MrPunt

Social Escorting As Opposed To A Sexual Rendezvous

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A discussion for anyone to chime in, I would like to know the main attraction's to Social escorting;

What constitutes "Social Escorting"?

Is this mainly just for company, dinner, going to the cinema with, holding hands, hugging, go shopping with, pub...

What do you ladies and gents think is acceptable services for this type of escorting?

Do you think a kiss would be available on this type of escorting or even a hand job at the end of the night;

Can these very limited sexual services be offered for social escorting like a hand job or even the client pleasuring themselves with the encouragement of the lady?

What do you think?

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A discussion for anyone to chime in, I would like to know the main attraction's to Social escorting; What constitutes "Social Escorting"? Is this mainly just for company, dinner, going to the cinema with, holding hands, hugging, go shopping with, pub... What do you ladies and gents think is acceptable services for this type of escorting? Do you think a kiss would be available on this type of escorting or even a hand job at the end of the night; Can these very limited sexual services be offered for social escorting like a hand job or even the client pleasuring themselves with the encouragement of the lady? What do you think?

Like i said on the dinner dates thread i have no interest in paying for companionship, i punt for sex but am more than happy if free to go out for lunch and dinner if invited in the WGs free time and more than happy to pay for the lunch or dinner, go dutch or for the WG to pay which some have insisted on.

After parties i have gone out with a number of WGs in a crowd of us, had a laugh and a good time but i wouldnt ask or expect anything sexual to transpire.

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...Do you think a kiss would be available on this type of escorting or even a hand job at the end of the night;

Can these very limited sexual services be offered for social escorting like a hand job or even the client pleasuring themselves with the encouragement of the lady?

What do you think?

When I offered a social only service (at a vastly reduced rate) in addition to my normal service it was strictly non-sexual and hands off, so definitely wouldn’t include anything more than a quick kiss goodbye. A hand job would most certainly be out. It was designed for men who either wanted to get to know me before perhaps booking for something more intimate another time, or maybe for those who were attending a function and didn’t have a GF to take. It didn’t take off and was more hassle than it was worth so I no longer offer it.

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When I lived in London years ago, I often used to visit a mature (ish) lady called Nicola ?? who was just off Baker St (who has her own website and was on the PN SP Database)who offered a kind of 'escort lite' service. The service was emotional, intimate and very tactile and would take place in the lounge, bathroom and bedroom, Masturbation was the furthest it went sexually - watching her, her watching me and her giving handjobs. In short it was a kind of one-way caring service. I was a lot younger then but I used to love seeing her as I felt there was no 'pressure'.

I loved seeing her and was saddened when she retired. Ah, those were the days...

To counter my aging, can any long-timers or 'G' remember her 'surname'?

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When I lived in London years ago, I often used to visit a mature (ish) lady called Nicola ?? who was just off Baker St (who has her own website and was on the PN SP Database)who offered a kind of 'escort lite' service. The service was emotional, intimate and very tactile and would take place in the lounge, bathroom and bedroom, Masturbation was the furthest it went sexually - watching her, her watching me and her giving handjobs. In short it was a kind of one-way caring service. I was a lot younger then but I used to love seeing her as I felt there was no 'pressure'.

I loved seeing her and was saddened when she retired. Ah, those were the days...

To counter my aging, can any long-timers or 'G' remember her 'surname'?

I couldn't put it better myself, I have done social escorting before and have found that it is just that... a lady that can provide space and comfort in social settings... very much like a carer, I love that aspect of it... in my opinion that is. I am sure it is different for every individual.

This is my preference when social escorting as I have mentioned to other ladies on here.

Thanks for that comment Sultans

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In my experience some guys use the excuse of wanting sexual services when they actually want female company without the baggage. Call it "social company" if you will. You could also call it some sort of therapy or some form of release mechanism. Its difficult to explain how much more there is to escorting than thinking of England, but it does make for a much more interesting date.

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In my experience some guys use the excuse of wanting sexual services when they actually want female company without the baggage. Call it "social company" if you will. You could also call it some sort of therapy or some form of release mechanism. Its difficult to explain how much more there is to escorting than thinking of England, but it does make for a much more interesting date.

Hi Helen x

I don't want to keep replying as I don't want to be seen as trawling my own threads, I wanted to send you a PM but for some reason I am unable to.

I thought you hit the nail on the head when it comes to social escorting, I have started to do a few social escorting and have found this to be so rewarding to me for my well being.

It is a definite need I have lacked in terms of social intimacy with a lady, so this form of escorting is therapy to me as well as being fun and sometimes erotic.

I love the emotional support from it and sometimes view it as my personal social carer and a security blanket for my needs.

So once again thank you for that very intelligent post.

MrPunt

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In my experience some guys use the excuse of wanting sexual services when they actually want female company without the baggage. Call it "social company" if you will. You could also call it some sort of therapy or some form of release mechanism. Its difficult to explain how much more there is to escorting than thinking of England, but it does make for a much more interesting date.

Doesn't this come back to the Dinner Date thread? A meeting should be a pleasant balance between social and sexual intercourse. At either end of the experience are the PSE and Social Dating. Everyone chooses where they want to be.

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i used to have a reduced rate for a diner date but only if attached to an escort booking which was at a different rate.x

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Doesn't this come back to the Dinner Date thread? A meeting should be a pleasant balance between social and sexual intercourse. At either end of the experience are the PSE and Social Dating. Everyone chooses where they want to be.

I don't know Lord Byron I haven't read the Dinner date thread. If that is the case I think its goes some way to showing that there really is something in the idea that a 'punt' really can be 'compensated dating' akin to a real date. ( which I know is often true anyway)

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Hi Helen x

I don't want to keep replying as I don't want to be seen as trawling my own threads, I wanted to send you a PM but for some reason I am unable to.

I thought you hit the nail on the head when it comes to social escorting, I have started to do a few social escorting and have found this to be so rewarding to me for my well being.

It is a definite need I have lacked in terms of social intimacy with a lady, so this form of escorting is therapy to me as well as being fun and sometimes erotic.

I love the emotional support from it and sometimes view it as my personal social carer and a security blanket for my needs.

So once again thank you for that very intelligent post.

MrPunt

Thank you. I have removed you from my ignore list and added you to my Christmas card list.

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Thank you. I have removed you from my ignore list and added you to my Christmas card list.

That's very kind of you :)

Makes me wonder why I was on your ignore list beforehand as I don't think I ever PM'ed or even contacted you before :blink:

First time I am ever on a ignore list since joining the site, then again first time I am on someones Xmas list too... so it all balances out somehow even if it doesn't make any sense

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When I first had a date with an escort in pre internet days, it was via an agency that actually had an office (In Edinbugh) where you went looked at photos of the girls and then booked them. The booking was for purely social activities and the rate was about 2 or 3 times the hourly average age at the time, so not out the way.

The way it worked was that after the agency date was over, the girl could then offer her (own) other services for a fee to be agreed. The problem was that there was some girls who did not offer additional services, so after a 3 hour date you were left wanting!

I do think the current situation where many girls do not offer reasonably priced social company is sad. I would reckon that in every city in the country, on a weekday evenign there will be thousands of businessmen dining alone in the main hotels who would love some company followed by an hour or so of bedroom fun.

I suspect that agencies, and some girls in recent years, have found that getting the full fee for just one hour was quite easy to come by so there was no need to do the social bit. Guys though, if they knew the girl was restricted to exactly an hour, would be keen to "get on with it" as soon as the girl arrived. It may be with there being so many escorts nowdays that we will go back to a couple of hours social for, say £50, plus the full fee for the hour of "fun"?

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