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Would a WG take exception if I don't go down on her. Do they expect it as part of the meeting or are they happy for it to be one way.

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No. they won't mind. You're paying for a service after all. Many (but not all) enjoy it, but I've never met a lady who expects/demands it.

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Would a WG take exception if I don't go down on her. Do they expect it as part of the meeting or are they happy for it to be one way.

Your paying so its up to you if you dont want to do RO. Nothing apart from having the agreed fee, being clean and respectful is expected of you, the rest within what she offers is up to you what you wish to do.

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If you wish to DATY then go right ahead. You are paying to do what you wish, with the consent of the other party. Remember that consent is vital in all sexual activity.

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Of the dozens of ladies I have seen and punts I have had, I can only think of one occasion where this came anywhere near to coming up as an issue. In that case the lady asked "do you not eat pussy then?" when I failed to dive in immediately when she was in a convienient position for it. I showed her I did. And I can think of another occasion where the lady said she was going to use me as her sex toy and start by sitting on my face but I had seen her several times before so she knew I was happy with that plus it was all playfully done so if I had said I wasn't in the mood that day I doubt she would have been offended. Generally I enjoy RO as part of the whole GFE but, apart from that single occasion I mentioned, it has never been raised as a problem for the ladies if it happens not to occur in a particular meeting.

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I'm probably one of a small group of men who just doesnt do this, and I'm talking about with gfs too

I just dont enjoy it.....so why should i do it ?

Whenever I've tried in the past, more out of a sense of duty than anything else, because I felt I should rather than wanting to, I ALWAYS lose my erection, and this is when I've really wanted to because i've really loved her and really wanted to do it for her.

But I've always just found it a turn off, so i no longer partake.

And its not out of a selfish devotion to my own pleasure as I absolutely love bringing my loved one to orgasm using my hands or other means, seeing her helpless with pleasure is just such a huge turn on and i love that I can make her feel like that........but cunnilingus.............dont like it........dont do it

(and if a partner of mine didnt enjoy performing oral sex on me itd be no big deal either as long as she enjoyed 'pleasuring me' in other ways....so Im not hypocritical and 'selfish' before the predictable chorus starts chiming in)

this is one arena where I do find hypocrisy prevalent though as so often i hear on sex education programs or couples therapy shows on TV/Radio/Internet where they say that neither partner should do something that theyre not comfortable with or dont enjoy, but they always say something along the lines of 'if men dont perform oral sex properly on their partner then theyre depriving her of a major source of pleasure'....or something along those lines............making it sound as though its absolutely a mans duty to get down there and EAT !!!

Well I dont care what 'they' say...........NOT ME

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I remember a comparitve novice up in the blair st parlour, edinburgh, telling me she didnt like the idea of a customer going down on her, when I gave her another visit 2 years later, she swung her leg over into the 69 position without even consulting me, progress eh? Frankly most girls are more than happy if the customer does absolutely nothing, as long as they leave the money.

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Shockingly, I've never actually done this partly because I've never been asked...but I'd be more than willing to give it a go.

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I'd prefer that you don't!

Interesting... why is that.

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I'm probably one of a small group of men who just doesnt do this, and I'm talking about with gfs too

I just dont enjoy it.....so why should i do it ?

Whenever I've tried in the past, more out of a sense of duty than anything else, because I felt I should rather than wanting to, I ALWAYS lose my erection, and this is when I've really wanted to because i've really loved her and really wanted to do it for her.

But I've always just found it a turn off, so i no longer partake.

And its not out of a selfish devotion to my own pleasure as I absolutely love bringing my loved one to orgasm using my hands or other means, seeing her helpless with pleasure is just such a huge turn on and i love that I can make her feel like that........but cunnilingus.............dont like it........dont do it

(and if a partner of mine didnt enjoy performing oral sex on me itd be no big deal either as long as she enjoyed 'pleasuring me' in other ways....so Im not hypocritical and 'selfish' before the predictable chorus starts chiming in)

this is one arena where I do find hypocrisy prevalent though as so often i hear on sex education programs or couples therapy shows on TV/Radio/Internet where they say that neither partner should do something that theyre not comfortable with or dont enjoy, but they always say something along the lines of 'if men dont perform oral sex properly on their partner then theyre depriving her of a major source of pleasure'....or something along those lines............making it sound as though its absolutely a mans duty to get down there and EAT !!!

