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Should This Girl Be An Escort?

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So I was browsing some escort profiles and came across one I couldn't stop thinking about. The girl (19 year old) went in to great length about how much she enjoys sex and all the various things she enjoys offering. Then right at the end of the profile it says:

"I'm physically very sensitive underneath the clitoris and on nipples and don't like these places to be overly stimulated."

Now I don't want to come across as insensitive to a woman's wishes but in honesty my first thought was, "Bullshit!". Sounded to me like she's saying that to give herself a get-out clause if she wants the punter to stop having sex with her or she's feeling uncomfortable with the guy touching her. I can imagine lying naked with her, I go to feel her amazing breasts and she backs away saying, "Sorry please don't touch me there, I'm sensitive". Great! What shall we do? Have a game of chess and a nice chat over a cup of tea then?

Ok but then maybe I am being insensitive and she really is over sensitive in these areas. If so, why the heck is she an escort? It's like a butcher saying, "Sure I'll cut you a nice side of lamb but blood makes me squirmish and I might have to stop if I see any".

On the flip side, if she's lying and using this line as a way to limit a guy's fun for whatever reason, you also have to wonder, why is she an escort?

She had a nice body and sounded like she'd be fun to punt with but there's no way I'd book her based on this line. What do you guys and gals think?

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I think you missed the word 'OVERLY'.

Some guys are so delighted to have found the clit (or even worse, found the urethra and THINK it's the clit) that they rub it for ages like they're hoping a genie will pop out. If it is th clit, this can be uncomfortable. If it's the urethra, it's bloody agony.

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Hmmm, yes I think it's an odd thing for an escort to put on a profile whether true or not. Apart from anything most chaps don't read it all anyway! If a guy really enjoys spending a lot of time of the nips and clit she might not be the right girl for him, It would be pretty annoying if you showed up and then she refused or stopped contact in these places.

Of course it could be a kneejerk reaction to some idiot being overly rough. I agree with Claire to a point, but I think in this game you need to have fairly robust erogenous zones!

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If so, why the heck is she an escort? It's like a butcher saying, "Sure I'll cut you a nice side of lamb but blood makes me squirmish and I might have to stop if I see any".

On the flip side, if she's lying and using this line as a way to limit a guy's fun for whatever reason, you also have to wonder, why is she an escort?

Bad analogy imo, dead pieces of meat do not equate to us - I know you probably weren't suggesting that. There are clients who have no idea of how sensitive human flesh can be. They just haven't learned. Think raking beetroot out of a jar with a set of gauntlets, when wanting to give you a little 'fingering', or rigorously trying to tune into Radio Luxemborg when they want to turn you on with a bit of breast play and you'll go some way to understanding someone may want to state "I'm physically very sensitive underneath the clitoris and on nipples and don't like these places to be overly stimulated."

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Bad analogy imo, dead pieces of meat do not equate to us - I know you probably weren't suggesting that. There are clients who have no idea of how sensitive human flesh can be. They just haven't learned. Think raking beetroot out of a jar with a set of gauntlets, when wanting to give you a little 'fingering', or rigorously trying to tune into Radio Luxemborg when they want to turn you on with a bit of breast play and you'll go some way to understanding someone may want to state "I'm physically very sensitive underneath the clitoris and on nipples and don't like these places to be overly stimulated."

Brilliant analogies. I must try to remember them when next in the throes of passion.

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I understand where she's coming from, I have incredibly sensitive nipples and a large clit that gets sensitive very easily if someone is going about it all damn wrong. Gentle stimulation can feel amazing but if some nips either my nipples or clit, they'll get a bloody slap!. I wouldn't put it on my profile but I do mention it at the start of a meeting and explain they have to be gentle. Especially with the clit, rubbing it frantically, flicking it incessantly, won't be pleasurable, it will just make it oversensitive far too quickly and then I won't want them to do ANYTHING down there and tell them to stop. So they ruin it for themselves if they dive in like Melanie described!

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So I was browsing some escort profiles and came across one I couldn't stop thinking about. The girl (19 year old) went in to great length about how much she enjoys sex and all the various things she enjoys offering. Then right at the end of the profile it says:

"I'm physically very sensitive underneath the clitoris and on nipples and don't like these places to be overly stimulated."

