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What Makes You Turned On By A Wg And What Doesn't?

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In my case, what makes it tick is no doubt a combination of 1) confidence (not to be confused with rudeness or arrogance) combined with a reasonably sharp intellect 2) hot looks and 3) great attitude and willingness to have fun, i.e. her being prone to experiment within reasonable limits. The girl should also be able to handle building up the tension mentally.

Big turn-offs are 1) bad attitude 2) stupidity 3) in case of non English WG's, poor or non-existent English skills and obviously 4) bad looks - it's amazing what some agencies try pulling on their clients when they think there's an opening to get away with it.

On a side note, anyone who hasn't tried out a two-girl encounter is missing out big-time!

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In my case, what makes it tick is no doubt a combination of 1) confidence (not to be confused with rudeness or arrogance) combined with a reasonably sharp intellect 2) hot looks and 3) great attitude and willingness to have fun, i.e. her being prone to experiment within reasonable limits. The girl should also be able to handle building up the tension mentally.

Big turn-offs are 1) bad attitude 2) stupidity 3) in case of non English WG's, poor or non-existent English skills and obviously 4) bad looks - it's amazing what some agencies try pulling on their clients when they think there's an opening to get away with it.

On a side note, anyone who hasn't tried out a two-girl encounter is missing out big-time!

Welcome to the forum. :) Fancying her look initially, then crucially and most importantly her attitude, if seemingly friendly, enthusiastic and warm it could be punt on if she also offers the services i require at a price i am prepared to pay. If out-going all the better.

Turn-offs, coldness and unfriendliness and lying to me about something that affects the punt, both instant passion killers. :)

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Clean, well dressed and happy girls do it for me.

Can't stand them if they look as though they are not enjoying the job.

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Fantastic looks are no guarantee of being turned on if accompanied by a poor attitude, lack of engagement and warmth, being very mechanical and so on.

For me, I really get turned on by a relaxed personality, sense of humour, nice smile, decent looks, well presented and generally being very engaged with me. In a very literal sense, I think you can tell a lot simply by the way a WG touches you. As for sepcific services, I love DFK and OWO.

That elusive 'chemistry' is something that also significantly contributes towards being turned on. Sometimes it can happen when you least expect it.

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Fantastic looks are no guarantee of being turned on if accompanied by a poor attitude, lack of engagement and warmth, being very mechanical and so on.

For me, I really get turned on by a relaxed personality, sense of humour, nice smile, decent looks, well presented and generally being very engaged with me. In a very literal sense, I think you can tell a lot simply by the way a WG touches you. As for sepcific services, I love DFK and OWO.

That elusive 'chemistry' is something that also significantly contributes towards being turned on. Sometimes it can happen when you least expect it.

Totally agree. Just back from Prague, where I went to Showpark, and chose a stunning looking girl who, once the money was handed over, went from friendly to frosty in two seconds. No touching pussy, no kissing at all (lips, pussy or breasts). I would say she might as well have been a blow up doll, but a blow up doll would not have told me 'come now' ten minutes into a supposed half hour session.

We are so lucky to live in the UK (and I'm particularly blessed to be in MK)

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Fantastic looks are no guarantee of being turned on if accompanied by a poor attitude, lack of engagement and warmth, being very mechanical and so on.

For me, I really get turned on by a relaxed personality, sense of humour, nice smile, decent looks, well presented and generally being very engaged with me. In a very literal sense, I think you can tell a lot simply by the way a WG touches you. As for sepcific services, I love DFK and OWO.

That elusive 'chemistry' is something that also significantly contributes towards being turned on. Sometimes it can happen when you least expect it.

Chemistry - funny thing. Great example for me was on Friday at Lady Marmalade's when I was having a rest. Jasmine joined me to talk about her home country of Brazil and as we spoke she gently played with me, in an absent minded sort of way. Was just amazing, lying there in a room full of humping bodies, having a thoughtful conversation about Brazil with a naked girl, gently wanking me off...

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Chemistry, attitude and looks last, although I have to physically fancy a lady too. What really works though, is the magic moment when she rolls over and says not to bother about the money as the sex was sooooooooooooooo good. Only happened once (but it wasn't on account of the sex...........................)

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Chemistry - funny thing. Great example for me was on Friday at Lady Marmalade's when I was having a rest. Jasmine joined me to talk about her home country of Brazil and as we spoke she gently played with me, in an absent minded sort of way. Was just amazing, lying there in a room full of humping bodies, having a thoughtful conversation about Brazil with a naked girl, gently wanking me off...

100% agree monkmarvey. Almost the same thing happened to me at my last LMP visit except the lady concerned was Monika from the Czech Republic (I think). I'd had my eye on her all party, but she and I were always busy with other partners. With about 20 mins to go, we found ourselve alone in the smallest bedroom and despite the fact that I was spent, she spent the last 20 mins with me just chatting and playing gently with my tackle. She was really, really pleasant company and I am still kicking myself for not asking if she did 1-2-1s. I've had some rotten experiences with EE girls, but Monika has reinvigorated my faith in them completely.

