Harold

What Length Of Appointment Do You Prefer?

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An earlier thread asked what one got up to on a longer appointment. There are many men for whom a short appointment is quite adequate. Others like myself prefer longer ones.

I was wondering though what length of appointments wg's prefer? A woman in a parlour may see a dozen men in a day for thirty minutes. Some independent escorts may see three of four clients in a day for an hour or two. Others say they see only one or two clients a day for longer sessions. There are some who enjoy overnights, weekends and even holidays.

I recollect a well known and respected wg on the old board who said she preferred short appointments. She had a wg persona that she could keep up for a short time. Longer appointments made it harder not to reveal her true self.

There needs to be a lot of artifice in this world. An escort being friendly, cheerful and outgoing with me does not mean she has fallen for me - she is just doing her job well. It must be harder to maintain that for longer periods - especially overnight and longer. But equally it must be hard in a different way to see client after client all day for basic sex.

Is there a middle way of an hour or two?

I would be interested to hear the views of women on this board. Do you like longer appointments or does your heart sink when one is suggested?

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I generally book an hour with an indie. If it is a poor punt I can be out in 45 mins or so but it often stretches to 75 mins.

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An earlier thread asked what one got up to on a longer appointment. There are many men for whom a short appointment is quite adequate. Others like myself prefer longer ones.

I was wondering though what length of appointments wg's prefer? A woman in a parlour may see a dozen men in a day for thirty minutes. Some independent escorts may see three of four clients in a day for an hour or two. Others say they see only one or two clients a day for longer sessions. There are some who enjoy overnights, weekends and even holidays.

I recollect a well known and respected wg on the old board who said she preferred short appointments. She had a wg persona that she could keep up for a short time. Longer appointments made it harder not to reveal her true self.

There needs to be a lot of artifice in this world. An escort being friendly, cheerful and outgoing with me does not mean she has fallen for me - she is just doing her job well. It must be harder to maintain that for longer periods - especially overnight and longer. But equally it must be hard in a different way to see client after client all day for basic sex.

Is there a middle way of an hour or two?

I would be interested to hear the views of women on this board. Do you like longer appointments or does your heart sink when one is suggested?

I will not see a new client for more than two hours. I prefer one hour appointments with an option to extend, just in case we do not 'click' I do not act at all. To have to put on some false persona would be hard work.

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An hour (minimum) for someone 'chosen cold' from the web, but if I have more information about the person I'll request 1.5 or 2 hours. This relates to first meetings.

Short appointments don't really give me the time I like for us to establish some mental contact, find the mutual likes and dislikes, and have sensuous rather than overvigorous fun. Well, at my age.....

If there's rapport, then for as long as I can afford in time or money, and as long as she feels comfortable with. As you posted elsewhere, Harold, there's always lots to cram into time with someone when I/we feel comfortable. In practice these work out at two to four hours.

After that there's the whole 'overnight' and longer side of life. I only look for such encounters when I know the person fairly well, as the 12 hours or more is rarely all close contact, and I believe that some individual 'space' is beneficial.

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an hour is pretty much good for me if I like the girl, if not less than an hour seems like a blessed relief:)

I recently visited a girl who charged £40 for 15 minutes , £50 for half an hour and £60 for an hour and though I had a few misgivings about the girl in question I went for an hour. The sex was over and done with in 15 minutes and she then lay there for the rest of the hour smoking!

I didn't complain, since it was only £60, she was friendly and given that her english was very poor it was clear that the advert promising all sorts of wonderful things couldn't have been written by her. The other bonus was there was a Lidl in the same part of town and I picked up some bargain Parma Ham whilst I was in the area! :D

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45mins. I don't cum twice so therefore an hour is too long and 30mins is too short to 'get to know' the lady and relax into the appointment. 45mins allows time for a massage, oral both ways and a nice session of copulation with time left for a kiss and a cuddle, a chat or a cup of tea after. Perfect. Plus I can park my car for an hour and not have to be worried about being clamped - the car, not me as that would cost extra. Locally the cost is generally £60 per 30mins and £100 an hour so I get to pay £80 and have money over for a tip if the lady is a bit special, especially if they are only earning 50% of the fee. I'd much rather the lady receives a bit more rather than it going to the establishment.

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1 hour minimum!

Prefer 90 mins to 2 hours with the right lady!

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Unfortunately I've found through experience this year, that I struggle to come twice in an hour. I have managed a few, but failed on just as many occasions, and the poor ladies have had to work very hard! So the perfect amount of time for me is half an hour to 45 minutes, which means that I cans squeeze in a lot of foreplay for a tremendous finalé.

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1 hour minimum, i often go for 2 hour bookings.

an overnight on average once every 2-3 months

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60 minutes for a first visit and 90 minutes for a repeat.

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Minimum of 1 hour - ideally 90 mins.

