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Buying Garments For W/gs Question. Is It Possible To Get A Discount From Hourly Rate? Or Keep Clotthes For Next Booking?

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What happens if you want a W/G to wear a certain item of clothing you find sexy. It could be thigh high leather boots, a certain sheen of Stocking, a sexy Leather Dress, a Fancy Dress Uniform (Sailor Girl outfit, PVC Catwoman outfit) or a High Street Outfit.

Now you could say buy it yourself and give it to an Escort you see regularly. However if you're paying £50 can you

a) ask for a "like for like" discount?

B) Are working girls willing to wear a secondhand outfit that's been washed (maybe not Lingerie in the Bra and Knickers range)

c) If a garment is too expensive (such as Thigh High Leather Boots that are £150 from Camden Market) would a W/G fuck me for "free" if I could prove they were New with receipt and box.

d) do W/G trust Punters to buy the outfit for them?

So far my experience was buying Sheer Denier Holds Ups from the Hosiery department for an Escort.

She was flattered and loved the texture but didn't make any effort to make a discount for them.

Can I get an Escort and Punter perspective on this?

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Hello people

What happens if you want a W/G to wear a certain item of clothing you find sexy. It could be thigh high leather boots, a certain sheen of Stocking, a sexy Leather Dress, a Fancy Dress Uniform (Sailor Girl outfit, PVC Catwoman outfit) or a High Street Outfit.

Now you could say buy it yourself and give it to an Escort you see regularly. However if you're paying £50 can you

a) ask for a "like for like" discount?

:cool: Are working girls willing to wear a secondhand outfit that's been washed (maybe not Lingerie in the Bra and Knickers range)

c) If a garment is too expensive (such as Thigh High Leather Boots that are £150 from Camden Market) would a W/G fuck me for "free" if I could prove they were New with receipt and box.

d) do W/G trust Punters to buy the outfit for them?

So far my experience was buying Sheer Denier Holds Ups from the Hosiery department for an Escort.

She was flattered and loved the texture but didn't make any effort to make a discount for them.

Can I get an Escort and Punter perspective on this?

lol!!,classic one Red..if escort agrees how do you know if your outfit will fit her?

Too many moody topics these days,and not enough of these!

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actually,now you got me thinking....not a bad idea mate,will look forward to reading any escorts take on this :-)

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I can speak from experience, having lashed out a couple of years ago on shoes, stockings a nurses' outfit and a latex dress! Not a penny discount was offered, nor, I must say, was any expected. The items enhanced those, and many subsequent sessions.The lady concrened and I do well out of each other. She fits in appointments for me at unusual times, at short notice and never watches the clock with the result that sessions regularly run well over. If i wasn't happy with the service and spending time with her regularly, I wouldnt buy the gear...and ultimately would not see her.

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if escort agrees how do you know if your outfit will fit her?

Easy. For stretch fabrics such as Hold Ups/Stockings- visit any Hosiery Department and actually talk to the saleswomen (they're actually really friendly and helpful) so don't worry if you're a little red faced.

Any salesperson will be able to recommend Sizes based on a female's stats- usually based on Height (for leg length) and Dress Size for Hold Up stretch. Or just read the labels on the back of the packet!

Same applies to one size fits all garments such as glittering dresses, Latex, spandex, wetlook tights.

For things like Shoe Size and Leather garments you'd need to inform the Escort beforehand. One Escort called English Nymph Carly actually was going to buy her own top class Latex Dress as she hated the £10 ones she got donated.

I can speak from experience, having lashed out a couple of years ago on shoes, stockings a nurses' outfit and a latex dress! Not a penny discount was offered, nor, I must say, was any expected.

That's a shame. An Escorts wardrobe can be the difference between extra bookings etc.

The trouble is I like Size 8- 18-25 year old Eastern Europeans and because they never sit still I'd hate to lose my investment. Unlike yours who is a regular.

