MargaretF

Suggestions For Fr Etiquitte

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Just a suggestion...

If you see arrive at an appointment to find a woman who is:

-being exploited or abused by management

-has photographs that are physically misleading...

-tells you about a fatal illness/is emaciated/drugged out/depressed...

-has bruises/an injury/what looks like excessive discharge...

perhaps it would be advisable indicate as gently as possible (yes, I understand that this was a waste of your time and that you're horny) that you were expecting something else, leave the premises and leave a brief, informational response indicating that you would not recommend the provider?

Rather than proceeding with the booking and then go home and write an extended humorous review about it? [er...I don't really have issues laughing about rudeness...as this is controllable]

(sorry, not the norm... just saying.)

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My understanding of the FR rules is that you have to pay the WG before you writte a FR. I guess this is to prevent false, unfavourable, or malicious FR's.

Perhaps a Mod will give us some clarification.

However I do agree that it would be handy for there to be some way of warning about girls being abused , coerced, pimped, etc in the same way that there is a section for the ladies to report abusive clients.

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I recently wrote my first report and to be honest was fairly stuck on exactly how to structure it and the etiquette of it.

My main worry was whether I should be short and to the point, which wouldn't seem to offer that much information, or if I should give a longer account which may be of more help to the reader.

In the end I just wrote what felt right, but maybe a guide to report writing could be placed online, that is if one isn't already available?

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My understanding of the FR rules is that you have to pay the WG before you writte a FR. I guess this is to prevent false, unfavourable, or malicious FR's. Perhaps a Mod will give us some clarification. However I do agree that it would be handy for there to be some way of warning about girls being abused , coerced, pimped, etc in the same way that there is a section for the ladies to report abusive clients.

Money does have to change hands. I dont agree with this rule personally as it means a punter could in good faith travel so incur expense and time to the WGs premises to find her not answering her phone or door. Its happened to me and others on here, and you cant submit a FR naming and shaming them and warning other punters. I do appreciate those are the rules though of course. I would and indeed have posted about such experiences on here instead though not had a bad punt for a long time fortunately.

As to warning about Coerced, Abused or Trafficked women the advice on here is to ring Crimestoppers which i would do anoynmously, luckily never been necessary. A thread could also be posted up although i would seek Mod advice before doing so myself.:)

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I recently wrote my first report and to be honest was fairly stuck on exactly how to structure it and the etiquette of it.

My main worry was whether I should be short and to the point, which wouldn't seem to offer that much information, or if I should give a longer account which may be of more help to the reader.

In the end I just wrote what felt right, but maybe a guide to report writing could be placed online, that is if one isn't already available?

I've composed a few Field Reports (no idea whether anyone pays any attention to them!) in which I like to go into fairly vivid detail about the punts proceedings which is as much for own benefit to reminisce over as to try and help other punters decide whether to visit said WG.

Your FR on Lucy is quite lengthy but I certainly prefer for there to be too much detail than too little. As imho the FRs which consist merely of a 1 sentence summary and the immortal line "I won't go into details" are a waste of time.

Man Meat' reports are generally regarded as being some of the best to read as he manages to include a useful amount of detail in a few concise paragraphs whilst making the report an amusing read too.

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I've composed a few Field Reports (no idea whether anyone pays any attention to them!) in which I like to go into fairly vivid detail about the punts proceedings which is as much for own benefit to reminisce over as to try and help other punters decide whether to visit said WG.

Your FR on Lucy is quite lengthy but I certainly prefer for there to be too much detail than too little. As imho the FRs which consist merely of a 1 sentence summary and the immortal line "I won't go into details" are a waste of time.

Man Meat' reports are generally regarded as being some of the best to read as he manages to include a useful amount of detail in a few concise paragraphs whilst making the report an amusing read too.

