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A first time for every thing.

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What was your first experience as a punter or a working girl? Im a married man and up till last December I hadnt had sex for over a year,then I discovered punternet.After a lot of trawling through FR`s and agency websites I plucked up the courage to make a booking with Saskia of the Touch of Class agency(no longer with them Im sorry to say).I didnt know what to expect,I had a few preconcieved ideas(blame the media)that didnt really tie up with any of the many FR`s I had read,positive FR`s far outnumber the negative.Anyway a very nervous me knocked on Saskias door and a very pretty lady answered it,she kissed me on the cheek and I shook her hand which caused a raised eyebrow.I explained my circumstances and that I was a punting virgin,aaahhh sweetness and light,with a sensitiveness I didnt think possible she stroked my ego and raised my confidence(insert your own jokes Im being serious).Not just a bit of lust,a drink,a chat a kiss and cuddle, just what I needed.I left with a smile on my face and feeling a lot better about myself and going down into the tube station I felt I was floating down the steps.Later a very surreal feeling came over me,did I just do that,me married with kids,middle aged stuck in the mud me.It took a little while to come to terms with myself and not much convincing to carry on. Now you girls If it was nerve wracking for me the first time,god only knows what it was like for you.And lads what was it like for you. Apologies in advance if a similar thread has allready been posted.

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And lads what was it like for you.

Very similar to yours in principle.

I think it's much like investing on the stock market. Very much easier if you choose right the first time.

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So far I've only had one experience with a wg (or any woman, for that matter) and to be honest I still wonder how I did it. Normally when I'm with people I don't know I get quite anxious, especially with attractive ladies, I don't like people touching me and I usually avoid using the phone or going to places I haven't been before so booking and visiting an escort should've been my worst nightmare.

After checking a few websites I contacted a local independent escort and after exchanging several emails I made a booking to see her. It felt deliciously naughty when I rang her from work on the morning of the appointment.

I was a bit concerned when I arrived at her house but I was invited in I spent a lovely hour of chat, kissing, cuddling, laughing when she found out how ticklish I was and of course the more intimate activities. I've never felt so comfortable with someone I'd never met before.

I left with a big smile on my face and since then I feel as though something has changed inside me as I feel a lot better about myself than I did before. Although there's still a part of me that can't quite believe what happened, I can safely say that it will happen again.

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Looking back, mine wasn't the best to be honest. Not only was it my first time with a WG, it was my first time in general. It was a couple of years ago now, I was 20 and had raked around the net looking for a girl I thought suitable. I picked one on an escort site who looked perfect, I rang up and was told she wasn't available, I'd have to try to book in advance sometime.

So I rang up midweek and tried to book for the Sunday, the woman said it was fine and I was to call on the Sunday. Sunday came, I called up and she said the girl I wanted wasn't available and she was skeptical about sending someone out since I'd cancelled in the past, which I hadn't, I just didn't take any old girl! So I told her fine, I won't bother. My house phone rang, it was her, she asked for me by name then said she had the wrong number! Two minutes later, a text saying she was sending someone round!

I was nervous as hell, in my parents house with a hooker coming round! I was worried the neighbours would see, I'd get caught, something like that! As it turns out, I didn't and a decent looking Polish girl turned up, no kissing, covered oral. I lasted only a few minutes inside her and went for round two which wasn't easy within an hour but I eventually got another one out. So not the best punt and made me wary of agencies ever since.

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going down into the tube station I felt I was floating down the steps.Later a very surreal feeling came over me,did I just do that.

I love this feeling. It took several punts to get there; to learn what I like, with whom, and how to ask for it, but that floating up or down feeling with a grin on your face is great. Thank you for sharing.

There's some famous steps to the monastery in Whitby - I reckon in the right circumstances, after being with the right girl, you wouldn't even know they're there . . .

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First time - not so good. Like Latestarter I am anxious around people I don't know. I felt quite calm on the way there but once I got through the door my nerves hit me big time.

It didn't help that there was absolutely no attraction at all. Her web site was really not accurate and I hate to think how old the pic's were! I hadn't found PN at that time so had no idea about FR's and no way of asking for information.

She was a lovely lady though and did everything possible to relax me but there was no way I was going to settle down enough to enjoy myself.

In a strange way it wasn't as bad as it might sound. She was nice to talk to, tried really hard for me, I had a great massage and got the first time out of the way.

