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Is There An Unspoken Rule Around Ejaculation?

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  1. 1. Preferred place to put it?

    • Inside (with condom)
      38
    • Boobs
      16
    • Face
      23
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I don't really know how to ask this question so I'm going to ask it anyway, but please don't be offended.

Is there an unspoken rule around ejaculation?

The reason I ask is because cumming inside with a condom on in the natrual flow of sex would be my preferred choice as I'm not into putting it on the boobs, belly or face. Yet the three out of four recent punts I've found that while I'm ejaculating (I've been asked - but as I write this now think prompted - where I want to "put it" with a suggestion of boobs or body) the lady has already got her hands on my chest in a "get off me sort of way". I suppose she's making sure that I don't colapse on top of her but it doesn't seem that way.

Now I'm not a forceful bloke, quite submissive really and it's not like I've got the lady in a full on bear hug while popping (more like gritted teeth and clenched fist buried into the bed..) so I'm a little taken aback at the fact that after everything she's essentially pushing me off her.

So is it generally preferred for the guy to ejaculate anywhere but inside (with a condom on)?

Edit: I've put the poll up just to see if there was an overwhelming preferred choice different to my own.

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I don't really know how to ask this question so I'm going to ask it anyway, but please don't be offended.

Is there an unspoken rule around ejaculation?

The reason I ask is because cumming inside with a condom on in the natrual flow of sex would be my preferred choice as I'm not into putting it on the boobs, belly or face. Yet the three out of four recent punts I've found that while I'm ejaculating (I've been asked - but as I write this now think prompted - where I want to "put it" with a suggestion of boobs or body) the lady has already got her hands on my chest in a "get off me sort of way". I suppose she's making sure that I don't colapse on top of her but it doesn't seem that way.

Now I'm not a forceful bloke, quite submissive really and it's not like I've got the lady in a full on bear hug while popping (more like gritted teeth and clenched fist buried into the bed..) so I'm a little taken aback at the fact that after everything she's essentially pushing me off her.

So is it generally preferred for the guy to ejaculate anywhere but inside (with a condom on)?

Edit: I've put the poll up just to see if there was an overwhelming preferred choice different to my own.

mmmmmm ?

strange one this ?

never encountered this myself....the pushing you off thing

do you have links to the girls who do this

(dont think this has happened to me once in 15 years of punting)

without being too personal, and I'm not having a go at you at all, are you the 'heavier gentleman' ? (and believe me I've put on a lot of weight in recent years)

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without being too personal, and I'm not having a go at you at all, are you the 'heavier gentleman' ? (and believe me I've put on a lot of weight in recent years)

LOL, ok allow me to save some dignity first. I ride a bike some 30 miles a day. I am however around 16stone. I'm concious that I'm not a small man and always tend not put my weight on the girl and even when in full swing I don't lay ontop of the lady. She's got to be able to breath right? :P

But now you've got me thinking on this, the WGs that have done this were on the thinner side of my usual preference.

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Maybe they thought you might flop down onto them when you came?

I don't really know, I'm fairly un-squashable and definitely not tiny, but it seems feasible.

The only unwritten rule I know of is "Not in my hair/eyes!" :)

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i agree with mrUU, and never had a prob with this. I dont actually see the point of cumming over a ladies body,

i am a big bloke so take care not to squash the lady. But if she is on top then whats the issue?????

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The OH is a big bloke and I certainly enjoy being on top for so many reasons!

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In my experience a lot of blokes like to cum over the face or boobs. Am often told that their GF or wife won't let them...

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I've had guys collapse on top of me post cum and it's not a pleasant experience so I suspect this is what she was trying to prevent.

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I prefer to end in the ladies mouth...a fantasy of mine is to finish on her pussy and watch another girl lick it all off...then they could kiss as I lie there mesmerised... :blink:

...will never happen... :(

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much prefer CIM and am prone to collapse after the event so I can understand the ladies POV

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I don't really know how to ask this question so I'm going to ask it anyway, but please don't be offended.

Is there an unspoken rule around ejaculation?

The reason I ask is because cumming inside with a condom on in the natrual flow of sex would be my preferred choice as I'm not into putting it on the boobs, belly or face. Yet the three out of four recent punts I've found that while I'm ejaculating (I've been asked - but as I write this now think prompted - where I want to "put it" with a suggestion of boobs or body) the lady has already got her hands on my chest in a "get off me sort of way". I suppose she's making sure that I don't colapse on top of her but it doesn't seem that way.