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I would think about buying my favourite lady something after, perhaps, 3 or 4 visits. But then I would check with her to make sure I wasn't buying something she already had.

I would anticipate that she would expect to wear it for other people besides me. In fact, I would be flattered, as that would indicate that it was a good buy.

P S I thought at first that this was another bid to get the title of "longest title" thread

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Personally, I wouldn't offer a discount if someone brought me a gift, in the same way one shouldn't expect anything in return for any gift, I suppose this may differ in a sugar daddy type set up...

However, that's not to say if a guy wanted to get me something of value that I really wanted myself and he was a regular I might negotiate something! If it was something I would only wear for him then probably not. Pretty knickers do not pay my bills!

Secondhand clothing would make me feel icky and wonder why a man had it- would I be expected to return it to him washed and pressed so he can pass onto his next WG of choice when he was done with me?!

I think if there was a mutual discussion and agreement over a guy buying me something I would probably sit down with him and find something online together to make sure he was happy with item and I picked the right size/style that would suit me.

I suggest if you have a girl in mind and you have met her then have a chat with her. Tell her what you want to see her in, you never know she may say ooh yes I need one of them and go ahead and buy for herself! (win!) if she umms and ahhs then offer to buy it for her and go from there- you could go halves on it maybe?

As I am always banging on about talking to each other and communication is very effective!

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What happens if you want a W/G to wear a certain item of clothing you find sexy. It could be thigh high leather boots, a certain sheen of Stocking, a sexy Leather Dress, a Fancy Dress Uniform (Sailor Girl outfit, PVC Catwoman outfit) or a High Street Outfit.

Now you could say buy it yourself and give it to an Escort you see regularly. However if you're paying £50 can you

a) ask for a "like for like" discount?

No chance.

:cool: Are working girls willing to wear a secondhand outfit that's been washed (maybe not Lingerie in the Bra and Knickers range)

Possible

c) If a garment is too expensive (such as Thigh High Leather Boots that are £150 from Camden Market) would a W/G fuck me for "free" if I could prove they were New with receipt and box.

No chance

d) do W/G trust Punters to buy the outfit for them?

Eh ? What's to not trust ?

I have bought stuff for 1 or 2 regulars and a favourite pole dancer.

I just asked that I got first viewing as in some cases I ordered by Internet with delivery to the girl.

I may have got some extra time thrown in but I was in a situation where we were not watching the clock rigidly anyway.

If she originates the request i suppose you could try for, say, half the value to be treated as payment,

but if you are choosing it then it's a present (for you as well as her).

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If i were a working girl I'd tell you where to stick your gift if you were expecting it to result in a part discount of the fee. It's your fetish/desire to see them in it so it's for you to incur the expense.

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If i were a working girl I'd tell you where to stick your gift if you were expecting it to result in a part discount of the fee. It's your fetish/desire to see them in it so it's for you to incur the expense.

No not a "gift", I'm not that sad. No such thing as a free lunch etc.

The way I see it- a W/G wardrobe is part of her job- so therefore she should pay.

A bit like a Builder who needs to buy his own Safety Boots, Hard Hat, Tools out of his own pocket before he gets paid by the foreman.

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No not a "gift", I'm not that sad. No such thing as a free lunch etc.

The way I see it- a W/G wardrobe is part of her job- so therefore she should pay.

A bit like a Builder who needs to buy his own Safety Boots, Hard Hat, Tools out of his own pocket before he gets paid by the foreman.

The first two lines of your original post are in essence the answer, you want the WG dressed in a particular piece of clothing and you're prepared to buy it .....you choice, your purchase your gift to them, nothing more than that.

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The first two lines of your original post are in essence the answer, you want the WG dressed in a particular piece of clothing and you're prepared to buy it .....you choice, your purchase your gift to them, nothing more than that.

Well I would argue that W/Gs would benefit from a nice dress- but if the truth be told- very rarely do they model the clothes in their profile pictures (that's a whole other thread).

I am making enquiries as we speak- so I'll get back to you all of how I got on.