Now I don't want to come across as insensitive to a woman's wishes but in honesty my first thought was, "Bullshit!". Sounded to me like she's saying that to give herself a get-out clause if she wants the punter to stop having sex with her or she's feeling uncomfortable with the guy touching her. I can imagine lying naked with her, I go to feel her amazing breasts and she backs away saying, "Sorry please don't touch me there, I'm sensitive". Great! What shall we do? Have a game of chess and a nice chat over a cup of tea then?

Ok but then maybe I am being insensitive and she really is over sensitive in these areas. If so, why the heck is she an escort? It's like a butcher saying, "Sure I'll cut you a nice side of lamb but blood makes me squirmish and I might have to stop if I see any".

On the flip side, if she's lying and using this line as a way to limit a guy's fun for whatever reason, you also have to wonder, why is she an escort?

She had a nice body and sounded like she'd be fun to punt with but there's no way I'd book her based on this line. What do you guys and gals think?

I would speak to her on the phone and ask for clarification what it actually means so i am clear and if happy make a booking.

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Great responses. I'd be interested to know from the WGs here, what proportion of guys are overly heavy handed when trying to stimulate you down there, and how many guys get it right? I'm no black belt at the martial art of the perfect clit stimulation but like to believe I've learnt enough to handle with care! Incidentally, I've yet to experience a woman who can give a satisfactory hand job. They always seem to feel that the harder, further and faster you tug at it the more enjoyable it will be. I envy gay guys in that respect.

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Great responses. I'd be interested to know from the WGs here, what proportion of guys are overly heavy handed when trying to stimulate you down there, and how many guys get it right? I'm no black belt at the martial art of the perfect clit stimulation but like to believe I've learnt enough to handle with care! Incidentally, I've yet to experience a woman who can give a satisfactory hand job. They always seem to feel that the harder, further and faster you tug at it the more enjoyable it will be. I envy gay guys in that respect.

In my experience, before I say something 90% bad, 10%. After some brutal honesty and having to explain that whilst their technique may send another girl into throes of passion, it's turning me cold and giving them a few pointers, the ratio is more like 50/50. Same goes for hand job technique, it's about working out what works for THAT particular guy and going with it. Some like it hard and fast, some like to be teased and stroked, everyone is different and if you listen carefully to what they're saying, everyone's a winner!

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Surely better to start gently and work up from there if necessary. Ladies usually complain I am too gentle with my tongue and fingers but I would rather have that complaint than the opposite.

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Some guy like sensitive, gentle participation, some prefer it harder and rough. Should a girl only offer herself if she can take higher than a certain level of action?should we simply be numb?

Should a highly sensitive woman even be allowed to have sex?

The answer to this question is that everyone is different, and it's not too difficult to start gently and work your way up.

I'm guessing some men would find this highly erotic.

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Surely better to start gently and work up from there if necessary. Ladies usually complain I am too gentle with my tongue and fingers but I would rather have that complaint than the opposite.

Hear hear!

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Great responses. I'd be interested to know from the WGs here, what proportion of guys are overly heavy handed when trying to stimulate you down there, and how many guys get it right? I'm no black belt at the martial art of the perfect clit stimulation but like to believe I've learnt enough to handle with care! Incidentally, I've yet to experience a woman who can give a satisfactory hand job. They always seem to feel that the harder, further and faster you tug at it the more enjoyable it will be. I envy gay guys in that respect.

Generally speaking, less is more. And if it isn't, it will make the lady want more, not less, which seems better than the other way round. Too much pressure too fast is my greatest problem, and will make me squirm away a bit, whereas too light a touch will simply make me hornier.

I find that men are more likely to apply slightly too much pressure with their hands; oral is less problematic because it's actually quite hard to apply too much pressure with something as soft as a tongue (but it can go wrong if there's sudden, furious licking!) I think it will vary widely: I find that I don't need any specific type of stimulation so long as it's started off slow and light. Other women will be used to orgasming in a very specific way, and it can be hard to get yourself out of that psychological place (back when I regularly used a vibrator, it was harder to orgasm just from fingers or tongue, but you can definitely train yourself out of the habit by not using one too much!)

I believe the same can happen to men if they get used to orgasming in a very specific way?

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