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Guys! How Do You Stop Yourself....

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From cumming....

Im in my 20s and been punting enough to realise you cum once and you aint cumming again (even the ones who say you can cum more than once)

Generally i go in and pay for an hour get abit of oral until i think its best to move on to abit of intercourse, then before i know its all over. Ive got my kit and out of the door.

Its starting to turn into an expensive habbit.

So guys what do u do to stop yourself from cumming??

And plz dont say think about football because even the thought of alex ferguson doesnt stop me.

And feel ladies to put opinion in aswell, more the merrier.

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what he said also you are only in your 20s why on earth you not going again? Don't be shy, ask for a massage while you recoup if you are not comfortable with cuddles and chat.

What the f*k am I saying? Short of pushing the notes thru the letterbox this is our dream 'date' :P

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Where and who have you been to see?

I've never had that problem in 1 hour bookings! However, as soon as I cum a second time, a few ladies start to get dressed and offer me another shower!

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Have you tried half hour bookings?

I have but it would still be nice to be able to fill the halfhour session

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From cumming.... Im in my 20s and been punting enough to realise you cum once and you aint cumming again (even the ones who say you can cum more than once) Generally i go in and pay for an hour get abit of oral until i think its best to move on to abit of intercourse, then before i know its all over. Ive got my kit and out of the door. Its starting to turn into an expensive habbit. So guys what do u do to stop yourself from cumming?? And plz dont say think about football because even the thought of alex ferguson doesnt stop me. And feel ladies to put opinion in aswell, more the merrier.

Speak for yourself, how do you know what others do. In reality i can control when i come and do so when i am ready. What is the case is some guys come more than others.

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In my opinion, even if you cum early, it all depends on the lady. I have been in situations where after the first cum, I felt I couldn't a second time but the lady usually give me a 5-10min rest and starts sucking and licking and before you know it I am hard again for round 2. Some ladies would just leave it at that assuming you cant manage it for a second time.

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From cumming....

Im in my 20s and been punting enough to realise you cum once and you aint cumming again (even the ones who say you can cum more than once)

Generally i go in and pay for an hour get abit of oral until i think its best to move on to abit of intercourse, then before i know its all over. Ive got my kit and out of the door.

Its starting to turn into an expensive habbit.

So guys what do u do to stop yourself from cumming??

And plz dont say think about football because even the thought of alex ferguson doesnt stop me.

And feel ladies to put opinion in aswell, more the merrier.

Speak for yourself !

I routinely come twice during 1 hour bookings, and I think once I managed 3 times in 1 hour

During a particularly memorable overnighter I came 5 or 6 times, in between intermittent bouts of sleep, over the course of the night

From reading threads on these boards its obvious that coming more than once during a booking IS NOT UNUSUAL FOR MANY PUNTERS!!!!

A tactic that allows you greater control of when you orgasm is regular 'stop-start-stop' masturbation

Either using porn (or your imagination), or a partner if youre lucky, stimulate yourself to the point where you feel youre about to 'blow'....then stop

Allow the feeling that youve reached the point of no return to subside, say 10 seconds or so (longer if needed - this is up to the individual) and then start up again.....again bringing yourself to just before the point of no return and then stop again..........rest.........repeat

Id advise doing this at least 3 times during one session and at least fairly regularly, say 3 times per week, give or take a few times - its really up to the individual again, just dont become obsessive about it and use common sense - it isnt a competition

This definitely works and you should notice improved control and ability to delay orgasm and prolong sex within a few weeks of using this 'stop-start' technique.

Before i lost my virginity i was a long time porn user and used this technique more than anything to delay orgasm and prolong the pleasure

When I finally popped my cherry, unlike many who report a miserable experience, I really, really enjoyed it and my partner at the time, who soon became a longterm girlfriend asked me, genuinely surprised,"if youre a virgin then how come youre so good at it ?"

She wasnt so amused when I told her, "lots of practice on my own"

She couldnt have minded that much though as she stayed with me for over 3 years and we were at it like rabbits, especially during that first year.

(I'd also add that if ladies are pushing you out the door after youve come once and theres plenty of time left and youve paid for 1 hour...........ditch these ladies pronto............and start booking ones who dont immediately say its over just because youve come - i can think of only 1 or two bookings in 15 years where the wg expected me to leave once I'd come, with plenty of booked time left to go.............needless to say i never visited them again!)

