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Please help me understand this little mystery.

Why is it that when an older women fancy a younger guy, she is affectionately known as a MILF. But when an older guy fancies a younger girl (18+ obviously), he is a perv.

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Please help me understand this little mystery.

Why is it that when an older women fancy a younger guy, she is affectionately known as a MILF. But when an older guy fancies a younger girl (18+ obviously), he is a perv.

I think there's a third bit in here.

When an older woman wants a younger guy, she's a cougar.

When a younger guy wants an older woman, he's looking for a MILF, tho there seems to be some debate over what point MILF and cougar cross over. I've seen porn where the term MILF is given to a woman still in her 20s. I know it's just a "mother", but it'll always be older woman..Stifler's mum..to me.

But then some sites term cougars as being over 40...so some women would clearly be both.

As for your question, I have no idea. You don't get a female equivalent of "dirty old man", do you? Or do you?

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Just one of those things! Like why are there only derogative terms for a promiscuous woman (slag, slut etc) but none for men?

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Just one of those things! Like why are there only derogative terms for a promiscuous woman (slag, slut etc) but none for men?

Mate of mine years ago used to get called both of those things, due to him picking up a phone number at every visit to a nightclub.

Only much later did we realise that he was just a good conversation starter. He got as far as getting a number somehow but wasn't sleeping with any of them. He was a bit of a cock really.

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Please help me understand this little mystery. Why is it that when an older women fancy a younger guy, she is affectionately known as a MILF. But when an older guy fancies a younger girl (18+ obviously), he is a perv.

She could be a MILF, Mature or a Cougar and good luck to her if it makes her happy to shag younger guys. Lucky rather than perv is how i view an older guy with some young totty, again good luck to him.

Within punting on this very forum the moralists find it disgusting and wrong for a punter of say 50 to shag an 18 year old WG, its really great fun actually in my experience and an option you can choose if its your bag. Others morality is their business till they try to ram it down everyones throat. If its legal and consentual i couldnt gave a flying fuck what the moralists think, i do as i wish when i wish to suit me. The beauty of punting, choose who takes your fancy. :)

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If a man tries to pick up a girl, he is being a nuisance, but if its the reverse, she is only "exploring her sexuality". The other joke is that when a girl staggers homes with a trophy male, she is only doing it cos he has good genes, and will be a good provider, regardless of the fact that she is on the pill, and has no intention of seeing him again. Woman make it up as they go along. Women are allowed to follow their biological imperative, but we men arent.

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If a man tries to pick up a girl, he is being a nuisance, but if its the reverse, she is only "exploring her sexuality". The other joke is that when a girl staggers homes with a trophy male, she is only doing it cos he has good genes, and will be a good provider, regardless of the fact that she is on the pill, and has no intention of seeing him again. Woman make it up as they go along. Women are allowed to follow their biological imperative, but we men arent.

And to top it off we let them vote too ! I am off to live in Saudi Arabia

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The difference is implied in the acronym, 'mother I'd like to fuck' (should actually be MILTF). In other words it is an older woman, or even young mother, who is wanted and desired. The words specify who is looking and longing. A milf is an object of lust. A 'dirty old man' on the other hand lusts, but is rarely lusted after.

The term 'cougar' implies that the woman is the more aggressive one, seeking out younger men, rather than being sort out by them, but not sexually repulsive. There isn't really a female equivalent of a dirty old man, women aren't really called 'dirty old women'. Maybe 'old slag' would be the nearest.

It is one of those sex differences, men aren't really insulted for their promiscuity, if they are seen as desirable. There is no real 'slut' and 'tart' equivalent for men. Only when men are seen as undesirable do ready insults come to hand, like 'creep' or 'dirty old sod' etc. I have an older friend who said he started life as a Jack the lad, and has ended up a dirty old man. I suspect that is the case for many Punternetters lol.

The male equivalent of milf does exists, the older man lusted after by women, including younger women. He is George Clooney. I think they sometimes use the term 'gilf' for him in porn circles. However, FILF would be nearer the mark! :D

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The male equivalent of milf does exists, the older man lusted after by women, including younger women. He is George Clooney. I think they sometimes use the term 'gilf' for him in porn circles. However, FILF would be nearer the mark! :D

But GILF is a granny I'd like to fuck!

Maybe Victoria Principal, or Jaclyn Smith. Jaclyn in her 60s now. I still would.

