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Sex With Working Girls Is Amazing, Sex With Non-wgs (my Girlfriend) Isnt So Good? Help Please!

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Sex with working girls is amazing, sex with non-wgs (my girlfriend) isnt so good? Help please!!!

I'm only 21 and fairly sexually in-experienced. Im not very good at sex because even though I've had sex with 18 girls, I've probably had sex about 22-23 times in my life! (Which obviously isnt much.). About 9 working girls, 8 girls from uni and my current girlfriend.

Anyway, I've been exclusive with my girlfriend for a week now. And we had sex for the first time yesterday... And im going to be honest. Even though shes an AMAZING girl, the sex was really, really bad. It made me feel bad all night because it was so terrible. She told me she doesnt like going on top and wanted me to go on top so I agreed (While I cringed inside because this is by-far my worst position.).

So after some foreplay, I climbed on top of her with my erection. And as im on top of her im trying to put my cock in her hole and struggling to do so because I cant find it, or im getting the angle wrong... Sounds so embarrasing but I was trying to put it in for about 4-5 minutes.

After awhile, I just admitted I couldnt put it in for some reason and my gf did it for me. Then I started pounding her for about 1-2 minutes before it slipped out. We were both frustrated so we said we would do doggy style instead. (My favorite position.). And as she turns around my erection becomes a semi and I cant pop it in. Im horrified and nervous because I know if I dont pop it in shes going to think im TERRIBLE at sex. So obviously it made me tons more nervous and I couldnt get hard again so I just gave up!

Re-wind 2 weeks ago. I went to house of divine in London. One of the WGs there gave me the best sex of my life. She was riding me on top, and I had sex with her doggy style and it was just amazing.

The problem is... I find it hard to put my erection in girls vaginas without them doing it for me. I always just poke my erection near working girls vaginas and they slip it in for me. Non-wgs dont seem to do that and im always trying to put it in but deflect from the goal :'(.

Any advice please.... I just want to pleasure my GF and I totally f*c*ed up the first time we ever had sex...

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You could simply ask your sexual partner to guide you in. I find most men require this since the human body doesn't automatically align exactly with another, so you are not alone. Sex is something which involves two people. :)

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She is probably not so experienced herself, you have to remember that WGs have had A LOT of practice.

With time and practice you will get to know each others bodies, and look back on this and laugh.

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NewbPunt. You wouldn't be the first to have a disastrous 'first time'. You won't be the last either.

Practice makes perfect :D

Have sent you a pm with some tips :)

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You've just got to learn what each of you likes and that will take some time. From having experienced professionals to and inexperienced girl with some nerves by the sound of it. Don't spend too much time worrying about it, you'll only make matters worse the next time. We've all had bad first time sex with somebody before, it's all perfectly normal.

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Thanks for the tips Jas!

I've tried a few things and nothing ever seem to work unless a girl guides me in. I've become so dependant on getting a girl to guide me in, I cant put it in by myself...

I bet the experienced guys would laugh, but to my knowledge all guys have had this problem before!

I think its like riding a bike, I need more practise...

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...Any advice please.... I just want to pleasure my GF and I totally f*c*ed up the first time we ever had sex...

In my experience it’s unusual for a man to be able to enter me unaided without a lot of faffing about, so consequently it’s the norm to usually have to help guide them in. This goes for BFs as well as clients.

People aren’t born with the knowledge of how to be great in bed, it takes practice and communication, and if both partners are inexperienced it makes it less likely for the first few times to be brilliant. Just keep practicing, try to keep sex light hearted, learn to laugh things off and talk to your GF.

Also, even in great relationships, sometimes the sex just doesn’t work, so try not to beat yourself up about it.

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I would slow down a bit. Don't concentrate on penetrative sex for a few sessions; just enjoy mutual masturbation.Talk to each other about what turns you both on; explore each others erogenous zones.

Suddenly you will find after 3 or 4 such sessions that you are f*cking like rabbits. BTW that reminds me, invest in a few toys to play with during your exploratory sessions. If you each go to Ann Summers or some other shop and buy a couple of toys each to surprise each other with.

