Lilly B

I'm Lovin' The Woman

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There's been a few topics and posts recently with some male posters having very fixed, blinkered or negative opinions of us sex workers. Some of these opinions can't just be towards us, but towards women in general.

Of course to a degree this is par for the course on a forum, but of late I noticed some of these posters are younger men, to my mind they give themselves away before you even ask.

There are so many rounded happy in general with women chaps on here, you call tell that too... so my question to those chaps is...

How did you get that way ?

What happened to make you grow to love most/all women, without needing to see or fancy them, you can just appreciate them... Or were you always like that ?

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I was born with a kind attitude(?), and having been to an all male boarding school from a young age, soon learned to be very wary of other guys. I have always been aware of a slightly feminine side in my make-up but never thought about it till I read this post.

I'm often surprised what bastards towards women some other guys can be and wonder why they bother.

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There's been a few topics and posts recently with some male posters having very fixed, blinkered or negative opinions of us sex workers. Some of these opinions can't just be towards us, but towards women in general.

Of course to a degree this is par for the course on a forum, but of late I noticed some of these posters are younger men, to my mind they give themselves away before you even ask.

There are so many rounded happy in general with women chaps on here, you call tell that too... so my question to those chaps is...

How did you get that way ?

What happened to make you grow to love most/all women, without needing to see or fancy them, you can just appreciate them... Or were you always like that ?

The very most important thing in my view is to treat every person as what they are, a totally unique human being. I dont bring a previous bad experience to a punt with a different WG, she is a gem to me till proved otherwise by her individual actions towards me. :)

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I have always been aware of a slightly feminine side in my make-up

What about when you're not wearing your make-up?

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The very most important thing in my view is to treat every person as what they are, a totally unique human being. I dont bring a previous bad experience to a punt with a different WG, she is a gem to me till proved otherwise by her individual actions towards me. :)

My feelings exactly Smiths. I couldn't agree with you more

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To my surprise (not wanting to be rude) I have met some really lovely ladies over the last few months through the FRs on this site. Most of my punts are great experiences and i always ask the girl if she is ok with this work to which she normally replies 'of course'. I don't want to be with someone that is uncomfortable, I know i am paying but thats not the experience i want. I love women, they all have something unique about them, nice eyes, a great smile, super body etc etc. I often ask if guys are good to them and they say usually but some are idiots or worse. One girl the other day said some guys get their high from being unpleasant. Seems a waste to spend a lot of money only to wind someone up and have an unpleasant time.

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As you get older you learn and appreciate that when it comes down to it we're all pretty similar physically. Boobs on one woman can be much the same as on another, but personalities can be infinitely unique. When I'm browsing wk bios I'll spend as much time savouring what she has to say as I do imagining being up close to her body. A girl can look exceptionally sexy, but if she has nothing to say, I'll move on to the next bio.

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There's been a few topics and posts recently with some male posters having very fixed, blinkered or negative opinions of us sex workers. Some of these opinions can't just be towards us, but towards women in general.

Of course to a degree this is par for the course on a forum, but of late I noticed some of these posters are younger men, to my mind they give themselves away before you even ask.

There are so many rounded happy in general with women chaps on here, you call tell that too... so my question to those chaps is...

How did you get that way ?

What happened to make you grow to love most/all women, without needing to see or fancy them, you can just appreciate them... Or were you always like that ?

i'm liking your way of thinking. I say to the guys - just love me - and then leave me.. but come back soon.. oh and don't post anything nasty about me, my age or condition anywhere I can read it ....LOL

Edited by Sarah Summers

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What about when you're not wearing your make-up?

That's when my evil side comes out to play.At this time of night (23.28) when I have taken off the mascara etc I am at my worst!

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....... so my question to those chaps is...

How did you get that way ?

What happened to make you grow to love most/all women, without needing to see or fancy them, you can just appreciate them... Or were you always like that ?

Probably from having a goodly number of female friends quite early in life before SEX raised its ugly head, and later more girl friends that girlfriends.

Oh, and I didn't have sisters, which may or may not be a factor. There were enough women around to demystify them without that.

There's a good postcard in the shops...

Men Are From Earth

Women Are From Earth

Deal With It.

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Probably from having a goodly number of female friends quite early in life before SEX raised its ugly head, and later more girl friends that girlfriends.

Oh, and I didn't have sisters, which may or may not be a factor. There were enough women around to demystify them without that.

