Sarah Summers

Topic For Discussion. Do Punters Fall Into 'types'

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Is there a certain type of man who punts I wonder? Are they genetically predisposed to punt, or does life make that decision for you?

I supose I am asking why you punt?

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Is there a certain type of man who punts I wonder? Are they genetically predisposed to punt, or does life make that decision for you?

I supose I am asking why you punt?

After meeting hundreds of punters at parties and getting to know and be mates with a few, punters come in all types, which is confirmed as well by WGs i have punted with.

I punt because its straight forward no strings attached sex, and i have neither the inclination or the likelihood of pulling as many non-WG women and even if i did it would be too much like hard work for me. A WG is a phone call away and when i feel like a punt i simply pick the phone up and make a usually same day booking. Its mainly a fun pastime, my favourite in fact. :)

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After meeting hundreds of punters at parties and getting to know and be mates with a few, punters come in all types, which is confirmed as well by WGs i have punted with.

I punt because its straight forward no strings attached sex, and i have neither the inclination or the likelihood of pulling as many non-WG women and even if i did it would be too much like hard work for me. A WG is a phone call away and when i feel like a punt i simply pick the phone up and make a usually same day booking. Its mainly a fun pastime, my favourite in fact. :)

Thank you. What made you punt in the first place... can you remember that far back ?

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Thank you. What made you punt in the first place... can you remember that far back ?

I got the idea when i was in Soho in the 80s soaking up the atmosphere. I didnt punt their but decided to ring a WG out of my local paper, i cant remember much about it to be honest but i was petrified before knocking at her door and it was exactly the same before my first party as well. The first of each really were an ordeal. :)

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I doubt there is a single type. For comparison look at how often people are surprised to discover that a friend or family member is having an affair.

I suspect that a proportion of men of all "types" have affairs, or see WGs. I daresay a fair number of my parishoners would be shocked to learn of my sinful habit. The key for me is not to get caught out :eek:

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I got the idea when i was in Soho in the 80s soaking up the atmosphere. I didnt punt their but decided to ring a WG out of my local paper, i cant remember much about it to be honest but i was petrified before knocking at her door and it was exactly the same before my first party as well. The first of each really were an ordeal. :)

But Smiths.... was it some primeval urge that took you there, or were you simply wanting fun. I am taking a liberty here and assuming you are married.. no doubt you will correct me on that one if I am wrong - did you punt before you got married? There are so many questions....

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But Smiths.... was it some primeval urge that took you there, or were you simply wanting fun. I am taking a liberty here and assuming you are married.. no doubt you will correct me on that one if I am wrong - did you punt before you got married? There are so many questions....

I have never been married Sarah, its not something i believe in as isnt monogomy. I punted looking for sex, i found i required variety as i still do and had a girlfriend but wanted to have sex with other women. I did this with non-WGs as well. :)

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I doubt there is a single type. For comparison look at how often people are surprised to discover that a friend or family member is having an affair.

I suspect that a proportion of men of all "types" have affairs, or see WGs. I daresay a fair number of my parishoners would be shocked to learn of my sinful habit. The key for me is not to get caught out :eek:

It occurs to me that there are three types of punter. Please correct me if I am wrong. You can call me a slut if you like and I'll try to oblige *looks for slut head in drawer*

1. Guys who are married

2. Guys who are not married

3. Guys who have never had sex yet

Okay that sounds like bollocks but if you subdivide... when I say guys who are married I mean mostly the guys who are not getting it at home

As for the guys who are not married - I seriously wonder about them, because I feel punting draws you in like a drug, and even if you marry after having punted - you will carry on regardless of how wonderful the relationship is.

I wonder if punting stops some guys from ever wanting a relationship too? I mean, why bother with all the domestic stuff when you can simply open your wallet up and 'Ay up and away we go'

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A punter has a high sex drive. I have punted on and off all my adult life from aged 18 or 19 onwards. I have punted when I had a girlfriend, between girlfriends, while looking for girlfriends and while married also.

I failed my driving test twice as I couldn't keep my eyes on the road ahead, kept getting distracted when I noticed a tasty girl on the pavement.

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A punter has a high sex drive. I have punted on and off all my adult life from aged 18 or 19 onwards. I have punted when I had a girlfriend, between girlfriends, while looking for girlfriends and while married also.

I failed my driving test twice as I couldn't keep my eyes on the road ahead, kept getting distracted when I noticed a tasty girl on the pavement.

