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Sarah Summers

Another Golden Rule

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is that of discretion.

When my punter pays me, he pays for my discretion. This to me, means I do not email him unless it has been previously agreed that this can be done in relation to some topic we are discussing, and the emails go back and forth (as they sometimes do when you talk a lot) I never call him, or text him unless again - this has been previously agreed that it can be safe to do so. I would only text if we were meeting and I was going to be late, and only on 'that' day near to 'that' time.....

I don't talk about him to anyone else unless I have introduced him to another working girl and there is a friendship of sorts that he is privy to.

I don't acknowledge him in the street unless he says 'hello' first and I am alone.

I don't 'blanket' email ( don't know how anyways:)

I think/hope I take the discretion thing to it's limit. One day I was shopping in the supermarket when I saw a regular client in there with his children. I felt so bad that I left the place. I do not punt his family you see :)

In any aspect of this business, I will be discreet unless it is a given by all parties involved that some conversation can take place.

When he pays me for my discretion he also has to abide by those rules too. I value my privacy far more than I value his. I resent being told things by people I meet in this industry things about me that they have heard 'third or fourth or more hand' I also resent deeply being informed that a client I had seen had told someone else by PM something I did for him at my discretion. Stuff like this annoys me.

I think I have covered it. Can anyone think of more?

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Very interesting. I guess a lot of guys don't realise that the "discretion" thing works both ways. I would never dream of acknowledging a WG if I saw her in public. I would expect nothing less, or more, from her. I have only once been accosted and it was far from discreet. I was very angry.

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I was a bit offended once when a WG friend of mine told me how a client she had seen told her in great detail what he and I did together. It didn't really matter in a way, but in another it felt like a breach of confidence. I wouldn't dream of giving her the intimate details of what I had done with him.

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I was a bit offended once when a WG friend of mine told me how a client she had seen told her in great detail what he and I did together. It didn't really matter in a way, but in another it felt like a breach of confidence. I wouldn't dream of giving her the intimate details of what I had done with him.

I take it that this is ELG?? Much prefer your new handle :)

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I take it that this is ELG?? Much prefer your new handle :)

Yes, is me! Was in chatroom earlier and asking everyone to call me Lydia not ELG and someone suggested I ask Galahad to change it and he popped up and did it! Took like 3 seconds!

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I've heard things third or even 4th hand not only about other girls, but also about other 'punters'. Things have also gotten back to me when clients or other ladies have gossiped about myself, whether it be factual or not which isn't the point because in both these scenarios I'm referring to what would be considered personal information.

People just don't see the harm for some reason, and it means you have to be so careful what you do say and who you do trust - which is a real pity.

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I take it that this is ELG?? Much prefer your new handle :)

I wrote a very frank and detailed FR for here and elsewhere for one lady whose mother also happened to be a working lady. I asked the former is her Mother would mind? Not at all, she said.

In the event, I didn't publish the FR, but I know that they compared notes with them each reading each others FRs

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Sometimes this forum reads like the mossad guide to going undercover. Anyway I am relaxed about girls saying hello in the street, and not offended if they suddenly find their mobile phone interesting if they see me coming on the pavement. I understand how hurtful some gossip may be, but in real life and in the parlour, we all gossip about previous experiences. As a punter, I know the girls talk about me, and no doubt I have a nickname, as long as its not cauliflower cock, I can live with that. Through listening to parlour gossip, I know which girls to choose, and which to avoid. By the same token, some girls know to hide in the kitchen, when certain clients appear. Gossip is how management knows its time to move on certain girls, though they often take a long time to do that.

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getting more back to the OP ;) I once called a WG for info and a possible booking - don't think I ever actually booked her - and she obviuosly kept all numbers and occasionally did a text to everyone with special offers etc ...... I did think that was extremely risky and naughty :angry:

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OP, why on earth did you leave the location just because he was there with his family?

You are correct, you dont punt with his family, but you were not punting with him then and they had no idea who you are, you were not deceiving them in any way by staying. You should not have felt that you should leave because if he felt uncomfortable in the same location as you he could have chosen to leave. You don't have to acknowledge each other.

I have seen clients only a few times out and about and you can tell we each know we have been spotted by the other but you just walk past them as if they are someone you have never met. It isnt being rude, its as you said, being discreet.

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I've heard things third or even 4th hand not only about other girls, but also about other 'punters'. Things have also gotten back to me when clients or other ladies have gossiped about myself, whether it be factual or not which isn't the point because in both these scenarios I'm referring to what would be considered personal information.

People just don't see the harm for some reason, and it means you have to be so careful what you do say and who you do trust - which is a real pity.

