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Working Girl And Marriage

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Just a question, may be a thread, but a very serious one.

Any Escort, whom you would want to marry for real. Like you would not think twice and get married

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This is a rather contentious issue from recent memory - but the general idea follows that you can't marry someone without really knowing and understanding the other person first as in a proper full-on relationship, so your question is reduced to whether you can have a normal relationship with a WG outside of her work. To me and many posters (punters and WGs alike) here, the answer is 'probably yes'. I don't have personal testimonial but have read successful stories on this and other forum before. The reason I said 'probably' is because I hate generalisation of the whole industry - I believe we are all human, so each and every WG/punter encounter is different and unique, some people may get on so well and form a relationship (and beyond) but most do not.

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Just a question, may be a thread, but a very serious one. Any Escort, whom you would want to marry for real. Like you would not think twice and get married

I dont believe in marriage but if i met someone i got on well enough with who knows what could happen. I wouldnt be monogomous though as the concept sucks and is not for me, never has been and never will be.

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Different slants of this topic get raised all the time, try the search.

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I dont believe in marriage but if i met someone i got on well enough with who knows what could happen. I wouldnt be monogomous though as the concept sucks and is not for me, never has been and never will be.

I couldn't agree more. I can't stand the idea of only being with one person for the rest of my life...there is too much fun to be had with so many others! :D

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I think it's far less complicated and far more fruitful to look for love as far away from this environment as is possible. If it does happen then it would be so right and fateful that it would happen so easily. Monogamy is my ideal, but in the meantime good easy to find sex keeps the lust buds ticking over just nicely.

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Just a question, may be a thread, but a very serious one.

Any Escort, whom you would want to marry for real. Like you would not think twice and get married

Clearly you have never been married, which by its nature is a form of bondage.

Why would you want to marry someone who is having, and will continue to have, sex with umpteen different men every day ?

Why would any woman want to marry a man who did not mind her having sex with umpteen different men everyday ?

If you think you have fallen in love with a hooker you are in trouble, in more ways than one. So head for the hills, or maybe your GP can have you sectioned for three months or so, where your therapist can read aloud the latest field reports of your object of desire.

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Unless you definitely intend to have children, then I see no point in marriage.

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Absolutely, as long as it is not a preconceived notion by either party. I also read an assumption into the original question that the type of work would therefore change.

I was very close once and only geography thwarted the idea.

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Just a question, may be a thread, but a very serious one.

Any Escort, whom you would want to marry for real. Like you would not think twice and get married

A very long time ago in the middle of an acronomious divorce, I had great sex a few times in a parlour in Reading with a gorgeous Spanish girl who was working her way as a WG through her studies at the University there. She asked me if I was married, and I said "yes" out of habit and because it was still technically true. I always wonder how things would have turned out if I had said "no" and proposed to her.

Cheers!

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Clearly you have never been married, which by its nature is a form of bondage.

Why would you want to marry someone who is having, and will continue to have, sex with umpteen different men every day ?

Why would any woman want to marry a man who did not mind her having sex with umpteen different men everyday ?

If you think you have fallen in love with a hooker you are in trouble, in more ways than one. So head for the hills, or maybe your GP can have you sectioned for three months or so, where your therapist can read aloud the latest field reports of your object of desire.

Some men really don't mind, some get off on it! There are many WG's with long term lovers/husbands/partners. Don't judge others by your own feelings!

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Some men really don't mind, some get off on it! There are many WG's with long term lovers/husbands/partners. Don't judge others by your own feelings!

I don't think it's a question of minding, some men fall in love with WGs as individuals and simply accept it's their job. End of. Sure it brings slightly more issues into the relationship, but a lot of couples manage to work through them. Love is often stronger than you think.

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Just a question, may be a thread, but a very serious one.

Any Escort, whom you would want to marry for real. Like you would not think twice and get married

I did , didn't last long but saved me a shed load of cash :)

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I did , didn't last long but saved me a shed load of cash :)

Yep, divorce is known as "the cheap option" where I come from (not) !!!!

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I have been asked so many times am I married? Quite often by Oriental WG's who want to see me after wards outside their current situation. No I am not that good looking, But Oriental women think I am.

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Why would you want to marry someone who is having, and will continue to have, sex with umpteen different men every day ?

Why not? We may have extraordinary careers but for the most we are ordinary normal human beings. Perhaps you should learn more about women and concentrate less on your own securities. Umpteen? bit of a guestimate that lol.

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Why not? We may have extraordinary careers but for the most we are ordinary normal human beings. Perhaps you should learn more about women and concentrate less on your own securities. Umpteen? bit of a guestimate that lol.

Very much agree Helen. In any truely open and honest relationship there should be no reason why a working girl should not have a stable and loving relationship outside of her profession. While it might be hard for many/most men to accept for all sorts of reasons (including their own insecurities), there is more to any relationship than mere sexual compatibility. Two people may well get on like a house on fire in terms of their sexual relations, but might not be able to live, and love, together. The opposite also applies and is perhaps one major reason why punters punt.

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If we were right for each other, perhaps. The truth is I'm not really sure how I would react in that situation. I can post her about how her career makes no difference, but the real response when I'm in that sitation may be quite different.

Of course, I would have to get to know her properly first i.e. be able to see her without having to make an appointment.

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I dont believe in marriage but if i met someone i got on well enough with who knows what could happen. I wouldnt be monogomous though as the concept sucks and is not for me, never has been and never will be.

Would you tell them you had no intention of being monogamous though? Or would they think you were monogamous?

Unless you definitely intend to have children, then I see no point in marriage.

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Why not? We may have extraordinary careers but for the most we are ordinary normal human beings. Perhaps you should learn more about women and concentrate less on your own securities. Umpteen? bit of a guestimate that lol.

Given those stats there wouldn't be time for a ceremony never mind a marriage! :huh:

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I came close but sadly he passed away but he was very special indeed. However I do feel being a wg may have altered my attitude to relationships in some way though may have already been that way and not known it being fond of variety so to say.

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I don't think it's a question of minding, some men fall in love with WGs as individuals and simply accept it's their job. End of. Sure it brings slightly more issues into the relationship, but a lot of couples manage to work through them. Love is often stronger than you think.

Well it worked for me! My husband never had a problem separating my job from our life together, and after 10 years he still has no issues with what I did (and very occasionally still do).

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You can't marry a WG, we grow tentacles, an sucker all your cash out of you without the receipt of goods returned. MWAHAHAHAH :-P

Honestly, it's not like we are different to other women, we just happen to have a job that is out of the "NORM"

One would think that all the posters on here who come to us for solace (the married or un-married kind) are of the thought that because we give it up for a cash prize, that we are somehow diminished and or damaged in some way which renders us unlovable.

Lets face it, if you bring home expensive gifts, how many of the womenfolk don't put out.

All women are whore's it's just a perspective on morality, and wether a "god" sanctify's the whoredom.

Joy...

bring on the dissension, and mass murder, and proclamations...

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