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Your new long term girlfriend is very lucky with you now "pounding her hole"..... !!

Maybe take a minute and ask her to show you how to pop the little fella in, and once in maybe start the "pounding" after a few minutes of more slow and sensuous fun. You could also try to ask her what turns her on, I know it might sound bizarre but what you like sometime isnt what the lady likes, this might produce some amazing reactions that may lead to her trying different positions. Personally speaking being on top of a gorgeous woman is just the right place for me.

Porker Paul has it just about right.....

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If at first you don't succeed, try try again.....

little tip,try making sure your cock is wet before penetration....a little saliva will do and you'll find it will slide in so much easier

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could try taking her on your next punt or let her experience a older man ...

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I think when you have sex with someone for the first time this can happen, as heights, angles, etc, are different depending on the 2 people involved, just keep practising and you'll get used to doing it with your GF.

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At only 21 I would have thought the best option available to you would be to find an older women (they weren't very difficult to pull 35 years ago, and I'm sure it's far easier now) to teach and guide you in the ways of sex/love-making....certainly worked for me.

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If at first you don't succeed, try try again.....

little tip,try making sure your cock is wet before penetration....a little saliva will do and you'll find it will slide in so much easier

Yup, but don't spit on your cock like they do in porn because that's gross :wacko: And make sure the lady's pussy is wet too ;)

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"I'm only 21 and fairly sexually in-experienced. Im not very good at sex because even though I've had sex with 18 girls, I've probably had sex about 22-23 times in my life! (Which obviously isnt much.). About 9 working girls, 8 girls from uni and my current girlfriend."

Bloody hell - when I was 21 I'd only had 2 or 3 girls none WGs - damn well made up for it nearly 40 years later. Being young was fun, someyimes scary. Take it easy young Newbpunt..you'll get there!!

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I will try and explain this but showing you would be easier. Don't stick it in at right angles you risk stabbing her with it and folding her inner labia inwards - ouch! the pussy is a slit, clit at the top entrance at the bottom. Facing each other place your cock shaft in line with the slit, head of your cock at the entrance, lever the shaft inwards so the head slips in from the top as if you were standing up and fingering her. This will prevent the inner lips folding inwards and easily open the entrance.

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Rather than spitting on your member(bit graphic for the poor girl) use a lubricant to make an easier entrance into her.

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I can sympathise with this - quite often the first time I have sex with a new (non-working) partner it can all be a bit frustrating and disastrous - whereas with working girls I never have that problem. I think it's due to the fact that I feel no pressure to perform when with a working girl, I'm there for my pleasure (though I obviously hope she enjoys the session too) and so don't get nervous or anything like that.

With a girlfriend, it's best to be completely honest, say you're not as experienced as you'd like to be, and talk over the things you both like and dislike. As others have said, take things slowly, and after a couple of times I'm sure everything will be back to normal.

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Hey there,

Sex with working girls is amazing, sex with non-wgs (my girlfriend) isnt so good? Help please!!!

I'm only 21 and fairly sexually in-experienced. Im not very good at sex because even though I've had sex with 18 girls, I've probably had sex about 22-23 times in my life! (Which obviously isnt much.). About 9 working girls, 8 girls from uni and my current girlfriend.

Anyway, I've been exclusive with my girlfriend for a week now. And we had sex for the first time yesterday... And im going to be honest. Even though shes an AMAZING girl, the sex was really, really bad. It made me feel bad all night because it was so terrible. She told me she doesnt like going on top and wanted me to go on top so I agreed (While I cringed inside because this is by-far my worst position.).

So after some foreplay, I climbed on top of her with my erection. And as im on top of her im trying to put my cock in her hole and struggling to do so because I cant find it, or im getting the angle wrong... Sounds so embarrasing but I was trying to put it in for about 4-5 minutes.

After awhile, I just admitted I couldnt put it in for some reason and my gf did it for me. Then I started pounding her for about 1-2 minutes before it slipped out. We were both frustrated so we said we would do doggy style instead. (My favorite position.). And as she turns around my erection becomes a semi and I cant pop it in. Im horrified and nervous because I know if I dont pop it in shes going to think im TERRIBLE at sex. So obviously it made me tons more nervous and I couldnt get hard again so I just gave up!

