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Oh Dear, When Punting Seems To Be Going Downhill, Is It Best To Give It All Up And Spend The Money Elsewhere?

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Not posted for a while, as I have been busy enjoying myself with some regular WGs. Everything was going fine until they moved on - all good things come to an end :( So this left me searching for WGs who provided an equally great service in a similarly nice environment. It’s proving to be difficult task as I got very used to the girls and their neatly run operation. Their flat and their friendly service was perfect for me and I have had great times visiting them twice a week, and sometimes more, over the past 6 months. The experience was so good that I have not punted in parlours for some time - a pastime that I used to enjoy until I discovered the 'alternative option' that suited me.

Overthe past month I have been visiting new WGs from the other site, mainly without success, resulting in a feeling that I have wasted my money as they rarely live up to their profiles, have a bad attitude, or are basically downright rip-off merchants. The final straw came this evening when visiting a 'very experienced' WG in a hotel in Northampton [she was pissed, unclean, and a rip-off, not to mention 2 dress sizes larger than her pix] I am seriously thinking its time to give up this hobby. A few weeks ago I had another very bad punt in a hotel in Milton Keynes. Coincidentally, both of these ‘hotel punts’ finished with me not receiving the services for which I had paid. I will now no longer visit WGs in hotels as I was totally ripped off on both occasions. I consider my money is paying for a service, and tbh, in my recent experiences I think that the service is becoming too poor to justify the cost. I understand that WGs have to put up with all kinds of punters, and that some are abusive, unclean, or even aggressive towards them, from what I hear. But what about the punters who genuinely make an effort to be respectful, clean and mannered? I consider myself to be of the latter group, but recently feel that I am being unfairly treated because of the former; OR is there a reason why punters become disillusioned like me that makes them eventually become hardened and cold, making the whole thing a vicious circle? I feel very unhappy about having these feelings as I have had so many excellent punts and really enjoyed the past year, but I am seriously questioning the sensibility in continuing to waste money in this way. I have always held WGs in high regard [since punting], and feel saddened by some of the attitude I am experiencing from some recently.

Are any other punters feeling the same way? Perhaps I am punting too often, taking things too seriously or in need of a break, however I do believe that things do seem to be getting worse and I am sure it’s not down to my attitude. If the reason is economic, then I would expect that it’s even more important that a professional WG provides a better service to secure their income by ensuring their clients want to return and not wanting to exit the hobby!

I would appreciate any feedback from punters and WGs as I find myself in a genuine dilemma on this one.

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All I can say is that there are genuine girls like myself out there, and I am really sorry you've been having bad experiences. Not sure what to suggest instead though.

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It's the uncertainty that makes me stick mostly with one wg at a time, that's if I can find one who fits the bill. I do try to move about a little to find a fall back for when the regular wg calls it a day (usually they have lasted for 2 to 3 years) but on occasions when I've failed to locate a replacement it makes for a miserable old time.

However, may I suggest you will succeed and when you do the trying moments will disappear from your memory.... until the next time. Plan ahead is the only answer but I agree it is sometimes difficult. :)

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I'm feeling abit like this too.

One regular lass has stopped talking to me at all, let alone meeting me.

Another has packed in, having fallen for one of her clients and got a 'proper' job.

Yet another who was destined to become my new regular decided to get back with her partner and give up. As did her mother who I never actually met, but was looking forward to, to compare notes as it were.

One has moved away, yet another has given up as she has a new boy friend.

A couple of others have just dissappeared.

Now I find myself looking through other sites and the FRs on here for ladies who might meet my criteria but always find myself heading back to porn, their profiles being not appealing,my emails being unanswered and the majority having no feedback.

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Not posted for a while, as I have been busy enjoying myself with some regular WGs. Everything was going fine until they moved on - all good things come to an end :( So this left me searching for WGs who provided an equally great service in a similarly nice environment. It’s proving to be difficult task as I got very used to the girls and their neatly run operation. Their flat and their friendly service was perfect for me and I have had great times visiting them twice a week, and sometimes more, over the past 6 months. The experience was so good that I have not punted in parlours for some time - a pastime that I used to enjoy until I discovered the 'alternative option' that suited me.

