Sarah Summers

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Couldn't think of a suitable heading for this topic and that one seems to fit although not exactly............

When I started out doing this, I would get the call and go. It was exciting, not knowing who would be at the other side of the door each time, and I got high on the fun. I would drive home or to my next gig feeling fantastic. It was all about the sex and nothing but the sex, with a casual glass on wine or a chat in between. Both parties wanted the sex and it was fab.

Then I discovered the message forum, and whilst they are informative, it let me into another side of this industry and to be honest it has spoiled the spontaneity of the idea. When I get into my flat, I am that person I always was, and when I am on the message forum, some of 'me' gets lost in discussion. Does anyone else think like this - that we don't seem to capture the fun of it all on here?

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I read you on the forum back in 2002 ,

And way back then knew what i was going to do,

I would book you, give you a seeing to

OOH WAH OOH WAH

I wanted at leat 3 hrs, a real good GFE

In which you wore wear red sussies just to please me

There was lots of cuddles, even a cup of tea

OOH WAH OOH WAH

You were my first one

And now I've had tons

Oh vid......

Sorry Sarah, in a silly mood(the thing a rare day off work will do to a person)

And thank you, I now have something to search for on You Tube

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I think the most important thing about being a wg, is never losing your true self in it. Sometimes the boards can be disheartening - because it is much easier to see all the rude or undesirable people all at once. On my old forum in the states, the guys could get very rude sometimes or just downright disrespectful. I've even had my share of bad mouthing - not bc I deserved it, but bc the person doing the bad mouthing was way out of line.

In those cases you really have to grow a tough skin, you have to learn how to not let it affect you so much. Sometimes, I would even have to take a break from the boards bc it all just got too much and started to make me bitter towards men, and sometimes even towards women who would act totally "bitchy".

If the boards are starting to get under you skin my advice to you would be to take a break for a bit and focus on what you love and enjoy doing. Even though our "job" isn't exactly the norm, we can still get burned out from time to time. In those moments it is best to just step back, take a breath, and relax for a minute. :)

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I think the most important thing about being a wg, is never losing your true self in it. Sometimes the boards can be disheartening - because it is much easier to see all the rude or undesirable people all at once. On my old forum in the states, the guys could get very rude sometimes or just downright disrespectful. I've even had my share of bad mouthing - not bc I deserved it, but bc the person doing the bad mouthing was way out of line.

In those cases you really have to grow a tough skin, you have to learn how to not let it affect you so much. Sometimes, I would even have to take a break from the boards bc it all just got too much and started to make me bitter towards men, and sometimes even towards women who would act totally "bitchy".

If the boards are starting to get under you skin my advice to you would be to take a break for a bit and focus on what you love and enjoy doing. Even though our "job" isn't exactly the norm, we can still get burned out from time to time. In those moments it is best to just step back, take a breath, and relax for a minute. :)

Thanks to Harry for that.... whoever you are!

Madison, I'm not feeling jaded, it's more a feeling of - *sigh, they are talking about older ladies again* or, *what we are worth again*, and it kind of kills the mood.

In the real world, when a guy books me, none of the main topics of discussion on here ever come into what goes on between two people - that is the difference.

There is a massive gulf between the reality of punting and the discussion of it. It makes you forget why you are doing this.

The implication from some that we are only in it for the money and nothing else is so wide of the mark, and yet if ladies protest, they are seen to be * methinks the lady protests too much*........

To the girls who are new to this, reading the forums must be a bit of an eye opener, and at times it looks as if it is 'us and them'. To me it has always appeared like this which is a shame. I'm rambling now........

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Does anyone else think like this - that we don't seem to capture the fun of it all on here?

Yes I do Sarah.

Like reading or watching the news or current affairs, the boards freqently focus on the the downsides. Either that or, especially with the 'requests' forum, it often comes across like someone is trying to decide on the 'spec' for their new car / laptop...

What's great is finding someone who you can escape with for an hour or so - it matters little if the lady is considered buysome to have a 'blemish' or doesn't take it in the ear, etc.

Rather, it's all about getting undressed and being yummy with each other!

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Couldn't think of a suitable heading for this topic and that one seems to fit although not exactly............

When I started out doing this, I would get the call and go. It was exciting, not knowing who would be at the other side of the door each time, and I got high on the fun. I would drive home or to my next gig feeling fantastic. It was all about the sex and nothing but the sex, with a casual glass on wine or a chat in between. Both parties wanted the sex and it was fab.

