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Punting Deprivation

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Due to the colder weather and rising cost of heating, I have not punted for a while. Usually I try to get 1 in every 2 weeks. I am already feeling effects of being deprived of my hobby.

Also as a younger punter its a constant conflict beftween satisfying my urge and saving for a house or something more 'constuctive' . The urge comes on so strong that sometimes i cant concentrate on anything else but planning my next punt, like a vampire lusting for blood.

The older richer arrogant punters will say " take up stamp collecting or get a girlfriend" not taking into account that some young men rely on punting due to aspergers or social difficulty.

How do you deal with punting deprival if your single young man not getting any?

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Take up another hobby other than punting...or at least keep yourself busy

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Due to the colder weather and rising cost of heating, I have not punted for a while. Usually I try to get 1 in every 2 weeks. I am already feeling effects of being deprived of my hobby. Also as a younger punter its a constant conflict beftween satisfying my urge and saving for a house or something more 'constuctive' . The urge comes on so strong that sometimes i cant concentrate on anything else but planning my next punt, like a vampire lusting for blood. The older richer arrogant punters will say " take up stamp collecting or get a girlfriend" not taking into account that some young men rely on punting due to aspergers or social difficulty. How do you deal with punting deprival if your single young man not getting any?

When i couldnt afford it it was porn and having a lot of shermans when i was young if pulling had failed which it did more often than not.

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Due to the colder weather and rising cost of heating, I have not punted for a while. Usually I try to get 1 in every 2 weeks. I am already feeling effects of being deprived of my hobby.

Also as a younger punter its a constant conflict beftween satisfying my urge and saving for a house or something more 'constuctive' . The urge comes on so strong that sometimes i cant concentrate on anything else but planning my next punt, like a vampire lusting for blood.

The older richer arrogant punters will say " take up stamp collecting or get a girlfriend" not taking into account that some young men rely on punting due to aspergers or social difficulty.

How do you deal with punting deprival if your single young man not getting any?

You just have to keep in touch with your rational side and learn to disciplin yourself, self-disciplin is a virtue, punting a vice, remember that. Punting can be very addictive and socially disabling when you are have limited funds, are vulnerable or using it to deal with underlying issues. We do not hear many stories about it because men are mostly too proud or too afraid to admit it and perhaps do not need to face their demons because they have the funds to be able to feed them often enough.

If you feel you punt because you have some physical or social impediment, it's probably best to devote some time to dealing with it, then you can meet someone and form a healthy relationship propper. Of course, for many, they would never be able to form any kind of relationship with the kind of women they pay but that is why it is so easy to become ensnared. Let's face it we all punch above our wieght when booking these girls, that's part of the reason we do it, because we can.

As for means of dealing with between-punt-time, well the obvious alternatives are masterbation backed up by the abundant variety of sexual media. But remember, good old sef-discilpin is ultimately your best friend.

Spok.

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There's nothing as frustrating as wanting to go on a punt, but not having the funds to do so. When caught in such straightened circumstances and waiting for the good times to come, you'll find that J Arthur is your only friend ;)

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You just have to keep in touch with your rational side and learn to disciplin yourself, self-disciplin is a virtue, punting a vice, remember that. Punting can be very addictive and socially disabling when you are have limited funds, are vulnerable or using it to deal with underlying issues. We do not hear many stories about it because men are mostly too proud or too afraid to admit it and perhaps do not need to face their demons because they have the funds to be able to feed them often enough.

If you feel you punt because you have some physical or social impediment, it's probably best to devote some time to dealing with it, then you can meet someone and form a healthy relationship propper. Of course, for many, they would never be able to form any kind of relationship with the kind of women they pay but that is why it is so easy to become ensnared. Let's face it we all punch above our wieght when booking these girls, that's part of the reason we do it, because we can.

As for means of dealing with between-punt-time, well the obvious alternatives are masterbation backed up by the abundant variety of sexual media. But remember, good old sef-discilpin is ultimately your best friend.

Spok.

Wise words as ever Spok

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I'm a student, single, and don't have much money. I punt maybe once a month, sometimes more when I can. I enjoy it and look forward to doing it but I certainly don't let it define my life.

A few times I've set on a date to see a wg and then when the day comes I've decided I have more important or better things to do. The key is having things to do that you enjoy doing and interest you more than your sexual instincts.

For me, it would be my Uni work and boxing. I devote pretty much all my time to those two things, with little room for anything else. In fact, I'd say that punting sometimes gets in the way of things, and I do it more as a way of getting it off my chest, bit like going out for a bender with mates every now and again. Once I've had sex with a girl I like, I can push it to the back of my mind again and concentrate on my more interesting hobbies.

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There have been many threads like this recently with the same issues. Wanting to punt but having limited or no funds to do so.

Here's my advice based on your circumstances.

Well first off well done by prioritising your needs. Paying your heating bill is important (do you rent your own place?) as its other needs such as shelter, food and water.

You also said you have surplus funds and wonder whether so subsidize it for a House or pay for Escorts. My advice would to be to save as much of it as possible it full stop- given the Economy and Job Market is in a bad shape right now.