Overthe past month I have been visiting new WGs from the other site, mainly without success, resulting in a feeling that I have wasted my money as they rarely live up to their profiles, have a bad attitude, or are basically downright rip-off merchants. The final straw came this evening when visiting a 'very experienced' WG in a hotel in Northampton [she was pissed, unclean, and a rip-off, not to mention 2 dress sizes larger than her pix] I am seriously thinking its time to give up this hobby. A few weeks ago I had another very bad punt in a hotel in Milton Keynes. Coincidentally, both of these ‘hotel punts’ finished with me not receiving the services for which I had paid. I will now no longer visit WGs in hotels as I was totally ripped off on both occasions. I consider my money is paying for a service, and tbh, in my recent experiences I think that the service is becoming too poor to justify the cost. I understand that WGs have to put up with all kinds of punters, and that some are abusive, unclean, or even aggressive towards them, from what I hear. But what about the punters who genuinely make an effort to be respectful, clean and mannered? I consider myself to be of the latter group, but recently feel that I am being unfairly treated because of the former; OR is there a reason why punters become disillusioned like me that makes them eventually become hardened and cold, making the whole thing a vicious circle? I feel very unhappy about having these feelings as I have had so many excellent punts and really enjoyed the past year, but I am seriously questioning the sensibility in continuing to waste money in this way. I have always held WGs in high regard [since punting], and feel saddened by some of the attitude I am experiencing from some recently.

Are any other punters feeling the same way? Perhaps I am punting too often, taking things too seriously or in need of a break, however I do believe that things do seem to be getting worse and I am sure it’s not down to my attitude. If the reason is economic, then I would expect that it’s even more important that a professional WG provides a better service to secure their income by ensuring their clients want to return and not wanting to exit the hobby!

I would appreciate any feedback from punters and WGs as I find myself in a genuine dilemma on this one.

More common than many want to admit to.

I was recently attacked on the board for suggesting the majority of sex for money transactions are let downs. Big let downs.

And you're an experienced punter, so take a guess at the types of experiences less experienced punters are having!

Finding the gems out there is tough, very tough.

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I sympathise, poor experience with random, means I stick to regulars. Mind you I came across a girl in a parlour recently, who was remarkably attractive, the service wasnt great, so one has the dilemna, do you invest in more visits, until the choreography is right?

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Please dont take this the wrong way as clearly you were enjoying your alternate way of punting but you know how fast the ebb and flow of girls can be sometimes in the parlour scene, I have a feeling there may be one or two new girls that you have yet to have the pleasure of meeting...perhaps you should just take a look and revisit ^_^

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Coincidentally, both of these ‘hotel punts’ finished with me not receiving the services for which I had paid.

What was it that they wouldn't do?

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In exactly the same situation Puntaprima.

I have 'lost' my regular girls over the past couple of years due to retirement, moves or closures and am struggling to replace the 'feeling' I had with them and have spent a fortune in the last few weeks trying to find that lost feeling I had.

I haven't even been able to cum insisde a condom inside a wg for the last 5 occassions. Some of it I have put down to age, but most the approach and attitude of the ladies and establishments.

One young 'lady' I booked into a hotel room. Her ** profile offered a lot (including anal) and I ended up with 20mins of her life story and problems and a quick hand relief. At least she refunded my £30 extra for 'A'.

I am thinking of returning to how it all started - massage with a happy ending or maybe an upgrade to tantric or nuru but there is not much of that around in East Anglia (gap in the market there ladies) although that does appear to be an expensive alternative.

Maybe a break is required to get that 'buzz' back about punting. Maybe I should just retire and go back to porn, baby oil and tissues in my bedroom.

