

Would it be rude to follow up with men and request a FR within a certain time? Or should I just lie low and wait until a decent punter comes along and writes one up?

I'm only stressing as it seems punters tend to visit girls based on FR's from other punters.

Thanks in advance.

Funny how we are all different. I would be more than happy to be asked at the time or by email afterwards. I always write FRs.

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I tend to agree with Smiths but as someone who has written a few FRs, I'll normally ask the lady if she would mind if I write one. Some say yes, others prefer if I don't. I'm not sure if you are new to escorting but as said above, only a small proportion of punters know about Punternet and its FRs. Best thing is just to bide your time and if you leave your customers satisfied then one or two will probably end up writing one.

I used to ask as well out of courtesy but as some had never heard of Pnet they didnt care and a couple specifically asked me not to as they didnt want anymore weirdos off Pnet possibly contacting them as they put it. Obviously my negative FRs were done as a warning to other punters and i couldnt care less what the WG thought. :)

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I always ask my ladies if they would like an FR and they have always been receptive. I also ask them what details they would like included: should it be graphic or descrete?

The only issue is where I haven't enjoyed a punt for one reason; then I tend not to write a report for fear of retribution, but this seems to be the issue with the accuracy of reports.

As your clients are not entering the room, punting and then leaving without speaking to you, I can see nothing wrong in encouraging men (or ladies) to leave reports; its a bit of banter, after all.

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I always declined when asked , feel it's a bit pushy and presumptuous , however I've written a few reports, non of those were ever asked for so I have no problem with that.

Its all really down to how the individual feels I guess, I love writing them, but don't like to be pushed into doing them.

I'm keeping up with the Jones es here. One girl I wrote a splendid FR for, it brought her a lot of work [ she said ] then she asked me to write her another. I declined and also stopped visiting her.

I also think if you have to ask the girls permmision to do the FR, like some guys do, better not to bother doing it.

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I'm with Mr Jones. Happy to leave a FR but prefer not to be asked. I will post both good and bad in order to help my fellow punters but I am aware that this can have an effect on the girl.

I usually ask if they would like a FR unless they have some already. Then I assume another one would be OK.

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i leave em quite often but if asked i would refuse. whether or not i leave one is my decision.

sorry to the OP but that is how we keep the system unbiased.

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Personally I don't feel right asking or prompting an FR. I'd prefer them to be written because the client feels he wants to, rather than because I've cajoled him into it.

A few years ago I did once send a pm to a guy on another forum, not actually requesting - a report but merely reminding him he had seen me. This was because he'd mentioned writing an FR several times both when actually making the booking, as well as the very moment he stepped through the door and on his way out..........a significant amount of time after the official ending, oh and after seeing me at a special rate. Now call me cynical, but I did start to realise there may be guys out there who might think the promise of a report will influence a lady somewhat in certain directions. My approach is that if a chap wishes to write a report, then that's brilliant and most appreciated, if he doesn't - well he has his life, his reasons and it's none of my business. I'm also obviously no longer influenced by promises of reports either, I offer the same experience whether someone is going to write a report or not.

Back to the point, online suppliers often send out follow-up emails requesting feedback however in this line of interest I don't necessarily think it's ethical, or discrete.

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Just to expand my previous comments, I saw a girl about 5 years ago, seen her a couple of times at this point and it was probably, oooh, third visit and time was up, I was checking my belongings to make sure I hadn't dropped anything in the rush to get out of my strides and she comes alongside and says something like " Jonesy, would you mind doing me a field report for this? it's been a bit quiet lately and I've not had one for ages..."

I was taken by surprise by this, I'd mentioned I'd seen PN and that I'd read reports, but never indicated I'd written any ( I hadn't at this point) I politely declined , "it's not really my bag baby" and off I trotted........... never went back despite the service being grand stuff.

FFWD a number of years and I have what can only be described as a mind altering encounter with another young lady (she'll like that if she read this ;) ) and I'm doing the usual belongings check..."christ I enjoyed that, I might just do a FR on this, first time for everything I suppose!", "oh, ok, really, up to you if you want to, thank you" is the reply or similar.

Nothing asked and nothing expected, just how it should be..... I beat a path home and bashed out my first report, dropped her a mail to tell her to look out for it and waited for the LOL's to flood in :lol:

Don't ask, don't expect and people will do what they feel they want to, works for me anyhow.