As for Escorts here's a way of satisfying your primal needs whilst keeping to a budget. Are you owed any Money? For example do you have any unused Holiday Pay from any work you might have done?

If you have never taken days off I bet you'll have some funds from that. Agencies may pull the wool by saying you can use that as "time off" but if you specifically ask for cash cheque they have to sent it. I had £300 Holiday Pay and £250 I subsidised from my savings from a former employer for punting.

If the answer is yes write it down, withdraw and put it into the bank. BUT wait.

Then do some in-depth research of Escorts you'd like to see. Check feedback- google "Escorts name+punternet forum" and you'll see threads from posters here.

When you find the top 5 Escorts you like- tineye.com them to make sure they aren't fake, do a request for info thread here. Then book your top one for 30 minutes. If she meets your expectations; do an hours booking at a later date.

If she was "meh"- withheld services, didn't look tidy or wanted extras you can either walkaway- or learn from the encounter for £50 per 30 minutes etc and still have another £50 for a different Escort.

In the mean time here are the two reasons for sexual loneliness- frustration where you get that "vampire urge"

a) Boredom of being alone in your own company. Go outside, go cycling, go to the Gym, join a Kickboxing Class. £120 can buy you a lot of memberships or classes.

:cool: Drinking Beer/Alcohol. Alcohol is a depressant that elevates feelings of loneliness. By quitting you'll have a crystal clear mind and will save Money. Also another problem with Alcohol is the "post hangover horn". When hungover you make stupid decisions to see Escorts based on a desperate urge- as opposed to careful planning and selection.

I've had a string of bad encounters due to this :(

So sit down for one or two nights and plan a top 5 list of Escorts you'd like to see and set a date. Say to yourself "In 4 weeks after I finished a project" such as a Gym Routine, temporary job contract, repainting house or study, I will see an Escort on said date.

As a result of all the above I had the best Escort experience last year- and intend to repeat it again this year.

Edited by RedAlertTourist

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Thanks for the advice red alert , unfortunetly I do not have any holiday paycheques at the moment just savings. I do need some hobbies though other than punting. I guess it will take time for me to move from impulsive punting to being a refined punter who can balance a special well researched punting schedule with an active social life.

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There have been many threads like this recently with the same issues. Wanting to punt but having limited or no funds to do so.

Here's my advice based on your circumstances.

Well first off well done by prioritising your needs. Paying your heating bill is important (do you rent your own place?) as its other needs such as shelter, food and water.

You also said you have surplus funds and wonder whether so subsidize it for a House or pay for Escorts. My advice would to be to save as much of it as possible it full stop- given the Economy and Job Market is in a bad shape right now.

As for Escorts here's a way of satisfying your primal needs whilst keeping to a budget. Are you owed any Money? For example do you have any unused Holiday Pay from any work you might have done?

If you have never taken days off I bet you'll have some funds from that. Agencies may pull the wool by saying you can use that as "time off" but if you specifically ask for cash cheque they have to sent it. I had £300 Holiday Pay and £250 I subsidised from my savings from a former employer for punting.

If the answer is yes write it down, withdraw and put it into the bank. BUT wait.

Then do some in-depth research of Escorts you'd like to see. Check feedback- google "Escorts name+punternet forum" and you'll see threads from posters here.

When you find the top 5 Escorts you like- tineye.com them to make sure they aren't fake, do a request for info thread here. Then book your top one for 30 minutes. If she meets your expectations; do an hours booking at a later date.

If she was "meh"- withheld services, didn't look tidy or wanted extras you can either walkaway- or learn from the encounter for £50 per 30 minutes etc and still have another £50 for a different Escort.

In the mean time here are the two reasons for sexual loneliness- frustration where you get that "vampire urge"

a) Boredom of being alone in your own company. Go outside, go cycling, go to the Gym, join a Kickboxing Class. £120 can buy you a lot of memberships or classes.

:cool: Drinking Beer/Alcohol. Alcohol is a depressant that elevates feelings of loneliness. By quitting you'll have a crystal clear mind and will save Money. Also another problem with Alcohol is the "post hangover horn". When hungover you make stupid decisions to see Escorts based on a desperate urge- as opposed to careful planning and selection.

I've had a string of bad encounters due to this :(

So sit down for one or two nights and plan a top 5 list of Escorts you'd like to see and set a date. Say to yourself "In 4 weeks after I finished a project" such as a Gym Routine, temporary job contract, repainting house or study, I will see an Escort on said date.

As a result of all the above I had the best Escort experience last year- and intend to repeat it again this year.

Great post!

T x

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On a serious note here is a useful automatic tool to help calculate your expenses for you so you can budget without going broke. Its from the Money Advice Service so no spam and no marketing or anything

You don't need to be good with Maths as it does it for you and its all confidential, no personal details required.

http://www.moneyadvi...et_planner.aspx

(sorry I did post this link in a similar thread)

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I do gym, video games , guitar and football and watch loadsa porn.

If you have loadsa spare time study or work towards getting a job tht gets you more money. Then you can punt more.

Or become amazing at instrument to make extra cash and acquire females.

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