I read your FRs. ;) Giving factual information like did the WG actually offer the services she advertises, did she look like her photos and was she friendly are what i look for. :)

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I read your FRs. ;) Giving factual information like did the WG actually offer the services she advertises, did she look like her photos and was she friendly are what i look for. :)

Cheers Smiths :cool: Your FRs aren't too bad a read either ;)

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Cheers Smiths :cool: Your FRs aren't too bad a read either ;)

Thats going back though, not much use now, many have been deleted since due to retirements and other reasons on the WGs part. :)

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Thats going back though, not much use now, many have been deleted since due to retirements and other reasons on the WGs part. :)

I've only had 1 FR removed due to a WG retiring but about a quarter of my reports still online are for WGs who no longer appear to be escorting :unsure:

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I've only had 1 FR removed due to a WG retiring but about a quarter of my reports still online are for WGs who no longer appear to be escorting :unsure:

I assume they didnt inform Galahad of their retirement then. :)

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This thread is developing into a love-in between Smiths and CheeseYa.

In an effort to bring it back on track, I appreciate the advice about calling Crimestoppers in the event of have seen a pimped girl. However it would be handy to have a facility here to warn off other punters and hopefully get people to stop visiting her.

I assume that she would then be retired by her pimp, but would be interested in what others may think.

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This thread is developing into a love-in between Smiths and CheeseYa.

In an effort to bring it back on track, I appreciate the advice about calling Crimestoppers in the event of have seen a pimped girl. However it would be handy to have a facility here to warn off other punters and hopefully get people to stop visiting her.

I assume that she would then be retired by her pimp, but would be interested in what others may think.

I genuinely think that if you have a strong suspicion that a girl is coerced (not every girl who has a pimp is necessarily coerced), then by far the best course of action is to inform the authorities. I would imagine that the number of punters who read this message board is tiny in proportion to the punting population and even if everyone here did give the poor girl a swerve, it would hardly dent her bookings.

Even if it did, I couldn't imagine that the reduction in bookings would please Mr Pimp and he might take it out on the girl in all sorts of ways.

Best let a visit from the boys in blue sort it out. They are not perfect, but they are all we have.

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This thread is developing into a love-in between Smiths and CheeseYa.

In an effort to bring it back on track, I appreciate the advice about calling Crimestoppers in the event of have seen a pimped girl. However it would be handy to have a facility here to warn off other punters and hopefully get people to stop visiting her.

I assume that she would then be retired by her pimp, but would be interested in what others may think.

You mean as opposed to the usual WG/Punter love in on here. ;) As i said post a thread up after clearing it with a Mod would be what i would do. :)

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Well CheeseYa can keep his hands off him. I have had my eye on smiths for some time now ...

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Well CheeseYa can keep his hands off him. I have had my eye on smiths for some time now ...

You'd get invited to lots of parties (looks for the emoticons but can't find them !!!!!) <big grin>.

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Well CheeseYa can keep his hands off him. I have had my eye on smiths for some time now ...

Blimey Worldpunter, i am flattered, i think. ;):D :D

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I always want a full on truthful dirty account of the WG. Did she suck a cock well, does she like a good pounding to her ass, does she squirt like a fountain? I want to know!

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I'd be interested to know the OP's intention behind the suggestions. That could make a big difference I think to any etiquette - however informally adopted or not.

As a punter, there are various things I look for, over and above whether I know the poster to be impartial and not giving glowing reports out indiscriminately and irrespective of whether he had a good time or not. And whether I seem to have similar tastes.

I don't personally want lurid descriptions. I want some indication or detail that convinces me he FR is genuine. I want to know how he rated the WG's looks and attitude. I want to know if he felt he received good value for money. Any pertinent details of the apartment (clean, filthy, posh, safe area or not, or somewhere in between). I want to know that the WG offered and delivered her services honestly and with good grace. These are all things that are frequently glossed over in an FR for various reasons but they are valuable to the punter.

There are potential conflicts of interest. For instance, the WG may state she does not offer OWO so as not to feel obliged if she finds her customer unsavoury. To then tell all and sundry that she does may or may not be helpful and truthful, or it may damage both her and some future punters' expectations.

There needs to be a clear distinction between objective facts and subjective opinion. Many FR writers seem to find this an impossible task. Bot are relative but different. If she she has bruises that is something you can have objectively observed. If you suspect she is coerced or trafficked, that is subjective and it is probably more helpful to give reasons than your conclusion alone. Similarly the 'best experience I've had for ages' tells me nothing except you enjoyed yourself - did you say the same about the last dozen??

So - two things - what are the objectives in writing a FR? And what is the reader (punter, crimestopper, or even WG looking for feedback) usefully able to glean?

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