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sigh....

Sounds like an attempt to combine bartering and haggling to me.

Wouldnt recommend it. She probably wont like it.

better: offer to buy the clotes/shoes/whatever, possibly accompany her to the shop, and make clear it is a gift but you would like her to wear it.

Then see what happens.

If the two of you get along well, you might receive some surprising good service.

good luck.

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I don't give discounts for gifts, but I always have pictures done with gift items as soon as possible.

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I have to say if anyone came to me with your proposal I would decline the booking. I have lots of nice dresses and drawers bulging at the seams with stockings, corsets, lingerie etc and if I don't have what you want, it is likely because it is not something I personally would enjoy wearing and therefore would only entertain it for your booking.

I would not entertain wearing something that has been worn by someone else.

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Hello people

What happens if you want a W/G to wear a certain item of clothing you find sexy. It could be thigh high leather boots, a certain sheen of Stocking, a sexy Leather Dress, a Fancy Dress Uniform (Sailor Girl outfit, PVC Catwoman outfit) or a High Street Outfit.

Now you could say buy it yourself and give it to an Escort you see regularly. However if you're paying £50 can you

a) ask for a "like for like" discount?

cool.png Are working girls willing to wear a secondhand outfit that's been washed (maybe not Lingerie in the Bra and Knickers range)

c) If a garment is too expensive (such as Thigh High Leather Boots that are £150 from Camden Market) would a W/G fuck me for "free" if I could prove they were New with receipt and box.

d) do W/G trust Punters to buy the outfit for them?

So far my experience was buying Sheer Denier Holds Ups from the Hosiery department for an Escort.

She was flattered and loved the texture but didn't make any effort to make a discount for them.

Can I get an Escort and Punter perspective on this?

I've had the experience of potential clients requesting specific items of clothing, in my early days I sometimes went out and bought them, several times they turned out to be 'no shows', that taught me a lesson. If a potential client requests something from my photographs I will wear it, however because some outfits requested are something that might have limited appeal to other clients I wouldn't be happy discounting my rates for something that was only going to be worn once. I did have one client replying to my question 'is there anything you'd like me to wear when we meet', that he'd be happy to meet me even if I was wearing a bin bag, I took him up on this when we met up. The look on his face when I opened the door to him............ ;)

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Negotiate on the price?! We are talking about a physical encounter, in all likelihood entirely for the benefit of the buyer. That would really set the tone for the session wouldn't it? How about a hotel style mini bar with a tariff or a vending machine just to even things out. If you has something in mind that has to be just right to fulfil your need then you should provide it at your expense.

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I was under the impression that WG's kept their work clothes separate from what they wore in civvy street. I could see an item of lingerie and think so and so would look fabulous in that and yes I'd be willing to buy that without wanting a favour in return. My only problem, and it's a rather selfish one, is knowing that some other punter may also see her in what I have bought, therefore I am contributing to their pleasure too. Tacky Ann Summers type lingerie is very off putting, but a beautiful woman in nice lingerie lingers in the mind and contributes greatly to the phwoar factor.

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I was under the impression that WG's kept their work clothes separate from what they wore in civvy street. I could see an item of lingerie and think so and so would look fabulous in that and yes I'd be willing to buy that without wanting a favour in return. My only problem, and it's a rather selfish one, is knowing that some other punter may also see her in what I have bought, therefore I am contributing to their pleasure too. Tacky Ann Summers type lingerie is very off putting, but a beautiful woman in nice lingerie lingers in the mind and contributes greatly to the phwoar factor.

I'm ok with buying Lingerie.

IMO it is the least expensive item you can purchase- and you can get a decent Lingerie set from La Senza or for under £20 (bra knickers, suspender belt, corset etc).

As for Stockings/Hold Ups if you have a "sheen" and "floral band" fetish like I do then the Hosiery department in any department store can sell you some sexy one's for under £10 easily.

