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I said a few posts ago that I punted as much as, if not more, for companionship then sex. That led me to think, if that's true, I should find a girl I really ger on with and get to know her a bit, and her me, and then visit her when I needed some..................companionship. But I've only ever seen any girl twice, mainly to avoid getting too close I think. And that got me wondering if I am unusual in my ways, or the norm, or somewhere in the middle.

So what do the other guys do; see the same girl a lot? see lots of different girls? have a rota system?

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I said a few posts ago that I punted as much as, if not more, for companionship then sex. That led me to think, if that's true, I should find a girl I really ger on with and get to know her a bit, and her me, and then visit her when I needed some..................companionship. But I've only ever seen any girl twice, mainly to avoid getting too close I think. And that got me wondering if I am unusual in my ways, or the norm, or somewhere in the middle.

So what do the other guys do; see the same girl a lot? see lots of different girls? have a rota system?

If i find a gem i punt with her every day or couple of days initially, 13 out of 14 days with one fantastic lady, then a bit less till i get bored which always happens at some stage. If still about in the future i have gone back and punted with her again though but i have experienced gems suddenly disappearing many times so punt with her while i have the chance.

The advantage to a great regular for me is she gets to know exactly how i tick sexually and exactly how i like things enhancing the punts so they can get better over time till the boredom sets in or she moves on/retires etc. Many are also flexible once they know i am not a timewaster so if a plan A goes tits up which is ALWAYS the WGs fault i will ring a regular who can normally fit me in.

The ideal punting set-up for me is a mixture of regulars, newbies to me as i require variety and parties, suits me sir. ;):D

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smiths

you would appear to be not only a man of means - seeing a girl for 13 out of 14 days - but also a man of some stamina and endurance too.

I'm impressed (and a bit envious too).

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smiths

you would appear to be not only a man of means - seeing a girl for 13 out of 14 days - but also a man of some stamina and endurance too.

I'm impressed (and a bit envious too).

I can manage an hour a day still fortunately and more at parties but stamina is somewhat lacking, its all about pacing myself nowadays but i still have fun Dick which is the whole point for me, but certainly nothing to be impressed about believe me. ;)

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I visit the ladies about 8 times a year, spreading those visits between two ladies that I have become a regular with the past few years. I have not become bored with the ladies and I hope they haven't became bored with me. Each visit is normally 2 hours allowing us time chit/chat and "other stuff".

The time in between visits is being filled by lady friends with special benefits. These friends with special benefits provide the companionship... ( dinner dates, theather, cinema, other outings) needs.

Not necessarily sex everytime we meet. Some might think this as just dating, but, both I and the ladies involved know that there is no commitment to a permanment partnership. Guess,I'm their boy/toy. Not much of a toy, more as someone safe to be seen with and easily explained away among our friends.

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I'm beyond the age of long-term relationships, and having done the conventional bit, marriage, children etc, I'm almost bound to look with envy on the green grass of the world I didn't inhabit, but I truly believe that had I punted early in my sexual career I might never have gone the conventional route.

I do like the idea of a regular girl to see, but also the freedom to look elsewhere when I feel like it, and it's the variety and thrill of the mix of encounters that makes punting so enjoyable for me.

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If i feel like variety i'll go to LMP, otherwise i tend to stick with one girl who i've seen 5 gonna be 6 times soon. There are some other girls i wanna see but i think im gonna take a break soon anyway.

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I had a system where i would see the same girl once or twice a week, and then mix that up with another girl once a week (pre recession days :-)).

Didnt stop me falling for a couple of girls. It was quite painful at the time, but looking back, i wouldn't do anything differently.

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I've mentioned in my previous posts that I used to set myself a rule to never return to the same girl - one visit and move on. Like most punters, I punt for the variety and the sex initially and my 'rule' has served me well for the past decade. Lately, in the last 2 months, I found myself an absolute gem and despite me going for a hunting spree to find girls better than this gem and to 'prove' my rule, I have now been returning to her 1-2 times weekly. Shame on me for breaking all my own rules;-)

So far there is no emotional entanglement for either party - I have a long term partner and I know for certain I don't have the appropriate mindset to handle a relationship with a WG at this stage of my life. 10 years ago? Perhaps. It does however make me reconsider if I would want to commit to another marriage 'tho - just to clarify the first marriage failure has absolutely nothing to do with my punting - we grew apart after 10 years.

So, I think having a regular or two is a good thing - so long as we appreciate what we want to start off with.

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So, I think having a regular or two is a good thing - so long as we appreciate what we want to start off with.

And as long as we appreciate what we want to end up with as well (winks - still no smilies).

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I say thank God for my regulars since they put up with my idiosyncrasies and the occasional bout of madness

Edited by Sarah Summers

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I say thank God for my regulars since they put up with my idiosyncrasies and the occasional bout of madness

..and it is very helpful to deal with that only once, for them and us.............

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Regulars are overrated. If I need regularity I'll remarry.

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.. and I actually thing Reguarls deliver the best Experience.

a small set of regulars!

but to each their own.

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.. and I actually thing Reguarls deliver the best Experience.

a small set of regulars!

but to each their own.

I agree they do unless i meet a great gem of a newbie in my experience who then becomes a regular. I require regulars for reliability and the punts do get better and better as she learns how i like things but one of two things always happens sooner or later, i get bored or she moves on. Regulars and newbies to me for variety which i also require is best for me. ;)

Edited by smiths

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After 25 years of punting, I'm changing my viewpoint, moving from wanting to experience many diffreent things with an infinite number of girls to enjoying a wide range of activities with one or two regs. Been that way for about 18 months ,I don't want to marry 'em and still feel that same level of excitement as when I was skipping from one to another. If that fades - time to look elsewhere. There's enough to choose from!

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my favourite regular is gone :( gutted. no other ones now.

she was young, english, local, private location and friendly. hard to find all those again :(

the quality around here isnt great

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That sucks, sorry to hear that. You never know who may spring up tomorrow though.. There's still some good girls out there somewhere.

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I said a few posts ago that I punted as much as, if not more, for companionship then sex. That led me to think, if that's true, I should find a girl I really ger on with and get to know her a bit, and her me, and then visit her when I needed some..................companionship. But I've only ever seen any girl twice, mainly to avoid getting too close I think. And that got me wondering if I am unusual in my ways, or the norm, or somewhere in the middle.

So what do the other guys do; see the same girl a lot? see lots of different girls? have a rota system?

You punt, but sometimes you find a girl who pushes just the right buttons, and despite the rest of the escorts in the world. youd rather see her again then anyone else.

But dont look for a regular. Just keep punting and if you find someone who youd rather see again than someone new then she might be a regular.

If you end up seeing her again and again...then now youve got a "regular".

If when your looking for a "special treat" punt like a Birthday punt or valentines punt you want to see her then shes proably a regular....

I have (had?) a regualr for 3 years now. But seen some other girls inbetween.

The most Ive seen another girl is about 5 times. With her its been more than 10 this year...

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That sucks, sorry to hear that. You never know who may spring up tomorrow though.. There's still some good girls out there somewhere.

theres a massive lack of decent english girls that arent skanky in croydon

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