Probably Helen Mirren, for some of you.

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If a man tries to pick up a girl, he is being a nuisance, but if its the reverse, she is only "exploring her sexuality". The other joke is that when a girl staggers homes with a trophy male, she is only doing it cos he has good genes, and will be a good provider, regardless of the fact that she is on the pill, and has no intention of seeing him again. Woman make it up as they go along. Women are allowed to follow their biological imperative, but we men arent.

Our biological imperative is productive, while the male imperative is about as meaningful as the urge of lemmings to self-destruct... at least the Lemmings put on a good show while they are doing it...

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It's because young women don't generally like the attention of old men but young men do like the attention of older women. There's a stigma attached to older men lusting after younger women for that reason. You have the media and the justice system to blame for this.

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It's because young women don't generally like the attention of old men but young men do like the attention of older women. There's a stigma attached to older men lusting after younger women for that reason. You have the media and the justice system to blame for this.

Yep thats the way I see it, I guess its different if the young women wants to be with an older guy though outside the punter/escort business. A guy I used to work for would say "I was a dirty young man no reason I can't be a dirty old man" when he shacked up with an 18yr old at age 45.

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MILF's that men fantasise about are surely in their 30's or 40's. Does a man become a dirty old man or a perv at this age ? A woman in her 20's can still have her head turned by a well presented, affluent man in his 40's or 50's. She presents the fertility, he presents the means for an easier life. How many boss/secretary relationships do we hear of ?

A man has the potential of being a dirty old man around his 60's onwards, and a perv from any age. But think about it, these words used on a man are more about how he is BEHAVING rather than his age. Even a woman being a cougar is not seen negatively, unless she behaves negatively.

You wouldn't even notice many genuine age gap relationships walking down the street. My first love at 21 was 38, we were together for 7 years. His kids were only a year or two younger than me.

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It's because young women don't generally like the attention of old men but young men do like the attention of older women. There's a stigma attached to older men lusting after younger women for that reason. You have the media and the justice system to blame for this.

I agree Clarence and the moral minority on here, a punting forum FFS also think its "disgusting" with the logic that an 18 year old LEGAL WG is only 2 years from being underage making it disgusting and wrong.

Punting cuts through the stigma and its a great advantage to paying for sex to me that if i wish i can punt with an 18 year old as well as any other age i wish. :D

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But GILF is a granny I'd like to fuck!

Maybe Victoria Principal, or Jaclyn Smith. Jaclyn in her 60s now. I still would.

Probably Helen Mirren, for some of you.

I stand corrected. There certainly should be 'FILFs'. Have a coined a new term?

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I stand corrected. There certainly should be 'FILFs'. Have a coined a new term?

Just maybe you have.

The term DILF is widely acceptable for dads a lady might like to fuck, I think.

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oh no! ....i'm a DILF who likes GILFS...cos MILFS are younger than me.(45)...and now i feel sleazy(er)

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oh no! ....i'm a DILF who likes GILFS...cos MILFS are younger than me.(45)...and now i feel sleazy(er)

Can one call oneself a DILF? Surely if referring to oneself the correct acronym is DYLF (Dad You'd Like To Fuck), unless of course you really DO like to fuck yourself, in which case apologies :P

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Just one of those things! Like why are there only derogative terms for a promiscuous woman (slag, slut etc) but none for men?

I'm a sluttish male slag.

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I'm a sluttish male slag.

Yeah but that's kinda appealing!

Seriously, a guy who calls his mates would generally do it as a tease or maybe out of envy- a girl calling another a slut or a slag is almost always offensive. Personally, I'm past caring what anyone wants to call me!

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Can one call oneself a DILF? Surely if referring to oneself the correct acronym is DYLF (Dad You'd Like To Fuck), unless of course you really DO like to fuck yourself, in which case apologies :P

if a lady can describe herself as a MILF....then as a matter of fairness i claim my right under european law to declare myself a DILF...(and a bit of a DH...(dick head).....). It helps that i'm not too harsh on the eye...with a body in fair condition for my age.

if i was a second hand car i would be sold by a franchised dealer...lol....not with a hi glow sticker on a back street lock up

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Just maybe you have.

The term DILF is widely acceptable for dads a lady might like to fuck, I think.

Lucky! It could have been FILF (Father I'd Like to Fuck).

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Lucky! It could have been FILF (Father I'd Like to Fuck).

You're too late, I have already claimed credit for that term.

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