piloteer

Overnights And Making Sure The Lady Has A Good Time

34 posts in this topic

I'm considering booking an escort I for several hours or possibly an overnight at a hotel. I've only had a maximum of a 1.5hr meeting in the past and I'm just wondering how I can put the lady at ease and do everything I can so she can relax! Is there anything you ladies like to see on arrival? Nibbles? Wine? (I already plan to buy her a small gift) Is it a good idea to stay somewhere that has room service? Also what do you people typically get up to on an overnight apart from the obvious?

Thanks!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
I'm considering booking an escort I for several hours or possibly an overnight at a hotel. I've only had a maximum of a 1.5hr meeting in the past and I'm just wondering how I can put the lady at ease and do everything I can so she can relax! Is there anything you ladies like to see on arrival? Nibbles? Wine? (I already plan to buy her a small gift) Is it a good idea to stay somewhere that has room service? Also what do you people typically get up to on an overnight apart from the obvious? Thanks!

I assume the punt you had was with the WG you are considering having the overnight with? If not i would strongly advise you to always punt with a WG for an hour or two at least before booking an overnight to ensure you get on. I have absolutely no interest in overnighters, a waste of money to me but hopefully others will answer your questions, i hope you enjoy it if you go ahead with one. :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I would never consider an overnight with anyone that I had not met several times and KNEW that I enjoyed their company. I am the world's worst actress and the most I can be pleasant to someone that I am not having the best time with is 4 hours, (and that is with dinner!). So imagine if how you would feel if you had paid a hefty sum and found out that the lady in question was not all that you had hoped.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Make sure it's a WG you've met before, preferably several times. If you don't get on, it'll be a long night. How about a dinner date before an overnight?

Also make sure that the WG you choose has the same idea of an overnight as you do.

It's no good booking a girl who'll want to boink all night if you'd rather curl up together and sleep and some girls will not sleep on an overnight.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Agreed, only do an overnight with a girl you've met with on a number of occasions. In theory what you do is up to you, but I always ask the girl what she likes and if she has any preferences as to what we do, and then try and make sure we both have a good time. Obviously you need part of the night for sleeping, part of the night for sex, part of the night for eating, etc. I always try and make sure there is some time put aside for something fun as well.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

As above, make sure you know the girl and you get on with her, after all sharing a hotel room can be more intimate than just sex for 90 minutes. I would plan your times to allow for some pre dinner fun, then go out and eat and maybe go on afterwards to a bar or club for a bit (let the food digest but don't get too pissed) then back to the room for some more fun, sleep (some girls like to cuddle, others want their own space) and then a pre or post breakfast romp, suggest you get up and clean your teeth, even if she doesnt. Oh and if you need an early morning dump, try and find somewhere apart from your shared bathroom to do it!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

There's some good advice above.

I've done one overnight with a young WG, and had seen her 3-4 times previously. Then two other overnights with a student that replied to a Craigslist ad 3 years ago, and again, I saw her sexually and socially before the overnights. It helps if you genuinely do have good conversational skills, and are interested in that person, that they also are not interlectually challenged, so you are able to ask questions in a natural way without appearing to be interrogating her - when you really are!

Yes you do need to give the lady space and time for herself, and remember that some ladies can be flatuent, just like us guys, and embarrassing moments will and do arise. It's having the skills to laugh them off that counts. Personally, I think it can be quite embarassing for to be with a lady you dont really know who suddenly decides she needs a dump, as hotel bathrooms are not very forgiving on noise.

Finally, you really need to be 100% sure you want an overnight as opposed to a 3 or 4 hour session....as you dont want the 'Jesus, have I just sleep with HER...' moment when you wake. It's a situation you need to be chiiled and comfortable with - and so does she. Just dont rush your decision.

Edited by Taggart

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Make sure it's a WG you've met before, preferably several times. If you don't get on, it'll be a long night. How about a dinner date before an overnight?

Also make sure that the WG you choose has the same idea of an overnight as you do.

It's no good booking a girl who'll want to boink all night if you'd rather curl up together and sleep and some girls will not sleep on an overnight.

I have yrt to encounter one of these.

If anyone know of any girls who wish to bonk all night and not get any sleep, please pm their details.

Thanks.

