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I am in a bit of a dilema... Just wondering if this has happened to anyone before?

I have been seeing a girl for a few years now. There was a little break when she stopped working a while back but then i found she was working again and started seeing her again. When we i used to see her sex was great, she was tactile and it was fun. When i started seeing her again it was great again. But the few times(only recently) i have the feeling that i am being taken the piss out of. Anyway when i started seeing her again she was great fun, very accomodating and very passionate. I just feel lately that it has gone downhill. There have been times where we have had sex and we both came and she is out of the bed pretty much straight away when before she would go and have a wee and clean up then come back for a bit of a chat/cuddle and then on for seconds but lately she would come back and start to get dressed. She tells me that after she has come she doesnt feel like it again for a while.Other times she has told me that she doesnt like anyone going down on her after she has come. And other times i have felt a bit rushed. She quite often texts me and asks me if i fancy going round for a bit of fun (Which i dont mind as i am single) but when we got down to it she starts to rush me a bit even tho i have paid for a cum twice/hour service..

Anyway i am just after a bit of advice of if i should move on and find another girl. But i am a little aprehensive about that as i am a very overweight guy and my last attempt at going elsewhere didnt end well (As we were getting into it she said she was a little uncomfortable with my weight but to be fair in her case it was because the bed was pretty rickety and she did offer to go and have some fun downstairs but the moment had gone and i was feeling a little embarrased by then and left and she gave me my money back) So i am very consious about it.

Anyway am i having the piss taken as i am a nice guy that doesnt moan or ask for money back? Does she look at me as a deffo way to get a bit of cash in when she is short for the rent etc?

Anyway enough of my moaning...

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I am in a bit of a dilema... Just wondering if this has happened to anyone before? I have been seeing a girl for a few years now. There was a little break when she stopped working a while back but then i found she was working again and started seeing her again. When we i used to see her sex was great, she was tactile and it was fun. When i started seeing her again it was great again. But the few times(only recently) i have the feeling that i am being taken the piss out of. Anyway when i started seeing her again she was great fun, very accomodating and very passionate. I just feel lately that it has gone downhill. There have been times where we have had sex and we both came and she is out of the bed pretty much straight away when before she would go and have a wee and clean up then come back for a bit of a chat/cuddle and then on for seconds but lately she would come back and start to get dressed. She tells me that after she has come she doesnt feel like it again for a while.Other times she has told me that she doesnt like anyone going down on her after she has come. And other times i have felt a bit rushed. She quite often texts me and asks me if i fancy going round for a bit of fun (Which i dont mind as i am single) but when we got down to it she starts to rush me a bit even tho i have paid for a cum twice/hour service.. Anyway i am just after a bit of advice of if i should move on and find another girl. But i am a little aprehensive about that as i am a very overweight guy and my last attempt at going elsewhere didnt end well (As we were getting into it she said she was a little uncomfortable with my weight but to be fair in her case it was because the bed was pretty rickety and she did offer to go and have some fun downstairs but the moment had gone and i was feeling a little embarrased by then and left and she gave me my money back) So i am very consious about it. Anyway am i having the piss taken as i am a nice guy that doesnt moan or ask for money back? Does she look at me as a deffo way to get a bit of cash in when she is short for the rent etc? Anyway enough of my moaning...

I have no idea of her motivation but this has happened to me with a few regulars over the years and its a signal to me to move on and look elsewhere. Your weight really wont be a problem with a good WG, i am a fat ugly fucker myself and not had any problems, as ever being clean, respectful with the agreed fee are the important things.

Why not try another WG and see how you get on. I like a mixture of regulars and newbies to me personally. :)

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Yeah i think thats how its gonna have to be.. I am always clean, respectful, discreet and my jokes arent even that bad. I have never asked for a discount or such but she has offered to drop her price the odd time to try and tempt me but i have never taken her up on it out of a) not having the money or B) respect for her..

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Move on and find another lady. If you feel your weight is an issue then tell the new lady when you first speak to her so you can be reassured before you meet.

As Smiths said, shouldn't be an issue to a reputable WG. Roughly where are you from and what type of lady/services do you like, someone here might give you a recommendation?

DG

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I am from derby so that makes things difficult for a start lol! But I prefer 20's gfe lots of tactile stuff etc slim attractive but don't mind a little more curvy.... I have been thinking of looking into slightly older women but there hasn't been any recent reports and ** is mostly full of crap...

