marky31

A Favour For A Favour?

28 posts in this topic

During a meeting with one WG at the start of this year, she mentioned she was looking for some particular items and did not know where to buy them. I could not help at the time but a week later I saw exactly where she could get them, but I would have to introduce her to get her membership so she could then shop there (sorry about being vague!).

So I contacted her and we agreed to meet there and it was a very strange experience indeed being out "in the wild" with her. I was paranoid about being spotted with her, but it all went very smoothly and she was very pleased indeed to have solved the problem as nobody else had been able to suggest a solution.

I had hoped she might feel like rewarding me for my efforts (I did spend about 2 hours of my time helping her out after all), but sadly not. She said she was busy for the rest of the day. I later contacted her to see if she would like to meet so I could claim a small "reward", but she said she could not offer a free visit (even for a short meeting) and not even a discount :(. I have not seen her since - I am worried that having asked she may think I was being unreasonable. I didn't think it was that unreasonable of me to hope for a positive response but perhaps the ladies on PN will give their views.

Is a favour for a favour ever acceptable? Much porn assumes it is (plumber, TV repairman, etc...)!

Mark

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

During a meeting with one WG at the start of this year, she mentioned she was looking for some particular items and did not know where to buy them. I could not help at the time but a week later I saw exactly where she could get them, but I would have to introduce her to get her membership so she could then shop there (sorry about being vague!).

So I contacted her and we agreed to meet there and it was a very strange experience indeed being out "in the wild" with her. I was paranoid about being spotted with her, but it all went very smoothly and she was very pleased indeed to have solved the problem as nobody else had been able to suggest a solution.

I had hoped she might feel like rewarding me for my efforts (I did spend about 2 hours of my time helping her out after all), but sadly not. She said she was busy for the rest of the day. I later contacted her to see if she would like to meet so I could claim a small "reward", but she said she could not offer a free visit (even for a short meeting) and not even a discount :(. I have not seen her since - I am worried that having asked she may think I was being unreasonable. I didn't think it was that unreasonable of me to hope for a positive response but perhaps the ladies on PN will give their views.

Is a favour for a favour ever acceptable? Much porn assumes it is (plumber, TV repairman, etc...)!

Mark

I am a punter but done something similar but it was because i liked the WG after punting with her as a regular for a while and i didnt expect anything back. In fact great punts followed so perhaps she rewarded me by offering even better service. :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I've done this only once, where the lady in question actually advertised from the start that she wanted help with something (fixing a computer) in return for her normal services. Snapped up the chance. One of my best sessions ever. Not done anything like it since then, not even made such proposals to any lady for fear of offending her.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
:( Marky, very naughty of you, and not very gentlemanly. How could you expect to get a freebie just for a bit of help. You may find she may put a bit more into future punts with her but you expected a lot . :(

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

If I could help anyone with a problem I do it, but never expect anything in return.

Shelly

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Oh dear, I'm already feeling duly chastised! I'd better say I had only seen the lady in question that one time, so had no great prior friendship to honour with help. And I didn't offer the help expecting a reward at all; but neither did I realise how much time it would then take to help sort out. I certainly didn't mean to be disrespectful then or now.

But generally I was interested in whether returning a favour with services (e.g. for computer fixing, maintenance issues) was common when the helper was a punter. So far it seems the answer is generally not, but I bet there more are exceptions to prove the rule.

I think this all goes to show that the "special" relationship between WGs and punters (I mean special as in not like other more open service provider relationships) has some specific etiquette.

I'm off to search for a book on gentlemanly behaviour in relationships with escorts!

Mark

Edited by marky31

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Well you did get two hours social time with her for free was that not reward enough! <_<

Really if you were expecting discounts or free time you should have arranged that before you agreed to help out.

Personally if I do someone a favour it is because I want to do so out of kindness, kind of takes away from it when you do it for something in return.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have helped out several ladies over the years, but never expected anything back from them in return. One recently even offered to pay me for my time in helping her, but I declined her kind offer.