CT

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yes you do need to give the lady space and time for herself, and remember that some ladies can be flatuent, just like us guys, and embarrassing moments will and do arise. It's having the skills to laugh them off that counts. Personally, I think it can be quite embarassing for to be with a lady you dont really know who suddenly decides she needs a dump, as hotel bathrooms are not very forgiving on noise.

Good point.... reminds me of what an old flatmate of mine told me years ago...

1 Always flush just prior to starting your business. The noise of the cistern refilling will mask most of the noises that you make during the first minute or so.

2 Flush again within a minute or so of doing your business. As any good Management Consultant will tell you, 90% of what you dump is in the first 10% of your time in the loo. This way, you eliminate most of the nasty smell that may linger around for a long while in hotel loos.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Only on Punternet can you start off reading about overnight punts and end up getting excellent advice on taking a dump in mixed company!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Good point.... reminds me of what an old flatmate of mine told me years ago...

1 Always flush just prior to starting your business. The noise of the cistern refilling will mask most of the noises that you make during the first minute or so.

2 Flush again within a minute or so of doing your business. As any good Management Consultant will tell you, 90% of what you dump is in the first 10% of your time in the loo. This way, you eliminate most of the nasty smell that may linger around for a long while in hotel loos.

Great advice and this is what i do if in company, the only problem is some toilets need longer between flushes than others. I have a good spray round in any case. ;)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Only on Punternet can you start off reading about overnight punts and end up getting excellent advice on taking a dump in mixed company!

Absolutely! Who needs "Ask Mary" in The Spectator!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

There's some good advice above.

I've done one overnight with a young WG, and had seen her 3-4 times previously. Then two other overnights with a student that replied to a Craigslist ad 3 years ago, and again, I saw her sexually and socially before the overnights. It helps if you genuinely do have good conversational skills, and are interested in that person, that they also are not interlectually challenged, so you are able to ask questions in a natural way without appearing to be interrogating her - when you really are!

Yes you do need to give the lady space and time for herself, and remember that some ladies can be flatuent, just like us guys, and embarrassing moments will and do arise. It's having the skills to laugh them off that counts. Personally, I think it can be quite embarassing for to be with a lady you dont really know who suddenly decides she needs a dump, as hotel bathrooms are not very forgiving on noise.

Finally, you really need to be 100% sure you want an overnight as opposed to a 3 or 4 hour session....as you dont want the 'Jesus, have I just sleep with HER...' moment when you wake. It's a situation you need to be chiiled and comfortable with - and so does she. Just dont rush your decision.

Haha!! I find this post really funny Taggart! :P:D

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have yrt to encounter one of these.

If anyone know of any girls who wish to bonk all night and not get any sleep, please pm their details.

Thanks.

CT

If its something booked in advance i should think quite a few do! I've done all nighties if I'm warned in advance (I have a sleep in the afternoon then!).

Or stuff them with coffee!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Only thing with overnights as someone has earlier said in a post- difficult to get any sleep (not that your up all night having marathon sex non stop for hours and hours!! never met anyone with that much energy yet!) I always find myself drained the next day and bit like a zombie lol.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm considering booking an escort I for several hours or possibly an overnight at a hotel. I've only had a maximum of a 1.5hr meeting in the past and I'm just wondering how I can put the lady at ease and do everything I can so she can relax! Is there anything you ladies like to see on arrival? Nibbles? Wine? (I already plan to buy her a small gift) Is it a good idea to stay somewhere that has room service? Also what do you people typically get up to on an overnight apart from the obvious?

Thanks!

Yes I agree with others Piloteer, best to actually meet beforehand and see if you actually get on etc,.. As much as pictures and write ups/feedback/websites/profiles are lovely- you will not know what your own personal experience actually is until meeting lady in question. Good luck! :D

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Done lots and much said here is true - you need to know each other before an overnight. Yes, hotel rooms are not that discreet for certain functions, so all the more reason to know each other beforehand.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Also work out expectations. Most guys include an evening meal with an overnight booking or go out for a drink to break the night up a bit. If you don't intend on going out,then it is best to have something to eat, or it's a long stint with no fuel and no fuel does not lead to high energy activities lol.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Oohw Relax !

She will probably be more at ease then you are.

Dont be afraid to tell her what you want, then listen to what she proposes, and let it go from there.

If (big if?) if you know eachother well already, and are comfortable together: no problems. she knows you, just let her run the date, That way she is most comfortable. You wont be dissapointed. She wants to see you again, so she'll make sure you're fine in every way.