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Try posting in the Requests for Information forum with something like "Derby GFE" etc as your title. Also, put how far you would travel?

DG

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From the sound of it you have been getting too close to her - or that is her perception, and she is trying to put some clear blue water between the two of you. You would do better to move on.

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Nah not at all... If anything it's the other way round with me being perfectly clear on what I want from our time together.

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:mellow: Time to move on. I will try to make it easier for you,help you make that first step.

Let's try to be gentle here.

Imagine in your mind what goes on behind the scenes when you and other punters are not with her. When her boyfriend calls round to see her , as he does.

Boyfriend, " hello girl,hows it been today,can you lend me a few quid I have just done me bollocks on the last at wolverhampton,fcuking nag , it's the last time girl, I promise , "

Her, " Oh come on , babes, you know the rent is due , I haven't got a pot to piss in. "

Boyfriend, " Can't you send Fattie a text and get him round,he's always good for a 60 or 70 ? "

Her, " Oh fcuk no, not him babes "

boyfriend, " go on girl, just give him a blow then, do it for me girl. Look, I'm going down the pub , I'll see you later. You know I love you girl "

blows her a kiss as he staggers out the door.

she reaches for her mobile.

:mellow:

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That was a pretty depressing scenario :lol:

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Lol nice pics you paint there... But to be honest I can't see that being the case.. When I said I didn't moan or was considerate etc you must have read sucker or pushover into that and it's really not the case and she can't play me like that. I go for a session when I want and if I have the cash. If she texts me and I fancy it I will go if not or if i dont have the no matter what she says it ain't happening.

I am not some sap that is at the becon call of a working girl that will go straight round whenever she is desperate for money and be thankful because she will lower her standards for half an hour to let a fattie fuck her. I just want an enjoyable time for what I pay and not be rushed.

If I have to go elsewhere, and I think I will, then it is what it is... Her loss and my gain...

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Definitely time to move on. Possibly she hasn't the heart to tell you out right but you can have enough of a good thing.

Find another sweet girl to lust after.

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Sorry, but I agree-she has you down as a soft touch. She's after your money!

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Sometimes familiarity breeds contempt and it certainly sounds as if this WG has forgotten that first and foremost she is your service provider and started to take you for granted.

I'd suggest a break from her. Get out and see a few different girls and if after a few weeks/months, you still fancy seeing her, give your reg a ring and see if the punts are any better.

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Cheers all.. Time to try someone new... :)

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I am in a bit of a dilema... Just wondering if this has happened to anyone before?

I have been seeing a girl for a few years now. There was a little break when she stopped working a while back but then i found she was working again and started seeing her again. When we i used to see her sex was great, she was tactile and it was fun. When i started seeing her again it was great again. But the few times(only recently) i have the feeling that i am being taken the piss out of. Anyway when i started seeing her again she was great fun, very accomodating and very passionate. I just feel lately that it has gone downhill. There have been times where we have had sex and we both came and she is out of the bed pretty much straight away when before she would go and have a wee and clean up then come back for a bit of a chat/cuddle and then on for seconds but lately she would come back and start to get dressed. She tells me that after she has come she doesnt feel like it again for a while.Other times she has told me that she doesnt like anyone going down on her after she has come. And other times i have felt a bit rushed. She quite often texts me and asks me if i fancy going round for a bit of fun (Which i dont mind as i am single) but when we got down to it she starts to rush me a bit even tho i have paid for a cum twice/hour service..

Anyway i am just after a bit of advice of if i should move on and find another girl. But i am a little aprehensive about that as i am a very overweight guy and my last attempt at going elsewhere didnt end well (As we were getting into it she said she was a little uncomfortable with my weight but to be fair in her case it was because the bed was pretty rickety and she did offer to go and have some fun downstairs but the moment had gone and i was feeling a little embarrased by then and left and she gave me my money back) So i am very consious about it.

Anyway am i having the piss taken as i am a nice guy that doesnt moan or ask for money back? Does she look at me as a deffo way to get a bit of cash in when she is short for the rent etc?

Anyway enough of my moaning...

It should make you feel good after you have been to see a wg not feeling the way you do. I think you should look elsewhere and get the feel good factor again.

Shelly

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When she texts you for 'fun' do you mean a paid sex session or non-sexual non-paying meetings e.g. 'dates'? The lines can easily become a bit blurred between regulars, both need to recognise and be happy for that to continue. I've had that happen both ways, were I've become unsettled by a w/g getting too familiar and been asked (told) to step back I was becoming too 'regular'.

