Sarah Summers

When Is 'less' 'more'?

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We've all heard that old adage that 'less is more'. It can be applied to the way a woman dresses - the simple outfit with the minumum of accesories can be far more stunning than the expensive designer outfit complete with bells and whistles.

It seems to apply in the sex industry that if a girl is smaller - then she is better than her larger sister, but if she has a bigger bust or a bigger butt then that does not count because more of that is definitely better.

If she is younger - then it seems the majority of men think that is also better.. 'less is more' applies.

I'm 5'6" tall, but I say on my website that I am 5'7", cos what's half an inch? I'm thinking less is more here too :)

Can you see what I am getting at?

If you read that other men think older is less and younger is more, and skinny is more but fatter is less, I wonder if all of this actually sinks in like a mantra much in the same way as the young girl trying to emulate the super model so the freakier looking models in the mags become the iconic image to work up to and nothing else will do.

I wonder if this is how men think. Forget what they really like because the majority don't subscribe to that body shape or age or nationality.

The girls pretend they are Spanish when they are really Eastern Block, because that is apparently what your man wants. Does this make us equally as bad as the men then.

The men complain when girls lie about their ages, but didn't they set the standard?

The men complain when they see a photo of a girl and argue that she is lying about her dress size. For fucks sake... you show me any woman who knows what dress size she is because i will tell you now - I certainly do not!... or I wouldn't spend half an afternoon in the damn changing rooms.

Gone are the days when a man wanted to see a nice lady. He wants so much more and with such defined criteria it cuts most of us out of the equation, and then they wonder why the punt was crap?

Dang.

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Do women try to be want they think men want to be? Of course, try finding a hairy pussy on a working girl.

Sexually, men are very visual animals. You can write the most alluring words on your website, tick all the services offered but if there isn't the instant "fancy her" it matters little for that first booking. In the absence of photos some men will take the risk on the basis of strong reviews, and will probably be rewarded for that.

But thats for the first booking. A second booking is all about the person that the girl is. Simple.

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We've all heard that old adage that 'less is more'. It can be applied to the way a woman dresses - the simple outfit with the minumum of accesories can be far more stunning than the expensive designer outfit complete with bells and whistles.

It seems to apply in the sex industry that if a girl is smaller - then she is better than her larger sister, but if she has a bigger bust or a bigger butt then that does not count because more of that is definitely better.

If she is younger - then it seems the majority of men think that is also better.. 'less is more' applies.

I'm 5'6" tall, but I say on my website that I am 5'7", cos what's half an inch? I'm thinking less is more here too :)

Can you see what I am getting at?

If you read that other men think older is less and younger is more, and skinny is more but fatter is less, I wonder if all of this actually sinks in like a mantra much in the same way as the young girl trying to emulate the super model so the freakier looking models in the mags become the iconic image to work up to and nothing else will do.

I wonder if this is how men think. Forget what they really like because the majority don't subscribe to that body shape or age or nationality.

The girls pretend they are Spanish when they are really Eastern Block, because that is apparently what your man wants. Does this make us equally as bad as the men then.

The men complain when girls lie about their ages, but didn't they set the standard?

The men complain when they see a photo of a girl and argue that she is lying about her dress size. For fucks sake... you show me any woman who knows what dress size she is because i will tell you now - I certainly do not!... or I wouldn't spend half an afternoon in the damn changing rooms.

Gone are the days when a man wanted to see a nice lady. He wants so much more and with such defined criteria it cuts most of us out of the equation, and then they wonder why the punt was crap?

Dang.

What i want in punting is honesty and a great seemingly friendly and enthusiastic attitude. I keep to my side of the deal, having the agreed fee, arriving and leaving as agreed, ensure i am clean and i am always respectful to people anyway. If i am lied to about anything and its obvious to me i have been lied to and it matters to me which her nationality doesnt or her real age as long as i still fancy her (although i would inform other punters what age i think she is as it matters to some i know) thats the WGs fault 100%, be honest and that scenario wont happen is my view on that. Honesty is the best policy and in these days of the internet and punting forums close scrutiny of WGs is available to punters like never before. If smart a WG should be aware of this in my opinion.