I am planning 3 more attempts with more mature ladies over the next few weeks. Hopefully this will re-ignite the spark. If not, masturbation it is for some time I think.

Good luck fella.

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All I can say is that there are genuine girls like myself out there, and I am really sorry you've been having bad experiences. Not sure what to suggest instead though.

Likewise. I love what I do, and want you to enjoy your time with me as much as I enjoy my time with you. We all have a run of bad luck at times, but you've just got to get back in the saddle (so to speak), and carry on. I'm sure there is a gem out there waiting for you to discover her.

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All I can say is that there are genuine girls like myself out there, and I am really sorry you've been having bad experiences. Not sure what to suggest instead though.

He should do wrist exercises for 6 months and not go back in the water until he is over being pissed off at the crappy service providers out there.

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tl;dr

I think this means "too long, didn't read". I've always wondered why on earth anyone would bother to post such a message. If I see a boring post I just move on.

But the OP made a good point, made it clearly and asked for feedback. I've not had a truly bad experience (yet) but have had a few disappointing ones that makes me wonder why I spent so much money on a brief and disappointing encounter. Then I start saving again for the next one!

I'd just say make trips a bit less frequent while researching and trying new possible regular providers. Feedback in FRs etc may be misleading on occasion, but in my limited experience consistently good feedback does seem to accrue to those providing a good service.

Mark

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Not posted for a while, as I have been busy enjoying myself with some regular WGs. Everything was going fine until they moved on - all good things come to an end :( So this left me searching for WGs who provided an equally great service in a similarly nice environment. It’s proving to be difficult task as I got very used to the girls and their neatly run operation. Their flat and their friendly service was perfect for me and I have had great times visiting them twice a week, and sometimes more, over the past 6 months. The experience was so good that I have not punted in parlours for some time - a pastime that I used to enjoy until I discovered the 'alternative option' that suited me.

Overthe past month I have been visiting new WGs from the other site, mainly without success, resulting in a feeling that I have wasted my money as they rarely live up to their profiles, have a bad attitude, or are basically downright rip-off merchants. The final straw came this evening when visiting a 'very experienced' WG in a hotel in Northampton [she was pissed, unclean, and a rip-off, not to mention 2 dress sizes larger than her pix] I am seriously thinking its time to give up this hobby. A few weeks ago I had another very bad punt in a hotel in Milton Keynes. Coincidentally, both of these ‘hotel punts’ finished with me not receiving the services for which I had paid. I will now no longer visit WGs in hotels as I was totally ripped off on both occasions. I consider my money is paying for a service, and tbh, in my recent experiences I think that the service is becoming too poor to justify the cost. I understand that WGs have to put up with all kinds of punters, and that some are abusive, unclean, or even aggressive towards them, from what I hear. But what about the punters who genuinely make an effort to be respectful, clean and mannered? I consider myself to be of the latter group, but recently feel that I am being unfairly treated because of the former; OR is there a reason why punters become disillusioned like me that makes them eventually become hardened and cold, making the whole thing a vicious circle? I feel very unhappy about having these feelings as I have had so many excellent punts and really enjoyed the past year, but I am seriously questioning the sensibility in continuing to waste money in this way. I have always held WGs in high regard [since punting], and feel saddened by some of the attitude I am experiencing from some recently.

Are any other punters feeling the same way? Perhaps I am punting too often, taking things too seriously or in need of a break, however I do believe that things do seem to be getting worse and I am sure it’s not down to my attitude. If the reason is economic, then I would expect that it’s even more important that a professional WG provides a better service to secure their income by ensuring their clients want to return and not wanting to exit the hobby!

I would appreciate any feedback from punters and WGs as I find myself in a genuine dilemma on this one.

Hi PP. Certainly no going downhill with my punting, its actually gone down in price on average as i have posted on other threads and its a long time since i have had a bad punt. Only you can decide whether to give up but when i have had a bad punt or two in a short space of time i have punted very soon afterwards with a WG highly rated to get back into it with a hopefully good punt which they have been.

