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Wanting To Give Up

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i am wanting to give up seeing escorts as i want to concentrate on getting a real girlfriend and having something i have never really had and that is a relationship. however i find it really hard, to stop as the escorts i do see now are good and we click in that way but i want to find a girlfriend so i am in weird situation,

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Contrary to popular belief, you can have your cake and eat it..... Do both, it's not has hard as it sounds....

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i am wanting to give up seeing escorts as i want to concentrate on getting a real girlfriend and having something i have never really had and that is a relationship. however i find it really hard, to stop as the escorts i do see now are good and we click in that way but i want to find a girlfriend so i am in weird situation,

Only you can stop seeing WGs and concentrate on finding a girlfriend, i dont think your in that weird a situation, i have read the same scenario on here many times. My advice is to get out and about on the pull and see what happens, you might be lucky and find the one and believe me punting at least for a while will pale into insignificence if you find love. It doesnt last in my experience but thats me, you might be different. I wish you luck. :)

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You don't tell us much about you but I bet you find yourself in chat up situations from time to time. Why not join a club, go to an evening class, learn a language, join a choir or orchestra, take up a new hobby, join a church, attend local meetings, take up ballroom dancing.

All of the above, and more will bring you socially into contact with like minded people, around half of which may well be female.

Try joining a dating site on line is also a good tip.

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Only you can stop seeing WGs and concentrate on finding a girlfriend, i dont think your in that weird a situation, i have read the same scenario on here many times. My advice is to get out and about on the pull and see what happens, you might be lucky and find the one and believe me punting at least for a while will pale into insignificence if you find love. It doesnt last in my experience but thats me, you might be different. I wish you luck. :)

My experience exactly Smiths. Everything is o.k. for the first 7 or so years but, after that, it all goes pear shape. In my case my wife and I don't even sleep in the same bedroom & sex has been non existent for about 25 odd years. I am quite sure that there are many of us out there who are in similar circumstances. Three cheers for you Ladies.

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