MinxyLydia

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OK, this is a weird one and apologies if it's not appropriate.

I had a text last week for a 19 year old girl in Ireland who had been given my number by a client of mine- his name was a fairly common one so I don't know who he is. Anyway she wanted advice on the how busy it was in London as she was thinking of coming over here to work, I couldn't really help as I don't have experience of hotel visits or agencies. Anyway she now tells me she is over this weekend and is meeting someone whose details she got from a friend of a friend and has been told with her age and looks (she sent me pics of herself and she is very sexy) he would take her on and put her up in a 'Mayfair Penthouse', do all her advertising etc and she could earn £150 an hour and he gets £50 of that with no expenses for the flat etc. She mentioned Hotel Honeys and City Girls agencies but not sure which one this particular one is connected with.

Now, as much as I don't need any hassle in my life I'm a bit worried that this young girl is spending her last bit of money coming to London and is saying she's 90% sure she'll end up in Mayfair and earning a fortune. I suspect the 'Mayfair Penthouse' is probably a room somewhere in Shepherds Market. I'm worried she's going to be taken advantage of especially despite her telling me she's a big girl and can look after herself (oh didn't we all think that at 19?!) when I stressed that she should exercise caution and not agree to anything without thinking about it. She said she'd like to meet me for a drink at some point over the weekend. Part of me wants to not get involved, but the stronger urge is telling me I should try and look out for her. I'm guessing she'll do what the hell she wants but I hate the thought of her getting caught up in something awful with no way out.

Any thoughts people? Happy to discuss by PM if that's easier.

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What a difficult one. It is a great credit to you that you want to help. The trouble is, if it all goes tits up for the girl, you may end up having to help more than you bargained for. That said and done, how bad would you feel if something terrible happened to her and you hadn't helped.

For what it's worth, perhaps meeting her for a coffee somewhere local to you might not be such a bad thing. It'll only take an hour of your time and you'll be able to judge the girls maturity and how she might get on in the jungle of big city agency escorting. It may give you some peace of mind to know you have helped a bit as well. I would (of course) point her at SAAFE and their buddy scheme and you could also do your best to ascertain whether she is being ripped off or not. Beyond that, I don't think you could do any more.

It's probably not a good idea to meet her at your place as you wouldn't want an irate pimp who thinks you are interfering turning up unannounced.

Whatever you do, try not to get too involved. You can't live other peoples lives for them. Advice is good. Anything else is above and beyond the call of duty at this point.

P.S. Like you, I feel that the mention of the "Mayfair Penthouse" has set alarm bells ringing. I fear that the odds are high that the reality of what she is facing will be different to what she has been promised.

P.P.S I am a rank amatuer at this. Some of the more reputable agency owners on here may be able to offer much better advice.

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OK, this is a weird one and apologies if it's not appropriate.

I had a text last week for a 19 year old girl in Ireland who had been given my number by a client of mine- his name was a fairly common one so I don't know who he is. Anyway she wanted advice on the how busy it was in London as she was thinking of coming over here to work, I couldn't really help as I don't have experience of hotel visits or agencies. Anyway she now tells me she is over this weekend and is meeting someone whose details she got from a friend of a friend and has been told with her age and looks (she sent me pics of herself and she is very sexy) he would take her on and put her up in a 'Mayfair Penthouse', do all her advertising etc and she could earn £150 an hour and he gets £50 of that with no expenses for the flat etc. She mentioned Hotel Honeys and City Girls agencies but not sure which one this particular one is connected with.

Now, as much as I don't need any hassle in my life I'm a bit worried that this young girl is spending her last bit of money coming to London and is saying she's 90% sure she'll end up in Mayfair and earning a fortune. I suspect the 'Mayfair Penthouse' is probably a room somewhere in Shepherds Market. I'm worried she's going to be taken advantage of especially despite her telling me she's a big girl and can look after herself (oh didn't we all think that at 19?!) when I stressed that she should exercise caution and not agree to anything without thinking about it. She said she'd like to meet me for a drink at some point over the weekend. Part of me wants to not get involved, but the stronger urge is telling me I should try and look out for her. I'm guessing she'll do what the hell she wants but I hate the thought of her getting caught up in something awful with no way out.

Any thoughts people? Happy to discuss by PM if that's easier.

You don't know her from Adam. and she does not know you. I hate this 'got your number from a friend' nonsense. In my experience, there never is a friend. Nobody tells anyone about their punting so why the need to involve 'friends' whose names escape them just now???

Let her have your number. Tell her she can call you if she is worried or gets herself into a fix. If you go out to meet her, take your bloke with you. I would not want to get involved with someone in this way, but I would look out for them if they got into any trouble; problem is, you don't really know their motives?

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You don't know her from Adam. and she does not know you. I hate this 'got your number from a friend' nonsense. In my experience, there never is a friend. Nobody tells anyone about their punting so why the need to involve 'friends' whose names escape them just now???

Let her have your number. Tell her she can call you if she is worried or gets herself into a fix. If you go out to meet her, take your bloke with you. I would not want to get involved with someone in this way, but I would look out for them if they got into any trouble; problem is, you don't really know their motives?

