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Safest Option For A Young Punter?

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Firstly I have to say I am young and look young and very skinny and I admit somewhat naive socially inept guy (though can front being tough). Therefore using prostitutes and the possibility of crime/pimps is a main concern for me.

I have evaulated the best options for me is to use private escorts. With the choice being incall or outcall.

Personally I would feel more comfortable and happier to have sex in my house. On the downside I would feel a bit freaked out and worried that a prostitutes knows my address. ALso, that she sees I am young and kinda weak, naive etc and sees I have expensive things. I fear possibility she herself or contact with pimps, dodgy people may seek to take advantage off me or my belongings etc..at some point?

Now, this makes me more keen to visit the escort at her flat. But how safe is this? Are they alone or do they have a pimp in the flat etc..even still if all I take is my money they wont rob me. What is worst that can happen? I come early she takes my money and tells me to go? etc..Visiting a flat is pretty safe? Especially if I chose reputable agency or well reviewed girl. HOwever I arent so keen to go to a flat to have sex

Aprecciate advice and safety tips

Thanks.

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Go for an incall through an agency is my advice, i've never known a pimp to be present, a female freind maybe.

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Outcalls are a matter of personal choice but if you do your research wisely and choose a well respected woman you'll be fine. Your address is of no concern to her other than to find you for the meeting!

Most girls aren't out to rob you or steal from you! How old are you exactly? Using an agency won't be of advantage - some girls use a driver which you may find intimidating.

As for visiting a flat, it depends where it is! Whereabouts do you live? People can offer more help if they know which city to work from and recommend decent girls/dodgy areas!

When you do decide a girl, run her name past the board for honest experiences x x

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Gruntpunt, I'm in a similar boat to you, but probably a bit older. Definitely go with the incall agency option. You'll get a choice of girls at a fixed price (at least that's how it works here, guess it's the same everywhere) and I've never had a problem with the 4 punts I've had. Very discreet booking over the phone, and quick in and out of the location if you're a bit nervous about someone spotting you (like I am). It's their business so it's in their interest to make it as easy and relaxing as possible for you to do you thing :)

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Although all the things that you've mentioned do happen, it isn't hard to avoid them by doing a bit of research. Most WGs are not out to take advantage of you.

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If your budget is not too restricted you could consider the possibility of hiring a local hotel room for the night and having a girl come there as an outcall. In that case you won't have to go to a potentially dodgy flat and she won't know your address. However, some girls/agencies will want your surname if it is a hotel outcall so they can confirm you are indeed booked into that hotel and not a timewaster so whether a hotel is a preferable alternative for you will depend on what information you are happier to let them have.

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your paranoid fam, you've been wathcing too many movies. Trust, it's all good.

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This is a fairly common fear, all I can say is take sensible precautions - starting with some decent research.

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I've been in the scariest brothels with the biggest scariest looking european dudes thats are 5 times my size.

Im 21 and skinny as hell too... No one ever gives me trouble.

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Gruntpunt, are you based in Edinburgh by any chance?

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First time nerves based on the medias perception of the scene. Your doing the right thing to ask for advice, chances are your going to have a good punt as long as you relax and listen to the advice of the experienced members here.

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Firstly I have to say I am young and look young and very skinny and I admit somewhat naive socially inept guy (though can front being tough). Therefore using prostitutes and the possibility of crime/pimps is a main concern for me. I have evaulated the best options for me is to use private escorts. With the choice being incall or outcall. Personally I would feel more comfortable and happier to have sex in my house. On the downside I would feel a bit freaked out and worried that a prostitutes knows my address. ALso, that she sees I am young and kinda weak, naive etc and sees I have expensive things. I fear possibility she herself or contact with pimps, dodgy people may seek to take advantage off me or my belongings etc..at some point? Now, this makes me more keen to visit the escort at her flat. But how safe is this? Are they alone or do they have a pimp in the flat etc..even still if all I take is my money they wont rob me. What is worst that can happen? I come early she takes my money and tells me to go? etc..Visiting a flat is pretty safe? Especially if I chose reputable agency or well reviewed girl. HOwever I arent so keen to go to a flat to have sex Aprecciate advice and safety tips Thanks.

I have been punting for 28 years overwhelmingly going to WGs premises and not been attacked or robbed although had some verbal abuse so getting attacked or robbed is unusual with further proof being shown on here where its a rare occurence.

If you post a thread on the Information Board asking for recommendations in your punting area you might fancy someone mentioned and who is rated by others. Most WGs that are good want repeat business so have no interest in being robbing or attacking punters.

At this stage i would strongly advise sticking with WGs rated by others by FRs and/or on here. Same if you are looking to go to an Establishment, an Agency or Parlour check their FRs and feedback on here. Good luck, relax and enjoy. :)

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I have been robbed once (out of dozens of punts) and that was by a sneaky WG going through my things while I was in the shower not a burly pimp threatening me. As has been pointed out above, you are probably thinking about punting in terms shaped more by media sensationalisation than the reality experienced by the guys here. Once you get into the swing of things you will be much more comfortable. For the moment I think you need to find a scenario where you feel secure, visit a lady who is well-reviewed on PN or recommended on the forum, be cautious but not paranoid, and I reckon you will be OK.

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I have never had such a fear in 30+ years of punting. I have used parlours, WG's flats and hotel rooms. Like others have said, do your research, ask on here if you find a WG that you like the look of, and then relax and have fun.

BTW I have never entertained at home; that would be a step too far for me.

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Firstly I have to say I am young and look young and very skinny and I admit somewhat naive socially inept guy (though can front being tough). Therefore using prostitutes and the possibility of crime/pimps is a main concern for me.

I have evaulated the best options for me is to use private escorts. With the choice being incall or outcall.

Personally I would feel more comfortable and happier to have sex in my house. On the downside I would feel a bit freaked out and worried that a prostitutes knows my address. ALso, that she sees I am young and kinda weak, naive etc and sees I have expensive things. I fear possibility she herself or contact with pimps, dodgy people may seek to take advantage off me or my belongings etc..at some point?

Now, this makes me more keen to visit the escort at her flat. But how safe is this? Are they alone or do they have a pimp in the flat etc..even still if all I take is my money they wont rob me. What is worst that can happen? I come early she takes my money and tells me to go? etc..Visiting a flat is pretty safe? Especially if I chose reputable agency or well reviewed girl. HOwever I arent so keen to go to a flat to have sex

Aprecciate advice and safety tips

Thanks.

Crikey! I find your post to be extremely rude tbh. I would not want to see someone who thinks like this. Are you judging us en masse by your own standard?

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I have never had such a fear in 30+ years of punting. I have used parlours, WG's flats and hotel rooms. Like others have said, do your research, ask on here if you find a WG that you like the look of, and then relax and have fun. BTW I have never entertained at home; that would be a step too far for me.

And a step too far for me. :)

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Crikey! I find your post to be extremely rude tbh. I would not want to see someone who thinks like this. Are you judging us en masse by your own standard?

I was upset last year when an outcall client asked me if I might have taken his watch by accident, since he hadn't been able to locate it since taking it off in the bedroom. I hadn't and was immediately insulted. Upon further thought however I realised that as far as he was concerned, I was a complete stranger who he'd let into his home - he'd never been to my place and did not know anything about me.

He has since visited me, but I don't think he ever did find his watch, I do however still have a watch behind by a client about 3 years ago which have kept safe just incase he comes to reclaim it!

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I do however still have a watch behind by a client about 3 years ago

Does it keep good time? If so I would be tempted to pawn it. After 3 years he has surely forgotten it.

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