Then I discovered the message forum, and whilst they are informative, it let me into another side of this industry and to be honest it has spoiled the spontaneity of the idea. When I get into my flat, I am that person I always was, and when I am on the message forum, some of 'me' gets lost in discussion. Does anyone else think like this - that we don't seem to capture the fun of it all on here?

This one just for the escorts or can Ace jump in here?....

For me the fun is ofcourse sex with someone you've never met before and build up of excitement hours before the meeting with a escort bla bla bla,but mine is a different kind of spontaneity then yours...I can only have a certian amount of punts per month so I must plan who I'm booking with very carefully beforehand.Which is why forums like this are so usefull for sharing and recieving information and tips with others and hopefuly having a few laughs too,I'm interested to know what you mean by "the other side to the industry"...can you elaborate a little more for Ace please Sarah?.

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Couldn't think of a suitable heading for this topic and that one seems to fit although not exactly............

When I started out doing this, I would get the call and go. It was exciting, not knowing who would be at the other side of the door each time, and I got high on the fun. I would drive home or to my next gig feeling fantastic. It was all about the sex and nothing but the sex, with a casual glass on wine or a chat in between. Both parties wanted the sex and it was fab.

Then I discovered the message forum, and whilst they are informative, it let me into another side of this industry and to be honest it has spoiled the spontaneity of the idea. When I get into my flat, I am that person I always was, and when I am on the message forum, some of 'me' gets lost in discussion. Does anyone else think like this - that we don't seem to capture the fun of it all on here?

Really what would you expect on an essentially male centred forum on prostitution ?

Mills n Boon ?

Especially since as from what I can tell this is an exclusively female SP/male punter domain, much of the talk on here will be male centred and from a male perspective, which a lot of the time will focus on the 'mechanics', the boring details like price and convenient locations, the logistical side of the whole thing. Expect lists, polls, ratings based on looks vs service/price...etc

Therell obviously be far less emphasis on the more typically 'feminine' aspects of it all, things like 'ambience', 'feelings', 'connections' and emotions.

Even so such threads are present in amongst all the lists and polls, and as far as I can tell there is much varied, interesting, intelligent and eye opening debate going on, from both the female and male perspective and on subjects that could be termed more 'feminine' than typically male.

The highlighted quote in your post makes me sense that either you've been very lucky throughout your working life as an SP, or youre looking back with rose tinted glasses, or you're expecting that everyone else has always had the similarly positive experiences you have had, with no crushing and expensive disappointments, have not had to suffer the hugely inconvenient timewasters or been deliberately misled by a whole string of false claims and spurious photos.

Because if what you say, in the highlighted section, was always true then thered be no need at all for a site like punternet or this forum, as both punters and SPs would always be happy..........and everyone would be blissfully floating off like big balls off fluff,. hand in hand, into the sunset

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Really what would you expect on an essentially male centred forum on prostitution ?

Mills n Boon ?

Especially since as from what I can tell this is an exclusively female SP/male punter domain, much of the talk on here will be male centred and from a male perspective, which a lot of the time will focus on the 'mechanics', the boring details like price and convenient locations, the logistical side of the whole thing. Expect lists, polls, ratings based on looks vs service/price...etc

Therell obviously be far less emphasis on the more typically 'feminine' aspects of it all, things like 'ambience', 'feelings', 'connections' and emotions.

Even so such threads are present in amongst all the lists and polls, and as far as I can tell there is much varied, interesting, intelligent and eye opening debate going on, from both the female and male perspective and on subjects that could be termed more 'feminine' than typically male.

The highlighted quote in your post makes me sense that either you've been very lucky throughout your working life as an SP, or youre looking back with rose tinted glasses, or you're expecting that everyone else has always had the similarly positive experiences you have had, with no crushing and expensive disappointments, have not had to suffer the hugely inconvenient timewasters or been deliberately misled by a whole string of false claims and spurious photos.

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Because if what you say, in the highlighted section, was always true then thered be no need at all for a site like punternet or this forum, as both punters and SPs would always be happy..........and everyone would be blissfully floating off like big balls off fluff,. hand in hand, into the sunset

A little less cynicism and a bit more joy. That's what I'd like to see. Punting is about fun, essentially.....Bill.