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The one word ATTITUDE says it all.

I agree entirely. I like the lady to look as though she is enjoying herself & is prepared to spend a few minutes chatting, particularly if it is my first visit. The lady I am seeing fairly regularly (from the site we mustn't mention) always sits down on her couch with me for a chat when we catch up with what has been going on in our respective lives. She NEVER treats this as part of my time which only commences when we enter her bedroom. Even then she never clock watches & I invariably run over my time & have to remind her that I have done so. Unfortunately she is apparently on the "no reports" list as I discovered when I tried to submit a P.N. report on her.

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What makes a good salesperson? What about the last one that you bought, say, a car off?

Most high roller sales people are in it for the money and make a lot if it. But the good ones are not only in it for the money. They know the best way to secure the sale AND get repeat business AND make a good and lasting reputation for themselves is to forget about the money while they're talking to you. They put your needs first, suss them out diligently, and then see how their product or services can satisfy those needs and put an enormous bl**dy smile on your face.

:-)

Top sales people have skills and take a pride in their professionalism and appearance. But they genuinely enjoy their work and care about their customers cos that's what they enjoy doing and that also happens to be - when done correctly - how they earn a shedload. They need to be on time and attentive. They have to make the customer feel good about the purchase.

Bad salespeople do the opposite. It micht be their personal appearance or the spinach between their teeth. It might be a lack of skillsets in matching your needs to the benefits they have on offer (bad salespeople try to sell what they've got and expect you to want it - good salespeople live people enough to find out what the customer really wants first).

Now if the good salesperson definitely sn't able to offer the services I require, or at the price I want, she will find out quickly and save us both the time sns embarrassment. I might go elsewhere, but I might be impressed enough with her attitude to recommend her to a friend that wants what she offers.

So I think a checklist doesn't get to the root of it. Whether by experience or natural talent a WG has to be good at her job. If there are plenty of choices in the market, I might narrow it down more than when there are not - I'm the buyer after all! But if she is good, really good, at her job, then she'll still have lots of satisfied customers for twenty years or more. Even if she's not that pretty! If you're born with model looks or a dad who owns a sports car factory you might make a quick buck - but unless you get good fast that's all it will be - quick. (Unless, of course, she finds enough suckers - I forget that - Xaviera Hollander didn't do too bad for herself and I would be bored after two minutes - well say two and a half - of sha*ging her.)

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Huge turn ons for me are :

1. The 'right' touch - this is subjective as right for me wont be right for everyone - an undefinable quality that probably has more to do with 'physical chemistry' than anything else - with a single touch some girls have me tingling and instantly 'on the rise', others I'm like....meh

2. A soft femininity, soft voice, soft silky skin, soft touch, sweetness, right from the start in the way she gently leads you into her room by hand

3. Genuinely horny - she gets obviously physically turned on and appears to enjoy the session just as much as you do

4. Being skilled in the 'art' and knowing her way around your body

5. Eye contact - bold and unafraid to maintain this extra level of intimacy

6. A petite and youthful, curvy yet tight body

7. Uninhibited and confident of her body and in her own sexuality

8. Uninhibited kisser - a rarity this one - only ever come across 2 wgs who fit this description

I've been lucky enough to spend time with 3 wgs in my time who fit all 8 of these descriptions and who I had firmly in mind when writing this list

Turn offs:

Unsmiling/fake smiling, impatient, cold, distant, uninterested wgs who luckily usually very quickly display all the signals that make you walk before you even get close to handing over any cash.

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being bi for pay. What turns me on is feeling the escort wants to be with another woman as much as I want to be there

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accomodating and good attitude are always good. cleanliness and safe location make me feel better too

its annoying when they dont really know what to do until you tell them

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oh and you can usually tell if they are gonna be good by the way they kiss

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Huge turn ons for me are :

1. The 'right' touch - this is subjective as right for me wont be right for everyone - an undefinable quality that probably has more to do with 'physical chemistry' than anything else - with a single touch some girls have me tingling and instantly 'on the rise', others I'm like....meh

2. A soft femininity, soft voice, soft silky skin, soft touch, sweetness, right from the start in the way she gently leads you into her room by hand

3. Genuinely horny - she gets obviously physically turned on and appears to enjoy the session just as much as you do

4. Being skilled in the 'art' and knowing her way around your body

5. Eye contact - bold and unafraid to maintain this extra level of intimacy

6. A petite and youthful, curvy yet tight body

7. Uninhibited and confident of her body and in her own sexuality

8. Uninhibited kisser - a rarity this one - only ever come across 2 wgs who fit this description

I've been lucky enough to spend time with 3 wgs in my time who fit all 8 of these descriptions and who I had firmly in mind when writing this list

Turn offs:

Unsmiling/fake smiling, impatient, cold, distant, uninterested wgs who luckily usually very quickly display all the signals that make you walk before you even get close to handing over any cash.