Thinking more about it......... I have stayed in Mayfair when on tour - okay it was a long time ago - but some of those gaffs are not exactly five star. The word 'Mayfair' is something of a lure. I wonder if this is a case of trafficking? Get her to call you and keep a note of her number (which sounds obvious I know) because there is deffo something odd about this story. I wonder if these people don't know you at all, but have read you on here and think you are a softy?

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I know I'm worried that there is some scam involving me at play here too! Talked to my bloke about it last night who was of the same mind- don't need the hassle but also would hate to just let it go if there was something that could be done to stop someone getting in trouble. He's far more savvier than me so if he can I might get him to come with me to meet her. He was the one who told me about Shepherd Market, which although is Mayfair there are some very iffy places there. He suggested I ask here if anyone knows anything about the agencies mentioned.

I think for now I'll wait and see if she contacts me- she's apparently due to get to London today.

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I know I'm worried that there is some scam involving me at play here too! Talked to my bloke about it last night who was of the same mind- don't need the hassle but also would hate to just let it go if there was something that could be done to stop someone getting in trouble. He's far more savvier than me so if he can I might get him to come with me to meet her. He was the one who told me about Shepherd Market, which although is Mayfair there are some very iffy places there. He suggested I ask here if anyone knows anything about the agencies mentioned.

I think for now I'll wait and see if she contacts me- she's apparently due to get to London today.

I think you are doing the right thing. Your bloke sounds a goodun. If I were in your shoes, I would take him along and if she seems ligit, maybe for the first time when she meets these people, you could both go along with her and check them out.

I hope it all pans out well x

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OK, this is a weird one and apologies if it's not appropriate.

I had a text last week for a 19 year old girl in Ireland who had been given my number by a client of mine- his name was a fairly common one so I don't know who he is. Anyway she wanted advice on the how busy it was in London as she was thinking of coming over here to work, I couldn't really help as I don't have experience of hotel visits or agencies. Anyway she now tells me she is over this weekend and is meeting someone whose details she got from a friend of a friend and has been told with her age and looks (she sent me pics of herself and she is very sexy) he would take her on and put her up in a 'Mayfair Penthouse', do all her advertising etc and she could earn £150 an hour and he gets £50 of that with no expenses for the flat etc. She mentioned Hotel Honeys and City Girls agencies but not sure which one this particular one is connected with.

Now, as much as I don't need any hassle in my life I'm a bit worried that this young girl is spending her last bit of money coming to London and is saying she's 90% sure she'll end up in Mayfair and earning a fortune. I suspect the 'Mayfair Penthouse' is probably a room somewhere in Shepherds Market. I'm worried she's going to be taken advantage of especially despite her telling me she's a big girl and can look after herself (oh didn't we all think that at 19?!) when I stressed that she should exercise caution and not agree to anything without thinking about it. She said she'd like to meet me for a drink at some point over the weekend. Part of me wants to not get involved, but the stronger urge is telling me I should try and look out for her. I'm guessing she'll do what the hell she wants but I hate the thought of her getting caught up in something awful with no way out.

Any thoughts people? Happy to discuss by PM if that's easier.

I wouldnt get involved anymore than giving her my opinion that it might not pan out as she expects it to. She is an adult and responsible for herself. Hopefully she has read Saafes site and learnt some basics. :)

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Be honest, warts and all, including worries, fears, good points and bad points.

What more can you do, unless you decide to walk away by telling you you can't help.

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Be honest, warts and all, including worries, fears, good points and bad points.

What more can you do, unless you decide to walk away by telling you you can't help.

I can't really fairly comment on what she might be getting into as I have no experience of what she is getting into really- is very different kind of escorting to what I do. I guess all I can do is tell her to keep her wits about her, not give passport to anyone etc.

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Call me paranoid - but like others have said, it pays t be careful. Some other angles for you to consider.

Have you actually spoken to her? - as opposed to all this being by text? Is there a young woman involved for sure - rather than some guy(s) trying to do something nasty? Cast your mind back to make sure no one has it in for you for whatever reason? Ask her for the bloke's number who referred her to you - contact him and make sure that you do know him?

If there is a woman, refer her to a trusted house in the first instance at least till she can find her feet and totally forget about Mayfair for a bit ( I don't know any houses as that is not me, but I aam sure others here do and can PM you) - Once you do that there is less of a coscience issue for you to meet with her.

If you are still meeting her, tell her date and time but not where until maybe an hour or so (exactly what you girls do to us punters!).

Further options - Have your bloke with you and if possible have other friends at the venue where you meet who will observe what is going on without actually identifying themselves as being known to you.

If this is in some way connected to putting you at a disadvantage - worst case be prepared to change your cell number etc and perhaps tell your trusted regulars.

Good luck

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Call me paranoid - but like others have said, it pays t be careful. Some other angles for you to consider.

Have you actually spoken to her? - as opposed to all this being by text? Is there a young woman involved for sure - rather than some guy(s) trying to do something nasty? Cast your mind back to make sure no one has it in for you for whatever reason? Ask her for the bloke's number who referred her to you - contact him and make sure that you do know him?

