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I have almost had it!!!

I have been trying for more than 3 weeks now to arrange a punt with a particular lady on purpleplanet. I don't know why I fancy meeting this particular lady, but she seems right good fun going by her blogs, pics & reviews.

I don't often have spare hours where I can fit in a punt, especially as in my area there are not a lot of ladies present.

1st attempt - booking arranged but asked to cancel as her child had a problem, which is fair enough.

2nd attempt - booking made, confirmed, then time put back by half-hour as a friend had called her in distress. Agreed to the time change & travelled 20odd miles to her home town. Texting regularly on the way. Gets to her street & tried to contact her for house number by phoning & by text. No replies & phone going to answer machine. I gave up & left for home after waiting 15 mins.

While driving I missed her calling me back & she left a lovely message being so apologetic & embarrassed, I called her back & we had a chat and she ended up blaming the friend for tying up her phone & her time, and offering to "make it up to me" if & when we meet next, saying how nice a guy I sounded.

Since then I have tried 5 or 6 times to make a booking, but I am always being turned down with various reasons. Think my problem is I am trying to book early evening, or 8ish & this might be problematic with her child.

Do you think I should continue with this? Or am I wasting both of our times?

I am gutted too because I had a great opportunity the other night for a punt, so tried again with the same girl, no reply to my text. Then emailed a different local girl, no reply. Set up a reverse booking on @W, no replies. Now I could go back to my local oriental girl who always seems to be available, but I was looking for something a bit more GFE-like, so ruled her out.

Bought a Sport! Called the only local number - straight to voicemail. Called another indy who looked promising & I have fancied meeting for a while - no reply. To say I am having a run of bad luck is an understatement!!!

Any advice would be nice guys! It's not even as if I am disgusting & smelly, I AM actually fairly nice & I do have a good feedback on the other site (only 1 mind you!)

Cheers for reading my woes...

G

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I have almost had it!!!

I have been trying for more than 3 weeks now to arrange a punt with a particular lady on purpleplanet. I don't know why I fancy meeting this particular lady, but she seems right good fun going by her blogs, pics & reviews.

I don't often have spare hours where I can fit in a punt, especially as in my area there are not a lot of ladies present.

1st attempt - booking arranged but asked to cancel as her child had a problem, which is fair enough.

2nd attempt - booking made, confirmed, then time put back by half-hour as a friend had called her in distress. Agreed to the time change & travelled 20odd miles to her home town. Texting regularly on the way. Gets to her street & tried to contact her for house number by phoning & by text. No replies & phone going to answer machine. I gave up & left for home after waiting 15 mins.

While driving I missed her calling me back & she left a lovely message being so apologetic & embarrassed, I called her back & we had a chat and she ended up blaming the friend for tying up her phone & her time, and offering to "make it up to me" if & when we meet next, saying how nice a guy I sounded.

Since then I have tried 5 or 6 times to make a booking, but I am always being turned down with various reasons. Think my problem is I am trying to book early evening, or 8ish & this might be problematic with her child.

Do you think I should continue with this? Or am I wasting both of our times?

I am gutted too because I had a great opportunity the other night for a punt, so tried again with the same girl, no reply to my text. Then emailed a different local girl, no reply. Set up a reverse booking on @W, no replies. Now I could go back to my local oriental girl who always seems to be available, but I was looking for something a bit more GFE-like, so ruled her out.

Bought a Sport! Called the only local number - straight to voicemail. Called another indy who looked promising & I have fancied meeting for a while - no reply. To say I am having a run of bad luck is an understatement!!!

Any advice would be nice guys! It's not even as if I am disgusting & smelly, I AM actually fairly nice & I do have a good feedback on the other site (only 1 mind you!)

Cheers for reading my woes...

G

Know the feeling, unfortunately! Last night I turned up for a punt booked a few weeks ago with a girl I've seen several times before, when we have always had a good time together. I emailed confirmation at the weekend, then by text on the day. She didn't respond, which was unusual, but she's always texted in the past when she's had to cancel. Rang the bell, no response; called her, she didn't pick up; left message, no response; texted, no response. Waited for about 20 minutes, then gave up. I made a 120 mile round trip to see her. I've no idea why she stood me up; she was in, the lights were on, and her phone was on. I've seen her 7 or 8 times before, and she's cancelled on 3 occasions; just wondering how hard I have to try?

