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With a large wink to the mods who just closed the "spies" thread...

To: Any new participants who end up reading here.

Subject: Participation.

All,

If you consider participating in this industry: Welcome. Have a good read, and think it over again. But Welcome!

Ladies,

If you do it right, there is nothing Illegal about it, it can be profitable, Liberating, and it can be good fun. But give it some good consideration.

There are various sites you can gain more information, including the SAAFE : http://www.saafe.info/, www.SW5.info (slightly off topic, but good info) and the International Union of Sex Workers: IUSW.

Do think about it: are you the right lady for this job ?

(tempted to put in more links..)

Will you do it for just-gain, to get through uni? to get even? or are you looking for adventure, a defibrillator maybe ?.

Cast your net for information Wide.

Talk to a few Ladies who have been there, done that. Some may give you a cold shoulder, but others will talk to you If and IF you are genuine.

Consider starting with an agency to learn the ropes, but be careful choosing one.

Find yourself a buddy: check www.escortbuddies.com, a site run by Penny, who sometimes posts on here too.

And Welcome!

Gents,

If you go about it correctly, you will not break any UK laws. And the threat of being "criminalized" is still far off: that legislation is currently stalled AFAIK. Dont be scared off by the Anti-brigade.

But do a little research for yourself, try to choose wisely.

And most important: try to be Respectful to the Lady you meet.

Read the FAQ and the beginners guide on the main punternet.com site.

Dont hestiate to search other sites either.

Try to select serious and "respectable" providers, and avoid the (Very Rare!) cases of exploitation or plain un-suitable providers.

Personally, I prefer longer dates (1 or more hours), outcalls to my hotelroom, but not everyone is able to do that.

And Have Fun!

Regular posters, Touters, Cheerleaders,

I'm sure you can all add more links with newby advice or post some stuff below.

Feel free to add some.

ps: we already know you can get it cheaper in Th, and we know some of you prefer BB, and Thelma of Thurrocks is Terrific. Fine. It is a free country (still is, sort-of)

ps1: spies? I'm sure serious spies would be among us for considerable time already. But there will be a huge influx of guests that could do with some un-biased information.

ps2: There used to be a lady named The English Courtesan, who had mint advice - I'm sure she is reading: Hi Livvy!

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Ladies,

If you do it right, there is nothing Illegal about it, it can be profitable, Liberating, and it can be good fun. But give it some good consideration.

Feel free to tell me what it feels like to be a punter but dont tell me how it feels to walk in my shoes. There is a price to pay for all that fun and liberation. Mind body and soul.

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Feel free to tell me what it feels like to be a punter but dont tell me how it feels to walk in my shoes. There is a price to pay for all that fun and liberation. Mind body and soul.

Yes and the difference between what you are paid and what you pay is called profit. So I would say he had it pretty much spot on as generalisations go. And let's face it, he was only generalising. I sure he didn't have your miserable existence in mind (if that is what it is) when he write the OP.

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Yes and the difference between what you are paid and what you pay is called profit. So I would say he had it pretty much spot on as generalisations go. And let's face it, he was only generalising. I sure he didn't have your miserable existence in mind (if that is what it is) when he write the OP.

Of course you would:rolleyes:

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Feel free to tell me what it feels like to be a punter but dont tell me how it feels to walk in my shoes. There is a price to pay for all that fun and liberation. Mind body and soul.

Hi lou4fun,

I've posted just now on another thread about various aspects of the "price to pay" (however the post has yet to pass moderation, as I am a new member here). I am considering taking up this hobby and booking a WG for the first time, but I am concerned about the impact of the industry on the girls involved, especially long-term.

May I ask you to expand on your response a little more? Would you not work given a free choice? Having been a lurker here for a number of weeks, the impression I've got is that, WGs who are emotionally secure and generally happy anyway can enjoy escorting, but that it is not for everyone. As I mentioned in my last post, I've been reading quite a bit of Belle de Jour too, and came to similar conclusions from her writing.

But it sounds like you are hinting that you think this might not be accurate?

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Any job has its downsides and being men we cannot really understand what a WG feels about the job. Try to imagine having sex with an endless stream of unattractive older women when it's the last thing you really feel like but you know you have to do it. Just dealing with all those emails and phone calls would drive me insane. After 6 months of unrelenting molestation I'd find it difficult to get up in the morning. We book a girl that really turns us on when we feel like it. It's the reverse of their situation.

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