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Tell the WG that you are only likely to manage once and you would prefer it to be closer to the end of your hour than the start.

There's no point pretending to her, or to yourself, that you are Peter North when you are not. A bit of discussion at the start makes all the difference.

I'm sure the girls on here would confirm that most of their bookings are not Peter Norths or Lex Steeles.

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what he said also you are only in your 20s why on earth you not going again? Don't be shy, ask for a massage while you recoup if you are not comfortable with cuddles and chat.

What the f*k am I saying? Short of pushing the notes thru the letterbox this is our dream 'date' :P

Aaahh thats why all the ladies have a big smile on there face when i leave and say "love to see u again, hope u come bk soon"

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Tell the WG that you are only likely to manage once and you would prefer it to be closer to the end of your hour than the start.

There's no point pretending to her, or to yourself, that you are Peter North when you are not. A bit of discussion at the start makes all the difference.

I'm sure the girls on here would confirm that most of their bookings are not Peter Norths or Lex Steeles.

This is very good advice but for me all I need to do to stop myself is think of Thatcher!

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This is very good advice but for me all I need to do to stop myself is think of Thatcher!

Good one PP! In fact that reminds me- it was once suggested to me that in order to prolong things, one should try to imagine one's own conception.

I did try that once and I will not do it again. It didn't just prolong things, it killed them to death and that was the end of it.

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Speak for yourself !

I routinely come twice during 1 hour bookings, and I think once I managed 3 times in 1 hour

During a particularly memorable overnighter I came 5 or 6 times, in between intermittent bouts of sleep, over the course of the night

From reading threads on these boards its obvious that coming more than once during a booking IS NOT UNUSUAL FOR MANY PUNTERS!!!!

A tactic that allows you greater control of when you orgasm is regular 'stop-start-stop' masturbation

Either using porn (or your imagination), or a partner if youre lucky, stimulate yourself to the point where you feel youre about to 'blow'....then stop

Allow the feeling that youve reached the point of no return to subside, say 10 seconds or so (longer if needed - this is up to the individual) and then start up again.....again bringing yourself to just before the point of no return and then stop again..........rest.........repeat

Id advise doing this at least 3 times during one session and at least fairly regularly, say 3 times per week, give or take a few times - its really up to the individual again, just dont become obsessive about it and use common sense - it isnt a competition

This definitely works and you should notice improved control and ability to delay orgasm and prolong sex within a few weeks of using this 'stop-start' technique.

Before i lost my virginity i was a long time porn user and used this technique more than anything to delay orgasm and prolong the pleasure

When I finally popped my cherry, unlike many who report a miserable experience, I really, really enjoyed it and my partner at the time, who soon became a longterm girlfriend asked me, genuinely surprised,"if youre a virgin then how come youre so good at it ?"

She wasnt so amused when I told her, "lots of practice on my own"

She couldnt have minded that much though as she stayed with me for over 3 years and we were at it like rabbits, especially during that first year.

(I'd also add that if ladies are pushing you out the door after youve come once and theres plenty of time left and youve paid for 1 hour...........ditch these ladies pronto............and start booking ones who dont immediately say its over just because youve come - i can think of only 1 or two bookings in 15 years where the wg expected me to leave once I'd come, with plenty of booked time left to go.............needless to say i never visited them again!)

I have unfortunately experienced the one or two pops in an hour and your out which was never advertised or mentioned by a small number of EE WGs, i certainly agree, ditch such WGs and go to those that offer punting by their time and what you can manage in that time is up to you.

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it killed them to death

Isn't that a classic case of overkill? :huh:

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Oh, if only men told us these things! It's impossible to tell what a man is capable of- if he wants as many orgasms as he can in an hour, a fast one then some play and another towards the end or if he wants to come only at the end. I feel bad if a man comes early on and then mutters about being done and leaves. How am I supposed to know if to stop if he looks like he's about to blow early on or carry on because he wants lots of orgasms?! Either way the wrong choice can leave a man disappointed, and I hate the idea of a fella thinking I was purposely trying to make him blow so he leaves early! It's also a bit embarrassing if you're trying to make a man hard again for a second go when nothing happens!

