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What are the possible motives?

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Happened to me once or twice.Again today. Have heard it has happened to other ladies. A guy makes a booking. I do the usual. Ask him to CALL when on the road. At the booking time he doesn't call, he texts to say he is on the road and can he have the door number. I text him back saying he has to call. He doesn't reply. I look outside. He is definetley not there. Strange or what. Then I hear nothing. What could the motive be? Strange. :D::eek:

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Sounds ominous to me... but why they wouldnt want to speak when they have already texted I don't know- presumably you have their number?

Perhaps they are just timewasters.

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Happened to me once or twice.Again today. Have heard it has happened to other ladies. A guy makes a booking. I do the usual. Ask him to CALL when on the road. At the booking time he doesn't call, he texts to say he is on the road and can he have the door number. I text him back saying he has to call. He doesn't reply. I look outside. He is definetley not there. Strange or what. Then I hear nothing. What could the motive be? Strange. :)::eek:

He probably goes trainspotting in his time off. this is his other great hobby to glean as much information on every whore in the country without actually visiting them. It all goes into his whorespotting book, which he hopes to get published and sell one day. It sure does remind me of someone on this board, but I can't .remember who?:D Perhaps if you are "interested" you should text him and ask for his punternet nickname!:rolleyes:

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Its not just you hun we all get our fair share I'm sure, store him in your phone as time waster whatever name and next time you will be wise to him thats what I do :mad:

I think some guys actually get off on doing this god knows why :rolleyes:

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I had one on Saturday, I normally store their numbers as timewasters, I had a feeling this was one but the number hadn't been stored as such, so I wasn't sure if he had been a no show. He was a no show, he is now correctly stored.

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Happened to me once or twice.Again today. Have heard it has happened to other ladies. A guy makes a booking. I do the usual. Ask him to CALL when on the road. At the booking time he doesn't call, he texts to say he is on the road and can he have the door number. I text him back saying he has to call. He doesn't reply. I look outside. He is definetley not there. Strange or what. Then I hear nothing. What could the motive be? Strange. :mad:::rolleyes:

It might be stretching the "benefit of the doubt" a bit far, but maybe they're very shy/nervous and want to check out how conspicuous the entrance is before committing?

Also, could be a newbie - when it's still all email/text it's not quite as "real" as speaking to a live human being, after which there might not be any going back.

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Happened to me once or twice.Again today. Have heard it has happened to other ladies. A guy makes a booking. I do the usual. Ask him to CALL when on the road.

I would never visit a lady who imposes that rule, I want the address at the time of booking ---------- or no booking, seemples. :rolleyes:

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I wouldn't bother about only being given the house or apartment number when when I got to the street, I'd think it was quite sensible for an escort to take that precaution with a first time punter.

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It doesnt just happen to working girls,it happens to us punters as well.The first time I got to the girls street phoned for the house number and got a text straight back saying she didnt start work at the time I booked because she had an english lesson,could I phone back and rebook.The second time it happened I was outside the girls block of flats,I phoned for the flat number and got the maid,she said the girl had a late night and could I rebook for later in the day.Needless to say I didnt want any more to do with either of these girls,they both wasted my time,especially the first girl,Iwent out of my way to meet her because I didnt want to travel into London as the weather was hot and ended up going into London anyway.

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I would never visit a lady who imposes that rule, I want the address at the time of booking ---------- or no booking, seemples. :rolleyes:

Jim these are basic security measures and I am quite sure your well aware of the reasons they are used. I would urge any girl working alone to adopt them even if it would put them at risk from loosing your much treasured custom.

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Maybe he has problems with authority.

Why do you insist?

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Happened to me once or twice.Again today. Have heard it has happened to other ladies. A guy makes a booking. I do the usual. Ask him to CALL when on the road. At the booking time he doesn't call, he texts to say he is on the road and can he have the door number. I text him back saying he has to call. He doesn't reply. I look outside. He is definetley not there. Strange or what. Then I hear nothing. What could the motive be? Strange. :mad:::rolleyes:

An escort I know passingly well has had this happen to her a few times as well. Goodness knows what motivates some guys who like to timewaste in this game. Weirdos ! I have precious little enough time to waste as it is, I can't imagine what pleasure anyone gets from disrupting someone elses day like that. It (and much worse) clearly happens though.