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Happens to all of us.

Been left on the door step 5 or 6 times by a popular girl (and on days I was on unpaid leave specailly to go and see her ) and when I did eventually get to see her it was dissappointing :(

Id say leave it for now with her. Try next month....

And research around for another girl....

Unless your being over the top or explicit in your booking request email which means that your sounding like someone they dont want to meet...

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I have almost had it!!! I have been trying for more than 3 weeks now to arrange a punt with a particular lady on purpleplanet. I don't know why I fancy meeting this particular lady, but she seems right good fun going by her blogs, pics & reviews. I don't often have spare hours where I can fit in a punt, especially as in my area there are not a lot of ladies present. 1st attempt - booking arranged but asked to cancel as her child had a problem, which is fair enough. 2nd attempt - booking made, confirmed, then time put back by half-hour as a friend had called her in distress. Agreed to the time change & travelled 20odd miles to her home town. Texting regularly on the way. Gets to her street & tried to contact her for house number by phoning & by text. No replies & phone going to answer machine. I gave up & left for home after waiting 15 mins. While driving I missed her calling me back & she left a lovely message being so apologetic & embarrassed, I called her back & we had a chat and she ended up blaming the friend for tying up her phone & her time, and offering to "make it up to me" if & when we meet next, saying how nice a guy I sounded. Since then I have tried 5 or 6 times to make a booking, but I am always being turned down with various reasons. Think my problem is I am trying to book early evening, or 8ish & this might be problematic with her child. Do you think I should continue with this? Or am I wasting both of our times? I am gutted too because I had a great opportunity the other night for a punt, so tried again with the same girl, no reply to my text. Then emailed a different local girl, no reply. Set up a reverse booking on @W, no replies. Now I could go back to my local oriental girl who always seems to be available, but I was looking for something a bit more GFE-like, so ruled her out. Bought a Sport! Called the only local number - straight to voicemail. Called another indy who looked promising & I have fancied meeting for a while - no reply. To say I am having a run of bad luck is an understatement!!! Any advice would be nice guys! It's not even as if I am disgusting & smelly, I AM actually fairly nice & I do have a good feedback on the other site (only 1 mind you!) Cheers for reading my woes... G

You have my sympathy, in this scenario i would certainly move on. I punt in London and have little problem locating WGs on the purple site so have it easier than it sounds like you do so can only advice you to perservere with that site and consider posting a thread on here for recommendations in your punting area. I wish you luck. :)

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Sorry you live in a punting desert, difficult to imagine such a nightmare..

However you should certainly abandon this lady. It's not your fault -she sounds like a total time waster.

Move on.

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Cut your losses and remember to have a plan B in your pocket. Put this one down to experience. Most of us have had the same feeling at some time.

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Do you think I should continue with this? Or am I wasting both of our times?

You may not be wasting her time, but you sure as hell are wasting yours by keeping on trying to book her. It is only going to make your aggravation worse each time you keep on booking and then having to pull out again.

Expand your horizons would be one suggestion. Twenty miles isn't, in the grand scheme of things, far to travel, so unless you happen to be living in the great British Sahara, it would probably be worthwhile to be willing to travel a bit further to a larger town/city where you have a greater chance of success.

I know you mentioned looking through the Sport, but you appear to be concentrating on ladies listed on thatpurpleandwhitewebsitewhichwecannotnamebutcanalludeto, but don't see it as the be all and end all of commercial fornication. See what google throws up in terms of indies, agencies or parlours in your vicinity, or within yomping distance thereof.

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You may not be wasting her time, but you sure as hell are wasting yours by keeping on trying to book her. It is only going to make your aggravation worse each time you keep on booking and then having to pull out again.

Expand your horizons would be one suggestion. Twenty miles isn't, in the grand scheme of things, far to travel, so unless you happen to be living in the great British Sahara, it would probably be worthwhile to be willing to travel a bit further to a larger town/city where you have a greater chance of success.