Like I said all you need is the W/Gs rough Height and Dress Size- because the pack will say Dress Sizes 6-8, 8-12 and Height 5'5-5'8, or 5'8-6 foot etc.

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Lets face it most guys have a different taste to us girls, I do have undies bought for me that I only wear for that guy. Nothing special or overly expensive. Just what they fancied seeing me in.

An elder gentleman just bought me some pale blue silk pants, they are lovely against the skin but not something I would chose, I think perhaps he was still buying something special for his wife? They were two sizes too big and a little old fashioned for me, they are for him and him alone, but no way I would offer discounts for it, it is a lovely gesture but it is something he wanted to see me in and I will not get use out of them.

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I'm ok with buying Lingerie.

IMO it is the least expensive item you can purchase- and you can get a decent Lingerie set from La Senza or for under £20 (bra knickers, suspender belt, corset etc).

As for Stockings/Hold Ups if you have a "sheen" and "floral band" fetish like I do then the Hosiery department in any department store can sell you some sexy one's for under £10 easily.

Like I said all you need is the W/Gs rough Height and Dress Size- because the pack will say Dress Sizes 6-8, 8-12 and Height 5'5-5'8, or 5'8-6 foot etc.

This is a time when girls that lie about their size will come unstuck......on profile size 10, 5'9 in reality size 18, 5'6 - you shop for the former there aint no way no how the latter will squeeze into it!

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This is a time when girls that lie about their size will come unstuck......on profile size 10, 5'9 in reality size 18, 5'6 - you shop for the former there aint no way no how the latter will squeeze into it!

Not had anything that extreme yet! Tell you the truth if a W/G lied that much I instantly would walk away.

I'll be honest and say due to my young age I tend to go for 18-25 year old EE or local girls. I can usually tell from the photos the Escorts Height and Dress Size from whether she is wearing 6 Inch near vertical High Heels or is standing near a Doorway etc.

But Stockings tend to give an extra Dress Size up. Its up to a punters best judgement to look at the photo as opposed to the stated stats.

Dress Size 8 = Dress Size 10

Dress Size 10= Dress Size 12

Dress Size 14 = Dress Size 16-20

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Hello people

What happens if you want a W/G to wear a certain item of clothing you find sexy. It could be thigh high leather boots, a certain sheen of Stocking, a sexy Leather Dress, a Fancy Dress Uniform (Sailor Girl outfit, PVC Catwoman outfit) or a High Street Outfit.

Now you could say buy it yourself and give it to an Escort you see regularly. However if you're paying £50 can you

a) ask for a "like for like" discount?

:cool: Are working girls willing to wear a secondhand outfit that's been washed (maybe not Lingerie in the Bra and Knickers range)

c) If a garment is too expensive (such as Thigh High Leather Boots that are £150 from Camden Market) would a W/G fuck me for "free" if I could prove they were New with receipt and box.

d) do W/G trust Punters to buy the outfit for them?

So far my experience was buying Sheer Denier Holds Ups from the Hosiery department for an Escort.

She was flattered and loved the texture but didn't make any effort to make a discount for them.

Can I get an Escort and Punter perspective on this?

I have bought the odd little item on request ~ nylon tights, black nail polish, cane, role play outfit, etc. Clients like the fact that you have went out of your way to meet their needs. Though I would never dream of adding those extra special extras to my fee.

Bons xox

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Hello people

What happens if you want a W/G to wear a certain item of clothing you find sexy. It could be thigh high leather boots, a certain sheen of Stocking, a sexy Leather Dress, a Fancy Dress Uniform (Sailor Girl outfit, PVC Catwoman outfit) or a High Street Outfit.

Now you could say buy it yourself and give it to an Escort you see regularly. However if you're paying £50 can you

a) ask for a "like for like" discount?

What would be the point for the lady then?