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Weirdos ! I have precious little enough time to waste as it is

Its generally the sign of a good timewaster when the client insists on texting anyway. Why not simply phone? You can get more info in one minute than you could get texting for half an hour. If hes so shy he cant phone then how is he going to work up the nerve to actually attend?! Sometimes I think these are people who are bored at work.

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yes it happens, as does the one with such bad luck with cars in so far that every time he books something happens to the car so sent link to aa and of course the one with at least 3 mothers who pass away,

Lucky for me I use lo salt to take any bookings from such with and move on.

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Jim these are basic security measures and I am quite sure your well aware of the reasons they are used. I would urge any girl working alone to adopt them even if it would put them at risk from loosing your much treasured custom.

Total nonsense, if a potential rapist or robber is going to target you then that so called "security measure" would be pointless.

I refuse to travel a long distance and risk the girl not answering her phone when I arrive.

Suppose I book a 30 minute appointment and then one of her regulars wants to book 2 hours at the same time -------- what is she going to do. :rolleyes:

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i would imagine it isnt just the extremes of robbery and rape that the girls have to worry about. you'd want to try and limit knowledge of your address to serious punters, people who will turn up on appointment, not those who might be looking to spring a surprise and call two or three days later in the middle of the night, looking for some action.

I'm happy to travel knowing only the street and then phone for the number, you need to know the street so you can guage if you setting yourself up for a low dive, because you rarely find gems in slums. Most agencies give you the full address when you book, i can only think of one, cheap& chic, who held back the house/flat number.

i saw in one of JRC's posts he drove a round trip of 80 miles to a booking, i can see if you're making that kind of committment you may well take a different view.

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Even stranger when they ring and say they are outside, you tell them how to get in and they never appear. Happened to me in a hotel in Galway recently. Called to say he was just parking his car. Then nothing!

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I'm happy to travel knowing only the street and then phone for the number

Sooner or later you will phone on arrival and get voicemail, only happened to me once, it wont happen again. :rolleyes:

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Total nonsense, if a potential rapist or robber is going to target you then that so called "security measure" would be pointless.

I refuse to travel a long distance and risk the girl not answering her phone when I arrive.

Suppose I book a 30 minute appointment and then one of her regulars wants to book 2 hours at the same time -------- what is she going to do. :rolleyes:

It's not about potential robbers and rapists, it's about potential stalkers and exposers, who having collected your address are free to watch your every move, take note of your kids, send a mailshot to your neighbours, generally have fun at your expense.

Also there is the possibilty that your caller is not alone, and who wants a group of men at the door?

Really Jimmy, for one who has been around so long and knows so much about this game, I credited you with a little more sense.

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Also there is the possibilty that your caller is not alone, and who wants a group of men at the door?

Not sure how you could avoid that happening, it would depend on the layout of your premises, with some apartments it would not be possible to see if the guy was alone. :rolleyes:

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Not sure how you could avoid that happening, it would depend on the layout of your premises, with some apartments it would not be possible to see if the guy was alone. :rolleyes:

Well, OBVIOUSLY it's not failsafe. May I borrow your :mad: a moment? Thankyou. :(

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It's not about potential robbers and rapists, it's about potential stalkers and exposers, who having collected your address are free to watch your every move, take note of your kids, send a mailshot to your neighbours, generally have fun at your expense.

But a genuine punter could also do all of the above, one major reason why many ladies do not work from their home. :rolleyes:

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Well, OBVIOUSLY it's not failsafe.

No security measures are failsafe, if American presidents get shot what chance do you have of total security, you are working in a dangerous business, hence the huge financial rewards. :rolleyes:

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Most people would't find my place from the address alone. Whilst I'm in a very convenient location, it's also quite hidden from the main road. I usually give the full address for the place to park (since it's very easy to find and at a local place of interest), followed by easy directions once they've got parked. A couple of regulars did insist on the full address when I first moved, they couldn't understand why I was sending them to the parking place first. As soon as I handed it over they had to admit it couldn't be found by satnav or google maps. If I simply gave out my address there would be a lot of very annoyed guys wandering around on the street, getting rather fed up - yet merely 30 seconds and a rather solid gate away from the house!

All my visitors comment about how clear and precise my directions are. Well, as I then explain it's my job to make sure they get to me. After all, if they don't get here I don't make any money.

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After all, if they don't get here I don't make any money.

Not forgetting having to forego all the orgasms.

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