Guest Cedric

Girls Avoiding African Punters On Other Site...

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Apologies for being naive, but i was trawling through the other site, and noticed on many ads the following form of words on many ads:

"please note i am ok to see guys of all races with the exception of men of african orign / heritage. i m not ok to see men of african origin as have had some really bad experiences here in london. i am not a racist but not my type. all others are welcome . I am OK to See Indian(all asian) , White , Asian , Oriental , Arabic "

I am not african, and find the idea of being rejected as a generalization quite suprising, but i dont know what "bad experiences" would mean?

That said, i completly agree a girl has the right who to see etc, and it is her body.....

thoughts?

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Apologies for being naive, but i was trawling through the other site, and noticed on many ads the following form of words on many ads:

"please note i am ok to see guys of all races with the exception of men of african orign / heritage. i m not ok to see men of african origin as have had some really bad experiences here in london. i am not a racist but not my type. all others are welcome . I am OK to See Indian(all asian) , White , Asian , Oriental , Arabic "

I am not african, and find the idea of being rejected as a generalization quite suprising, but i dont know what "bad experiences" would mean?

That said, i completly agree a girl has the right who to see etc, and it is her body.....

thoughts?

In the words of the bowl of petunias, 'Oh no not again'.

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In the words of the bowl of petunias, 'Oh no not again'.

Seconded

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In the words of the bowl of petunias, 'Oh no not again'.

:lol:

To the OP, this one's officially not due again until the 19th.

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+ 3.

Do we really need another one of these?

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+ 3.

Do we really need another one of these?

my apologies, didnt realise it was a common query

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my apologies, didnt realise it was a common query

Unfortunately yes. It always ends in overheated debate. If you do a quick search and as someone else pointed our in their reply, there are other threads on the subject you can browse. Xx

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I'll just paste my thoughts on this from the other thread a few weeks ago.

TBH it's just lazy copy and pasting in a lot of cases i mean how many times have people on the purple site seen this classic quote.
please note i am ok to see guys of all races with the exception of men of african orign / heritage. i m not ok to see men of african origin as have had some really bad experiences here in london. i am not a racist but not my type. all others are welcome . I am OK to See Indian(all asian) , White , Asian , Oriental , Arabic

It's amazing that all these ladies some of them 'new in the UK' have already had "bad experiences" with only black guys, I don't know what that says about their judgement? or seemingly lack of it. Though i believe because most of their profile is copied and pasted anyway they haven't actually had any contact with black guys.

I'm sure many ladies on here know when they speak to someone on the phone they'll know whether they'll take the booking or not. And that's before they know the callers ethnicity.

As a test i should ring up one of these woman have a good conversation and get along and then i tell her i'm black. Will she suddenly say she won't see me as she may have a bad experience? Despite a minute ago being up to meet, that's what makes this whole thing so silly.

I understand that for some people race and punting is a very touchy subject it shouldn't be though.

i just wish people would have the character and honesty and just say they don't want to get intimate with a black male. I would actually respect that openness. Instead we have silly excuses as they must know that to be so blatantly racist would be off putting to a lot of their preferred punters.

I once had a great punt over near embankment with a girl who shared her flat with two other ladies she was from poland afterwards we got talking about life in london. I was the second black guy she had seen since she'd been over here and we got talking about her flatmate who refused to see black men again with all the usual reasons. The lady told me they'd talked about this and her flatmate felt that white guys were one thing but if she allowed a black man inside her she would feel completely and utterly degraded as she saw black males as lower.

I would imagine that kind of thinking is sadly not exclusive to her...

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In the words of the bowl of petunias, 'Oh no not again'.

:lol: Yes, it must be all of 24 hours since we last had this discussion.

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:lol: Yes, it must be all of 24 hours since we last had this discussion.

I blame Echoplex meself :)

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:lol: Yes, it must be all of 24 hours since we last had this discussion.

+8 (by about now)... ;)

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I've never seen this debated on here before,I'm not of African descent but I'd find interesting to see peoples reasons and opinions since it is not uncommon to see this notice on the pages of escorts on the other site.

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I've never seen this debated on here before,I'm not of African descent but I'd find interesting to see peoples reasons and opinions since it is not uncommon to see this notice on the pages of escorts on the other site.

There have been at least two recent threads on this subject on here Ace.

My opinion is a WG must ALWAYS in every and any circumstance have free choice who she wants to punt with. On the purple site it sometimes says she isnt racist when excluding whole races of people. Its racist if you exclude a whole race because of the actions of other people of that race as it fails to view each person as what they are, an individual unique human being. However, if i were a WG who had been attacked i daresay i would do all i could to limit the risks as i viewed them. Ultimately its not something that has a solution, a WG goes on what she feels safer doing and quite right to in my view. :)

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