Us girls are used to all types of men so nothing will shock or offend us if you tell us about your general orgasming habits and what you want from a session!

BTW BillGoldberg's post was very good advice!

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Oh, if only men told us these things! It's impossible to tell what a man is capable of- if he wants as many orgasms as he can in an hour, a fast one then some play and another towards the end or if he wants to come only at the end. I feel bad if a man comes early on and then mutters about being done and leaves. How am I supposed to know if to stop if he looks like he's about to blow early on or carry on because he wants lots of orgasms?! Either way the wrong choice can leave a man disappointed, and I hate the idea of a fella thinking I was purposely trying to make him blow so he leaves early! It's also a bit embarrassing if you're trying to make a man hard again for a second go when nothing happens! Us girls are used to all types of men so nothing will shock or offend us if you tell us about your general orgasming habits and what you want from a session! BTW BillGoldberg's post was very good advice!

A guy should be clear in his communication to WGs in my opinion, the onus is on him to let her know what he wants. :)

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I believe that delaying your orgasm, is a bad idea,in my experience it leads to loss of erection,leave that tantric stuff to the pub bore, when you are ready to come, just shoot. As for forcing yourself to come again, to get your moneysworth, another bad idea, never ever force yourself to have a squirt. You need to restrict yourself to half hour bookings, or even fifteen minute bookings, and like the rest of us, win the lottery so you stop thinking about how insanely expensive punting is.

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Try thinking about WORK ! Nasty four lettered word I know, but it "slowed me down", even with "the Good Lady Wife" !

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keep an eye on the time. when you are about 10-15 minutes from the end then move on to the shag. OK you spend more time sucking and stuff but then i like that too.

or have a bit of a shag, but done cum, then return to oral. that is quite nice.

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The "one shot policy" is something I have only experienced in German FKK places.

Hence first booking would always be 30min only, and I just let fly at will (with a little postponement if possible).

In UK, never had a problem.

My UK appointments have all been 1hr or longer, and nearly always outcall to hotel (no parlour experience here).

Very rarely UK Ladies have objected to "multiple bells" and most have actively encouraged and participated.

With the good and better ones, it will just happen...

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I've never had a punt where if I came it was over and I was out of the door. You pay for 1 hour you stay 1 hour. I generally manage to cum twice in an hour, sometimes only once and occasionally 3 times. When I was in my early twenties I used to cum very quickly but learned to control it over the years, although even now at certain times I have cum very quickly and with large volume. A good WG shouldn't worry when you cum or how many times - although trying with 5 minutes left on the clock won't make you very popular.

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i take ages!!! with my gf i often don't come....have condom though....durex feather lite....not great...

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Bills advice is erm solid . Moving on you could try wanking earler in the day so you are not over eager, and one position has always worked for me in terms of being able to maintain more control and that is with a lady on top.

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Last week I had the opposite problem. The clock had run out and I was nowhere near popping... I think the WG used enough calories to run a marathon at the end to wank me off but all credit to her, she didn't want me to go without shooting mg load. I nearly put some more time on the clock but that wound have meant being late for an appointment.

If I ever think I'm edging too early I withdraw and go down on the lady or have a kiss and cuddle for a few minutes then I'm good to go again.

This actually brings to mind the one and ONLY "enjoyable" advantage of a condom. I have never ever liked batting on a sticky wicket but condoms let me have multiple pops!

DG

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I believe that delaying your orgasm, is a bad idea,in my experience it leads to loss of erection,leave that tantric stuff to the pub bore, when you are ready to come, just shoot. As for forcing yourself to come again, to get your moneysworth, another bad idea, never ever force yourself to have a squirt. You need to restrict yourself to half hour bookings, or even fifteen minute bookings, and like the rest of us, win the lottery so you stop thinking about how insanely expensive punting is.

Never happens to me !

I think most women would agree that if during sex the man shoots after 3 minutes it isnt the most satisfying experience for them.

I find that delaying orgasm (within reason - not talking 'Sting' style tantric sex marathons) and being able to last longer has only positive benefits, for both parties (unless of course youre with a wg who just wants to take your money and get you out ASAP)

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