I was reading on yahoo the other day that somewhere in Asia, they are treating pedos with chemical castration. Apparently it only lasts for fifteen years. You would have thought they could have developed it to last for say the duration of a drving test/marriage service/birth of one's own child :)

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It occurs to me that there are three types of punter. Please correct me if I am wrong. You can call me a slut if you like and I'll try to oblige *looks for slut head in drawer*

1. Guys who are married

2. Guys who are not married

3. Guys who have never had sex yet

Okay that sounds like bollocks but if you subdivide... when I say guys who are married I mean mostly the guys who are not getting it at home

As for the guys who are not married - I seriously wonder about them, because I feel punting draws you in like a drug, and even if you marry after having punted - you will carry on regardless of how wonderful the relationship is.

I wonder if punting stops some guys from ever wanting a relationship too? I mean, why bother with all the domestic stuff when you can simply open your wallet up and 'Ay up and away we go'

It occurs to me that there are three types of punter. Please correct me if I am wrong. You can call me a slut if you like and I'll try to oblige *looks for slut head in drawer*

1. Guys who are married

2. Guys who are not married

3. Guys who have never had sex yet

Okay that sounds like bollocks but if you subdivide... when I say guys who are married I mean mostly the guys who are not getting it at home

i think quite a lot of married punters get it at home but punt because

1. they want variety (I do)

2. they get off on punting (I do!) Praps like the thrill of doing something taboo. maybe even like the risk of perhaps getting caught.(AAArrggghhh)

3. they want to shag younger women again (I do)

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I punted first at the age of 21, when I was single, having just broken up with a girl I was seeing at university. I fucked around quite a bit at uni, and had quite a lot of sexual experiences with various girls, but even then I had toyed with the idea of paying for sex. I'm not sure quite why the idea attracted me, maybe because it was taboo. It was poverty, not fidelity, which prevented me, though I got to the stage of ringing a couple of escorts to find out prices.

When I was home, suddenly single, and horny, I decided to use the little money I had to pay to fuck a woman. The encounter wasn't that brilliant, but it wasn't bad either, and it certainly gave me the taste for it. When I got a job and had some money, I started going for massages, and visiting brothels, as well as going out on the pull as usual.

From then on I simply carried on punting, whether or not I was single, or in a relationship. I guess I am a born cheat, though I would be happy to share the punting experience, or to swing, if I met a woman who was interested in that.

I guess I punt because I want endless sexual variety. I can be pegged as the greedy punter type.

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I punted first at the age of 21, when I was single, having just broken up with a girl I was seeing at university. I fucked around quite a bit at uni, and had quite a lot of sexual experiences with various girls, but even then I had toyed with the idea of paying for sex. I'm not sure quite why the idea attracted me, maybe because it was taboo. It was poverty, not fidelity, which prevented me, though I got to the stage of ringing a couple of escorts to find out prices.

When I was home, suddenly single, and horny, I decided to use the little money I had to pay to fuck a woman. The encounter wasn't that brilliant, but it wasn't bad either, and it certainly gave me the taste for it. When I got a job and had some money, I started going for massages, and visiting brothels, as well as going out on the pull as usual.

From then on I simply carried on punting, whether or not I was single, or in a relationship. I guess I am a born cheat, though I would be happy to share the punting experience, or to swing, if I met a woman who was interested in that.

I guess I punt because I want endless sexual variety. I can be pegged as the greedy punter type.

When you rang the' couple of escorts' did you stray from the sort of girl you normally went for or did you stay 'true to type' as it were?

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I have been punting for 35 years and always when having GF and since married.

Main reason is the thrill of the chase. believe me disappointment also has been huge as Im sure you girls find as well.

As I have got older got more into role play and massage - the area I live has few Indies no parlours so actually travelling to girl is still a thrill !!

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I have been punting for 35 years and always when having GF and since married.

Main reason is the thrill of the chase. believe me disappointment also has been huge as Im sure you girls find as well.

As I have got older got more into role play and massage - the area I live has few Indies no parlours so actually travelling to girl is still a thrill !!

True statement but then again the fee is compensation enough for it. :)

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When you rang the' couple of escorts' did you stray from the sort of girl you normally went for or did you stay 'true to type' as it were?

