Shez

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In the years of working in this industry 99.9% of individuals I have met have been absolutely, fantastic guys who are hugely respectful, who I would gladly meet again & again without hesitation.

In the past few weeks things have for some reason changed for the worse!

The first and most serious issue was being robbed (if anyone wants details of this retrobate I will gladly provide this privately).

As I only do hotel incalls my overheads are obviously quite considerable and certain individuals recently have not hesitated to make a booking to then cancel, whether this be for legitmate reasons or just a joke Im not finding it amusing!

Finally I was asked for services in return for a mobile phone!

Is this a sign of things to come and continue or have I just had an unlucky few weeks?

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Havent you recently left some establishment to go solo?

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Hotel incalls only seems to me to carry an element of risk. Can you not get the guys to book, and pay for, the rooms? Or consider doing in-calls at a place that you can rent?

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Hotel incalls only seems to me to carry an element of risk. Can you not get the guys to book, and pay for, the rooms? Or consider doing in-calls at a place that you can rent?

Do you mean risk, as in loss? Or something else? :mellow:

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In the years of working in this industry 99.9% of individuals I have met have been absolutely, fantastic guys who are hugely respectful, who I would gladly meet again & again without hesitation. In the past few weeks things have for some reason changed for the worse! The first and most serious issue was being robbed (if anyone wants details of this retrobate I will gladly provide this privately). As I only do hotel incalls my overheads are obviously quite considerable and certain individuals recently have not hesitated to make a booking to then cancel, whether this be for legitmate reasons or just a joke Im not finding it amusing! Finally I was asked for services in return for a mobile phone! Is this a sign of things to come and continue or have I just had an unlucky few weeks?

Very sorry to hear about this Shez. :) There are some right nasty cunts in this world. I think you have just been unlucky and things will hopefully improve. Best Wishes to you. :)

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It would probably be for the best if you only accepted outcalls to an hotel when it's the Punter that is in residence in the room and it's them that are paying, It may cause your

a bit of disruption to your business model but in the end it will work out for the best. The phone for a service? Don't even entertain the idea.

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In the years of working in this industry 99.9% of individuals I have met have been absolutely, fantastic guys who are hugely respectful, who I would gladly meet again & again without hesitation.

In the past few weeks things have for some reason changed for the worse!

The first and most serious issue was being robbed (if anyone wants details of this retrobate I will gladly provide this privately).

As I only do hotel incalls my overheads are obviously quite considerable and certain individuals recently have not hesitated to make a booking to then cancel, whether this be for legitmate reasons or just a joke Im not finding it amusing!

Finally I was asked for services in return for a mobile phone!

Is this a sign of things to come and continue or have I just had an unlucky few weeks?

There does seem to be a lot of booking followed by cancelling going around at the moment, not sure what it's a sign of but combined with the reports of guys being let down too, it's not making for a great atmosphere.

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In the years of working in this industry 99.9% of individuals I have met have been absolutely, fantastic guys who are hugely respectful, who I would gladly meet again & again without hesitation.

In the past few weeks things have for some reason changed for the worse!

The first and most serious issue was being robbed (if anyone wants details of this retrobate I will gladly provide this privately).

As I only do hotel incalls my overheads are obviously quite considerable and certain individuals recently have not hesitated to make a booking to then cancel, whether this be for legitmate reasons or just a joke Im not finding it amusing!

Finally I was asked for services in return for a mobile phone!

Is this a sign of things to come and continue or have I just had an unlucky few weeks?

A recession is on, jobs are being lost everywhere and men find it hard to give up something they've become addicted to over many years.

You need security or leave the profession, it's not worth the risk of being robbed, or even worse.

I am not bothered whether or not you were robbed, as money can be replaced, but you can't. I find it incredulous that some people (not you, I hope!) would risk there lives for a bit of money or a few cash cards! Let 'em have the dosh and walk away - healthy.

Take it as a lucky escape and get yourself some security FFS!

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In the years of working in this industry 99.9% of individuals I have met have been absolutely, fantastic guys who are hugely respectful, who I would gladly meet again & again without hesitation.

In the past few weeks things have for some reason changed for the worse!

The first and most serious issue was being robbed (if anyone wants details of this retrobate I will gladly provide this privately).

As I only do hotel incalls my overheads are obviously quite considerable and certain individuals recently have not hesitated to make a booking to then cancel, whether this be for legitmate reasons or just a joke Im not finding it amusing!

Finally I was asked for services in return for a mobile phone!

Is this a sign of things to come and continue or have I just had an unlucky few weeks?