My advice is try MK again who have new WGs as well as highly rated ones still working. I wish you well in whatever you decide to do. :)

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More common than many want to admit to. I was recently attacked on the board for suggesting the majority of sex for money transactions are let downs. Big let downs. And you're an experienced punter, so take a guess at the types of experiences less experienced punters are having! Finding the gems out there is tough, very tough.

Like anything thats a matter of personal experience. How can you possibly know if the majority of punts are let downs, big let downs, thats your opinion but not a fact and it cant be proved either way.

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I am sorry Puntaprima is feeling unhappy with his punting life but I wonder if, in fact, it is a regional issue?

I'm not sure where you punt, Primapunta. rh55 mentions problems in East Anglia. I am convinced that those of us based in Greater Manchester/Lancs/the North West wouldn't face the same problems, with a plethora of fine women to choose from - whether you visit parlours, or independents. And plenty of good options on the sensual massage front also. Clearly there are plenty of options in MK. I'm convinced it's just a postcode lottery and some of us are luckier than others, depending on where we live/can travel to.

Lefty

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Perhaps its better to just take a breather. I took one for about 5 weeks after two bad uns over the summer.

Then came back and everythings all rosey again. Does help if theres someone youve seen before and had a good time with to restore your faith.

Do the dissapointments have any feedback or reviews? Something on their profile to give you a clue or something to watch out for? Did you do any FRs for the experiences you had?

I usually try and work out why if Ive had a bad punt what I could have done different.

The only times Ive been caught out is when theres more than a handful or glowing reviews but then its a dissapointment for me, or Ive seen them before and it was nothing like the previous punt.

But then thats still only 3 punts over the last year althou I tend to stick to those places that I can trust these days.

I havent booked a girl from the other site in over a year. And before that about 2 years. Seen so many fake, scam or "overdone" profiles that even when I see a profile that does show someone who I might like I just think well it must be fake if they are that good. Vicious circle.....

Havent used a London agency in 2 years.

I understand the frustration sometimes all to well. You book, take time off work, plan, clean you clothes, etc shower shave, earn up the money so you can treat yourself, turn up welcome her with a smile and Hi How are you? and then it all goes down hill from there........ :(

I wouldnt worry about being hardened unless your changing what your doing on the punt. I think its becuase the more experience you get the more times you know whether the punt is better or worse than previous punts.

I sometimes worry whether Im getting hardened cos Ive had bad punt.

But If Im not doing anything different on a bad punt to when Ive had a good punt then I cant see how the fault would lie with myself. Im still turning up all clean shaved and welcome with a smile and how are you..

And if it still goes bad, then I think I am more likley to be more dissppointed or annoyed then I would have been if I was a newbie.

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Is it best to give it up for a bit? Probably. Are any of us going to? Probably not.

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Perhaps its better to just take a breather. I took one for about 5 weeks after two bad uns over the summer.

Next time George Osborne is looking for excuses for the faltering GDP growth, he could use that :lol:

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Sounds like bad luck to me. As Strawberry pointed out, there are as many great WGs out there as disinterested, inept ones. You certainly won't find your new regulars by taking a break though (but then I would say that, wouldn't I? :P)

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Likewise. I love what I do, and want you to enjoy your time with me as much as I enjoy my time with you. We all have a run of bad luck at times, but you've just got to get back in the saddle (so to speak), and carry on. I'm sure there is a gem out there waiting for you to discover her.

Yes "Dexi's" right,i recently lost a lovely lady who was just right for me,she was really nice and very local.Sadly for me she changed from GFE to massage only with HE.and found old clients and the new service didn't work.

I was very disapointed at first but looked around and found a gorgeous lady on the other site.So don't give up, it just takes a bit of searching.

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I have to say this is a timely post. Had a bad experience today with a new girl and has got me questioning what I'm doing. I have a few 'regulars' but the one I wanted was unavailable and so I tried a tempting girl from the 'other site' which I normally don't use, clearly for a reason.