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Hi,

I am having difficulty expressing myself with my men to ask for field reports. I've had several meets so far and I've always thought I was clear when I requested that the guys leave me FR's but so far no one has taken the time to write any on me

Fair point! I've only very rarely been asked to write FRs, but if I am asked, I will. I also do write spontaneously on most occasions.

There can be, I think, no obligation on a punter to write one - there are, I think, occasionally, ladies who offer a discount on a subsequent visit if an FR is written, but one assumes that the under tone here is that the FR should be favourable?

If you are listed also on "another well known adult site", the need for punters to accumulate some "feedback" themselves is a help, but that doesn't apply here.

I'm interested that my brother has made a firm policy to write none - that is, of course, his priviledge, but I'm intrigued as to why!

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Hi,

I am having difficulty expressing myself with my men to ask for field reports. I've had several meets so far and I've always thought I was clear when I requested that the guys leave me FR's but so far no one has taken the time to write any on me :-(

Would it be rude to follow up with men and request a FR within a certain time? Or should I just lie low and wait until a decent punter comes along and writes one up?

I'm only stressing as it seems punters tend to visit girls based on FR's from other punters.

Thanks in advance.

I couple of times on the other site i've seen girls offer a discount in return for a review of any kind, and importantly they insisted you had to book through the other site to get the discount. Some also insisted the discount was only open to those who booked through the site and had a history of giving reports. Both of this increase the chance of a report being given, although as previously commented whilst offering a discount seems fine in principal its impossible to ensure a report follows up.

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You can always ask how did you find me?

It's a good way to know where new business comes from.

I suggest you ask on second meetings, probably guaranteed a positive report if he's come back for more.

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Okay, I'm going to come in on this because I feel can since I have loads of them, and don't feel the pressure of what ever I say will be taken as touting.

I have never asked for one, nor have I hinted that I might like one. I have not had one for a while. This does not mean I have become crap, but it might mean that I have not been working much - or that my punters think I do not need one since i have a few.................. WRONG ! They are good for the soul and a fab way of you guys finding out who the good girls are to boot.

Given the amount of poor punts you guys have, I would have thought you would be more than willing to submit them if the punt was something to shout about.

So you see a girl who you have seen before and it was good, and she asks for a review, where's the harm in writing one? Don't be so bladdy pompous man. You need to tell the world if she was good, or she might not be there for much longer.

Why the snobbery?

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Have to say that I have never been asked to write one. If I was I would probably say "No" and then decide later whether to, or not.

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So you see a girl who you have seen before and it was good, and she asks for a review, where's the harm in writing one? Don't be so bladdy pompous man. You need to tell the world if she was good, or she might not be there for much longer.

Why the snobbery?

Well said!

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I wouldn't dream of asking a client to write a report on me. As the chaps here have confirmed my suspisions it's a bit cheeky and most would resent being asked.

What I do instead is send thought vibes through my laptop saying 'Pleeeeeasssseeee will one of you who I have seen write something nice about me'.

;)

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'Pleeeeeasssseeee will one of you who I have seen write something nice about me'.

;)

Something nice about ELG. :D

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I've never been asked but i would if i was. I like writing FRs and giving positive feedback for WGs who deserve it.

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Hi,

I am having difficulty expressing myself with my men to ask for field reports. I've had several meets so far and I've always thought I was clear when I requested that the guys leave me FR's but so far no one has taken the time to write any on me :-(

Would it be rude to follow up with men and request a FR within a certain time? Or should I just lie low and wait until a decent punter comes along and writes one up?

I'm only stressing as it seems punters tend to visit girls based on FR's from other punters.

Thanks in advance.

Expressing yourself should be easy, as you are dealing with men like myself who are ruled by their cock.

1. Give the client a really good time. Do everything you can to make him happy.

2. When the time comes for you (or him) to leave, give him a good hug and kiss goodbye, a nice big smile, and say (whether it is true or not) that you really enjoyed yourself with him. Please come again. Then, rubbing your body gently and provocatively against his renewing erection, another smile. Only then mention that you never yet have had an FR, and it would be oooh so nice for his to be the first.

A bit of seduction is all it takes. If you come out with the request without the preliminaries, you may wait a long time.

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