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I serve our clients their tea in mugs that say "Last night a BJ saved my life"...living on the edge, if that aint fun..nothing is :D

Edited by Chloe MKEscorts

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I didn't highlight anything Bill. I simply made a comment about my job. We are allowed to enjoy our work even if that does not suit some people, and that is in no way meant as a clever comment right back at ya.

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I serve our clients their tea in mugs that say "Last night a BJ saved my life"...living on the edge, if that aint fun..nothing is :D

Chloe I think I love you x

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A little less cynicism and a bit more joy. That's what I'd like to see. Punting is about fun, essentially.....Bill.

And how nice it would be to have that perfectly reasonable wish fulfilled.

Wouldn't keeping away from sex forums help a bit? Whatever loss of spontaneity a punter's research threatens, hopefully it wpn't affect your enjoyment if he does the decent thing and lets himself enjoy your company rather than, say, listing the boxes you ticked and, horrors, points out your potential shortcomings, then steps inside the door and fingers his £20 notes possessively.

Not sure if I am one, but would hope to be one of the many men who connect with your happy days, Sarah :)

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I didn't highlight anything Bill. I simply made a comment about my job. We are allowed to enjoy our work even if that does not suit some people, and that is in no way meant as a clever comment right back at ya.

No, I was talking about the bit I highlighted

Totally agree that fun and enjoyment for both parties should be part and parcel of every punt, in an ideal world

Trouble is this isn't an ideal world and so forums like this (and less glamorous threads and discussions)are essential in order to hopefully maximise the fun and enjoyment and minimise the miserable disappointments

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Chloe I think I love you x

Ahh thankyou xxx

I got then from another famous "Summers" name of Ann whilst stocking up on strap-ons, hog tyers, nipple clamps and various wiggly toys for le bottom and other orifice's lol... there were only two though :( . The trouble was that the damn song was then stuck in my head all day :wacko:

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I serve our clients their tea in mugs that say "Last night a BJ saved my life"...living on the edge, if that aint fun..nothing is :D

Where can I get one ?

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No, I was talking about the bit I highlighted

Totally agree that fun and enjoyment for both parties should be part and parcel of every punt, in an ideal world

Trouble is this isn't an ideal world and so forums like this (and less glamorous threads and discussions)are essential in order to hopefully maximise the fun and enjoyment and minimise the miserable disappointments

Feeling a bit philosophical about the job which for me is not a job and never was......... I have just returned home from seeing a regular client who I have known and kind of grown up with since I started out in 2002......... we had champagne and chatter and we had fun, and it has been like this from day one.

When I think about the punts I have, it is only when the man smells, or tries to get beyond the punt and into my private life that things go wrong, and that is not very often. For the rest of the time I have a blast, and I think that being on message forums detracts from this for me.

I have tried to work out why some of you guys have bad punts because for the life of me I just can't understand it. Maybe it is down to attitude and watching too much porn that makes guys expect more than they get - I do not know. Sometimes when I come on here I feel like I am in a parallel universe because I do not have bad times, just the odd blip maybe here and there. Maybe I am in the wrong place after all.

G'night all x

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And how nice it would be to have that perfectly reasonable wish fulfilled.

Wouldn't keeping away from sex forums help a bit? Whatever loss of spontaneity a punter's research threatens, hopefully it wpn't affect your enjoyment if he does the decent thing and lets himself enjoy your company rather than, say, listing the boxes you ticked and, horrors, points out your potential shortcomings, then steps inside the door and fingers his £20 notes possessively.

Not sure if I am one, but would hope to be one of the many men who connect with your happy days, Sarah :)

Yes I think you are right. I have nothing to learn because it ain't broke.

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Feeling a bit philosophical about the job which for me is not a job and never was......... I have just returned home from seeing a regular client who I have known and kind of grown up with since I started out in 2002......... we had champagne and chatter and we had fun, and it has been like this from day one.

When I think about the punts I have, it is only when the man smells, or tries to get beyond the punt and into my private life that things go wrong, and that is not very often. For the rest of the time I have a blast, and I think that being on message forums detracts from this for me.

I have tried to work out why some of you guys have bad punts because for the life of me I just can't understand it. Maybe it is down to attitude and watching too much porn that makes guys expect more than they get - I do not know. Sometimes when I come on here I feel like I am in a parallel universe because I do not have bad times, just the odd blip maybe here and there. Maybe I am in the wrong place after all.