However the increase in service received from these ladies in subsequent visits far outweighed and £ received in direct payment.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I never expect any material/sexual return when I do someone a favour:-) I did my regular a favour the other day because I like her and treat her like a true friend - no reciprocation needed:-)

Having said that, over my punting years, I've only had this one regular...for the rest, I won't even return for a second visit:-)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I did see on one lady's site an offer of her services in return for instruction on the use of a chain-saw! The prospect of being attacked by a chain-saw weilding WG rather scares me, even though everything else about her site sounds most attractive!

I think, for the OP, I'd hope to receive some "quid pro quo", but wouldn't ask, and would probably expect simply more enthusiastic services.

I did spot a technical problem on one lady's web-site a while ago, which might have allowed some invasion of her privacy, and pointed it out to her. She, spontaneously, offered me a variety of BOGOF in return (a free half hour extension to an hour's booking) which I accepted and enjoyed with pleasure.

Edited by Irgendeiner

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Well you did get two hours social time with her for free was that not reward enough! <_<

Really if you were expecting discounts or free time you should have arranged that before you agreed to help out.

Personally if I do someone a favour it is because I want to do so out of kindness, kind of takes away from it when you do it for something in return.

Perfect reply, if she'd offered something great or if she puts more in you're lucky but a favour is precisely that, punting or dating sometimes the favours are rewarded, sometimes they're not & its only a problem if you expect something.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I never expect any material/sexual return when I do someone a favour:-) I did my regular a favour the other day because I like her and treat her like a true friend - no reciprocation needed:-)

Having said that, over my punting years, I've only had this one regular...for the rest, I won't even return for a second visit:-)

Wow, she must be one hell of a woman !

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I gave a WG a lift home once after her shift was over and we went to get some food. After that she was nice enough to invite me in to her place and let me spend the night :)

I must admit when i offered her the lift it was with the intention of trying to get off with her but i didn't really expect to stay over at hers and shag her all night lol

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

i wouldn't go out of my way to help her unless i'm getting something back, which i would tell her beforehand

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

well, if you don't ask you don't get but you did ask and you didn't get so idk.. Best to give without measure

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wow, she must be one hell of a woman !

Abso-freaking-lutely!!

Made me broke my 'one visit and never return' rule of more than a decade:-)

I'm very glad to have met her 'tho, and will happily give up the sex to stay in a friendship if and when things become awkward.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hi, I have a regular girl who I have helped out with IT problems and received enhanced services (not freebies) in return.

It started when we were chatting at the conclusion of a 30 minute lunchtime incall and she mentioned that her computer would not start. I had to get back to work but offered to look at it the following evening. I duly turned up and, after about two hours, managed to get her data, photos etc. off the machine before rebuilding it and restoring the data. During this time she was dressed casually and was friendly keeping me supplied with tea etc.

When the PC was fixed she was very happy and gave me a cuddle and peck on the cheek but (to my disappointment) did not drag me upstairs. I did get my reward on my next booking which she extended from 30 minutes to an hour and threw in free anal. This was at her suggestion - I did not ask for it (we had done anal once before but as she charges £50 extra for it is is not a regular thing) but it was gratefully received.

Since then I have helped her out with computer issues a few times and have been similarly rewarded. She also allows me 45 minutes for her 30 minute rate on normal bookings. I have never had a complete freebie - some money has always changed hands - which I think is sensible as it keeps the WG punter relationship clear.

T

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I would be livid if the client asked me for "reward" because he done something for me. There are alots of situations when WG and clients help each other, without any expectations! FFS! We all normal people, (or at least vast majority) and for the most of the human its so natural to WANT and DESIRE to help each other, without anything in return. (till the point at times, as sometimes it can be taken for granted)

As already been said: you should either to clarify before, that you expect something in return for your favor, or don't do it at all! Still: it might be not such a big help for her in terms of the value, to be equal for an echange for BJ. (only an example, no idea what you was expecting).

What kind of places require assistance with membership, so she can shop there? I only assume joints like Costco, or Macro will require it, and it would not be a big deal for her to get it, without your involvement. If that really was a case, then its not really a favor at all. I am sure if she knew that you going to ask for a "reward" she never would dare to ask you in the first place!