I have to say that I've been lucky over the years that I haven't had too many bad punts but today's one (in amongst other things going on) really disheartended me and got me thinking I should have a proper (normal) relationship. However, as Mr Natural said above: "should I stop? Probably. Will I?Probably not".

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Not posted for a while, as I have been busy enjoying myself with some regular WGs. Everything was going fine until they moved on - all good things come to an end :( So this left me searching for WGs who provided an equally great service in a similarly nice environment. It’s proving to be difficult task as I got very used to the girls and their neatly run operation. Their flat and their friendly service was perfect for me and I have had great times visiting them twice a week, and sometimes more, over the past 6 months. The experience was so good that I have not punted in parlours for some time - a pastime that I used to enjoy until I discovered the 'alternative option' that suited me.

Overthe past month I have been visiting new WGs from the other site, mainly without success, resulting in a feeling that I have wasted my money as they rarely live up to their profiles, have a bad attitude, or are basically downright rip-off merchants. The final straw came this evening when visiting a 'very experienced' WG in a hotel in Northampton [she was pissed, unclean, and a rip-off, not to mention 2 dress sizes larger than her pix] I am seriously thinking its time to give up this hobby. A few weeks ago I had another very bad punt in a hotel in Milton Keynes. Coincidentally, both of these ‘hotel punts’ finished with me not receiving the services for which I had paid. I will now no longer visit WGs in hotels as I was totally ripped off on both occasions. I consider my money is paying for a service, and tbh, in my recent experiences I think that the service is becoming too poor to justify the cost. I understand that WGs have to put up with all kinds of punters, and that some are abusive, unclean, or even aggressive towards them, from what I hear. But what about the punters who genuinely make an effort to be respectful, clean and mannered? I consider myself to be of the latter group, but recently feel that I am being unfairly treated because of the former; OR is there a reason why punters become disillusioned like me that makes them eventually become hardened and cold, making the whole thing a vicious circle? I feel very unhappy about having these feelings as I have had so many excellent punts and really enjoyed the past year, but I am seriously questioning the sensibility in continuing to waste money in this way. I have always held WGs in high regard [since punting], and feel saddened by some of the attitude I am experiencing from some recently.

Are any other punters feeling the same way? Perhaps I am punting too often, taking things too seriously or in need of a break, however I do believe that things do seem to be getting worse and I am sure it’s not down to my attitude. If the reason is economic, then I would expect that it’s even more important that a professional WG provides a better service to secure their income by ensuring their clients want to return and not wanting to exit the hobby!

I would appreciate any feedback from punters and WGs as I find myself in a genuine dilemma on this one.

I am not surprised at anything you have said. It seems all too typical of 'punting now' and that is wrong. On behalf of those shite ladies I would like to apologise. That other site which I would not advertise on if I was about to be evicted and my britches arse was hanging out, seems to be bringing the quality of punting down instead of giving the punter more choice. Its so easy for girls to advertise on there without any other form of profile. I am proud of my rep and my website and that I give my clients a good time. I know other ladies are too, so whenever I am talking about something good and say 'I' I mean all of us as in service providers who actually take a pride in their work. When my client leaves me and is smiling - so am I. I always like to think I am only as good as my last client.

You need to keep looking and research a little more carefully is my advice on this. Chin up x

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More common than many want to admit to.

I was recently attacked on the board for suggesting the majority of sex for money transactions are let downs. Big let downs.

And you're an experienced punter, so take a guess at the types of experiences less experienced punters are having!

Finding the gems out there is tough, very tough.

I would tend to agree with what you say but always press the point that you can't do enough careful research. Another thing I do is to recommend the ladies who I know are quality service providers - not necessarily the ones I happen to know - but know of.

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Is it best to give it up for a bit? Probably. Are any of us going to? Probably not.

I would say a sensiible bit of punting is to take breaks. That is not just advice for new ladies either. It stops you being complacent or jaded with paid for sex, and you return feeling refreshed

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