I sexually fancy who i fancy and punting offers me the opportunity to pick and select such WGs. No good to me if her pictures are not an accurate portrayal of her because if i dont fancy the real her i will be walking so it wastes both our times but is her fault for misleading me. In my view in punting a WG should know her dress size as through her experience she should know its important to some punters me included.

So whats been agreed and confirmed on the phone is what i expect, i never leave any grey areas nowadays, i am crystal clear in my communications with WGs so its only her lying that leads to a bad punt or me walking. No bad punts although a couple of walk aways for a long time tells me my modus works for me and the overwhelming majority of WGs i punt with are honest at least with things that matter to me. Age and nationality are often not correct as i find out on subsequent punts but i can live with that as it doesnt affect whether i fancy her or not or whether she offers me a good service or not.

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Do women try to be want they think men want to be? Of course, try finding a hairy pussy on a working girl.

Sexually, men are very visual animals. You can write the most alluring words on your website, tick all the services offered but if there isn't the instant "fancy her" it matters little for that first booking. In the absence of photos some men will take the risk on the basis of strong reviews, and will probably be rewarded for that.

But thats for the first booking. A second booking is all about the person that the girl is. Simple.

That's too simple an answer for me Chris! Yes - the girls do pander to the needs of the guy by doing what they think the guys want and a prime example is removing all the pussy hair, but that is only the tip of the iceberg, and to my way of thinking, by demanding small frames and big titis - the girls go off and get the boob job only to then be told they shouldn't have because men don't like false boobs...........

Can you explain what the fascination is for stats? men do not understand bra sizes so the girls say all sorts of rubbish, and then dress sizes... men want a size eight, so the girls says she is a size eight... then you get some guy saying she is a size 14.. sorry, but how on earth would any ordinary bloke know this??

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What i want in punting is honesty and a great seemingly friendly and enthusiastic attitude. I keep to my side of the deal, having the agreed fee, arriving and leaving as agreed, ensure i am clean and i am always respectful to people anyway. If i am lied to about anything and its obvious to me i have been lied to and it matters to me which her nationality doesnt or her real age as long as i still fancy her (although i would inform other punters what age i think she is as it matters to some i know) thats the WGs fault 100%, be honest and that scenario wont happen is my view on that. Honesty is the best policy and in these days of the internet and punting forums close scrutiny of WGs is available to punters like never before. If smart a WG should be aware of this in my opinion.

I sexually fancy who i fancy and punting offers me the opportunity to pick and select such WGs. No good to me if her pictures are not an accurate portrayal of her because if i dont fancy the real her i will be walking so it wastes both our times but is her fault for misleading me. In my view in punting a WG should know her dress size as through her experience she should know its important to some punters me included.

So whats been agreed and confirmed on the phone is what i expect, i never leave any grey areas nowadays, i am crystal clear in my communications with WGs so its only her lying that leads to a bad punt or me walking. No bad punts although a couple of walk aways for a long time tells me my modus works for me and the overwhelming majority of WGs i punt with are honest at least with things that matter to me. Age and nationality are often not correct as i find out on subsequent punts but i can live with that as it doesnt affect whether i fancy her or not or whether she offers me a good service or not.

I would argue that the girls say what they think ypou want to hear/read. and by reading what men say about them and trying to be everything to all, we all lose that important thing which is our own self.

Do men want real women or do they want a human version of Barbie or a blow up doll.

I would say to you, that I am sure you are respectful, and honest, but given the way men talk about us, and reading what they expect of us, is it any wonder that girls lie? I hasten to add that I do not, but I am sure I am in a minority, since money is king.

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I would argue that the girls say what they think ypou want to hear/read. and by reading what men say about them and trying to be everything to all, we all lose that important thing which is our own self.

Do men want real women or do they want a human version of Barbie or a blow up doll.

I would say to you, that I am sure you are respectful, and honest, but given the way men talk about us, and reading what they expect of us, is it any wonder that girls lie? I hasten to add that I do not, but I am sure I am in a minority, since money is king.