So have i countless times through the bush telegraph, as Pooter said people gossip, its human nature whether we like it or not. If your also a member here so known to posters and others reading the forum the gossip can be more intense in my experience. I treat it all with a pinch of salt myself. :)

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getting more back to the OP ;) I once called a WG for info and a possible booking - don't think I ever actually booked her - and she obviuosly kept all numbers and occasionally did a text to everyone with special offers etc ...... I did think that was extremely risky and naughty :angry:

Its totally out of order resulting in no future business from me. :)

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Sometimes this forum reads like the mossad guide to going undercover. Anyway I am relaxed about girls saying hello in the street, and not offended if they suddenly find their mobile phone interesting if they see me coming on the pavement. I understand how hurtful some gossip may be, but in real life and in the parlour, we all gossip about previous experiences. As a punter, I know the girls talk about me, and no doubt I have a nickname, as long as its not cauliflower cock, I can live with that. Through listening to parlour gossip, I know which girls to choose, and which to avoid. By the same token, some girls know to hide in the kitchen, when certain clients appear. Gossip is how management knows its time to move on certain girls, though they often take a long time to do that.

Being careful if you have something to lose is wise in my opinion. The outing of a poster on here sometime ago proved that, he gave far too much personal information out and with the malicious actions of a WG his family and employers found out. So the mossad guide to going undercover is a good guide to follow. :)

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Some WG's are real gossips and tell me and I assume other clients all sorts of this they shouldn't. My discetion is that I would never repeat what I had been told to anyone else.

With regards to getting emails, no problem, a text to my mobile is a different matter!

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OP, why on earth did you leave the location just because he was there with his family?

You are correct, you dont punt with his family, but you were not punting with him then and they had no idea who you are, you were not deceiving them in any way by staying. You should not have felt that you should leave because if he felt uncomfortable in the same location as you he could have chosen to leave. You don't have to acknowledge each other.

I have seen clients only a few times out and about and you can tell we each know we have been spotted by the other but you just walk past them as if they are someone you have never met. It isnt being rude, its as you said, being discreet.

It just felt wrong for me to be looking at them knowing what I do with their parent :) Not only that, this was a supermarket so I could have bumped into them. Rather than do that - I just left. He was okay about it - he had already seen me before I clocked them :)

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Some WG's are real gossips and tell me and I assume other clients all sorts of this they shouldn't. My discetion is that I would never repeat what I had been told to anyone else.

With regards to getting emails, no problem, a text to my mobile is a different matter!

Your certainly right there, some WGs certainly are real gossips, discretion goes out the window. :)

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I think gossip will always happen because we are all only human, girls and punters alike. So long as people are saying good things about each other its okay. I dont see anything wrong with a guy saying I saw so and so and she was fabulous and she told me you are too etc after all recommendations between punter's is probably what brings in a decent amount of business to agencie's, parlour's and indie's alike. There is a lot to be said for word of mouth.

What I dont like is when nasty lies are passed from person to person, I know that the person first hearing the gossip usually assumes it is the truth so then passes it on as such. This is not nice and is usually done to maliciously damage a girls business, and by that I mean girl's who are pissed off that their regular client booked a different girl for a change (so what, you dont own him), or are jealous of a girl who is busier (up your game then) and so on. Or from client to client because a girl wouldnt do something or didnt like being mishandled.

It is difficult though to sift the truth from the shite, who is ever to know what is the truth etc...thank god for pnet reports lol.x

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I think gossip will always happen because we are all only human, girls and punters alike. So long as people are saying good things about each other its okay. I dont see anything wrong with a guy saying I saw so and so and she was fabulous and she told me you are too etc after all recommendations between punter's is probably what brings in a decent amount of business to agencie's, parlour's and indie's alike. There is a lot to be said for word of mouth.

What I dont like is when nasty lies are passed from person to person, I know that the person first hearing the gossip usually assumes it is the truth so then passes it on as such. This is not nice and is usually done to maliciously damage a girls business, and by that I mean girl's who are pissed off that their regular client booked a different girl for a change (so what, you dont own him), or are jealous of a girl who is busier (up your game then) and so on. Or from client to client because a girl wouldnt do something or didnt like being mishandled.

It is difficult though to sift the truth from the shite, who is ever to know what is the truth etc...thank god for pnet reports lol.x

In my experience its most often the running down of other WGs that occurs rather than nice things being said and WGs are very vocal in this castigation of other WGs.

This getting the evils off a WG you initially booked and punted with then decided to punt with her colleague is something i have experienced in parlours and group flats many times, i punt with who i choose to, its her problem if she doesnt like it. Its a strange thing if you think about it, she is punting with any Tom, Dick or Hussein as its her job but gets the hump if a guy she knows is a punter decides to go elsewhere. Best to change her mindset in my view and understand punting is the shagging of who you wish when you wish. :)

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