If there is a woman, refer her to a trusted house in the first instance at least till she can find her feet and totally forget about Mayfair for a bit ( I don't know any houses as that is not me, but I aam sure others here do and can PM you) - Once you do that there is less of a coscience issue for you to meet with her.

If you are still meeting her, tell her date and time but not where until maybe an hour or so (exactly what you girls do to us punters!).

Further options - Have your bloke with you and if possible have other friends at the venue where you meet who will observe what is going on without actually identifying themselves as being known to you.

If this is in some way connected to putting you at a disadvantage - worst case be prepared to change your cell number etc and perhaps tell your trusted regulars.

Good luck

Not paranoid but good sensible advice in my opinion. As i know from personal experience it pays to be very cautious within punting. :)

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OK guys, you've put the wind up me now! I'm not complaining though, I probably needed a dose of reality and a bit of caution instilled in me!

I'll leave it well alone. I do feel guilty though in case she is totally genuine.

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I think you should meet her somewhere public but not busy - listen to her story - and then give her some friendly sage advice. It doesn't commit you to much but you really might help steer a young girl away from some stupid risks. But don't take on her troubles.

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OK guys, you've put the wind up me now! I'm not complaining though, I probably needed a dose of reality and a bit of caution instilled in me!

I'll leave it well alone. I do feel guilty though in case she is totally genuine.

Saafe are there to advise and inform so if she is aware or made aware of them then you certainly havent anything to feel guilty about in my opinion. :)

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I would ask her to phone you immediately. If she/he/it is genuine then

this would help prove it.

Receiving unusual texts or emails is common in this business.

I get them too. I ask that they phone me.

They rarely do.

It's a bit of a no brainer in my opinion.

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If you do meet take your bloke and meet in a very public place.

Tell her all about saafe etc etc and then leave the decision up to her. She's over the age of majority.

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If you do meet take your bloke and meet in a very public place.

Tell her all about saafe etc etc and then leave the decision up to her. She's over the age of majority.

Adele- Yes, first thing I do if she texts again will be to call her. IF, and it's still an IF I meet her will do so somewhere public. Am undecided, as is the fella, he can't come with me this weekend though.

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There's alot of good advice in the previous posts and you seem to have a very caring and honest nature about you.

Something just telling me to steer clear. Give her all the numbers she needs but do not meet up.You dont need to get sucked into this one.

May sound heartless and i'm sorry if it does but just my gut feeling.

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OK guys, you've put the wind up me now! I'm not complaining though, I probably needed a dose of reality and a bit of caution instilled in me!

I'll leave it well alone. I do feel guilty though in case she is totally genuine.

Take care, sounds like a scam to me. The two words " mayfair / penthouse " You do realise how much it costs to rent a mayfair penthouse in todays market ? about 15,000 a month ...

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Advise her by email or phone (as you aleady have) but don't meet up. If you do meet, it becomes more personal and you risk getting drawn in to something.

You can give just as much advice on the phone as you can face to face.

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Take care, sounds like a scam to me. The two words " mayfair / penthouse " You do realise how much it costs to rent a mayfair penthouse in todays market ? about 15,000 a month ...

Yes, I know and that's why am worried about her! It'll be some dingy digs in Shepherd Market notorious for illegal trafficing...

Anyway, she was supposed to have arrived in London today and have heard nothing so maybe she'll vanish as quickly as she appeared...

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Yes, I know and that's why am worried about her! It'll be some dingy digs in Shepherd Market notorious for illegal trafficing...

Anyway, she was supposed to have arrived in London today and have heard nothing so maybe she'll vanish as quickly as she appeared...

If you have heard nothing by 12.00 tomorrow I think you can feel you have done your bit. As I said earlier she is over the age of majority. She should be able (with the advice already given) to look after herself.

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The strangest thing here is that this girl was given your number by supposedly one of your clents dont you think?

And, if the girl is as savvy as she reckons surely she would be able to find this site and the ** site online and be able to do her own homework first and then contact girls directly working in that area? Perhaps the person she is meeting is genuine maybe a savvy internet marketing guy who can get her business for a marketing fee in return, but then again perhaps he's not. I just think that although prostitution has evolved somewhat with the dawn internet, many SPs and WGs still have a lot to catch up on, and that there is still plenty of opportunity for WGs to improve their online presence and earnings with the right people marketing them. It seems to me that there is good and bad everywhere, but the ho-business seems to assume that anyone who says they can market a girl is a bad guy or pimp. Theres certainly a lot of money to be made if its done right - esp in London. Lets face it online marketing is a business that not many are good at, and many girls just have not got the time to learn the skills to do it right.

But I suppose the overwhelming advice is to not get involved as she is an adult and has nothing to do with you. She should make her own decisions in life and learn from them as we all do. Anyway Internet marketing guy has said his piece B)

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Anyway, she was supposed to have arrived in London today and have heard nothing so maybe she'll vanish as quickly as she appeared...

Did this mystery wannabee ever get in touch then ELG ?

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