Best to be an individual then and think for themselves. What i expect is whats been agreed freely by the WG. No problem if she doesnt want to offer it as long as she says so when i am enquiring, i simply go elsewhere then. As its the WG who advertises her services being honest about them is her responsibility, i know what i am looking for so only have her site/profile to go on initially followed by a phone enquiry. So the onus is always on her not to lie and be honest. IMO there is no excuse for lying.

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I'm sorry if that was too simple an answer Sarah!

I can't explain the fascination for stats, as they aren't that important for me.

The tighter a list of criteria that a man wants means a naturally smaller pool of women available to him. I also suspect that he will also be a punter who is more consistently disappointed when the girls don't (and probably can't) live up to his perceptions of what a working girl should be. The point I was trying to make is that what I think makes a really successful working girl is the fundamental nature of the girl herself, not the size of her tits, to put it bluntly. The girls that have the really strong reputations and excellent feedback are those who do not disappoint, who seem to be able to welcome whoever it is who walks through her door. Its this girl who will get a solid base of repeat custom.

If a girl isn't honest about who is and the services she is comfortable with offering she will quickly get a bad reputation for this.

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Do men want real women or do they want a human version of Barbie or a blow up doll.

I would say to you, that I am sure you are respectful, and honest, but given the way men talk about us, and reading what they expect of us, is it any wonder that girls lie? I hasten to add that I do not, but I am sure I am in a minority, since money is king.

Sarah, all we ask is that we are given honest and sufficient information to allow us to make an informed decision as to who we see. Why should a WG try and be something she isn't and lie in the process? She should just be herself and and let them choose based on who she is rather than what they are looking for?

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That's too simple an answer for me Chris! Yes - the girls do pander to the needs of the guy by doing what they think the guys want and a prime example is removing all the pussy hair, but that is only the tip of the iceberg, and to my way of thinking, by demanding small frames and big titis - the girls go off and get the boob job only to then be told they shouldn't have because men don't like false boobs...........

Can you explain what the fascination is for stats? men do not understand bra sizes so the girls say all sorts of rubbish, and then dress sizes... men want a size eight, so the girls says she is a size eight... then you get some guy saying she is a size 14.. sorry, but how on earth would any ordinary bloke know this??

LOL

I do not pander to all guys, I just pander to the guys that like me for who I am.

I love chocolate and cakes, I hate bald (skoolie) pussies, my boobs are real and I am maturing nicely. I do not want to be all things to all men, I have pretty plain tastes for good old fashioned rumpy pumpy, kissing and cuddling, and shock horror, a bit of chat. I cannot believe the amount of people these days asking for anal, WS etc, give me the simple pleasures in life any day. I am not a porn star and I seem to be doing something right.

It is a shame that some ladies feel pressurised into offering more services, changing their bodies. To be comfortable in one's own skin is truly under-estimated.

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Exactly Pandora. Why lie? I'd hate to fib about my size or age then have a man be horrified when they arrive when they discover I am not actually a size 12 25 year old! Men do have different tastes and whilst many think they want a certain type, the regular punter will often realise that what they want is a happy girl, enthusiastic, honest and clean and good at the sex stuff! I have also learnt that I have my market and do well, men who want younger slimmer girls will choose not to see me but there are plenty who do!

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Exactly Pandora. Why lie? I'd hate to fib about my size or age then have a man be horrified when they arrive when they discover I am not actually a size 12 25 year old! Men do have different tastes and whilst many think they want a certain type, the regular punter will often realise that what they want is a happy girl, enthusiastic, honest and clean and good at the sex stuff! I have also learnt that I have my market and do well, men who want younger slimmer girls will choose not to see me but there are plenty who do!

Exactly !

I want to book time with a girl who's happy with who she is, comfortable in her own skin, confident and good at what she does and physically and sexually attractive to me, whatever her height, age or bust size.

I do generally have a preference for a certain type, but have had great punts in the past with women of very different shapes, sizes and nationalities

To answer the question, 'when is less more' ? - less of the fake moaning and excessive histrionics that a few (usually young and inexperienced) girls seem to feel you want to see and hear........is definitely more

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That's too simple an answer for me Chris! Yes - the girls do pander to the needs of the guy by doing what they think the guys want and a prime example is removing all the pussy hair, but that is only the tip of the iceberg, and to my way of thinking, by demanding small frames and big titis - the girls go off and get the boob job only to then be told they shouldn't have because men don't like false boobs...........

