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Massage, why bother?

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Had an excellent punt yesterday, it's the first time i've visited a wg that seemed to know why i was visiting her! and the first i've even bothered writing about. No massage or coffee crap, straight into french and into the bedroom. Do you bother?

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I love being massaged and miss it when I meet a girl who just wants to "get down to business". A decent shower and massage get me really relaxed. It's also nice to have a chat during the massage.

A couple of the girls I've met have done massage courses and it makes for a great experience.

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i like massage, but i go to specialists for that service, i think it goes well with HR, maybe oral. but not with full sex.

With WG's massage can often be a fill in activity, kill time with a low energy, low wear and tear activity, & its never as good as the real thing, so why pay WG rates for something you can get better and cheaper elsewhere ? Best to fill in your WG time with some serious GFE or PSE, or a chat & a cup of coffee.

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Best to fill in your WG time with some serious GFE or PSE.

You mean just lay on the bed and have a snog; my thoughts exactly.

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Perhaps people have massages because they actually enjoy it? Perhaps they see it as a type of foreplay just as valid as kissing? Like most things, each to thier own.

Another possible thought is that the "massage" part of things could always be used as a cover story to deny any sexual acts were happening in case of raids, and that the massage part has remained through tradition? Not sure about that, just a thought.

Not my thing though, I always prefered a good smooch to any type of massage.

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I like massage a lot.. and quite often ask for it. Of course, level of skill does vary enormously, and can well understand guys going to specialist... indeed I can imagine that before too long I'll be doing the same.

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ive visited a few orientals that give brilliant massage's

so good infact that i think forget the sex i'll have more of that..... plus with back injurys in the past it feels really good when someone who knows what there doing lends a hand!!!:mad:

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Perhaps people have massages because they actually enjoy it? Perhaps they see it as a type of foreplay just as valid as kissing? Like most things, each to thier own.

That's how I see it. To me, it's a way of breaking the ice through something formulaic, or ritualistic the first time I see a girl.

Second time around, unless the massage is sexy as hell (as with Jamie at Fun Place, for example), I'll skip it.

Equally, with some girls (and I suppose depending on how I'm feeling) it gets skipped first time too. But I wouldn't knock it, however, and don't consider it to be a waste of time as long as it doesn't go on too long that is. :mad:

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Im not a wham bam thankyou maam sort of guy,Im getting too old for that,and I think if the girl wants to enjoy things and not go through the motions,she doesn`t want that either.I prefer the GFE,a kiss, a cuddle, mutual carressing the slow build up to the main event,it seems much more intimate and human to me,not just a rut and treating the girl as a person and not a thing.Thats what I feel so refreshing about this scene,before I started punting last year I had so many preconceptions,they have all been blown out of the water! As for massage its a nice interlude inbetween sessions,but be careful it doesn`t turn into an excuse to waste time.

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Not even close to all my clients want a massage. It wouldn't even occur to me to automatically start out with one.

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Had an excellent punt yesterday, and the first i've even bothered writing about.

Yeah, i sent in my FR, but it still hasn't been made 'live'!

How long does it take from sending it in, to it appearing on the website?

I visited my profile and it says 'report under review'.

She's hasn't been reviewed by anyone else as far as i know, certainly knowone under the same name/town etc.

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Low energy?!

I find it high energy, then again I have been told I do put a lot of effort into the few massages chaps request!

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Yeah, i sent in my FR, but it still hasn't been made 'live'!

How long does it take from sending it in, to it appearing on the website?

I visited my profile and it says 'report under review'.

She's hasn't been reviewed by anyone else as far as i know, certainly knowone under the same name/town etc.

In my very limited experience, anything up to a couple of days. And its possible that reports submitted after yours will appear before yours does. (That's what happened to first couple I did... I suppose first couple of submissions are more likely to be vetted more carefully than later ones.)

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Had an excellent punt yesterday, it's the first time i've visited a wg that seemed to know why i was visiting her! and the first i've even bothered writing about. No massage or coffee crap, straight into french and into the bedroom. Do you bother?

I like giving massages. Its nice to touch someone in a way thats not overtly sexual, but as your both naked and the like it becomes very sexual.