Well I went by description only, which was vague, and never met them, or saw even them. The adverts were in a girlie magazine without a photo. I think they were the type I tend to go for in girlfriends, petite brunettes, but I couldn't be sure now. The first woman I paid for certainly fitted that description, as did the woman with whom I had my first really great punt.

However, I tend to punt for purely for variety, so I look to have sex with women young and old, short and tall, slim or curvy, black or white, posh or not quite so posh, redheads, blondes and brunettes, quiet and shy or loud and brash, British or foreign etc etc.

Although I like to have one type for my 'best girl', the fun in punting is getting to enjoy all the others, as long as something about them attracts me.

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i think quite a lot of married punters get it at home but punt because 1. they want variety (I do) 2. they get off on punting (I do!) Praps like the thrill of doing something taboo. maybe even like the risk of perhaps getting caught.(AAArrggghhh) 3. they want to shag younger women again (I do)

Good post, but i include non-married punters in relationship, having kids etc as well. Living with someone instead of getting married is a lifestyle choice and what you decide to do. I willl never get married as i dont believe in it as an institution personally or as monogamy as a concept. :)

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Good post, but i include non-married punters in relationship, having kids etc as well. Living with someone instead of getting married is a lifestyle choice and what you decide to do. I willl never get married as i dont believe in it as an institution personally or as monogamy as a concept. :)

sorry, should have said those in relationships, not 'married'

there are 2 sorts of men,

those tho say they punt and those who lie!!!!

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Is there a certain type of man who punts I wonder? Are they genetically predisposed to punt, or does life make that decision for you?

I supose I am asking why you punt?

Sarah

If you have an afternoon free at some point, I will more than happily buy you lunch - it will be a long one - and try and explain. There isn't enough time in the world to try and type it all out. All I would say is, there isn't a type and, to a large extent, life does make the decision - it certainly isn't genetic.

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No type in my experience- I don't believe men are predisposed to punting I think it's about circumstances, sex drive, awareness and then finances to a degree,

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No type in my experience- I don't believe men are predisposed to punting I think it's about circumstances, sex drive, awareness and then finances to a degree,

I would also add that it is about courage too. It may seem no particularly big deal once you've done it, but for the first timer it certainly is, and that is before all the mistaken pre-conceptions about seeing a WG being illegal. My guess is that a significant number of men get as far as looking, but never muster the courage to book and turn up.

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i think quite a lot of married punters get it at home but punt because

1. they want variety (I do)

2. they get off on punting (I do!) Praps like the thrill of doing something taboo. maybe even like the risk of perhaps getting caught.(AAArrggghhh)

3. they want to shag younger women again (I do)

Actually from what I've read here there's a lot of truth to that. Affairs are risky in comparison to punting. Time and freedom are limited when you are married. Also the older you are you might be earning more so can afford punting more or less depending on your home situation.

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I always fantasised about WG's as soon as I found out about them as a kid, because I found the idea of just going and having sex hot, then had early experiences with WGs. Not my first, but soon after.

I guess it is a kind of 'fetish' that is fixed in the 'love map'. Some psychologists say that sexual choices are formed early.

Perhaps that formed because of early insecurity with women, combined with a high sex drive and tendency to not want conventional marriage. I remember as a child thinking that I'd hate to get married, it would be terribly stifling..I guess that gives weight to the genetic theory.

Now I can and do sleep with women outside punting, but not as consistently as I'd like to satisfy myself, and rarely bareback. The former can be worked on as a process. However as I see it paid sex is partly a response to the pressures of society. People who are in pressured jobs, constrained social scenes or otherwise prevented from expressing themselves socially as the people they really are can seek solace in it.

Finally, most people hate this, but I sometimes have bareback sex with WGs as I have a fear of getting stuck in a situation with someone I don't love pregnant keeping the kid, and I need and have to seek the release of bareback as it's the only way I can find sexual satisfaction or peace.

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I don't get the bareback comment above.

I find it a turn on. I like the seedy, secret world of sex.

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I don't get the bareback comment above.

I find it a turn on. I like the seedy, secret world of sex.

I didn't get it at first but I think he means , In his civvie sex life he always uses condoms as he is afraid to get a GF pregnant and then have to put up with her , maintain baby etc, fall in the trap.

With a wg he can go BB with no fear of her coming after him later. He gets his highly charged sexual release from that . I can see what he means. If he does mean that ? There is a lot of difference between protected and non- protected sex. Have to add here IMO.

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