Now I'm not a forceful bloke, quite submissive really and it's not like I've got the lady in a full on bear hug while popping (more like gritted teeth and clenched fist buried into the bed..) so I'm a little taken aback at the fact that after everything she's essentially pushing me off her.

So is it generally preferred for the guy to ejaculate anywhere but inside (with a condom on)?

Edit: I've put the poll up just to see if there was an overwhelming preferred choice different to my own.

Virtually never inside the WG through my choice, not noticed WGs generally having a problem with me coming in them on the rare occassion or from seeing others including huge fat lardarses like myself at parties doing the same. I come over her body on the agreed spot be it tits, arse, stomach or face and if offering Cim in her mouth perhaps for a snowball and if offering swallow for her to swallow it. Options aplenty. Definitely no unwritten rule about it.:)

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It's becoming relatively rare for me to ejaculate inside the pussy - various reasons: age, fitness, laziness... I'm perfectly happy for it to be like that, were it not for the voice of some unidentified super-ego (male? female?) whispering to me that there is some mark I am failing to come up to.

Do chaps feel they're failing in some way if they don't come inside? (Smiths obviously not, but then he's enviably free of self-doubt all down the line.) And do girls feel cheated or that their punter is only half a man? Or doesn't it matter as long as the bugger chucks his muck?

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Although I do enjoy a girl who allows CIM, its not essential for me as I can understand a girls reluctance to do this as she may see many in a day.

When I first started punting I found that I could rarely cum in the condom during sex with most girls, however with a few I had no problem.

So I usually ask for a HJ ending but as I am seeing more regular girls now my prference seems to be cumming inside them as it feels more personal / satisfying to me and them! B)

However if I see a new girl then its back to HJ or CIM !:)

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If I had to choose only one on a punt then Id choose the sex.

I like CIM if its on offer but if I had to choose one or the other Id choose the sex.

Cum on boobs, body, face, etc I just dont get. It just a HJ. And after Id be thinking "oh good sorry! Eww its in your hair! let me grab a tissue! ahh the tissues falling apart..."

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It's becoming relatively rare for me to ejaculate inside the pussy - various reasons: age, fitness, laziness... I'm perfectly happy for it to be like that, were it not for the voice of some unidentified super-ego (male? female?) whispering to me that there is some mark I am failing to come up to.

Do chaps feel they're failing in some way if they don't come inside? (Smiths obviously not, but then he's enviably free of self-doubt all down the line.) And do girls feel cheated or that their punter is only half a man? Or doesn't it matter as long as the bugger chucks his muck?

Not at all cheated, as long as the man goes away happy I'm happy.

On a personal level I quite like to see a man ejaculate so them asking to come other than inside me (in condom obvs) then that's very cool with me!

And trust me Mr Bloom it's really common (in my experience) for a guy not to come in the condom in the pussy so really don't feel you're failing in any way.

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I very rarely cum during sex as no matter how thin the condom is the lack of tactile sensation means that I struggle to climax. So my favourite way to be brought to orgasm by a WG is OWO to completion as there's nothing more pleasurable (in my experience) than a lady who continues the oral stimulation during and after CIM :)

If that is not available then a facial or COB is the next best thing imho as I love when a lady talks dirty whilst enthusiastically glazing her gorgeous face or beautiful breasts with my spunk.

Virtually never inside the WG through my choice, not noticed WGs generally having a problem with me coming in them on the rare occassion or from seeing others including huge fat lardarses like myself at parties doing the same. I come over her body on the agreed spot be it tits, arse, stomach or face and if offering Cim in her mouth perhaps for a snowball and if offering swallow for her to swallow it. Options aplenty. Definitely no unwritten rule about it.:)

Is cum on arse a specialist service or one that most WGs are happy to offer if asked? As it's not something that any WG has asked me to do yet but I can can think of a couple of ladies' peachy bottoms I would love to see coated with my jism...

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I very rarely cum during sex as no matter how thin the condom is the lack of tactile sensation means that I struggle to climax. So my favourite way to be brought to orgasm by a WG is OWO to completion as there's nothing more pleasurable (in my experience) than a lady who continues the oral stimulation during and after CIM :)

If that is not available then a facial or COB is the next best thing imho as I love when a lady talks dirty whilst enthusiastically glazing her gorgeous face or beautiful breasts with my spunk.