There's a good postcard in the shops...

Men Are From Earth

Women Are From Earth

Deal With It.

No we are not. I am from heaven. Yes I am. Don't argue - you won't win :)

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Hey, I didn't write the card!

Bloody women!

;)

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I don't read every single post in detail every day, but in all honesty I haven't seen that many if any misogynistic views here at all?

I really try and respect every individual, but also appreciate everyone is an individual. To suggest every single women or man for that matter is "good" just because of their gender, job or whatever seems inaccurate to me.

I was shocked when I saw 1/3 of domestic violence cases are women on men. The point I'm making is there are good and bad people in every gender, in every walk of life.

What I don't feel is right myself is if you disagree with someone here you are "anti women" or "anti punter", rather than just debating an issue or disagreeing with an individual. Indeed, the bigger danger to me seems people who are dishonest, so those who may agree with people here, but are utterly two faced behind their back or simply looking to serve their own personal agenda or reputation.

To me I just rather give an honest view I have thought about, sometimes right, sometimes wrong no doubt. I don't go out of my way to be rude or personally insulting, infact I refuse to do that and think I have been rasied fine, but I do like an exchange of views on a topic, because I think that helps expand my thinking and that of others.

As for me being anti women or anti escort, well seen as my first time will be with an escort by choice, I don't see how I could place much more trust than that in someone. However, that doesn't mean I'll agree with everything an escort ever says or thinks.

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When I was a young man if I met a female I immediately started to wonder if I would get a chance to fuck her. This made it difficult to talk to her and treat her as a person instead of an amazing sexy body to have sex with. I blame my penis and all the chemicals it was releasing in my brain. Around 40 I began to dislike women in general intensely, simply could not understand them. Why can't they be more like men? About 3 years later I suddenly realised they are different to men and will never be more like us. And that was the turning point, I could suddenly appreciate all their good qualities and now I much prefer them to men and in general adore them.

So:

12-39 = sex objects

40-43 = serious dislike

44 onwards = adoration

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How can you not love women? They have all those interesting bits that wobble or are soft to the touch; they have beautiful smiles; they are kind and understanding; they smell good; they can be slippery when wet. WTF more could you ask?

And re Lighttouch's comment above about meeting a female and pondering his chances of shagging her, I do that in a way with every single women I meet still (at 59) but in a mature, intellectual kind of way as I know its not going to happen and it isn't worth worrying about.

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What happened to make you grow to love most/all women, without needing to see or fancy them, you can just appreciate them... Or were you always like that ?

Saying that you 'love all women' is just as silly as saying 'all men are bastards', 'all wgs are immoral money grabbing slags' or pretty much any generalisation of the form 'all [X] are [Y]'.

I take people as they come, male and female, and get on with most, but I'm finding that the older I get, the less patience and tolerance I have for the stupid and the dishonest

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I have to say that loving all females is now my starting point when meeting a new female. But sometimes their personality (which is such a tiny aspect of any female) does get in the way of complete adoration. Bill the older I get I have less patience and tolerance full stop. Been there done that particular hassle too many times before.

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I just adore them,love to cuddle them and kiss them and have sex with them.They smell so good and are soft and warm to touch.

I get very angry when i hear of a man hurting them.

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I just adore them,love to cuddle them and kiss them and have sex with them.They smell so good and are soft and warm to touch.

I get very angry when i hear of a man hurting them.

+1

fluffy and fluffier

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Ah Bill you know you love them too!

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I have to say that loving all females is now my starting point when meeting a new female. But sometimes their personality (which is such a tiny aspect of any female) does get in the way of complete adoration. Bill the older I get I have less patience and tolerance full stop. Been there done that particular hassle too many times before.

Gosh.. anothe candidate for ' The Stepford Wife' I think !

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Ah Bill you know you love them too!

Some.......not all of them :P

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I'm more misanthropic than purely misogynistic. It's the whole swirling morass of humanity that I despise, preferring reclusive unsociability over the company of either gender. It's why I punt; I can't force myself to be nice for longer than an hour.

Edited by WhilstNeroplays

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I like that you know yourself that well to identify you, self aware is good. Friends often say I'm too self aware, I've never seen that as a bad thing. Are you really nice during your hour ? Or are you simply there for what you want ? That's not a bad thing of course when done with a bit of empathy. Amuses me someone who can switch on and off the niceness, not to being nasty, just not anything, solitude like you say.

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