Can you explain what the fascination is for stats? men do not understand bra sizes so the girls say all sorts of rubbish, and then dress sizes... men want a size eight, so the girls says she is a size eight... then you get some guy saying she is a size 14.. sorry, but how on earth would any ordinary bloke know this??

LOL

We do understand bra and clothes sizes, we know a 28DD indicates a lady with a narrow back and slim sides (or petite) with significantly more than a handful and we know that a 38DD is going to be significantly larger lady whose cup size maybe the same physically but visually the larger lady's boobs will look smaller as they are on a bigger frame. We know the 28DD is more likely to be a size 6/8 and the 38DD a size 14/16.

We do understand clothes sizes, we know our wives/girlfirends are a size ??. I know my wife is a size 12, sometimes she can get into a 10, sometimes she needs a 14. She would describe herself as a 12. Is she described herself as a 10 (as she can get into the odd size 10) she would be mis leading whoever she was talking to.

We also know the ages of girls we work with, our sisters and other friends and how they look agewise. So when we book someone who says she is in her early 30's, we can visualise that as we know girls in their early 30's. When we arrive and they are clearly in their early/late 40's it annoys us as we weren't planning a date with a woman in her 40's.

My ideal date is a woman in her late 20's to early 30's, petite size 8 with D cup or larger boobs. I can visualise that as I draw comparisons from all other areas of my life.

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We do understand bra and clothes sizes, we know a 28DD indicates a lady with a narrow back and slim sides (or petite) with significantly more than a handful and we know that a 38DD is going to be significantly larger lady whose cup size maybe the same physically but visually the larger lady's boobs will look smaller as they are on a bigger frame. We know the 28DD is more likely to be a size 6/8 and the 38DD a size 14/16.

We do understand clothes sizes, we know our wives/girlfirends are a size ??. I know my wife is a size 12, sometimes she can get into a 10, sometimes she needs a 14. She would describe herself as a 12. Is she described herself as a 10 (as she can get into the odd size 10) she would be mis leading whoever she was talking to.

We also know the ages of girls we work with, our sisters and other friends and how they look agewise. So when we book someone who says she is in her early 30's, we can visualise that as we know girls in their early 30's. When we arrive and they are clearly in their early/late 40's it annoys us as we weren't planning a date with a woman in her 40's.

My ideal date is a woman in her late 20's to early 30's, petite size 8 with D cup or larger boobs. I can visualise that as I draw comparisons from all other areas of my life.

Agreed Spanner !

This is just another example of not giving punters much credit as observant and discerning individuals with enough experience and powers of basic perception of the opposite sex to be able to tell the difference between an A cup and a D cup, or a size 8 and a size 14, between someone who is 5' and someone who is 5' 9".

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Agreed Spanner !

This is just another example of not giving punters much credit as observant and discerning individuals with enough experience and powers of basic perception of the opposite sex to be able to tell the difference between an A cup and a D cup, or a size 8 and a size 14, between someone who is 5' and someone who is 5' 9".

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I do not pander to all guys, I just pander to the guys that like me for who I am.

It is a shame that some ladies feel pressurised into offering more services, changing their bodies. To be comfortable in one's own skin is truly under-estimated.

Agree with this

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Agreed Spanner !

This is just another example of not giving punters much credit as observant and discerning individuals with enough experience and powers of basic perception of the opposite sex to be able to tell the difference between an A cup and a D cup, or a size 8 and a size 14, between someone who is 5' and someone who is 5' 9".

Then tell me why there are so many punters who complain that the girl was not what they thought she was given the stats on her profile and compared to how she really looked??

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We do understand bra and clothes sizes, we know a 28DD indicates a lady with a narrow back and slim sides (or petite) with significantly more than a handful and we know that a 38DD is going to be significantly larger lady whose cup size maybe the same physically but visually the larger lady's boobs will look smaller as they are on a bigger frame. We know the 28DD is more likely to be a size 6/8 and the 38DD a size 14/16.

