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Are White Lies A Good Thing?

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I'm sure the lasses often find themselves with a bloke whose performance is somewhat lacking in certain areas. Would you ever feel a bit sorry for him and actually say "that was great" when in fact it was a bit shit?!

I have had so many compliments about something in particular I have now convinced I am crap at it and the lasses are trying to make me feel better. I should add I never ask for their opinion - they just volunteer it.

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In the interest of good customer relations a little flattery if slightly undeserved does little or no harm.

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If you are concerned with the activity that your PN nickname suggests - I'll judge the proficiency by the end results. If the ladies enjoy good orgasms then surely you are doing something right:-)

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Hmmm, well as a WG I'm hardly gonna tell a guy he was rubbish! However I can't bring myself to over compliment a man if he was lacking!

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A Thai WG recently told me in the middle of proceedings "you don't know how to fuck". Doubtless this is true and I have a lot more respect for her for saying so than I do for all those ladies who have given false praise of my RO abilities or claimed I have a particularly aesthetically pleasing penis or any other of the standard lies they come out with.

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I'm sure the lasses often find themselves with a bloke whose performance is somewhat lacking in certain areas. Would you ever feel a bit sorry for him and actually say "that was great" when in fact it was a bit shit?! I have had so many compliments about something in particular I have now convinced I am crap at it and the lasses are trying to make me feel better. I should add I never ask for their opinion - they just volunteer it.

I see WGs praising punters all the time at Parties especially the guys who like to think they get the WG off by RO, its ego massaging and to get them to move on so someone else can get in.

I have had WGs fake moan BEFORE i have even touched themr, believe me i am not that good or desireable. If it occurs nowadays i just say no need to do that i dont find it a turn-on politely and carry on.

Overall, making you feel good at a punt is the sign of a good WG but if your told your good at something but your not you dont learn of course.

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and I thought the white lies we were going to discuss concerned the existence of Father Christmas and the Tooth Fairy!!

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Of course, white lies are a darn good thing in appropriate circumstances. I've never really doubted that, and that view has been re-enforced in recent years because a really good friend always says what he really thinks ... it creates all sorts of problems.

Unlike some of the guys here patently false praise doesn't bother me.... I'm one of those dinosaurs that's aiming to get personal pleasure rather than give it in paid sex encounters. (NB I know and accept that aiming for mutual pleasure is often the best route to get most pleasure myself.... but, as long as I don't upset the lady, I'd still count it as a darn good session if I enjoyed things a darn sight more than she did.)

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I have had a girl complain that I came to quickly during oral, she then continued by saying " what do we do now?"

I did consider replying "you could try giving my money back" but politely kept quiet.

Funnily enough I have never been back.

As Lynda said you do not need to lie but there are times to keep quiet.

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Compliments regarding looks or performance are generally reserved for people in my private life as I’ve found clients tend to assume those from an escort are BS unfortunately. I have been known to compliment clients’ colourful socks or silly ties though

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I would never compliment someone if the compliment was a total lie on my part. I sometimes compliment people I really enjoy spending time with, but as Lara said they tend to be suspicious of any compliments and believe I'm saying the same things to everyone :/ So I tend to show that I like them more with my actions than my words.

I'm one of those dinosaurs that's aiming to get personal pleasure rather than give it in paid sex encounters. (NB I know and accept that aiming for mutual pleasure is often the best route to get most pleasure myself.... but, as long as I don't upset the lady, I'd still count it as a darn good session if I enjoyed things a darn sight more than she did.)

I definitely prefer this strategy to the one where a guy is going all out on trying to make the escort come, so they can feel better about their own skills and prove themselves that the escort is not hating her job. I always cringe when a guy asks how he can make the meeting more pleasurable for me. I know they mean well, but how about just letting me get on with doing my job and stop obsessing about how much sexual pleasure the escort is getting? :) I definitely enjoy my work sex too most of the time, but it's more about chemistry and mutual attraction and that's not something I can 'teach' anyone to have.

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I see WGs praising punters all the time at Parties especially the guys who like to think they get the WG off by RO, its ego massaging and to get them to move on so someone else can get in.

I've never been to a party, but I can't think of anything more guaranteed to get my willy drooping.