Well I dont care what 'they' say...........NOT ME

I like your honesty!

In answer to the OP, as others have said it's your choice, I don't mind either way! Obviously it's preferable if a client makes an effort to turn me on, but it doesn't have to be orally and if he just wants all the attention on him then fine, it's what he's paying for! A waitress doesn't expect her customers to give her a good time!

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Interesting... why is that.

I've had several guys say 'I don't like blow-jobs'. It's unusual but not unheard of! I guess RO is the same for some.

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We are talking about women here and escorts to boot. Some will want you to but won't press you into it, some will want you to and promptly sit on your face, some won't want you to and will put up with it, some won't want you to and make it very clear. Go with the flow. If in doubt ask.

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Shockingly, I've never actually done this partly because I've never been asked...but I'd be more than willing to give it a go.

You are viewing it in exactly the opposite way to me. In punting i require certain services and check when enquiring with the WG that she actually offers them, if so i do them, i dont expect the WG to ask, that has happened but i dont rely on it to. So if you want to do RO ask her is my advice.

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I like your honesty!

In answer to the OP, as others have said it's your choice, I don't mind either way! Obviously it's preferable if a client makes an effort to turn me on, but it doesn't have to be orally and if he just wants all the attention on him then fine, it's what he's paying for! A waitress doesn't expect her customers to give her a good time!

I like your attitude !

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I love licking pussy and find it quite farcical when guys i knew would say 'licking pussy is gay' or 'licking pussy is nasty' wtf?! These guys want head but don't wanna return the favour, they're selfish. If you've tried it and don't enjoy it that's fair enough, no one can force you to DATY but i don't think people should write it off without trying it. to me, it's very enjoyable and feels like a sense of achievement to make a lady cum. It's your money, your punt so, within reason you choose what you want to do. If a wg flat out asks you to lick it and you don't fancy the idea then that can be a difficult position, you don't want to offend her and have her think it smells or something.. It's just down to you then to be polite and honest and respectfully decline.

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As I don't do sex or blowjobs, RO is pretty much a prerequisite. Nothing annoys me more than being promised RO only to have it withdrawn after I've paid because the girl doesn't have a dental dam. It happened three times in a row at one parlour which I've now struck off my list.

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I don't imagine many girls have dam's surely you can take your own? But if they promise RO and insist on using a dam then they should have them available

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As long as you pay and are clean and pay and respect her limit and pay then the girl won't care what you do. Oh and did I mention paying lol.

Personally I love 69 and could lie doing that for ages but usually the girl get tired.

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In some countries cunnilingus is considered a formal greeting, when introducing yourself to a female.

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In some countries cunnilingus is considered a formal greeting, when introducing yourself to a female.

I can't believe I just googled that! lol :P

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In some countries cunnilingus is considered a formal greeting, when introducing yourself to a female.

Ooooh, what a way to say 'hello' .... and what chance the guy with the longest tongue makes the best impression .......? ;)

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In some countries cunnilingus is considered a formal greeting, when introducing yourself to a female.

Better than a peck on the cheek I guess!

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Honestly, OP, I think the worst thing you can possibly do in a sexual encounter is to pretend to enjoy something you don't.

Some women find they are too sensitive for oral, others can only orgasm that way. I don't think it's expected (certainly not from WGs!), but most of my clients have gone straight for it (whether because they find it a turn on, or whether they want me to enjoy myself, or both!). I really enjoy giving oral, so I understand why some guys find it essential to their foreplay with a woman: it's wonderfully intimate, after all. I find it's not the kind of thing that I crave or need, but when someone's doing it I become a fan again rather rapidly! :P

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