By luck within a few days I found PN and another forum, read some excellent reviews about one particular lady and arranged to meet her soon after. Having got the nerves out of the way first time the second time was fantastic and I got to enjoy that cheshire cat grin all the way home.

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It didn't really help that when I started it was pre-internet, and so I was reliant on the small-ads in the local rag.

My eye had been drawn by the massage ads and from the odd comment I'd heard from other people I'd guessed that some of these might be offering sex, of course the mention of 'French' and 'Greek' by the ladies at the other end when I just phoned up asking for 'details' just confused me further. I must have made a pest of myself by phoning around repeatedly to try and work out just what was on offer.

It helped that my first experience was in a really clean house, with a (very attractive) well dressed woman of around 35 who seemed completely together. Though that was when I discovered that girls at the time didn't kiss.

The next few encounters were really varied - the second was in an absolute dump of a house which was cold, and featured one girl running between customers in different rooms - very young, but fairly rundown looking with withered breasts.

Sooner or later I discovered the parlour that would later be run by Sunni Tara - and then Le Chateau, back when it was run by the Australian woman. Finding punternet was great (if not for my wallet) as it meant that I found that escorts were only slightly more expensive than the hour long appts at parlours.

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I remember my first... I didn't know what escorting was and charged £50 for the hour OUTCALL! I went all the way to the location on a train met him, realised what it was.. Gave him all he wanted (I didn't know what I should say NO too) Then I let him drive me all the way home to my family house.

I cringe when i think about it now! I was so naive.

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I remember my first... I didn't know what escorting was and charged £50 for the hour OUTCALL! I went all the way to the location on a train met him, realised what it was.. Gave him all he wanted (I didn't know what I should say NO too) Then I let him drive me all the way home to my family house.

I cringe when i think about it now! I was so naive.

Naivety is endearing.

Vulnerability is captivating.

Ignorance is bliss.

I need a piss.

Cya. x

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If I can paraphrase your moment of release was when you came down the tube?

Isn't it what we all do?

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I remember my first... I didn't know what escorting was and charged £50 for the hour OUTCALL! I went all the way to the location on a train met him, realised what it was.. Gave him all he wanted (I didn't know what I should say NO too) Then I let him drive me all the way home to my family house.

I cringe when i think about it now! I was so naive.

Thanks for your input Crystal,we have all been naive in situations where we have been inexperienced.I remember working in Germany a few years ago and a group of us went into a bar in the Old Town in Dusseldorf,well after a few drinks a couple of locals started chatting to my mate, who could speak german, he looked round the bar and said drink up quick we`re getting out of here.Expecting trouble we all complained and asked why, he said look round theres no women in here,we went, quick.He still wont tell me what was said to him,but his face does go red.If anyone is interested the bar was called the Piano Bar,I just didnt want my keys tickled. Anyway ladies do any more of you want to give insights into your first time.

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first time was 2 months ago ( and 10wg's ago)

the wife dragged me to milton keynes, as she couldnt be bothered to drive,

whilst she visited some friends, i was told to go and find something to do for a few hours. so thats what i did,

i had my laptop with me, and just thought i would do something id never done before. i logged onto a well known site and found a massage parlour. which showed a nice looking lady, i phoned up, nervously booking her for 30 mins and turned up, only to be greeted by a male maid...

he told me to wait in a room and get undressed, and the lady came in.

i told her exactly why i was there and how guilty i felt, and we went down to it. nice kissing, but i just couldnt get hard no matter what i tried.

i eventually just came over her tits by wanking, and when i left i felt like shit.

2 days later i thought id better try again, so i went to one in nottingham....

i was more confident, and really enjoyed it

yesterday i had my 10th and now im calling it a day for a while . ive loved this last 2 months, and have met some fantastic ladies and will return to see some of the favourites soon

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Forestlad - I love your story, so "real life".

Mine was at a parlour about 4 years ago and luckily the guy knew I was new to it and had a 2 girl so the other girl handheld me through!!

He was lovely, she was lovely, I was excited and felt really good about myself and the fact I felt I was taking some sort of control over my life.