I know you mentioned looking through the Sport, but you appear to be concentrating on ladies listed on thatpurpleandwhitewebsitewhichwecannotnamebutcanalludeto, but don't see it as the be all and end all of commercial fornication. See what google throws up in terms of indies, agencies or parlours in your vicinity, or within yomping distance thereof.

I agree - you are definitely wasting your time here. The most I'll try to book a girl without success is three times then I'll give up.

Where do you live? Maybe we can give you some suggestions that are within a reasonable distance of you?

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I agree - you are definitely wasting your time here. The most I'll try to book a girl without success is three times then I'll give up. Where do you live? Maybe we can give you some suggestions that are within a reasonable distance of you?

I already advised him to post a thread up so those who know of any WGs in the area he wants to punt in can let him know their experiences and recommendations. :)

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I already advised him to post a thread up so those who know of any WGs in the area he wants to punt in can let him know their experiences and recommendations. :)

So you did - I just completely missed it, doh! But hopefully he gets the message now!

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Thanks guys, more or less confirmed my own thoughts, will move on.

There are a few WGs in my area according to Purple Pages, and I have gone through the usual "channels" on t'internet etc to find a partner, without much success.

I am in Fife in Scotland, and a lot of my punting has been done in Edinburgh in the past, which is almost always a reasonable success, but I have been trying to find a local lass for ease of travelling when I don't have a couple of hours to spare.

I am always very polite in my emails & not explicit at all, so I doubt that's it. It's maybe just bad timing on my part. Oh well, c'est la vie...

Any Fife recommendations would be v.much appreciated, as most of the girls I can find here are not up to much as far as I can see.

There used to be a real gem in Dunfermline called Katy, an oriental girl, she was amazing, visited her a few times, but she has retired apparently after almost being caught with another girl in her flat, pity she's not around any longer!!!

Gaz

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Thanks guys, more or less confirmed my own thoughts, will move on.

There are a few WGs in my area according to Purple Pages, and I have gone through the usual "channels" on t'internet etc to find a partner, without much success.

I am in Fife in Scotland, and a lot of my punting has been done in Edinburgh in the past, which is almost always a reasonable success, but I have been trying to find a local lass for ease of travelling when I don't have a couple of hours to spare.

I am always very polite in my emails & not explicit at all, so I doubt that's it. It's maybe just bad timing on my part. Oh well, c'est la vie...

Any Fife recommendations would be v.much appreciated, as most of the girls I can find here are not up to much as far as I can see.

There used to be a real gem in Dunfermline called Katy, an oriental girl, she was amazing, visited her a few times, but she has retired apparently after almost being caught with another girl in her flat, pity she's not around any longer!!!

Gaz

Not my area Gaz but i wish you good luck in locating a WG suitable to you. :)

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I have almost had it!!!

I have been trying for more than 3 weeks now to arrange a punt with a particular lady on purpleplanet. I don't know why I fancy meeting this particular lady, but she seems right good fun going by her blogs, pics & reviews.

I don't often have spare hours where I can fit in a punt, especially as in my area there are not a lot of ladies present.

1st attempt - booking arranged but asked to cancel as her child had a problem, which is fair enough.

2nd attempt - booking made, confirmed, then time put back by half-hour as a friend had called her in distress. Agreed to the time change & travelled 20odd miles to her home town. Texting regularly on the way. Gets to her street & tried to contact her for house number by phoning & by text. No replies & phone going to answer machine. I gave up & left for home after waiting 15 mins.

While driving I missed her calling me back & she left a lovely message being so apologetic & embarrassed, I called her back & we had a chat and she ended up blaming the friend for tying up her phone & her time, and offering to "make it up to me" if & when we meet next, saying how nice a guy I sounded.

Since then I have tried 5 or 6 times to make a booking, but I am always being turned down with various reasons. Think my problem is I am trying to book early evening, or 8ish & this might be problematic with her child.

Do you think I should continue with this? Or am I wasting both of our times?