:cool:Are working girls willing to wear a secondhand outfit that's been washed (maybe not Lingerie in the Bra and Knickers range)

Personally, although I’m absolutely fine with second hand clothes, I always want to wash them myself before putting them on. I really wouldn’t like to smell another person or another person’s choice of detergent on them.

c) If a garment is too expensive (such as Thigh High Leather Boots that are £150 from Camden Market) would a W/G fuck me for "free" if I could prove they were New with receipt and box.

What would be the point for the lady then? If you bought a pair of boots for £150 but expected £150 worth of her time then she may as well have bought them herself and not seen you. If, on the other hand, you worked in retail and were able to get the boots she wanted at wholesale prices then it can be worth it. E.g. you buy them for £50, she could only get them for £150 from the shop, so you agree on a £150 session for £100. You got her time for £50 discount and she got the boots cheaper, so win-win. But she gets to keep them though and wear them with other men if she wants.

d) do W/G trust Punters to buy the outfit for them?

The problem with buying clothes and shoes is that the sizes can vary slightly between manufacturers so there’s the risk of them not fitting. I’d rather buy my own clothes or inform the man exactly what to get and where from. Otherwise leave it.

So far my experience was buying Sheer Denier Holds Ups from the Hosiery department for an Escort.

She was flattered and loved the texture but didn't make any effort to make a discount for them.

You expected a discount for buying her some stockings!? That’s not very realistic, and you should never expect a discount or extras just because you bought a gift; it was your choice, and as London Lydia said “Pretty knickers do not pay my bills!”

Can I get an Escort and Punter perspective on this?

Although at one point I was open to bartering it is fraught with problems. It can be tricky gaining that win-win feeling so IMO is dodgy ground.

RATty, I would recommend finding a lady who already owns the type of outfits you like and simply pay her full fees. If you would rather buy her some stockings to wear during the booking then ask her when you arrange the date (rather than just arrive with them), then treat them as a gift to her.

I have to say if anyone came to me with your proposal I would decline the booking. I have lots of nice dresses and drawers bulging at the seams with stockings, corsets, lingerie etc and if I don't have what you want, it is likely because it is not something I personally would enjoy wearing and therefore would only entertain it for your booking.

Exactly my thoughts, Kate. If I haven’t got it it’s most likely because I don’t like it, and I need to feel comfortable in what I’m wearing to feel sexy. Besides, I get a little jittery when clients have very specific needs or wants as I then get worried I won’t deliver to their standards or expectations. I’ll ask men if they have a clothing preference, then I’m much happier if either they say “anything” or give me an idea, e.g. “a floaty summer dress”, so I can put something together myself.

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Not had anything that extreme yet! Tell you the truth if a W/G lied that much I instantly would walk away.

I'll be honest and say due to my young age I tend to go for 18-25 year old EE or local girls. I can usually tell from the photos the Escorts Height and Dress Size from whether she is wearing 6 Inch near vertical High Heels or is standing near a Doorway etc.

But Stockings tend to give an extra Dress Size up. Its up to a punters best judgement to look at the photo as opposed to the stated stats.

Dress Size 8 = Dress Size 10

Dress Size 10= Dress Size 12

Dress Size 14 = Dress Size 16-20

Oh my giddy god fathers!!!! I advertise myself as size 14/16 as that is what I am. Some shops a 14 and others a 16. When I recently found it was always a 16 I straight away went on a diet and I've already lost 11lbs, so I'm back to the range that I say I am. I'd be gutted if someone thought I was a size 18 or 20. What is the point of dieting if you expect me to be that big anyway? I'm still dieting by the way. I prefer being a straight size 14, but until I get there I will still advertise as size 14/16.

I have had to tweak a few things about me to keep discreet, but really dress size is not one of them, as I doubt many of my friends or family know what size I take.

Lara I agree. I'm happy to be asked to wear a dress, corset etc, but something I already own is best.

I've never known a gym to be free RedAlert. Which one do you go to? I must join!

Oh and a corset for under £20? I wouldn't touch it with a barge pole. All mine are hand-made and worth well over £100. You can't get a decent corset for the price you are stating.

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