G'night all x

Yeah sometimes this true, but in no way can you as you seem to have done here, lay the blame solely on the punters !!!

its also true that:

1. there are girls out there who just want to pocket a punters money for doing the bare minimum that they can get away with

2. there are plenty of girls using fake, very outdated or stolen photos in order to lure punters in

3. there are plenty of girls out there who are dishonest about their list of services, again in order to lure punters in

4. there are girls out there who deliberately dont mention the additional cost of 'extras' until youve parted with your money

5. there are girls who are simply in the wrong profession, hate what they do, have a very low opinion of men in general as a result of this and so resort to 1,3,5 & 6

6. there are girls guilty of clockwatching intently and/or wanting you out after 1 'pop' despite listing their services as chargeable at an hourly rate

punternet has certainly minimised the number of poor punts I have with only 2 standouts over the last couple of years, but an occasional poor punt now and again is almost inevitable.

any punter whose had a bad punt, and there are plenty on these boards, will most likely cite one or more of the above reasons, and many of them will be fully justified in doing so

admittedly sometimes the blame can lie with the punter for a number of reasons, and sometimes really no-ones solely to blame and an unenjoyable session was due to a personality clash, an off day for both concerned, a serious lack of chemistry or any number of reasons

I'm really completely mystified that you claim to have no idea at all as to why guys have bad punts, when youre a reasonably regular contributor to these boards and so i'd have thought a regular reader of punters posts

unless of course you completely ignore or disregard anything negative thats ever written about wg X, Y or Z and always believe that its the punter whose at fault, which judging by your recent posts wouldnt be an unreasonable assumption

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Where can I get one ?

Someone I know saw a guy wearing a tshirt which said "Bukkake ruined my carpet" :D

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Going back to your originalpost Sarah, I know exaclty what you mean. Speaking as a Punter, we have to get the balance between doing our research and finding out too much about the WG we are going to see, which spoils the mystery of the whole engagement. Anticipation, secrecy and walking into the unknown are three major attractions of any new engagement. Oh yes and then there's the sex! After that comes the joy of finding a WG with whom you click (oh how i hate that hackneyed expression) where the relationship just goes to new highs. :wub: (my first ever smiley!)

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Going back to your originalpost Sarah, I know exaclty what you mean. Speaking as a Punter, we have to get the balance between doing our research and finding out too much about the WG we are going to see, which spoils the mystery of the whole engagement. Anticipation, secrecy and walking into the unknown are three major attractions of any new engagement. Oh yes and then there's the sex! After that comes the joy of finding a WG with whom you click (oh how i hate that hackneyed expression) where the relationship just goes to new highs. :wub: (my first ever smiley!)

I agree!

For me personally I like the excitement of meeting a WG for the first time, however I also find that reading the FR and Forum helps me know if the Wg I'm planning to see is what I hope to see thus add to the anticipation...

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Someone I know saw a guy wearing a tshirt which said "Bukkake ruined my carpet" :D

Talking of bukkake, I rather like this: http://www.filehurricane.com/viewerthumbnails/5162008123206PM_Bukkake.jpg

I wouldn't want it on a t-shirt though. :blink:

I've seen that "last night a bj saved my life" one in a set somewhere, I'm sure, with something advertising a fictitious nightclub advertising a downstairs restaurant or something. Googling sex gifts, the only thing I could find though was something saying "oral sex is always a great last minute gift". Which is true, really.

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I have tried to work out why some of you guys have bad punts because for the life of me I just can't understand it. Maybe it is down to attitude and watching too much porn that makes guys expect more than they get - I do not know. Sometimes when I come on here I feel like I am in a parallel universe because I do not have bad times, just the odd blip maybe here and there. Maybe I am in the wrong place after all.

G'night all x

Like Bill, I struggle with this para Sarah. I regard myself as a fairly normal, average type of guy. Politeness and respect to everyone is important to me, I am clean and well mannered and have been told I am reasonable company. I never haggle on rates and do my utmost to make every punt an enjoyable experience for both parties. However, I have met girls in all 6 of Bill's categories that he listed and to be honest a few dreadful punts or even walkouts have resulted.