Is cum on arse a specialist service or one that most WGs are happy to offer if asked? As it's not something that any WG has asked me to do yet but I can can think of a couple of ladies' peachy bottoms I would love to see coated with my jism...

I love CIM myself but its not essential to me, the fabulous Cute Ann was excellent at it. Talking dirty is always a great bonus as long as its done without embarrassment in my experience. COA (I made that up :D ) is something i have wanted to do on occassion but i always agree this beforehand and rarely a WG has asked me to shoot it on her arse and as its impolite to refuse i did so very enthusiastically. ;):D

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pervy discussion...

I'm rather traditional : Inside (With!)

the way nature intended it.

I can apprecaite good O(WO) as foreplay, but it isnt the end-game for me.

Boobs: are for other purposes, visual and tactile.

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I love CIM myself but its not essential to me, the fabulous Cute Ann was excellent at it. Talking dirty is always a great bonus as long as its done without embarrassment in my experience. COA (I made that up :D ) is something i have wanted to do on occassion but i always agree this beforehand and rarely a WG has asked me to shoot it on her arse and as its impolite to refuse i did so very enthusiastically. ;):D

Yeah it is all about the enthusiasm and what the WG is comfortable doing. As when the CIM is half-hearted with the WG merely hovering her mouth over my cock as I climax then might as well not bother imho.

A reluctant facial gives me no satisfaction either but when a lady demands that I give her a facial then gives me a vigorous HJ and smiles as I cum in her face it's beautiful B)

I'll have to ask about COA service next time I'm punting with one of my favourites, I imagine that one must be careful with one' aim to make sure the spunk doesn't end up dripping onto the front bottom though?!

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I very rarely cum during sex as no matter how thin the condom is the lack of tactile sensation means that I struggle to climax. So my favourite way to be brought to orgasm by a WG is OWO to completion as there's nothing more pleasurable (in my experience) than a lady who continues the oral stimulation during and after CIM :)

My exact thoughts and experience too. A CIM as you describe is almost as satisfying sensation-wise as cumming uncovered inside a girl (as in a LTR, not a WG).

I've only cum in a condom 3 times in recent experience: with a really tight little Romanian Soho walk-up girl, with a pretty Polish girl whose beautiful eyes danced around tantalisingly as I stroked her deeply and with a young mixed-race girl in MK who seemed to squeeze me dry with her pelvic floor muscles, all within about 10 minutes, still not sure quite how it happened!! :unsure:

The common denominators were that they were tight, I was really turned on by their looks/demeanour and achingly ready for it and I went for the climax full-on without interruption with only minimal foreplay, shame as I don't like being a selfish lover, although the girls did seem quite happy with such a quick result!! ;)

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This is a brilliant thread! I have always wanted to cum over a girls tits or on her face but been too afraid to ask.

I find it difficult to cum inside a girl and feel inadequate as a result. Finding the info here (esp from the girls) very helpful at busting this myth.

One additional question, just been to my 1st party (LMP). Is it still on in these situations to ask to cum on tits/face? I was dying to but worried about asking for something that would be frowned on.

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My favourite is OWO with a CIM finish.

Second favourite would be cumming inside her pussy (with condom).

I don't quite understand the COB/COF thing: it strikes me as maybe being something that guys do (and ladies think that guys want to do) because they've seen it in porn movies, and the reason it's done in those movies is a throwback to early porn when it was done to "prove" that the sex was real.

Also, to me, unloading over a woman's face seems somewhat disrespectful. I agree that may seem strange from someone who'll (very) happily ejaculate inside the same lady's mouth, but we're complicated people aren't we? :blink:

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This is a brilliant thread! I have always wanted to cum over a girls tits or on her face but been too afraid to ask.

I find it difficult to cum inside a girl and feel inadequate as a result. Finding the info here (esp from the girls) very helpful at busting this myth.

One additional question, just been to my 1st party (LMP). Is it still on in these situations to ask to cum on tits/face? I was dying to but worried about asking for something that would be frowned on.

I have cum over WGs tits at LMP but facials are a no no as it would mean re-applying make-up which takes time which would mean other punters losing out so i have been told. Always confirm it with the WG first is my advice. :)

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