A lot of clients ask me to use my hair..up and down their back. Thats fun, although i do feel a bit of a tit when im doing it though

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A lot of clients ask me to use my hair..up and down their back. Thats fun, although i do feel a bit of a tit when im doing it though

Sounds wonderful - do they feel a bit of tit too? LOL

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I like giving massages. Its nice to touch someone in a way thats not overtly sexual, but as your both naked and the like it becomes very sexual.

Maybe i havn't had a good one yet! but they've never done anything for me at all.

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Had an excellent punt yesterday, it's the first time i've visited a wg that seemed to know why i was visiting her!

To be fair you come across as quite confused so my money is on you not knowing also.:mad:

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To be fair you come across as quite confused so my money is on you not knowing also.:mad:

It's just that the massages so far have been total bollox! no pun intented, i've now got to the stage where i think, skip it, get to the main event.

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It's just that the massages so far have been total bollox! no pun intented, i've now got to the stage where i think, skip it, get to the main event.

Horses for courses.

Its an icebreaker, well the ones I give are. I have no training I just want you to feel relaxed and a massage fits the bill. A sort of pre foreplay.

I think if its a massage your looking for maybe skip the sex and just go for a massage.

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Horses for courses.

Its an icebreaker, well the ones I give are. I have no training I just want you to feel relaxed and a massage fits the bill. A sort of pre foreplay.

I think if its a massage your looking for maybe skip the sex and just go for a massage.

Just get on the bed together and start kissing! good way to break the ice; give me a kiss from a pretty girl over a bloody massage any day, or anything else for that matter :mad:

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Just get on the bed together and start kissing! good way to break the ice; give me a kiss from a pretty girl over a bloody massage any day, or anything else for that matter :mad:

For a lot of people nerves play a large part of making or breaking a good time. Even normality confident guys can wobble a bit on a first meet so its beneficial to both parties to relax and enjoy the experience.

You may be able to meet jump on and perform but your in a minority and to be honest its an encounter I would not welcome and certainly not enjoy.

Private life might be another story but as a prostitute I have a little routine that has and will continue to serve me well.

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You may be able to meet jump on and perform but your in a minority and to be honest its an encounter I would not welcome and certainly not enjoy.

No, that's not what i mean! i've usually got some but never all of my clothes off when the girl returns to the room (where do they all go anyway, phone thier mum or something?) apart from the punt the other day, when she innitiated immediate dfk, i've always been asked 'would you like a massage'?

My reply would be no thanks lets just lie on the bed and have a chat, nearly always side-by-side or me on my back, i will never impose myself on her, i would imagine she would probably shit a brick! i would then ask something like 'hows life treating you' or something equally boring! and things would take a slow progression, kissing etc, certainly better than any worthless massage!

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No, that's not what i mean! i've usually got some but never all of my clothes off when the girl returns to the room (where do they all go anyway, phone thier mum or something?)

At a guess, I'd say she stashes the money in the biscuit tin, and hangs her washing out.

Then her trafficker sees her in the garden, forces her back into the house "they" are enslaving her within, and threatens to beat her, before the girl pleads and begs for her life, and they both do a couple of lines and shoot up in the living room.

At a guess.

things would take a slow progression, kissing etc, certainly better than any worthless massage!

Any particular reason you can't have a massage and kissing?

Maybe one can lead to the other?

Certainly in my non-escort life, I tend to start with a bit of cuddling/touching/stroking before kissing, sometimes.

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At a guess, I'd say she stashes the money in the biscuit tin, and hangs her washing out.

Then her trafficker sees her in the garden, forces her back into the house "they" are enslaving her within, and threatens to beat her, before the girl pleads and begs for her life, and they both do a couple of lines and shoot up in the living room.

At a guess.

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As long as nothing illegals taking place that's fine!

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Maybe i havn't had a good one yet! but they've never done anything for me at all.

Maybe just think of it as every other service - some men like CIM, anal whatever, we're not mind readers.

Its better to offer a service we do provide than not and get knocked for it.

Honestly, the majority of people i see do like them, its a good way of 'easing' you in from a chat to full on bonking. Some people dont want to feel like theyre seeing an escort, a massage is good middle ground

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