The old saying familiarity breeds complacency seems rather apt is those circumstances. Have you actually talked about this change, you don't have to be pushy just ask, something like 'you seem different/sad/troubled/distracted (choose an appropriate word) recently, are you ok?'. Find out what she thinks, but don't be intrusive. It gives her the opportunity to say something, if it can be fixed, but if she avoids answering you probably need to move on like others have said. We punters also need to recognise that complacency might equally apply to ourselves, good sessions are a two way thing.

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Cheers all.. Time to try someone new... :)

No problem, i am nowhere near your area so cant help with recommendations but i wish you luck for your future punts. :)

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Agree with LondonLydia

Time to move on mate...

before its too late..

er.. did I just type a rhyme ..

Sorry, but I agree-she has you down as a soft touch. She's after your money!

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Got a few new girls spotted.... Cant wait.. :D

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The whole beauty of this hobby is that you can either cherish a good rapport with a regular and/or enjoy the variety of different service providers. Plus perhaps seeing a few different escorts might boost your confidence. Seems like the one negative experience made you see this regular escort as a safe option. But I am sure the reaction of the one woman that made you feel uncomfortable is the exception rather than the norm.

Just wondering when you say that lately this regular lady does not tend hang around chatting etc is that within your paid time? It might be that she feels equally that you are taking advantage of your long standing business relationship if the social aspect tends to overrun too much over the end of your booking. That said it sounds more like she does not feel like she needs to put as much effort into your time together and is taking you for granted. Definitely appears as the lustre has worn off and if you feel dejected like you sound then you are not getting the best out of what should be an uplifting experience.

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I am in a bit of a dilema... Just wondering if this has happened to anyone before?

I have been seeing a girl for a few years now. There was a little break when she stopped working a while back but then i found she was working again and started seeing her again. When we i used to see her sex was great, she was tactile and it was fun. When i started seeing her again it was great again. But the few times(only recently) i have the feeling that i am being taken the piss out of. Anyway when i started seeing her again she was great fun, very accomodating and very passionate. I just feel lately that it has gone downhill. There have been times where we have had sex and we both came and she is out of the bed pretty much straight away when before she would go and have a wee and clean up then come back for a bit of a chat/cuddle and then on for seconds but lately she would come back and start to get dressed. She tells me that after she has come she doesnt feel like it again for a while.Other times she has told me that she doesnt like anyone going down on her after she has come. And other times i have felt a bit rushed. She quite often texts me and asks me if i fancy going round for a bit of fun (Which i dont mind as i am single) but when we got down to it she starts to rush me a bit even tho i have paid for a cum twice/hour service..

Anyway i am just after a bit of advice of if i should move on and find another girl. But i am a little aprehensive about that as i am a very overweight guy and my last attempt at going elsewhere didnt end well (As we were getting into it she said she was a little uncomfortable with my weight but to be fair in her case it was because the bed was pretty rickety and she did offer to go and have some fun downstairs but the moment had gone and i was feeling a little embarrased by then and left and she gave me my money back) So i am very consious about it.

Anyway am i having the piss taken as i am a nice guy that doesnt moan or ask for money back? Does she look at me as a deffo way to get a bit of cash in when she is short for the rent etc?

Anyway enough of my moaning...

Why can't you just talk to her ....just a thought. You are both human beings. You never know she might be relieved you bought it up

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:mellow: Time to move on. I will try to make it easier for you,help you make that first step.

Let's try to be gentle here.

Imagine in your mind what goes on behind the scenes when you and other punters are not with her. When her boyfriend calls round to see her , as he does.

Boyfriend, " hello girl,hows it been today,can you lend me a few quid I have just done me bollocks on the last at wolverhampton,fcuking nag , it's the last time girl, I promise , "

Her, " Oh come on , babes, you know the rent is due , I haven't got a pot to piss in. "

l

Boyfriend, " Can't you send Fattie a text and get him round,he's always good for a 60 or 70 ? "

Her, " Oh fcuk no, not him babes "

boyfriend, " go on girl, just give him a blow then, do it for me girl. Look, I'm going down the pub , I'll see you later. You know I love you girl "

blows her a kiss as he staggers out the door.

she reaches for her mobile.

:mellow:

Lol.

Sad when someone lets themselves get shitted on. Even worse when theyre paying for the privilege

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