Agree entirely but you missed price - not overpriced, nor underpriced to make you think she's either a street girl moving up market. I also hate the 'add ons' for kissing, CIM, anal, etc. A big turnoff IMHO.

I also prefer a girl who, when you meet, reflect the profile completely, and it wasnt a pack of lies.

I've said it before and it's worth reiterating, that even this is a buying and selling business, there are many, many girls who have no idea how to promote themselves to make the best impact, instead relying on a profile with typos and grammar errors, lacking on important detail and use poor quality postage stamp photos. They'd never cut it on The Apprentice.........

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Being gentle, sensuous, slow and giving the impression she is into me are my turn-ons...

Turn-offs, touching my anus or trying to do anything with my nipples...but also anything too frantic or full-on, certainly nothing aggressive or violent!

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In my case, what makes it tick is no doubt a combination of 1) confidence (not to be confused with rudeness or arrogance) combined with a reasonably sharp intellect 2) hot looks and 3) great attitude and willingness to have fun, i.e. her being prone to experiment within reasonable limits. The girl should also be able to handle building up the tension mentally.

Big turn-offs are 1) bad attitude 2) stupidity 3) in case of non English WG's, poor or non-existent English skills and obviously 4) bad looks - it's amazing what some agencies try pulling on their clients when they think there's an opening to get away with it.

On a side note, anyone who hasn't tried out a two-girl encounter is missing out big-time!

Ok... so now I have you turned on... what happens now ?

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Kindness is a turn on for me. I still can fondly remember a couple of ladies from over the years who had a kind of sincere kindness, a gentle honest concern. As a teenager I was insecure in my looks, and girls my age seemed like they could be so bitchy. I now realise that I probably try to avoid confrontation, and I definitely don't like bitchy types, and you'd be surprised how many working girls I've met who came accross as bitchy and controlling. Perhaps they thought they were just imbued with confidence, as so many ladies have said that becoming a WG does wonders for your confidence. I think that's great, but you don't have to become a bitch surely?

I realise there's a niche market for this kind of treatment in masochism, but it's not for me. The ladies who treated me kindly will always be remembered. And before you say it, aaaw diddums! There I've said it! :lol:

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Energetic and fun. The girl acting like she wants you there and wants to be there. Laughing at your jokes no matter how bad.

There is nothing worse than being in a room with someone who its clear she does not really want to be doing this as you feel right awkward.

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Biggest Turn on is when they seem actually horny, and not just asking me what service i would like next.

Also like it when the girl is not afraid to tell me what she likes.

Was with a WG who after CIM, smiled and said "now its my turn" before pushing my head between her legs. After about ten minutes, i went up for a bit of a break and a kiss, and she almost shouted at me, and told me to carry on! It genuinely felt like she was enjoying it and wanted me there, rather than just wanting to provide a service and get paid.

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any girl that starts the punt with that bored look in her eyes, sticks her gum under the chair and says "how do you want me?"

led to the shower, undressed, big smile, bigger kiss - you know you're then on to a winner!

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Turns ons are are a sweet feminine smell.

Good oral skills

One of my best shags has been with a girl who did escorting every now and then as she had a retail day job in Topshop if you see the types of lovelies that work in Topshop you'll know how happy i was. Something really turned me on about this and she was as horny as hell, very petite and at the end after riding me ragged. Swallowed my load without me even asking.

She's off the radar at the moment which is a shame.

Turn offs ladies smelling of cig smoke. Nothing will turn me off quicker than if i can smell or even worst taste the remnants of smoke mixed with toothpaste. It's vile.

All day shaggers:Basically women who have been in a flat all day shagging and display a half assed attitude when you meet. Once met a women in central London who told me that she could only do half an hour as she had another client right after me. Seeing as it was her fault as she was the one who pushed back the booking as she had to pop out of her flat. I declined the half hour booking and walked especially wise when she said i was going to be her 9th client of the day. :o

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Personality, attitude, smiles. Smell. Fishnets. DFK. Enjoying what she is doing.

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Generally it's how she looks on the first instance, her face and then body,

If she is kind hearted, friendly, open minded / has a kinky nature and a generally an up beat bubbly personality with a down to earth character trait then that seals the deal for me... and I find this a huge turn on

I tend to find ladies from the North "North West" in their late 30's to 40's, working class or not the biggest turn on for me, I just find them so utterly irresistible, the profiles and field reports I have read leads me to believe they have a no nonsense, direct salt of the earth attitude... combined with their down to earth nature, and that's another huge turn on for me.

I wish those wonderful ladies would tour the Midlands more often... I would be over the moon if any of them were to come to Northampton, where the is no sigh of punting or ladies at all round here... extremely slim pickings :(

Sarah Summers by any chance lol.... xoxo

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