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I been around this board for a while and have mostly found people are respectful to each other. I recently started looking at a couple of other boards just out of interest. Looked at a board for WG's and also at another punting board. Not sure if I'm allowed to mention which boards?

I was truly shocked at the utter comtempt that many of the posters have for the people on the other side of the divide.

On the punting board there is a general level of mysogyny and almost vicious contempt for women. Any posts which try to look at things from the girl's POV is regarded as "fluffy" and the general feeling is one of almost hatred of women. One younger, and admittedly rather immature girl was goaded and insulted and basically hounded off the board.

On the WG's board punter's in general are laughed at, mocked, regarded with contempt. There are threads which are rude about older punters to the point of being vicious. Any suggestion that a punter might be concerned about value for money is regarded as totally offensive. Punters are generally timewasters who should think themselves lucky that an escort will see them.

Perhaps I am naive, but I didn't realise that such a degree of animosity existed between escorts and punters. I should for fairness say that some posters on both boards are respectful to the opposite sex, but the general culture of both boards is sickening.

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Agreed. I enjoy the civility and courtesy here. As a hobby and chosen line of work respectively it should for the most part be fun, surely?

It may be an over-generalisation but I find the discussion and banter here of a higher-brow for the most part.

Stick around!

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When the board first started I posted on it, and got in to many an argument with some of the misogynistic and downright unpleasant individuals on there - but in the end I realised it was pointless, they were quite horrible people and I was never going to change there minds, so I left.

I should stress that there are / were some good guys on there who posted interesting information, and some of the girls I've punted with in real life (like the lovely Kitty) posted a few times as well, and discussion of the purple site was allowed, but despite this it quickly became a (mostly) very grim place and I'm glad I left when I did as it seems it's got worse and worse since.

Just try to remind yourself that ultimately this is only a few people who have such unpleasant views, thankfully...

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Yes, I know where you're talking about and I too was utterly horrified at many of the comments. I spent some time there reading in some weird sick fascination and will never go back! I was surprised that any girls hung around there, including some ladies who post here, I'd love to know how/why they tolerate it!

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Yes, I know where you're talking about and I too was utterly horrified at many of the comments. I spent some time there reading in some weird sick fascination and will never go back! I was surprised that any girls hung around there, including some ladies who post here, I'd love to know how/why they tolerate it!

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OK, that makes sense, I assume the custom you get is worth it and you don't actually encounter men who are as nasty as they sound?! I would assume there are some decent sorts on there.

Edited by LondonLydia

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OK, that makes sense, I assume the custom you get is worth it and you don't actually encounter men who are as nasty as they sound?! I would assume there are some decent sorts on there.

Not me Lydia. You should know me better !

I started a thread about this a while ago. The lovely guy you see who is nice to you and respectful, and then you discover he posts there and makes comments which make you realise you don't really know him at all :(

I wonder what the ladies' forum is??

Edited by Sarah Summers

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I been around this board for a while and have mostly found people are respectful to each other. I recently started looking at a couple of other boards just out of interest. Looked at a board for WG's and also at another punting board. Not sure if I'm allowed to mention which boards?

I was truly shocked at the utter comtempt that many of the posters have for the people on the other side of the divide.

On the punting board there is a general level of mysogyny and almost vicious contempt for women. Any posts which try to look at things from the girl's POV is regarded as "fluffy" and the general feeling is one of almost hatred of women. One younger, and admittedly rather immature girl was goaded and insulted and basically hounded off the board.

On the WG's board punter's in general are laughed at, mocked, regarded with contempt. There are threads which are rude about older punters to the point of being vicious. Any suggestion that a punter might be concerned about value for money is regarded as totally offensive. Punters are generally timewasters who should think themselves lucky that an escort will see them.

Perhaps I am naive, but I didn't realise that such a degree of animosity existed between escorts and punters. I should for fairness say that some posters on both boards are respectful to the opposite sex, but the general culture of both boards is sickening.

We all know which site you are referring to and to be fair the ladies version is a complete piss take and not meant to be taken seriously as far as I can tell. It was developed I believe to make a mockery of the hatred spouted out towards a so called sisterhood of women that they believe exist on the site I presume you are referring to as vulgar.

It really is quite funny if you see it for what it is, it gives the ladies that are crucified on the male site a chance to mock and show the others up for what they are. They basically take every vile thread and rip it to pieces. Have another look at it with a light hearted approach I personally think it is quite clever and the warnings section is hilarious.

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In my naively I have no idea which site to which you are all referring. Clearly I'm better off in my ignorance. It sounds awful. Everyone here is equal in my humble opinion.

