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Is There A Call For A Wg Who Does S And M?

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Please advise if there is a call for WG's who offer domination and S+M please.

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Please advise if there is a call for WG's who offer domination and S+M please.

Yes there certainly is. It may not feature much on this site but there are specialists sites which cater for the BDSM world.

My experience is that the best Dommes are those who have a natural inclination to be dominant. Those who try to put it on rarely make the grade. If you feel you are a natural Domme why not take a look at the serious mistresses site. I don't know how you might register there but if BDSM is your bag you should generate plenty of interest

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Please advise if there is a call for WG's who offer domination and S+M please.

Yes, definately!

Personally, I prefer domination etc from an escort rather than a professional domme. You don't have to be skilled but you do have to be dominant enough to clearly enjoy it.

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Me too, from quite mild stuff to more heavy stuff. And the fact they ask me when there is no mention of me offering this kind of service on my web site prob means there is a shortage. Well round here anyway.

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Please advise if there is a call for WG's who offer domination and S+M please.

Yes. Even in London, there are not many providing this service.

The London Retreat makes a good business from serving this niche.

Most Dommes on the BDSM sites make it clear that no sexual services are offered.

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Really difficult to make any generalisations as S&M or BDSM is such a wide field. Many prodommes work from dungeons with a huge array of equipment to cater for a wide range of fetishes. If you take a look at seriousmistresses.com you will see what I mean. Significant financial investment and training is needed to safely practice the art. For example, caning a submissive is not just a case of beating the hell out of his ass.

Czechmate is correct and intimate contact is typically not on offer and for me this is gap in the market that a WG could exploit. Sensual domination where the WG takes control, tie and tease scenarios, or face sitting. Anyway have some experience here with both prodomme and WG so PM me if you'd like more discussion on this.

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I've found that there is a market for clients who want a taste of domination without having to commit to the full blown pro-domina. As long as you're honest about what you provide it's all good

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As long as you're honest about what you provide it's all good

This applies to all transactions in this area, and having visited Darla's web site I can see that she seems to be perfectly straightforward. I guess what you see is what you will get.

I get the impression from some of her phraseology that Darla may one of our delightful Antipodean cousins.

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You don't have to be skilled but you do have to be dominant enough to clearly enjoy it.

This is vital. Having visited a couple of "amateurs" that can be a real let down. If the lady doesn't enjoy it, she should stick to what she does enjoy. I guess that applies to all escorting activities.

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Most Dommes on the BDSM sites make it clear that no sexual services are offered.

That may be where Trudie differs from the rest.

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Please advise if there is a call for WG's who offer domination and S+M please.

I think there is, but I'm only one voice. Years back I used to see a couple of Domme's from time to time but as others have intimated, it can be very full on, with little or no sexual services on offer.For me a mixture of S&M and sexual services make for a very satisfying time - didn't someone once say that pleasure and pain are close cousins?

I guess a supplementary question to Trudie's is what is the age range of clients who want such services? I come from an age where Smacking / CP was common place (which is why I believe I like this practice) so I wonder about the demand from men of a younger age who have been brought up in the 'PC' world we now inhabit?

Nevertheless in my area of the UK I've found a couple of reliable ladies who provide such a mixture S&M and intamacy. Currently one of my favourites is a lovely lady who does a lovely FBSM. In addition though she has a riding crop which, if requested, she will put across her clients bare bottom's (including mine) before she massages them. Pure heaven.

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I think there is, but I'm only one voice. Years back I used to see a couple of Domme's from time to time but as others have intimated, it can be very full on, with little or no sexual services on offer.For me a mixture of S&M and sexual services make for a very satisfying time - didn't someone once say that pleasure and pain are close cousins?

I guess a supplementary question to Trudie's is what is the age range of clients who want such services? I come from an age where Smacking / CP was common place (which is why I believe I like this practice) so I wonder about the demand from men of a younger age who have been brought up in the 'PC' world we now inhabit?

Nevertheless in my area of the UK I've found a couple of reliable ladies who provide such a mixture S&M and intamacy. Currently one of my favourites is a lovely lady who does a lovely FBSM. In addition though she has a riding crop which, if requested, she will put across her clients bare bottom's (including mine) before she massages them. Pure heaven.

BDSM and sex is great but definitely rare. BDSM activities also cover a wide spectrum from the most sensuous tie and tease to the eye wateringly painful.

As pointed out above, almost all dommes exclude intimate contact. I used to see one who would give me little treats for 'good behaviour' and being a good slave, such as letting me suck her breasts or kiss her bum.

