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An article today in the paper was about a sexual therapist. She has a "hands on approach" to solving problems. For £4,000 you get 9, two hour sessions. Whick is about £220 a hour. Now apart from the fact the more sensitive punters here would faint at paying such a rate, what about the concept? For a lump sum you get an agreed set of sessions over an agreed time. The mechanics of payments would need to be based on mutual mistrust of course.

Just a though to while away the time 'til my willy heals and I can punt again

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An article today in the paper was about a sexual therapist. She has a "hands on approach" to solving problems. For £4,000 you get 9, two hour sessions. Whick is about £220 a hour. Now apart from the fact the more sensitive punters here would faint at paying such a rate, what about the concept? For a lump sum you get an agreed set of sessions over an agreed time. The mechanics of payments would need to be based on mutual mistrust of course.

Just a though to while away the time 'til my willy heals and I can punt again

As anything could happen between punts, accident, illness or even death to either party i wouldnt ever consider a package deal even if it made the hourly rate less. PAYG suits me and has for decades so i wouldnt change this tried and tested modus. :)

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Good reply, I never thought of that. Though I am sure the lass would honour the agreement and stand by your grave in deepest black for the required remainder of the time! (Laughing)

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I'm also a bit sceptical about this 'sex therapy', whilst she claims to have been trained by the International Professional Surrogate Association I can't help but think it's all a bit of a guise and she is in reality no more than the rest of us working girls. I know I often talk to chaps about personal issues, their insecurities, meet men who are sexually inexperienced or virgins and so on.

I wonder if I called myself something fancy I could charge £220 an hour?!

here's the link the OP was talking about http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2048449/Sex-therapist-Padma-Deva-sleeps-patients-Counsellor-courtesan.html

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It is not uncommon for clients to not want to feel as though they are paying for it and to pay for a month or so up front,

I have had such arrangements a few times. While it has worked out really well in the past I would never do this again after the last one.

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It is not uncommon for clients to not want to feel as though they are paying for it and to pay for a month or so up front,

I have had such arrangements a few times. While it has worked out really well in the past I would never do this again after the last one.

Never thought of paying in advance, but I guess for some it would feel less awkward. Why would you not do it again? Seems like the perfect arrangement for the WG as she know she won't be let down at the last minute.

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I can't help but think it's all a bit of a guise and she is in reality no more than the rest of us working girls.

She has sex with guys for money. When all the flim flam is boiled away, that's whats left. She certainly is not "more" than many of the excellent girls I have met.

What if you coughed up the £4000 and then found out you didn't enjoy having sex with her !!!!

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While it has worked out really well in the past I would never do this again after the last one.

Sounds like a story waiting to be told.

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Never thought of paying in advance, but I guess for some it would feel less awkward. Why would you not do it again? Seems like the perfect arrangement for the WG as she know she won't be let down at the last minute.

It is the perfect situation if it works with the person you have the arrangement with,

It was great, on a 5 week month they was slightly better off on a 4 I was, if either was ill or on holiday then the following week would be double time to make up for it.

The last one got too familiar and seemed to forget I have other clients, was a bit too much at his beck and call, was really messing me around in the end, cancelling at the very last moments when I would have arranged my day to suit him. The last appointment he presented me with a wad of cash for the following month which I very happily handed him back and said thanks but no thanks.

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I suppoe if you wrap it up in high falluting concepts, you can charge more. It's like Tantric massages are more expensive than rub and tugs. Sabrina, it was ever thus with we men- we get it good and then we have to blow it just to prove something to the male ego.

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There's always something to suit everyone but I could not take money in advance because I stop working on a whim, and would not want to see my client unless I was in the mood.

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Paying in advance is a mistake whether its a builder or a sex worker. The builder can do a runner, while the wg takes the pissy attitude of people you have lent money to.i.e., they resent the fact that you have done them a favour. I know its only my personal experience.

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Fair play. She's put together a product, then found the price point and a way to sell it at that.

Thought about this one a couple of times, but there a plenty of nice girls worth £4,000 than one you might not hit it off with.

These Tantric ladies. Can't fault them. They know how to sell it.

Justin

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I know that some of you will remember Shiraz, she offered Tantric massage and sex but no guarantee of sex on the first meeting. She was mid fifties, about 5' nothing tall and not at all skinny, she was generally pretty busy and would offer a physcotherapy service included as well all at less than £200 a hour. After meeting her at a social I booked her without telling her we'd met before or my board name, she recognised me when we met, I booked her for a hour and we ended up spending about 5 hours together, including some very intimate sexual time all included. She got plenty of good looking guys in their 20s and 30s, she once told me that she sometimes thought she should being paying her punters.

I also used to date a psychiatrist, one of the most highly rated ones in the North of England, she ran a secure psychiatric unit which often held seriously dangerous individuals, she also did NHS work too. She often did private work as well, this involved people who had problems with their lives, marraige, sex etc. For this she charged £200 a hour, she often told me that she basically listened to people for a hour and then just told them to take the tablets she prescribed and booked the next appointment. She did not offer sex as part of the package, who was the better value, you tell me?

An interesting side point which I will probably bring up in an Edinburgh Fringe show I am writing at the the moment for 2013 is that when we were having sex, she loved me to be dominant, viciously cruel and to control her totally. She remarked several times that she knew this was because of the contrast with her working life where she had such power, (even being able to make sure that some patients never saw the outside of institutions again). Human beings are interesting creatures at the end of the day, very complex with many contrasting wants and needs.

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Me offering my massage service, I saw I client a few week ago who booked me for a session. In February he'd had several far too visual procedures to his willy that ultimately had harmed his perception and realisation of his arousal,. He had got to the point that for months he would allow himself NOT to get aroused because of the visual he held. For whatever reason he didn't want to put this on his wife, the only way he was gonna get over this was with someone who didn't matter.....

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An article today in the paper was about a sexual therapist. She has a "hands on approach" to solving problems. For £4,000 you get 9, two hour sessions. Whick is about £220 a hour. Now apart from the fact the more sensitive punters here would faint at paying such a rate, what about the concept? For a lump sum you get an agreed set of sessions over an agreed time. The mechanics of payments would need to be based on mutual mistrust of course.

Just a though to while away the time 'til my willy heals and I can punt again

Maybe she needs to fool herself into thinking she is something other than what she is?

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Just a though to while away the time 'til my willy heals and I can punt again

what happened to your willy?

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Well I think its a great idea. there are plenty of guys with intimacy issues and not much of a clue how the female body works and worry about cumming too fast etc. Normally they have to take a chance with an escort. Here is one whose aim and purpose is to try and deal with these issues. There is no doubt in my mind that she would be a better bet than randomly booking an escort which could put him off having sex for ever or at least give him crippling psychosexual issues if he picks the wrong one.

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Visiting an escort was the best therapy I've ever had. :)

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My willy is fine now Jennifer and available for weddings and Bar Mitzvas! It was a dose of thrush I caught, but healed nicely after I followed the advice of some of the wgs here.

I still think this is a reasonable idea thuogh, just needs tweaking to get rid of some of the more obvious pitfalls. It seems the biggest stumbling block is the fear of entering into a deal with a merely adequate provider. Or for the woman to get into a deal with a whiffy "I never need more than one shower a month" type client

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