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I'm a member of several forums across the divide. Why?Because I'm nosy and interested. I might not agree with some of the posters on 'both' sides, however I post as an individual, constructively and don't get involved in forum wars. At the end of the day it's only a forum, from my experience personalities can differ from that of the 'poster' to that of the real person.

A lot of what is expressed on the internet is a front, or bravado.

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We all know which site you are referring to and to be fair the ladies version is a complete piss take and not meant to be taken seriously as far as I can tell. It was developed I believe to make a mockery of the hatred spouted out towards a so called sisterhood of women that they believe exist on the site I presume you are referring to as vulgar.

It really is quite funny if you see it for what it is, it gives the ladies that are crucified on the male site a chance to mock and show the others up for what they are. They basically take every vile thread and rip it to pieces. Have another look at it with a light hearted approach I personally think it is quite clever and the warnings section is hilarious.

Me too wanting to know the ladies forum please - sounds like right fun from your description :)

PM if needs be :ph34r::cool:

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Me too wanting to know the ladies forum please - sounds like right fun from your description :)

PM if needs be :ph34r::cool:

I don't think anyone will mind me linking it here, it really is light hearted fun unlike the forum I won't name

http://dasisterhood.com/index.php

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Or for a more balanced ladies forum www,saafe,com

Saafe is a serious site for dealing with serious issues so has nothing whatsoever in common with dasisterhood which is a total pisstake as Annabellas MK already stated. There is no comparison between the two. The male version is actually not supposed to be discussed on this forum as its not a pisstake, the guys on there are deadly serious and in my personal opinion SOME of them could be very dangerous. I think I will stick to the occasional read of the girly version because taken from a joking perspective it is hilarious, especially if you have come up against some of the characters on the male version personally online which quite a few of the members around in the last couple of years from this site unfortunatley did...myself included.

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i know the punter forum you mean but what's the wg one?

edit: nvm

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I don't think anyone will mind me linking it here, it really is light hearted fun unlike the forum I won't name

http://dasisterhood.com/index.php

That forum is a total wind up, nothing more, nothing less, full of "false nics", can I make it clear that the Jimmyredcab on there is nothing whatsoever to do with me.

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I'm a member of several forums across the divide. Why?Because I'm nosy and interested. I might not agree with some of the posters on 'both' sides, however I post as an individual, constructively and don't get involved in forum wars. At the end of the day it's only a forum, from my experience personalities can differ from that of the 'poster' to that of the real person.

A lot of what is expressed on the internet is a front, or bravado.

I too am a member elsewhere, i get to find out things i cant on here especially about the purple site. Like you i post as an individual, what other posters post is their responsibility. Like you i use the same nick on their so its clear its me and ultimately i post where i wish as suits me. :)

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That forum is a total wind up, nothing more, nothing less, full of "false nics", can I make it clear that the Jimmyredcab on there is nothing whatsoever to do with me.

"Well her would say that wouldnt he" quote Christine Keeler sometime in the 60's

Niether the male or female version should be taken seriously...but at least the female version is funny so has some worth .x

Edited by Chloe MKEscorts

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I'm obviously pretty naive. I haven't, however, even seen the site that you describe on the horizon! Don't post a link, because if you fairly describe what passes there, then I don't want to go.

"Respect" (and "disrespect") are curious terms in today's usage, which I don't entirely understand. I treat and have, I think, treated, all the WGs that I've "been with" as human beings of equal value to myself. Will that do?

It is my almost universal experience that when I leave a WG, I take with me new knowlege of something interesting, whether historical, artistic, technological or political. I leave the richer for my visit! I know that I'm fluffy, which I'm happy with but am I quaint too? (I wasn't thinking of our departed sister SexyMay when I made this comment - she is an education in herself - would that David Cameron or Dr Fox had at least dined with her - the UK would be a better place if they had.)

Edited by Irgendeiner

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The punter form I'm sure you're refering to nearly put me off before I even started. But then I realised I wasn't like that or could never be.

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The punter form I'm sure you're refering to nearly put me off before I even started. But then I realised I wasn't like that or could never be.

No, the vast majority of punters are normal human beings in possession of empathy and other basic human characteristics. For those that are lacking these virtues-well; there's the other forum.

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Strewth! You are saying that the Dasisterhood forum is not serious? I'll have another look to see if I can detect any humour on it.

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Well, I've perused the Dasisterhood forum and consider it to be deadly serious. Tho' I am surprised at the knowledge of punting some of the nuns have. I supposed it must come from working with "fallen women". But I could find no humour at all. Not a single joke thread.

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PM me the full bifters, someone.

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