It has to be said though that a big part of BDSM has little to do with sex, it's really about the psychological relationship.

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Yes. Even in London, there are not many providing this service.

The London Retreat makes a good business from serving this niche.

Most Dommes on the BDSM sites make it clear that no sexual services are offered.

I've often wondered why no one else offers what the Retreat does, even in other parts of the country (as far as I know.) I've always been sure the demand exists but maybe I'm wrong. I haven't been there for years but I believe their rates are the same as they were in the late 90s when I first went.

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BDSM has little to do with sex, it's really about the psychological relationship.

That absolutely hits the nail on the head, if I can mix my metaphors! BDSM is absolutely about the mental side of sex. Remember that your most powerful sexual organ is the one that keeps your ears apart.

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I have been to lifestyle dominatrices and independent WG's who are skilled at BDSM / specialise in it. Some " serious / lifestyle mistresses" are a bit heavy for me, so generally have preferred to be with a WG who knows what she is doing in this area. To answer the OPs question, I would say quite a good call for it

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My main market is BDSM, so yes, I'd say there is a very big market for WG's offering BDSM,

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WOW!!! Thanks for all your replies. I am naturallly dom so it would come very easily to me. Although I can also be super sweet. I am now going to reseach more of this idea and maybe put it into place :D . Any pointers from you guys out there would be very, very welcome. PM me if you would prefer to do so.

T xx

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In reply to your post,all the girls at the retreat have good reps.I have seen Lisa many times over the past 5 years.also known as sadie at hod.

Forget what some trolls have said about her on the forum recently,she is amazing.her body is gym bunny toned,lovely enhanced boobs,facially beautiful,and an ass that you cannot keep your hands(and lips) off.and she is smart and funny in the downtime too.

I've not gone into heavy s and m with her,mainly full service and some tie and tease but she can do it all,just look at the reviews. Trust me go see her

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In reply to your post,all the girls at the retreat have good reps.I have seen Lisa many times over the past 5 years.also known as sadie at hod. Forget what some trolls have said about her on the forum recently,she is amazing.her body is gym bunny toned,lovely enhanced boobs,facially beautiful,and an ass that you cannot keep your hands(and lips) off.and she is smart and funny in the downtime too. I've not gone into heavy s and m with her,mainly full service and some tie and tease but she can do it all,just look at the reviews. Trust me go see her

Before you start calling other posters trolls get your facts right, the recent thread about Sadie was started by a punter who is not a known troll and who has posted on here without trolling many times. It was his opinion of his experience, that doesnt make him a troll.

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I was referring to the guys that jumped onto that post to have a pop at her personally,not the original poster who stated he did have a good time with her.facts were already straight thank you

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In reply to your post,all the girls at the retreat have good reps.I have seen Lisa many times over the past 5 years.also known as sadie at hod.

Forget what some trolls have said about her on the forum recently,she is amazing.her body is gym bunny toned,lovely enhanced boobs,facially beautiful,and an ass that you cannot keep your hands(and lips) off.and she is smart and funny in the downtime too.

I've not gone into heavy s and m with her,mainly full service and some tie and tease but she can do it all,just look at the reviews. Trust me go see her

In reply to which post ? All the comments about London Retreat on this thread have been positive, and Lisa has not been mentioned until this. If you want to respond to posts on other threads, why not do so there ?

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Is there a demand for S & M with an escort service ?

Yes, yes, yes.

Did I say Yes?

I'm very partial to a spot of spanking/caning/cbt/nipple play etc, but it all seems to me to lack a purpose unless you're allowed to to climax at the end. Some ProDommes will allow it, some will assist, some never give any hint at all that it's on offer, some expressly rule it out and some will end the session early if you make the mistake of cumming at all.

The ideal for me would be a session where the lady has her fun with you, and then relents and 'makes it up' to you, with at least HR, but better with face sitting and HR, or O, or best of all, climbing aboard and using you.

I have met one or two who will do this, but of course they tend not to take the domme side quite so seriously as the ProDommes.

Hard to find the happy blend of both disciplines, but I live in hope :)

Edited by Klaxxon

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I was referring to the guys that jumped onto that post to have a pop at her personally,not the original poster who stated he did have a good time with her.facts were already straight thank you

The facts show she is very popular and good at being a WG in the main but those that dont agree arent automatically trolls.

Edited by smiths

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Hard to find the happy blend of both disciplines, but I live in hope :)

I trust that you will let us know when you find Nirvana.

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