I am gutted too because I had a great opportunity the other night for a punt, so tried again with the same girl, no reply to my text. Then emailed a different local girl, no reply. Set up a reverse booking on @W, no replies. Now I could go back to my local oriental girl who always seems to be available, but I was looking for something a bit more GFE-like, so ruled her out.

Bought a Sport! Called the only local number - straight to voicemail. Called another indy who looked promising & I have fancied meeting for a while - no reply. To say I am having a run of bad luck is an understatement!!!

Any advice would be nice guys! It's not even as if I am disgusting & smelly, I AM actually fairly nice & I do have a good feedback on the other site (only 1 mind you!)

Cheers for reading my woes...

G

whats her name and where is she from, be nice to have a look at her profile, thanks

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Give up, clearly too unreliable.

It's unfortunate, and that may be the case here, but there are some very genuine girls that just cant get it together, so give up once it gets to the numbers that you quote.

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If you are still happy to go over the water, you could ring Jade in Edinburgh. Highly recommendable, independent and a worthy replacement for Katy.

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If you are still happy to go over the water, you could ring Jade in Edinburgh. Highly recommendable, independent and a worthy replacement for Katy.

If you mean Jade on this website...

http://thai-escort.co.uk

then I simply must meet her, she is stunning!

Anyway, I have since tried again with the original girl, booking confirmed for last Monday,

but this time I had a problem & had to cancel !!! We have re-arranged for the 7th so will see

what happens.

Will do a FR if I manage to get there!

Gaz

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Had a booking confirmed for today but as soon as the booking was confirmed, 5 or so days in advance, no further contact was received. Had good feedback on the site. All of which left me in a bit of a limbo. Had a feeling it wouldn't be going ahead but didn't make any other plans just in case. All of which is annoying but them are the breaks I guess. Just going to give someone else my custom.

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Resurrecting this one. Had a bloody annoying experience tonight.

I have managed to get myself a duff feedback on my ** account, basically a stupid comment from a provider who I gave negative to. I have 5 or 6 glowing reports then this obviously fake one. So anyway, a new girl has started advertising a sensual massage service. I have emailed her a couple of times, and had a couple of nice polite replies. I have explained the stupid feedback and she sent me a nice comment back.

Tonight I phoned the girl, albeit short notice, to find out if she was free. She missed my call but texted me back within a few minutes. I asked if she was free, she said yes, but wanted me to tell her a bit about me. At this point, she didn't know I was the guy she had been emailing, so I mentioned it, gave her my age etc. I didn't hear back immediately but thought what the hell, I'll take a chance, so jumped in me car, drove the 20 miles to her town, tried her phone a couple of times on the way - engaged.

Got to her town & eventually got through, only to be told that sorry - she was no longer free as she had just booked 2 or 3 appointments for this evening. What a waste of time. I was so polite on the phone too, wished her good night, cheerily etc.

On the way home, she sent 2 weird texts - one apologising for me having a "very bad experience", to which I sent one back saying I hadn't had a bad experience and that I understood short notice bookings were not guaranteed. A few minutes later one arrived saying she was sorry for poking her nose into my business or words to that effect - which was bizarre & didn't make any sense at all - like these texts were maybe meant for someone else? That one got deleted without reply & she has now been removed from my phone contacts. Some people seem to go out of there way to lose custom.

Jeez I can pick 'em !

Can't wait until spicepaola is back in my area, normal service will be resumed! (Yes, found myself a Katy replacement - Italian this time - although not quite as horny but still A+)

Edited by Jambogaz

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EDIT: Just went back on to purple to see if she's mailed me & it seems she has deleted her profile, probably for the best - seems a troubled lady, thinking about it.

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Resurrecting this one. Had a bloody annoying experience tonight.

I have managed to get myself a duff feedback on my ** account, basically a stupid comment from a provider who I gave negative to. I have 5 or 6 glowing reports then this obviously fake one. So anyway, a new girl has started advertising a sensual massage service. I have emailed her a couple of times, and had a couple of nice polite replies. I have explained the stupid feedback and she sent me a nice comment back.