Sabs was right also: You in a way spent 2 hours socially with her, so you actually own to her, lol

Edited by Xenia

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am willing to help out with N London IT issues in return for bacon sandwiches, sushi or burgers and a slow flash ;)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Favours for services rendered are up to the WG in question. I've been involved in a "trade swap" arrangement with a regular but was at her instigation. I'm very grateful for her generosity but wouldn't dream of complaining should she modify or withdraw the arrangement. Not that would stop me seeing her even if she did.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I would be livid if the client asked me for "reward" because he done something for me.

Do you sleep with your clients without them paying you, just out of interest?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

During a meeting with one WG at the start of this year, she mentioned she was looking for some particular items and did not know where to buy them. I could not help at the time but a week later I saw exactly where she could get them, but I would have to introduce her to get her membership so she could then shop there (sorry about being vague!).

So I contacted her and we agreed to meet there and it was a very strange experience indeed being out "in the wild" with her. I was paranoid about being spotted with her, but it all went very smoothly and she was very pleased indeed to have solved the problem as nobody else had been able to suggest a solution.

I had hoped she might feel like rewarding me for my efforts (I did spend about 2 hours of my time helping her out after all), but sadly not. She said she was busy for the rest of the day. I later contacted her to see if she would like to meet so I could claim a small "reward", but she said she could not offer a free visit (even for a short meeting) and not even a discount :(. I have not seen her since - I am worried that having asked she may think I was being unreasonable. I didn't think it was that unreasonable of me to hope for a positive response but perhaps the ladies on PN will give their views.

Is a favour for a favour ever acceptable? Much porn assumes it is (plumber, TV repairman, etc...)!

Mark

This post speaks volumes. Say an aquaintence of one of your female family members did them a good turn which took up a couple of hours of his time, do you think they should be thinking about taking their knickers off, or at the very least give him a blow job to show their appreciation ?

What would your response be if you were informed he'd actually contacted them to ask for sex in return ?

I'm also a little intrigued by your being 'paranoid about being spotted with her' - could you expand ?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'd do pretty much anything to help out a good looking young gal - and my motive for doing so would be to get my end away!

However, I wouldn't expect sex and I certainly wouldn't contact anyone after the event "to claim a small reward" for helping them.

I would be quite appalled if someone contacted me for a "small reward" after helping me out - (unless of course it was a pretty young gal offering me to Hang my Donger)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

A favour is simply that. It is given with no thought of reward but simply as a kindness.

In this instance I suspect that you might get a little "bonus" on your next paid for visit, such as an extra 30 mins, or a service that is normally charged for but that's her gift to you in recognition of your initial favour. don't expect it every time.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

This post speaks volumes. Say an aquaintence of one of your female family members did them a good turn which took up a couple of hours of his time, do you think they should be thinking about taking their knickers off, or at the very least give him a blow job to show their appreciation ?

What would your response be if you were informed he'd actually contacted them to ask for sex in return ?

I'm also a little intrigued by your being 'paranoid about being spotted with her' - could you expand ?

I didn't mean to cause annoyance with my post. Perhaps I worded my original post poorly, but I did not request a free punt or in fact anything specific. And I was not angry or upset that I got no benefit in return and as I implied, I wish now I had not asked if I could claim a reward for my assistance. My post was to gauge whether this quid-pro-quo ever happened. It seems from some replies that it certainly can do, but also that it is often not the case.

With that out of the way, the only reason I was paranoid about being seen was that I am married and was in a public place near my home, nothing more sinister than that.

Finally, of course I would not expect that a non-WG female relative should be expected to provide sexual favours in return for help. But if, say, we were talking about a mechanic whom I had previously used on a paid basis wouldn't it be obvious to think that they might provide their professional services on some beneficial basis next time if I had spent a couple of hours helping them, say, with computer problems. Is it wrong to imagine professional WGs and the service they provide as a similar situation? That's probably a whole other topic for discussion - it might even be somewhere here on the forums already.

I am very respectful of the WGs I have seen; I know it is far from an easy career choice and I argue strongly for the full legalisation and normalisation of the "oldest profession" to remove/reduce stigma for providers and customers.

Mark

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!


Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.


Sign In Now