fatbloke

Ummm....i'm Not Batting For The Other Side, But Ladies,

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can you give a few tips about sucking cocks? I ask because for the first time in over six years my wife put my member in her mouth and tried to give me a blow job . After a minute or so she gave up because her mouth/jaw ached(unless that was just an excuse!). So, if you are a professional, perhaps sucking off several men per day, are there any trade secrets that I might innocently suggest to her?

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Firstly great news your wife is willing to give it a go if it's not something she has been interested in doing before. Perhaps the start of a whole new sex life lies before you.

When I first started Escorting my jaw used to click during giving a BJ, which I used to get a little embarrased about. Now it doesn't click at all and I can stay down there a lot longer. Like all things, the more you do it, the stronger your muscles get and the longer you can do it for.

The answer is... practice makes perfect!

Give her time to improve and practice her skills, be very vocal when she does something right and let her know when it feels good. If she is not hitting the spot tell her to do it harder, softer, faster, deeper, slower until she finds a way that both suits her and you, but little steps. Don't expect her to run before she can walk.

Oh and I hope you are returning the favour *winks*.

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Kate is correct. It might help to tell your wife that she doesnt have to gobble up and suck for all she is worth as this will guarantee jaw ache very fast. Lots of licking up and down the shaft and around the top, along with alternating how she sucks, you know, fast, slow, hard, soft etc, she could try putting something in her mouth, like a sip of tea or something a little stronger occasionally. Dont be under the illusion that wgs dont get aching jaws though...they bloody do.

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Lots of licking up and down the shaft and around the top, along with alternating how she sucks, you know, fast, slow, hard, soft etc, she could try putting something in her mouth, like a sip of tea or something a little stronger occasionally.

Yes please!! ;)

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can you give a few tips about sucking cocks? I ask because for the first time in over six years my wife put my member in her mouth and tried to give me a blow job . After a minute or so she gave up because her mouth/jaw ached(unless that was just an excuse!). So, if you are a professional, perhaps sucking off several men per day, are there any trade secrets that I might innocently suggest to her?

Do you own a camcorder?..might be an idea to film your next punt then play back footage to your wife of WG at work on your cock.

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Do you own a camcorder?..might be an idea to film your next punt then play back footage to your wife of WG at work on your cock.

sorry...this is only a good idea if your wife already knows about your punting exploits.

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sorry...this is only a good idea if your wife already knows about your punting exploits.

You could try to claim that it's a badly made porn film. Just keep your face, and any other distinguishing features, out of the frame.

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Thought I might just mention.................

ensure your willy is 100% clean at ALL times because you never know when an impromtu munch may occur.

If you don't do this then it could be another 6 years before you get a bj.

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Kate is correct. It might help to tell your wife that she doesnt have to gobble up and suck for all she is worth as this will guarantee jaw ache very fast. Lots of licking up and down the shaft and around the top, along with alternating how she sucks, you know, fast, slow, hard, soft etc, she could try putting something in her mouth, like a sip of tea or something a little stronger occasionally. Dont be under the illusion that wgs dont get aching jaws though...they bloody do.

PG Tips? Twinings? Perhaps she could experiment with differing brands and flavours - any recommendations?

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Um, this may be stating the obvious, but surely you know how you like a BJ? Tell her what you like- nicely of course.

We all get jaw ache sometimes, so maybe tell her that she can have a little rest whilst she makes you a sandwich takes over with her hands or gives a tit wank in between the sucking parts.

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This reminds me of a wonderful 2 girl in which I was blind folded. One of them had a hot drink and the other a cold one. The alternating BJ was fantastic!

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Thanks for the replies. It's not that she doesn't know how to do it, it is the aching jaw part that's the problem. I thought maybe the professionals here might have a few tips how to get around this. We've been married thirty rears and in that time she has often sucked me a for a short time and then had to stop.It's six years since she last attempted it for various reasons, one of them being marital difficulties when I slept in another room.

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Thanks for the replies. It's not that she doesn't know how to do it, it is the aching jaw part that's the problem. I thought maybe the professionals here might have a few tips how to get around this. We've been married thirty rears and in that time she has often sucked me a for a short time and then had to stop.It's six years since she last attempted it for various reasons, one of them being marital difficulties when I slept in another room.

Fatbloke it's like any other set of muscles in your body, if you don't use them regularly it will ache when you do. How long are you making her go down there for? lol.

Chloe's suggestion of spending some time licking and perhaps using her hand around the base as well might help.

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Great Thread, but frankly, there are loads of videos out there. Just pick one from youp0rn or RedTube that you fancy...

I showed a regular Asian girl a few vids once and next day she had definitely considered them as suggestions. Improved our sexlife even further.

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Excellent advice in posts above but does this mean talking alot doesn't exercise the relevant muscles?

If not, that's a wasted opportunity by someone...

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Excellent advice in posts above but does this mean talking alot doesn't exercise the relevant muscles?

If not, that's a wasted opportunity by someone...

If talking a lot exercised the relevant muscles, politicians would all be blowjob experts. Including (gulp!) Harriet Harman....

Oh dear... kind of wishing I hadn't said that now... (comes over all queasy)

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Tell her to relax her jaw and tongue muscles so her mouth closes around your cock, it will feel better for you and she won't get jaw ache. She can suck from time to time but take breaks and relax and let you fuck her mouth instead of her having to move her mouth up and down.

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Tell her to relax her jaw and tongue muscles so her mouth closes around your cock, it will feel better for you and she won't get jaw ache. She can suck from time to time but take breaks and relax and let you fuck her mouth instead of her having to move her mouth up and down.

It's the muscle relaxing that's the problem, she can't seem to let them go "slack". She will sometimes let me fuck her mouth (that sounds awfully crude but gets to the point!) so I think I will be content with that It isn't a bad compromise after all and the fact she can't suck me off gets her upset.

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Put this in her Christmas stocking but hide all sharp objects firstly. :ph34r:

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Thanks for that link. Are you trying to get me divorced? :)

Seriously though, it really does upset her and makes her feel inadequate when she can't suck me for very long so I wouldn't want to rub it in.

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Thanks for that link. Are you trying to get me divorced? :)

Seriously though, it really does upset her and makes her feel inadequate when she can't suck me for very long so I wouldn't want to rub it in.

Sorry, that was flippant.

I think your good lady needs to relax, it sounds as if she's tensing up which will make it an unpleasant and achey experience.

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I think you just have to accept that most wgs are experts at giving bj's...... we get so much practice

and I doubt many wives or gfs get to do it for several hours a week which is what it will amount to

if you multiply number of clients by ........... say............. 20-30mins each.

Take a look at the jawlines of most wg's...... quite defined and toned.....

now why do you suppose that is?

:P

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Thanks for that link. Are you trying to get me divorced? :)

Seriously though, it really does upset her and makes her feel inadequate when she can't suck me for very long so I wouldn't want to rub it in.

Just try to stay relaxed about it. Time will come when you can laugh about this but till then, talk to each other about what turns you on, play with toys, dress up in sexy gear, do almost anything but O and it will happen when you are both a lot more relaxed about it.

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I think you just have to accept that most wgs are experts at giving bj's...... we get so much practice

and I doubt many wives or gfs get to do it for several hours a week which is what it will amount to

if you multiply number of clients by ........... say............. 20-30mins each.

Do you get Repetitive Strain Injury to the cervical vertebrae?

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