Tonight I phoned the girl, albeit short notice, to find out if she was free. She missed my call but texted me back within a few minutes. I asked if she was free, she said yes, but wanted me to tell her a bit about me. At this point, she didn't know I was the guy she had been emailing, so I mentioned it, gave her my age etc. I didn't hear back immediately but thought what the hell, I'll take a chance, so jumped in me car, drove the 20 miles to her town, tried her phone a couple of times on the way - engaged.

Got to her town & eventually got through, only to be told that sorry - she was no longer free as she had just booked 2 or 3 appointments for this evening. What a waste of time. I was so polite on the phone too, wished her good night, cheerily etc.

On the way home, she sent 2 weird texts - one apologising for me having a "very bad experience", to which I sent one back saying I hadn't had a bad experience and that I understood short notice bookings were not guaranteed. A few minutes later one arrived saying she was sorry for poking her nose into my business or words to that effect - which was bizarre & didn't make any sense at all - like these texts were maybe meant for someone else? That one got deleted without reply & she has now been removed from my phone contacts. Some people seem to go out of there way to lose custom.

Jeez I can pick 'em !

Can't wait until spicepaola is back in my area, normal service will be resumed! (Yes, found myself a Katy replacement - Italian this time - although not quite as horny but still A+)

Troubled or not are you saying you just zoomed off on spec without having made an appointment?If so then I'm not surprised you couldn't get through when you phoned again, because it is highly likely she (a)took another booking, or made arrangements to do something else or ( :cool: found it off putting that a guy would just try and turn up.

Waste of time?As far as I can see it's only you that's caused time to be wasted.

For some reason there are some guys who think they can charge off, get to town, call you and if you aren't available get in a bit of a strop about it. Some even just ring up, discuss a few services, fees, then go straight on to 'gimme your address I'll phone on the way into town'. Err you've not actually given me a time soI can expect you at 10 past, 17 minutes past, 10 minutes to?how long for?and in the meantime just sit around and put everything on hold?and how does this fit in with other bookings I may have?I think not.

Haven't a clue why she started asking you questions, perhaps she was trying to suss you out, or she could have just been being friendly. As regards the texts although not discrete perhaps she did think she'd offended you by being nosy, and was simply apologising.

Keeping things simple generally avoids a lot of pratting about.

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Tough Luck Jambogaz :(

When you do get to Edinburgh, give Heather Pleasure a try ? She's in the Purple Pages and is very good. :D

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If I were Jambogaz I would consider moving to Milton Keynes, where there seems to be an inexhaustible bevy of appealing ladies only too keen to meet men :D

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Hi Strawberry, thanks for replying.

I agree keeping things simple usually works out.

However, I had a spur of the moment thing where I had a spare bit of time on my hands & thought, rather than go & munch on a takeaway, I'll see if I can have a massage.

Her text to me was along the lines of yes I am free, just want some info about you (me). I thought fair enough, especially as she appeared to be new to this life...

With her saying she was free NOW, I decided to take a chance and zip off to her town, so I would be closer when she agreed to it.

I wasn't so much bothered about the knock back, I am (maybe wrongly) assuming that it was due to my feedback, what is bugging me is she should just have been upfront & told me there & then, once she knew who I am,. instead of buggering about texting back & forwards.

And the texts afterwards (about 20 minutes after the KB) were bizarre, not friendly, or sussing me out. Why would she want to anyway? And her wording was odd too. Sorry for your very bad experience. Then going on about poking her nose in, which she hadn't. This girl is Scottish, sounded fairly intelligent on the phone & by email. Just odd I guess. Or texted the wrong fella.

Ended up having the bloody takeaway after all, lol

Takes all sorts.

Can't stand it when a conversation just comes to an end via text, with no resolution either way. What did she think I was going to do? Send her a nasty word?

Anyways, onwards & upwards, my area appears to be being over-run with Oriental lasses just now as far as I can see on purple, 4 or 5 active within 20 miles, all with zero feedback & what look like stock piccies. Think I'll steer clear for now...;-)

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Cheers for the recommendation Jack, I will add her to my list of Edinburgh lasses still to meet, along with Lucy-28 & The Blowjob Queen [!!!]

Actually, edit that, I can't find her...Oh well, will keep an eye out.

Cheers anyway.

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