If you have never met before: still relax. You've already budgeted the money now RE-fucking-LAX. and have Fun.

I still remember several memorable un-planned overnighters.

Among the Best things ever happened to me.

One even wore one of my shirts to breakfast since she didnt consider her cleavage-garment proper attire (a Marriott lounge - select customers, low risk, great value), Then shared the cab. It was Fun!

btw: If you're reading: do it again Soon ?

Overnighters: Pure Bliss.

so .. RE-LAX. okay ?.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

that they also are not interlectually challenged,

intellectually even.

Have to say, if you are paying a lot of money for an overnight it is up to them to make you feel at ease. You could be the most boring, clumsy person on the planet and she might lead a very interesting stimulating life when not at work but you should be made to feel as special as the first man to walk on the moon. That's her job.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm considering booking an escort I for several hours or possibly an overnight at a hotel. I've only had a maximum of a 1.5hr meeting in the past and I'm just wondering how I can put the lady at ease and do everything I can so she can relax! Is there anything you ladies like to see on arrival?.... Also what do you people typically get up to on an overnight apart from the obvious?

Thanks!

Apart from the essential 'meet before' advice, if you find someone suitable, why not consider your overnight at her place?

The odd occassion I've done overnights I've nearly always taken this approach and I think it has many advantages. The main as far as I can see is that the lady is in her own territory (with a fully separate bathroom for the purposes of ablutions <wink>) and in my opinion, that helps equally on the issues of trust. For me, she's got to be happy taking my booking at her place and equally I have to feel safe being at her's for an extended period of time. Also if I feel I've had my fill before the end of the agreed time, I can choose to leave.

I feel meeting in hotels can be nervous and stressful with, risks of potential embarrassments, knowing glances, cctv, etc. Meeting at a private location, whether it be her own home or her business premises, avoids all that and for me, means I can relax and enjoy a lot better, which given the extra financial outlay, is an important consideration.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Have to say, if you are paying a lot of money for an overnight it is up to them to make you feel at ease. You could be the most boring, clumsy person on the planet and she might lead a very interesting stimulating life when not at work but you should be made to feel as special as the first man to walk on the moon. That's her job.

True enough in an ideal world.

Trouble is the world isn't ideal. Some WGs are excellent company but some aren't (or just can't be arsed once the money is in the handbag). If you are spending "a lot of money" on an overnight, then I wouldn't rely on the fact that it should be part of the job description stop me from researching and maximising my chances of a great night.

Also, I am well aware that some nights I can be great company myself and, truth be told, a bit of a miserable sod on other nights. As above though, I would do everything I could to get myself into "happy, engaging and interesting" mode at the beginning of an overnight (applies to any booking really), rather than turn up grumpy and expect the poor WG to cheer me up.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have yrt to encounter one of these.

If anyone know of any girls who wish to bonk all night and not get any sleep, please pm their details.

Thanks.

CT

I had a girl in south africa who would not sleep but I think that was because she had a bad experience which made her too much on her guard to be able to sleep, which meant I felt I had to stay awake too but still I enjoyed it.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm considering booking an escort I for several hours or possibly an overnight at a hotel. I've only had a maximum of a 1.5hr meeting in the past and I'm just wondering how I can put the lady at ease and do everything I can so she can relax! Is there anything you ladies like to see on arrival? Nibbles? Wine? (I already plan to buy her a small gift) Is it a good idea to stay somewhere that has room service? Also what do you people typically get up to on an overnight apart from the obvious?

Thanks!

It's your overnight appointment and hard earned cash, so important you know what you want from it and let the escort know what you would like.

If it's an hotel booking the escort will usually need to know the booking details and be able to check you are at the hotel.

When she arrives she'll probably need to check with her 'security', and may want to do so during the course of the evening.

Find out how long the overnight will last - some ladies it's 10/12hrs, some will stay until hotel checking out time.

Food may be expected if it's an earlier start but ask if there are any preferences. Also check if the escort drinks alcohol, some don't.

Over the years I've met up for all night appointments and not met the client beforehand. Most have worked out very well but I do usually have a get out clause that we have a proviso booking for 3hrs (if I have to travel), if we get on it can be extended to all night, if the appointment is not 100% we can call it a day and part company.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!


Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.


Sign In Now