I have had WGs fake moan BEFORE i have even touched themr, believe me i am not that good or desireable. If it occurs nowadays i just say no need to do that i dont find it a turn-on politely and carry on.

Overall, making you feel good at a punt is the sign of a good WG but if your told your good at something but your not you dont learn of course.

In the words of the great Richard Pryor, "Will you let me put it IN?"

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I've never been to a party, but I can't think of anything more guaranteed to get my willy drooping.

In the words of the great Richard Pryor, "Will you let me put it IN?"

The thing is if you think about it if all Party WGs came with every punter say once that could be up to 40 a day and its often the case the punter has a break, rests his tongue for a while and goes back for some more chupa chupa so it might be up to 80 a day. That would be a lot of orgasms. There is fantasy and there is realism. ;):D

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I don't like telling lies - even white ones, but what on earth do you say when your client constantly asks if you like him, or if his technique is good enough, or any amount of other things? There are some really needy folks out there who just want validation. I'm not about to burst anyone's bubble, but if I offer a comment without being prompted it will be because I mean it.

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There is a lovely episode of Two and a half men where one guy hires a hooker. The whole comic timing is his reaction to her comments. My favourite was "It's not the biggest you've ever seen, hell, it's not the biggest I've ever seen!"

White lies can be nice but when they go over the top then they are cringing. Hence when a wg says I have a nice body for my age, I can enjoy that.

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Slightly off topic but as far as having the wg come goes its not always about making the guy feel good about himself. I love to see women come, its incredibly erotic. Being involved in the process adds to the intimacy but just watching can still be amazing (I'm not talking porn style Ott fakedom here ). How would you ladies react if a punter said "I want to watch you get yourself off" ?

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I'm sure the lasses often find themselves with a bloke whose performance is somewhat lacking in certain areas. Would you ever feel a bit sorry for him and actually say "that was great" when in fact it was a bit shit?!

I have had so many compliments about something in particular I have now convinced I am crap at it and the lasses are trying to make me feel better. I should add I never ask for their opinion - they just volunteer it.

No I don't Pie Eater and can't think of an occasion I have. Client a few months ago asked me what would really turn me on. At that momen, 6ft mid 20something, ripped, beautiful body, fine art tattoos, handsome face, horny as hell, wearing stockings, sussies, frilly knickers and waiting to be pegged was what I answered with. Him being 5'+, podgy belly, lovely feet, eventually laughed.

Am I detecting the first miniscule hints of 'jaded punter' syndrome ? :D

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No I don't Pie Eater and can't think of an occasion I have. Client a few months ago asked me what would really turn me on. At that momen, 6ft mid 20something, ripped, beautiful body, fine art tattoos, handsome face, horny as hell, wearing stockings, sussies, frilly knickers and waiting to be pegged was what I answered with. Him being 5'+, podgy belly, lovely feet, eventually laughed.

Am I detecting the first miniscule hints of 'jaded punter' syndrome ? :D

Had to Google "pegged" but smiling broadly at your post (big reaction by my standards).

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Hmmm, well as a WG I'm hardly gonna tell a guy he was rubbish! However I can't bring myself to over compliment a man if he was lacking!

If I was rubbish, I'd rather you told me.

I'd happily return as long as you had told/shown me how to do it better.

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I would never compliment someone if the compliment was a total lie on my part. I sometimes compliment people I really enjoy spending time with, but as Lara said they tend to be suspicious of any compliments and believe I'm saying the same things to everyone :/ So I tend to show that I like them more with my actions than my words.

I definitely prefer this strategy to the one where a guy is going all out on trying to make the escort come, so they can feel better about their own skills and prove themselves that the escort is not hating her job. I always cringe when a guy asks how he can make the meeting more pleasurable for me. I know they mean well, but how about just letting me get on with doing my job and stop obsessing about how much sexual pleasure the escort is getting? :) I definitely enjoy my work sex too most of the time, but it's more about chemistry and mutual attraction and that's not something I can 'teach' anyone to have.

Personally, it gives me a lot of pleasure to know (or, at least, believe) that I have given a lady (any lady) an orgasm. I don't think it's about making me feel better about myself.

I don't obsess about how much pleasure she is getting but I always start with RO and ask her to let me know if I'm not doing it for her. If she couldn't take pleasure from it, I'd rather she told me instead of pretending.

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