John - the customer I saw quite a few times over the next year, not seen him for some time now - If you are reading get in touch xx

xx

Holly

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first time was 2 months ago ( and 10wg's ago)

the wife dragged me to milton keynes, as she couldnt be bothered to drive,

whilst she visited some friends, i was told to go and find something to do for a few hours. so thats what i did,

i had my laptop with me, and just thought i would do something id never done before. i logged onto a well known site and found a massage parlour. which showed a nice looking lady, i phoned up, nervously booking her for 30 mins and turned up, only to be greeted by a male maid...

he told me to wait in a room and get undressed, and the lady came in.

i told her exactly why i was there and how guilty i felt, and we went down to it. nice kissing, but i just couldnt get hard no matter what i tried.

i eventually just came over her tits by wanking, and when i left i felt like shit.

2 days later i thought id better try again, so i went to one in nottingham....

i was more confident, and really enjoyed it

yesterday i had my 10th and now im calling it a day for a while . ive loved this last 2 months, and have met some fantastic ladies and will return to see some of the favourites soon

My first was June 2006 at HOD....I had done research and chose on the basis of a lovely smiley face...Caprice. The experience was very nice and very similar to yours. In came this lovely lady and we kissed and undressed, she actualy made the comment "Honi, you are shaking". I was I was that nervous, I explained that I hadn't had sex for four years and this was my first punt. Well most of the punt involved foreplay and a less than hard dick. We finaly managed it in Mish although even then it was a less than good erection.

I saw Caprice twice more but soon learnt that to get over the problems I would need help. I still take some Vi now if I am punting and have no problems, although sometimes something new like my first teenager or first MMF the old problems have resurfaced . Six months ago I thought I would try a punt without it and again whilst I managed to complete it was difficult on the equipment front.

I dont really know if its psychological or physical as I still only have sex in a paid environment, but these days I am a little more confident than I was that first time and generaly don't have equipment failure;)

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I wonder how Harriet discovered punternet,looking over hubby`s shoulder?

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Not been for full on sex with a wg before but I have used the services of spankeefinder as spanking is my particular interest. Made appointment when I knew I was going to be in London for a few days with a lovely girl called sheena from the phillipines. Sheena was amazing, she put me at ease with a glass of wine when I told her that this was the first time and was ver encouraging throughout. I know most of the girls have a speed dial number as security and I later found out that she was advised to txt ok to a security firm every 10 mins or so. That was back in 2004 and I usually checkout a couple of girls every year.

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Hi

New on here but can empathise a lot with what people have said. Booked a nice hotel in Manchester, had a lovely meal with the woman in question who was really sweet, attractive and wore the loveliest evening dress. Went back to the room, talked a lot before she 'seduced' me but I only managed to cum once and it was an overnight booking !

I don't feel cheated at all, in fact I felt quite embarrassed because I'm normally a randy old sod ! It could have been anything I guess, nerves, the fact I was being unfaithful, that I hadn't had sex for a few years, or maybe one too many glasses of Sancerre !

However, the second time I did this, it was the complete opposite. Whatever it was, I had got over it pretty quickly !

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My first time was about 8 years ago. Saw an ad in my local paper for a lady 20 miles away, so rang her, jumped in the car and went.

I arrived in the town and had to ring again. She was a Chinese girl who spoke pretty good English, but some words made no sense to me.

Anyway, she was still busy so I headed off for a coffee. Thats when I suddenly realised what I was about to do (you know, the feeling of guilt kicks in) and almost headed back for home...nerves really got to me as well, but as I jumped in the car to go, I thought f**k it, if I dont go ahead with this, I probably never will.

I walked into this really grotty upstairs flat. Absolutely nothing in the room other than a dirty matress on the floor. The lady was about 5 foot tall, 40 years old, very thin, dressed in the usual stockings/suspenders, and the matress (and unfortunately the lady) smelt awful.

Well, it was all over and done in 10 mins and I made an hasty exit. That experience almost put me off for life!

I'm so glad it didn't. Since then there's only been 3 punts which were awful out of probably 100 or more I've had.

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Similar story here really. Late forties, stuck in a rut and hardly any sex at home. Stumbled on an escort site by accident one day, which led me here and after much "shall I, shan't I" prevaricating, eventually went for it last December. Gorgeous young girl, very accomodating and sensual. No performance problems for me, I managed to cum twice in the hour and then left walking on air (but with very wobbly knees).