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Like quite a few others I seldom manage to pop more than once in an hour. Therefore for a first appointment it has to be an hour or perhaps 45 mins. Second time I am happy to go for a 2 hour meeting in the knowledge that we can chat a bit more and proceed at a gentle pace. If the lady is extra special (and some are!) I may manage a second coming. :D

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Thank you to all who replied to my initial question.

It was primarily aimed at wgs though. So than you Sarah for being the only woman who replied. I appreciate it.

Perhaps other wgs prefer five minute appointments but prefer not to publicise it!

Or maybe that is just me being too cynical!

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Thank you to all who replied to my initial question.

It was primarily aimed at wgs though. So than you Sarah for being the only woman who replied. I appreciate it.

Perhaps other wgs prefer five minute appointments but prefer not to publicise it!

Or maybe that is just me being too cynical!

You want WG opinions? Aight. Anywhere from an hour to two hours. It depends entirely on the client though. If someone is funny, interesting and good in bed obviously I'd like them to stay longer which makes two hours fly by but some people are slightly, ahem, harder to draw out of their shell? They prefer not to exchange pleasantries, let alone engage in a bit of mental foreplay or gettingtoknoweachother chitchat, and being in the company of a person like for for longer than an hour can be strenuous to say the least (:

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You want WG opinions? Aight. Anywhere from an hour to two hours. It depends entirely on the client though. If someone is funny, interesting and good in bed obviously I'd like them to stay longer which makes two hours fly by but some people are slightly, ahem, harder to draw out of their shell? They prefer not to exchange pleasantries, let alone engage in a bit of mental foreplay or gettingtoknoweachother chitchat, and being in the company of a person like for for longer than an hour can be strenuous to say the least (:

Even though I am a bloke I can fully understand that point of view. I haver probably behaved just like that on some punts, to my shame.It takes two to click!

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Even though I am a bloke I can fully understand that point of view. I haver probably behaved just like that on some punts, to my shame.It takes two to click!

Au contraire, mon ami. If a girl is good enough at what she does she can (and IMO should) make it seem like there's a click factor, irregardless of her feelings towards the the other person present :)

Out of curiosity, what was it about your previous meetings that prevented you from making an effort to try and create a "click" with the girl?

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You want WG opinions? Aight. Anywhere from an hour to two hours. It depends entirely on the client though. If someone is funny, interesting and good in bed obviously I'd like them to stay longer which makes two hours fly by but some people are slightly, ahem, harder to draw out of their shell? They prefer not to exchange pleasantries, let alone engage in a bit of mental foreplay or gettingtoknoweachother chitchat, and being in the company of a person like for for longer than an hour can be strenuous to say the least (:

Thank you Kitty. I can understand that - in the end if you are going to have a longer appointment you need to be able to click on a real level. As you say it can be a problem for longer than an hour.

But all night?

All day?

All week???????

There is only so long even the best wg can pretend friendship, love and sensual desire!!!

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Thank you Kitty. I can understand that - in the end if you are going to have a longer appointment you need to be able to click on a real level. As you say it can be a problem for longer than an hour.

But all night?

All day?

All week???????

There is only so long even the best wg can pretend friendship, love and sensual desire!!!

I'm fortunate enough that the kind of people I meet generally are the kind of people I click with. Eccentric profiles draw interesting people, and if I'm asked for a longer booking by someone I don't get along with there's no one holding my hands behind my back saying "Young lady, you would be a fool to turn down this man's money, you must see him and that is that", so I can quite simply refuse their booking. That's why I would never see a new client for longer than 1.5 hours, unless from either email or phone communication he'd proved himself to be at least semi-amusing :P

If I don't get on with a client I won't see them again, or I'll only accept shorter bookings. If, however, we DO get on I don't need to put on an act during our date and it requires no fakery or pretense on my part. I simply am who I am :)

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I'm fortunate enough that the kind of people I meet generally are the kind of people I click with. Eccentric profiles draw interesting people, and if I'm asked for a longer booking by someone I don't get along with there's no one holding my hands behind my back saying "Young lady, you would be a fool to turn down this man's money, you must see him and that is that", so I can quite simply refuse their booking. That's why I would never see a new client for longer than 1.5 hours, unless from either email or phone communication he'd proved himself to be at least semi-amusing :P

If I don't get on with a client I won't see them again, or I'll only accept shorter bookings. If, however, we DO get on I don't need to put on an act during our date and it requires no fakery or pretense on my part. I simply am who I am :)

Thanks again Kitty. I think you really address what I was trying to ask in the original question. There is only so long one can put on an act - and for a longer appointment one has to be oneself I suppose. So for longer appointments, as you say, there is no fakery or pretense. I think though that some wgs find that hard - that they perhaps need to hide behind a persona to make it work for them.

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