We do understand clothes sizes, we know our wives/girlfirends are a size ??. I know my wife is a size 12, sometimes she can get into a 10, sometimes she needs a 14. She would describe herself as a 12. Is she described herself as a 10 (as she can get into the odd size 10) she would be mis leading whoever she was talking to.

We also know the ages of girls we work with, our sisters and other friends and how they look agewise. So when we book someone who says she is in her early 30's, we can visualise that as we know girls in their early 30's. When we arrive and they are clearly in their early/late 40's it annoys us as we weren't planning a date with a woman in her 40's.

My ideal date is a woman in her late 20's to early 30's, petite size 8 with D cup or larger boobs. I can visualise that as I draw comparisons from all other areas of my life.

Great that you all understand sizes and great that you are discerning. Personally i do not think most men have a clue and the girls who lie about their stats rely on this fact. (I did read about your wife being three different sizes which only goes to prove that women don't know either ..LOL) A shame that a great deal of punters still have crap punts because the lady was not what they really wanted?

You all miss my point anyway....... which was that if men were not so picky about their ladies, then the ladies would feel less inclined to 'massage the stats'.................. making 'less' - 'more'.

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Then tell me why there are so many punters who complain that the girl was not what they thought she was given the stats on her profile and compared to how she really looked??

Because in her profile she may say she is lady in her early 30's who is a size 10 with 34DD boobs and when you arrive she is a lady in her early 40's, a size 14 and has 38C boobs.

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Because in her profile she may say she is lady in her early 30's who is a size 10 with 34DD boobs and when you arrive she is a lady in her early 40's, a size 14 and has 38C boobs.

But - she has photos??? So you read the stats and look at the pics and decide which is which? Then , when you get there and are disappointed, and complain.. who is to blame?. You for not researching properly or her for relying on you thinking with your cock since she knows you may not see her if she told the truth, which is all fairness is all that is required and refreshing when it happens :)

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Because in her profile she may say she is lady in her early 30's who is a size 10 with 34DD boobs and when you arrive she is a lady in her early 40's, a size 14 and has 38C boobs.

How do you know a 38C boob? And... is that a size 14?

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My ideal date is a woman in her late 20's to early 30's, petite size 8 with D cup or larger boobs. I can visualise that as I draw comparisons from all other areas of my life.

So you want Barbie then? And,,,, it's not a date.. it's a punt surely?

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Then tell me why there are so many punters who complain that the girl was not what they thought she was given the stats on her profile and compared to how she really looked??

Because many girls and/or agencies lie about/exaggerate/understate the stats, not to mention the photoshopping or using out of date pictures - its as simple as that

Although generally that is rarely an issue for me as I do my homework beforehand and usually am more or less pleased physically that the girl I see is as she was described on the site, along with the representative photos.

Almost all of my disappointments (which these days are rare) are down to services as listed NOT being on offer and a totally unfriendly and cold manner.

If I see a major and obvious discrepancy between onsite stats and onsite pics then I simply dont book the girl - and that generally seems to work for me

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Because many girls and/or agencies lie about/exaggerate/understate the stats, not to mention the photoshopping or using out of date pictures - its as simple as that

Exactly ! And Why? Because you men set a standard that most girls cannot realise since none of us are Barbie... except me when I breathe in :)

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But - she has photos??? So you read the stats and look at the pics and decide which is which? Then , when you get there and are disappointed, and complain.. who is to blame?. You for not researching properly or her for relying on you thinking with your cock since she knows you may not see her if she told the truth, which is all fairness is all that is required and refreshing when it happens :)

She may have photos that have been worked on. She may have numerous good reviews from men saying how stunning she is. Like you she may be hiding her face. None of this means she will be as she has described herself,

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Exactly ! And Why? Because you men set a standard that most girls cannot realise since none of us are Barbie... except me when I breathe in :)

Really ?

to quote myself, and a few other punters on here have echoed similar:

'I want to book time with a girl who's happy with who she is, comfortable in her own skin, confident and good at what she does and physically and sexually attractive to me, whatever her height, age or bust size'.

Is that such a high 'standard that most girls cannot realise' ?

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