Re-wind 2 weeks ago. I went to house of divine in London. One of the WGs there gave me the best sex of my life. She was riding me on top, and I had sex with her doggy style and it was just amazing.

The problem is... I find it hard to put my erection in girls vaginas without them doing it for me. I always just poke my erection near working girls vaginas and they slip it in for me. Non-wgs dont seem to do that and im always trying to put it in but deflect from the goal :'(.

Any advice please.... I just want to pleasure my GF and I totally f*c*ed up the first time we ever had sex...

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When I had sex, the very first time (not a working girl), it was standing up against a tree in Russell Square, London 1983 (late at night, very dark).. Because the lady was standing up the entrance to her vagina was almost at right angles to the ground so I had to get right under her to penetrate and I coundn't find the entrance either without pushing hard. Anyway, I managed in the end and of course like everything with practice you get better. And like you I started to count the number of times I had done it. In 1983 I was 19. By the time I had passed the age of 22 or so I stopped counting, what seemed important then just seems silly now.

What I do know is always give her oral sex, especially with a new lady, as I want to explore her sex to understand how it is anatomically as well as make her aroused so that she will be more able to take me. I also like to stimulate her manually on the clit while kissing her. This will usually get her ready for penetration. When the time comes I like to look at her pussy and then with my fingers in a V shape formation gently spread her pussy lips wide to expose the entrance to her vagina ( sorry I don't mean to be clinical but with practice this can be done without spoling the atmosphere, and most ladies will appreciate the effort you make ) so you can guide yourself in. This usually works best in either the Missionary position or Doggy style. Communication is very important as others have said so gently ask her if she likes the way you touch her, does she like your tongue this way or that etc. Salvia is a great lubricant so as a previous poster has said covering your cock with some spit will help it enter, but do it discreetly, don't just spit on it!

Sex is a great thing, it is an art that is great fun to perfect, and when you have perfected it it is great fun!

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Yup, but don't spit on your cock like they do in porn because that's gross :wacko: And make sure the lady's pussy is wet too ;)

Oh no - at least I've learnt something today!!!!!!

(you could always spit in her mouth, tell her to droll it over your knob - is that ok LB?)

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Oh no - at least I've learnt something today!!!!!!

(you could always spit in her mouth, tell her to droll it over your knob - is that ok LB?)

Or she could spit in his nose, and tell him if he don't have an ability to aim his penis inside her, he might as well should practice to put his nose inside the swinging ring on the rope first. If its got stuck in it, thats a good sign. ;-)

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Or she could spit in his nose, and tell him if he don't have an ability to aim his penis inside her, he might as well should practice to put his nose inside the swinging ring on the rope first. If its got stuck in it, thats a good sign. ;-)

:P:D:P:D:P:lol: - you always make me larf X

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…(you could always spit in her mouth, tell her to droll it over your knob - is that ok LB?)

Euwwwww...euwwww...euwww...you revolting git, HD! ;) Where’s the pukey smiley, LOL :P

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There is much one can say in response to this post but to avoid a long winded post here is a summary of my thoughts:

- What you experience with a new girlfriend is nothing new. The problem goes away if you see them longer and like each other. The quest for taking a girl to bed as soon as you can without knowing them all that well has this result.

- I can't see how one can prefer sex with a girl that is doing for your cash to sex with a girl that is there by choice and wants to have sex with you. Too much focus on the physical aspect of sex will deny a person the real sexual pleasure that is stimulated by mind.

- If at the age of 21, one opts for the easy option for sex then I wonder when he is ever going to learn to enjoy normal and sexual relationship with a real female partner.

- Perhaps one should watch less porn

I have been in similar situation as you describe with girls I have hardly known. In all cases the failure was due to my focus on having sex with them as soon as I could. Over the years I have had sex with many women paid or unpaid. The most memorable ones remain those in my early 20's with casual partners and girl friends and I still remember every detail.

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