Hello, I am sorry to hear you have had such a shite time of late. I always found that the guys who try to haggle even your lowest booking price down inevitable either dont turn up or if they do they attempt to haggle you down again once there, so I just refused straight off to lower any prices in the initial phone call and told them future communication was pointless unless they accepted my prices. I found that tbh there were good days and bad with working from a hotel, sometimes every one turned up, sometimes a lot cancelled, its just the luck of the draw that day I think although you should check out the local competition, sometimes they can be responsible for the occasional no show or last minute cancellation...if someone sounds amused when cancelling and not gutted then my guess was that it was a fake booking anyhow. It happens. I hope it goes better for you in the future though.

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Thank you for all the messages. In answer to some of them, safety & security is paramount for obviously both concerned, I personally believe hotel rooms offer more safety than being in an isolated apartment, albeit it has some overhead drawbacks & security problems at both venues. This message was not intended as a scaremongering process, it was a probing question to really ask if this is just a sign of things to come and if anyone has experienced anything similar of late?

I used to work for an agency for a while but Ive been working solo for a few years now and not had one single problem, maybe Ive just previously been lucky!

Fingers crossed things resume to the good ole days..x

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Hi Shez, really sorry to hear about your horrible experience. There are some real low-life b*******s around. Would you consider reporting to the police?

Some escorts insist on having a landline number for security, even though actual communication is done via mobiles.

Hope things pick up for you.

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Hi Shez, really sorry to hear about your horrible experience. There are some real low-life b*******s around. Would you consider reporting to the police?

Some escorts insist on having a landline number for security, even though actual communication is done via mobiles.

Hope things pick up for you.

I've seen many independents where my mobile number has been OK, even at home (london) and indeed escort agencies in the big smoke where mobiles are ok for hotel calls.

Opp North....When I'm seeing someone at home the agencies always ask for the landline number.

I don't think that's the case here though, the lass needs to get security of some sort...it could have been far worse......

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Hi Shez, really sorry to hear about your horrible experience. There are some real low-life b*******s around. Would you consider reporting to the police? Some escorts insist on having a landline number for security, even though actual communication is done via mobiles. Hope things pick up for you.

I wouldnt give a landline number if asked as i punt anoynmously with a PAYG punting mobile. It would be a very silly thing to do to give a WG i didnt know that number, she might be a rip-off merchant when i actually meet her who then also has my landline, thats a definite never. I cant recall being asked for one in recent years though anyway. :)

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No I wouldnt consider police intervention, isnt it all about proof?...how is that possible? I can only warn other wgs about him by providing a name, age, height, general description (hes quite easily recognisable!). I do have security in terms of ppl know where I am, there is staff that know me quite well and there is also CCTV...thats more than a private apartment provides

I will keep myself as safe as humanly possible..x

No need to blow this completely out of proportion situations such as this are very rare I believe..x

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There does seem to be a lot of booking followed by cancelling going around at the moment...

Glad it's not just me who's experienceing this then, it's been particularly bad recently. I've had quite a few clients cancel/postpone at the last moment due to being called into work or being stuck at work; it seems that those who still have jobs have the cash but no free time.

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How awful for you hun, i hope you are ok....scary x

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In the years of working in this industry 99.9% of individuals I have met have been absolutely, fantastic guys who are hugely respectful, who I would gladly meet again & again without hesitation.

In the past few weeks things have for some reason changed for the worse!

The first and most serious issue was being robbed (if anyone wants details of this retrobate I will gladly provide this privately).

As I only do hotel incalls my overheads are obviously quite considerable and certain individuals recently have not hesitated to make a booking to then cancel, whether this be for legitmate reasons or just a joke Im not finding it amusing!

Finally I was asked for services in return for a mobile phone!

Is this a sign of things to come and continue or have I just had an unlucky few weeks?

Really sorry to hear this. I so hoped that you called the police. People think we are easy targets so it is essential that they know we are not.

Shelly

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No I wouldnt consider police intervention, isnt it all about proof?...how is that possible? I can only warn other wgs about him by providing a name, age, height, general description (hes quite easily recognisable!). I do have security in terms of ppl know where I am, there is staff that know me quite well and there is also CCTV...thats more than a private apartment provides

I will keep myself as safe as humanly possible..x

No need to blow this completely out of proportion situations such as this are very rare I believe..x

Sorry I didnt read this before my reply. But you know guys are going to think that they can do what they want if we dont report it. I think when guys think they can come in and rob you it is the lowest of the low and I for one wouldn't tolerate it. I know it is each to thier own but the people that did this to you will now go on to another girl.

I do wish you well and hope you dont have to go through this again.

Shelly

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You can post the details of the robber on the dangerous punters section and on the saafe forum I think.

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