In particular, I remember going to see one lady who advertised as mid forties, but turned out to be close to 60. Then there was the girl who turned out to be neither the person in her gallery nor the person I spoke to on the phone and spoke no english to boot. Then there was the delightful young thing who took my money for an hour's punt and after 25 mins declared it was 1 pop per hour so no more sex but I was welcome to stay and chat. Then there was the girl who swore blind she loved kissing, took my money and then announced that my kisses tickled her and I had to stop. Then there was the girl who turned out to have a stinking horrible cold and couldn't kiss or perform oral because of it, not that I wanted to kiss someone after hearing her snuffle and sneeze for a few minutes. Then there was the girl whose pussy stank of urine etc etc.

I think my success rate on punts is something like 30% awesome, 30% good, 30% so-so and 10% bad, so I am hardly over fussy or hard to please.

Are the bad ones I mention above all my fault then ?

P.S. I hardly watch any porn :-)

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I'm still confused Sarah!

of course there are going to be threads about bad experiences chaps have had with girls- that's half of what this website is about. Try not to let this bother you- there are plenty of girls out there who do offer a bad service or mess their clients about but you know you do a good job and you still enjoy what you do, so why let it get you down?

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Like Bill, I struggle with this para Sarah. I regard myself as a fairly normal, average type of guy. Politeness and respect to everyone is important to me, I am clean and well mannered and have been told I am reasonable company. I never haggle on rates and do my utmost to make every punt an enjoyable experience for both parties. However, I have met girls in all 6 of Bill's categories that he listed and to be honest a few dreadful punts or even walkouts have resulted.

In particular, I remember going to see one lady who advertised as mid forties, but turned out to be close to 60. Then there was the girl who turned out to be neither the person in her gallery nor the person I spoke to on the phone and spoke no english to boot. Then there was the delightful young thing who took my money for an hour's punt and after 25 mins declared it was 1 pop per hour so no more sex but I was welcome to stay and chat. Then there was the girl who swore blind she loved kissing, took my money and then announced that my kisses tickled her and I had to stop. Then there was the girl who turned out to have a stinking horrible cold and couldn't kiss or perform oral because of it, not that I wanted to kiss someone after hearing her snuffle and sneeze for a few minutes. Then there was the girl whose pussy stank of urine etc etc.

I think my success rate on punts is something like 30% awesome, 30% good, 30% so-so and 10% bad, so I am hardly over fussy or hard to please.

Are the bad ones I mention above all my fault then ?

P.S. I hardly watch any porn :-)

To add to this, for a seasoned punter as you appear to be, I dont think your overall experiences are uncommon or unusual at all, as perusing these boards and the FRs indicates that the majority of punters whove been doing this for any sort of lengthy period, pretty much inevitably have a mixture of excellent, good, average and bad punts, usually with the majority falling within the 'good' category.

So why is the existence of the 'bad' so hard for Sarah to understand ?

For an SP or punter to expect all punts to be great theyd either have to be incredibly fortunate or living in cloud cuckoo land

Personally I count myself more fortunate than you Northwinds in that I'd put my ratios at somewhere like 40% awesome, 40% good, 15% so so and 5% bad

However, contrary to Northwinds I would say that I AM FUSSY having been 'spoilt' I'd say by many of the wonderful Thai SPs in London and now expect a very high standard generally, and I've grown so accustomed to receiving just that.

And I do regularly watch porn.

So Sarah, YES I do have high expectations since the majority of my punts are of a high standard anyway, and YES I do watch porn, yet overall I'm very happy with my experiences of punting in London.

However I have no problems whatsoever understanding why punts go wrong, having experienced a number of fairly bad punts myself and certainly wouldnt put all the blame for the existence of poor punts on the punters head.

So Sarah do you simply deny that there are girls out there who deliberately set out to mislead punters with fake pictures or a list of 'likes' most of which they have no intention of indulging in ?

Do you deny that there are girls out there in it purely for the money operating with the intention of maximum profit for minimum effort ?

Do you deny that there are girls doing this who really shouldnt be because they absolutely hate it, yet need the money, and their general disdain is reflected regularly while they work ?

Are there no girls out there who are lazy, have poor hygiene, regularly cancel bookings on a whim at very short notice and suffer from a distinct lack of professionalism ?

The only way you could believe poor punts are all the fault of the punters would be to deny the existence of the above types of wg, in the same way the only way you could be mystified about the existence of poor punts would be to deny or claim complete ignorance of the existence of the same above types of wg.

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