I have punted 2 or 3 times a month since and am so grateful I found this big, new world. Most of my punts have been good to wonderful (thanks to research and good luck). I can't help feeling that the odds are gonna get me soon and that first really bad punt is just around the corner. Ah well, I'll keep soldiering on :D

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I lost my punting cherry over 30 years ago on the Reeperbahn in Hamburg. It was about 15 minutes of disinterest and it put me off. A similar experience in Amsterdam followed a decade later and reinforced my cynicism. I still had the notion that paying for it seemed, well, desperate. To circumvent this moral dilemma I became an active club player until a few years ago. A protracted illness coupled with a divorce and distanced from the social network I'd previously enjoyed I found immediate parlour gratification on the net.

It was simply tremendous; a stunning girl with a beautiful figure and singularly the best legs on any girl ever, she was comfortable with my esoteric proclivities and I was smitten. For months she provided the perfect service, I couldn't have been happier. Trouble was; she was like crack - I couldn't get enough. Like gamblers, they get hooked early with a big win. One debauched two year roller coaster ride was had - to the detriment of my bank balance. But when it was good, it was fucking brilliant.

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First punt was way back in 2002. I was pretty rebellious 22 year old guy and just wanted to try it out.

Wasnt sure what to do so spent weeks trying to find the right girl. Booked a hotel in birmingham. Took the whole day off work.

Found someone and booked a 3 hour outcall.

Had been drinking heavily the night before so was on a train to birmingham trying not to fall asleep. Arrived at the hotel 4 hours before she was supposed to arrive. Just lazed around the hotel room till she turned up. There was some annoying people in the room next door playing Abba music loudly the whole time I was there. Wore my best clothes, ordered room service for big bottle of wine. Cost me a bomb!

She was very pretty, was about 4/5 years older than me, there was no kissing at all. And she smoked from the minute she came in to the minute she left. And talked non stop too. Didnt know what was allowed to do or not to do so it was a very vanilla service.

Had a pretty restless night. (mainly from the ton of smoke she left in the room) and I couldn't wait to get back home.

Second punt was similar setup in london a year later and was fantastic girl from BestEscort4u. She wasnt even my first or even second choice either but turned out to be perfect.

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My first, 5 years ago in my early 20s was with an escort on an escort site that didn't seem mainstream. She was blonde, looked like a model. Not in the Pamela Anderson style but in the unusual-looking-catwalk-style. I visited her place in Central-West London and as I was desperate for anal so I paid £250!!! It was awful, she wasn't 22 as her photos showed but about 35. Didn't talk much, and hadn't showered before seeing me. I felt dirty, used, horrendous afterwards.

A year later I tried again after finding Punternet and seeing a review for girl in Cardiff near a family member's home while visiting them. Got there, a beautiful young "Japanese" girl with amazing breasts and fatastic attitude was the girl working that day. £60 for 30 mins - I thought it was a steal irrespective of the quality. Best punt of my life and best value too.

A fascinated by girls' stories BTW....

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street girl in Liverpool nearly 30 years ago who nicked my wallet while giving me a lousy blowjob. It didnt stop me but I got far more cautious and far less gullible

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I cant believe it . Before I read this page I thought I was a freak !! My first punt was with a gorgeous asian girl, I was well into the session but only had a lazy lob, although I improved I couldnt do the buisness and left feeling used and inadequate, though I never regretted the experience. I was going to call it a day , but after reading the stories of other members I am determined to stick at it . Thankyou guys.

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My first time punting was only about a week or two ago, I hadn't even been interested in any girl for quite some time and honestly felt that just some feminine contact and attention over actual sex was needed. Somehow found my why to PN and aft checking out FR's I came across a particularly striking WG (who happens to be active on this forum) that grabbed my attention and decided if was going to doing this it would be with her. However, unforeseeable problems came up and delayed our appointment about two times. Part of me through maybe it was for the best and might even be some kinda "sign", but she soon got back in contact explaining what had happened and we re-book for another day.

On the day I remember being quite nervous outside the tube station chain-smoking just to calm myself enough to make the phone call to get direction to her place and somehow I managed to get lost on the 5min walk there. Eventually, I arrived and was warmly greeted by a very attractive scantily clad girl who showed me up to her flat as I admired the sensational view of her behind while going up the upstairs.

Even though I was painfully shy and bashful the girl was very lovely, patient and charmingly cheeky. In an effort to help me relax she graciously offered me a cigarette and we had little chat while we smoked. Spent most of the time passionately kissing, cuddling and laughing when she accidently discovered how ticklish I was.

Had a great time despite some nerves and shyness and I'm planning on seeing her again for longer and hopefully more comfortable encounter.

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