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Wanking Before A Punt

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I remember years ago when I was a young stud (yeh right.. haha) that, whenever possible, I always tried to have a wank shortly before a punting appointment just so that I would not ejaculate too soon during the actual meeting. Bear in mind that I tended to go for 30 minute sauna / massage punts in those days so cumming twice was not always an option.

Oh, how times have changed! I now find, in my mid-fifties, that I try to abstain from any sexual activity 24/48 hours prior to a meeting just so that I have got enough juice in the tank and I am able to perform as I would like.

I just wondered if you younger (or older) guys do anything to avoid cumming too soon or if other punters, like me, have noticed how the 'sands of time' effect your pre-punt sexual activity?

Just as a footnote I have to say that although I do not cum as frequently as I used to punting is far more enjoyable these days because I realise that good sex is not all about cumming and my own gratification and secondly I tend to go for longer quality meetings where, again, the emphasis is not all about the cum shot.

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Totally recognise what you are saying - me too late 50s still enjoy the thrill of the punt but what I find now if I do a self release before an appt I tend to be satisfied and then dont want/need appt !!

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I remember years ago when I was a young stud (yeh right.. haha) that, whenever possible, I always tried to have a wank shortly before a punting appointment just so that I would not ejaculate too soon during the actual meeting. Bear in mind that I tended to go for 30 minute sauna / massage punts in those days so cumming twice was not always an option.

Oh, how times have changed! I now find, in my mid-fifties, that I try to abstain from any sexual activity 24/48 hours prior to a meeting just so that I have got enough juice in the tank and I am able to perform as I would like.

I just wondered if you younger (or older) guys do anything to avoid cumming too soon or if other punters, like me, have noticed how the 'sands of time' effect your pre-punt sexual activity?

Just as a footnote I have to say that although I do not cum as frequently as I used to punting is far more enjoyable these days because I realise that good sex is not all about cumming and my own gratification and secondly I tend to go for longer quality meetings where, again, the emphasis is not all about the cum shot.

Fortunately i can control so decide when i pop, i never cum too quickly. I dont change my normal wanking routines due to having a punt coming up. The biggest difference age has made on this with me is the amount of my spunk produced is far less from the second pop onwards than in my youth and 20s-30s so its a game of ever diminuising returns nowadays but such is life and i dont worry about it. :)

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I remember years ago when I was a young stud (yeh right.. haha) that, whenever possible, I always tried to have a wank shortly before a punting appointment just so that I would not ejaculate too soon during the actual meeting. Bear in mind that I tended to go for 30 minute sauna / massage punts in those days so cumming twice was not always an option.

Oh, how times have changed! I now find, in my mid-fifties, that I try to abstain from any sexual activity 24/48 hours prior to a meeting just so that I have got enough juice in the tank and I am able to perform as I would like.

I just wondered if you younger (or older) guys do anything to avoid cumming too soon or if other punters, like me, have noticed how the 'sands of time' effect your pre-punt sexual activity?

Just as a footnote I have to say that although I do not cum as frequently as I used to punting is far more enjoyable these days because I realise that good sex is not all about cumming and my own gratification and secondly I tend to go for longer quality meetings where, again, the emphasis is not all about the cum shot.

You talk in strange tongues Brother BOF.

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when i was younger I used parlours and one particular girl who I saw frequently, always told me have a wank before, as I came to quick, which I did :o like previously said by Balls of Fire, at least it made it last for the time I needed and was more enjoyable, things are very different now keep it undisturbed for at least a week (lol)

I am sure I enjoy the time with the lady now and it certainly is not an issue if I dont cum or have full sex, the mutual playing is forte now.

plus no second go it was as they say now on quickies (Cum and Go )

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You talk in strange tongues Brother BOF.

Well that's what I try to convince myself of these days. You obviously saw straight through the bullshit!! ..haha

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In my mid 60's now and I certainly refrain from wanking before a punt. The reason I so refrain is that I like to pay the lady the compliment of being able to deliver a bit of a cum towards the end of the appointment just to reassure her that I've really enjoyed myself (which I inevitably have having researched the matter well beforehand and I like to leave feeling satisfied).

It's strange really. I could easily just watch a bit of porn and wank myself to get the 'release'. But to do the same having given the lady a bit of a seeing to is far more rewarding I find plus I genuinely enjoy their company.

Uncle Pokey

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Totally recognise what you are saying - me too late 50s still enjoy the thrill of the punt but what I find now if I do a self release before an appt I tend to be satisfied and then dont want/need appt !!

my sentiments exactly !!

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my sentiments exactly !!

..and its so much cheaper too.........

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plus you can pretend ur with anbody really getting fedup of Abi Titmus now and as for Girls Aloud well..............

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Totally recognise what you are saying - me too late 50s still enjoy the thrill of the punt but what I find now if I do a self release before an appt I tend to be satisfied and then dont want/need appt !!

Now there is a great way to save 100 quid.

Yes I have done the same - ended up cancelling.

Consequently I do not wank pre-punt as I would not bother with the punt.

I deal with PE by telling girl I have a sensitive trigger - and fucking right at the end in the last minute.

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I remember years ago when I was a young stud (yeh right.. haha) that, whenever possible, I always tried to have a wank shortly before a punting appointment just so that I would not ejaculate too soon during the actual meeting. Bear in mind that I tended to go for 30 minute sauna / massage punts in those days so cumming twice was not always an option.

Oh, how times have changed! I now find, in my mid-fifties, that I try to abstain from any sexual activity 24/48 hours prior to a meeting just so that I have got enough juice in the tank and I am able to perform as I would like.

I just wondered if you younger (or older) guys do anything to avoid cumming too soon or if other punters, like me, have noticed how the 'sands of time' effect your pre-punt sexual activity?

Just as a footnote I have to say that although I do not cum as frequently as I used to punting is far more enjoyable these days because I realise that good sex is not all about cumming and my own gratification and secondly I tend to go for longer quality meetings where, again, the emphasis is not all about the cum shot.

I echo your sentiments entirely.

At 15, 15 minutes was the recovery time. Now the recovery time is measured in hours, maybe days.

I remember waiting for my secretary to join me. She was a really horny lady and I really wanted to last a while so did the necessary before she arrived at the location. That was 30 years ago. She was worth the wait.

Now it is the quality of the meeting that matters. I go for mutual enjoyability, as I think it is very self indulgent to whip it in, whip it out, and wipe it.

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The replies to my thread have been quite heartening. It seems that there are many mature gents out there who are in a similar situation to myself and have changed their punting habits and pre-punting activity accordingly.

Thank you all for your response.

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My one big fear before seeing an escort for the first time was premature ejaculation, thankfully it didn't happen. I did for a moment think I then wasn't going to be able to ejaculate, but again, thankfully not the case. I was also really worried I may cum and not produce a lot of (or any) semen (hell a dry one happens to us all I guess!).

I'm too in-experienced to know if I was just lucky or not, or if I should follow a routine, or if sex will make a difference. For me after I ejaculate I tend to lose a lot of desire for a while and so won't before visiting an escort. It will be interesting to test my powers of recovery one day in an hour appointment. ;-)

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1st time i saw this was there's something about mary and at that time i had no idea wtf he was doing or why he would do that. i wouldn't want to wank before a punt because i like to save it up for a day and then show em what i'm made of so to speak lol. More impressive then a little dribble of nothing.

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1st time i saw this was there's something about mary and at that time i had no idea wtf he was doing or why he would do that. i wouldn't want to wank before a punt because i like to save it up for a day and then show em what i'm made of so to speak lol. More impressive then a little dribble of nothing.

"Cleaning the pipes", they called it... :lol:

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