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Birthday Gift For Wg....

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Ok, so I have been seeing one particular European wg regularly and it feels like we have a strong bond between us (I dont mean just sexually), I do really care for her and not just her body or her service...

Anyway its her Birthday when she returns from her home country after Xmas and I am planning on secretly getting her a nice cake (tailor made with her name on it), wine, and some jewelry as a gift during a 6 - 8 hour booking...

Just wondering if anyone else has done such a thing? Or is it a little overboard?

A female view on things would also be appreciated.

Thanks

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Ok, so I have been seeing one particular European wg regularly and it feels like we have a strong bond between us (I dont mean just sexually), I do really care for her and not just her body or her service...

Anyway its her Birthday when she returns from her home country after Xmas and I am planning on secretly getting her a nice cake (tailor made with her name on it), wine, and some jewelry as a gift during a 6 - 8 hour booking...

Just wondering if anyone else has done such a thing? Or is it a little overboard?

A female view on things would also be appreciated.

Thanks

Don't do it. She's a WG, not your girlfriend - don't ever loose sight of that.

If you want her to be your girlfriend (and it certainly sounds like you do), then just ask her out on a (non-paid for) date. If she says yes - then awesome. If she says no - then at least you know where you stand.

This business is littered with men, like you, who fell for their WG's, and got fucked (and not in the good way) as a result. Tread carefully.

Also, even if she did genuinely like you, that plan you've got there does sound pretty overboard, and I suspect she might be a little creeped out.

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I reckon the cake and wine would be appreciated. The jewelry does sound a little over the top.

I am sure you understand that feeling you have a connection with a wg just means she is doing her job well so I will spare you a further lecture about keeping sight of the reality of the situation.

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As been said before, dont forget that shes a WG doing a job and you are probably in a list of other guys who are probably thinking the same thing.

That aside, I dont think theres anything wrong with getting someone you like a birthday present, provided you dont go overboard and freak her out or make her think you turning into an obsessive stalker..

Card, cake, some chocs or crisps (I dont bring alcohol, just some drinks like coke or something) or a nice gift like a nice shirt or something.

I dont think you should go out and get 100s of quids worth of jewellery just incase it freaks it out.

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There's always the thought that the name you're getting iced on that cake isn't hers as well!

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Get one of the three but not all three! If it's a long booking take her out for a meal.

She might not like the cake you pick and as someone else said, it might not even be her real name you know!

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I think crisps would be fine, maybe stretch to a can of pop.

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Ignore Bricktop. The crisps would be Smartprice, the pop would be a Lidl's four-for-a-quid special...

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Never buy a WG a cake. We think you all wank in them and then perv about us eating your spunk. You may think that it is mad but it would be a moderate tale in the line of freaky things done by regular clients.

Jimmy Bond got it right if you want to move things along ask her out, if she gives you an excuse or says no you will know where you stand and can either continue seeing her as WG with the lines firmly drawn or stop seeing her and realise that she was just doing the job you paid for and doesn't feel the same way. For all you know she may be married but after telling you a few white lies on your initial meeting now doesn't know how to tell you without hurting you.

It is a minefield when clients fall for a WG as it usually ends up backfiring on the girl. He feels she's tricked her and led him on and gets all funny with her sometimes quite nasty when in fact the poor girl is just doing her job well and he is the one over stepping the mark.

Hope she feels the same way but chances are she is at home or holiday enjoying her life/husband/boyfriend and you are sitting worrying about if you should get her a gift or not.

A bottle of wine and a card with no name on the card just the envelope so she can take the card home is a nice a gift as anything really. Jewellery is just far too personal and a bit of a waste of your money if you don't know her personal taste.

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Don't do it. She's a WG, not your girlfriend - don't ever loose sight of that. If you want her to be your girlfriend (and it certainly sounds like you do), then just ask her out on a (non-paid for) date. If she says yes - then awesome. If she says no - then at least you know where you stand. This business is littered with men, like you, who fell for their WG's, and got fucked (and not in the good way) as a result. Tread carefully. Also, even if she did genuinely like you, that plan you've got there does sound pretty overboard, and I suspect she might be a little creeped out.

Good advice. The OP will then find out if she feels the same way.

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Ok, so I have been seeing one particular European wg regularly and it feels like we have a strong bond between us (I dont mean just sexually), I do really care for her and not just her body or her service...

Anyway its her Birthday when she returns from her home country after Xmas and I am planning on secretly getting her a nice cake (tailor made with her name on it), wine, and some jewelry as a gift during a 6 - 8 hour booking...

…is it a little overboard?

Yes, and could make you look like an infatuated stalker type. What you propose sounds more like a Valentine’s gift for a girlfriend! You’re wandering into dangerous territory there; this woman is an escort, never lose sight of that. If you would like the relationship to be more then ask her out (but be prepared for a “no”), otherwise I’d be careful not to appear too emotionally “keen” on her as she might freak.

I would imagine the money she’s getting from you for such a long booking will please her well enough but if you still want to buy her a gift then chose one but not all of your ideas. If you want to get a cake then just buy a little fun thing off the shelf (getting something tailor made is trying way too hard), and as has already been mentioned, her working name quite probably isn’t her real name. Jewellery is a very personal thing, and what I would regard as a lovers gift, so I’d advise against it (unless she has it on a wishlist).

…I am planning on secretly getting her…

How are you going to keep it secret? Personally if I received a load of pressies from a “secret” admirer I’d feel very uncomfortable. The last thing us ladies need is a stalker/infatuated client or someone who gives us that impression.

Edited by Lara Brooks

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Some good advice on here to the O.P. - she is a working girl - the clue is in the title. Many of us have probably thought we had something special with one or more of the ladies we visit (and pay) but it rarely happens. Your case might be the exception to the rule but don't freak her out by going so over the top.

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Ok, so I have been seeing one particular European wg regularly and it feels like we have a strong bond between us (I dont mean just sexually), I do really care for her and not just her body or her service...

Anyway its her Birthday when she returns from her home country after Xmas and I am planning on secretly getting her a nice cake (tailor made with her name on it), wine, and some jewelry as a gift during a 6 - 8 hour booking...

Just wondering if anyone else has done such a thing? Or is it a little overboard?

A female view on things would also be appreciated.

Thanks

Know exactly how you feel SSUK. It is all too easy to misjudge these situations. I did it myself early in my punting career. Take the advice of others who have posted. At the very most, ask her out for a date (unpaid). Try and get your mind around the relationship (how many times has this advice been posted) and don't let the fantasy run away with you. If you feel you have to give a gift, then less is more. If there really is a budding relationship here then expensive gifts are uneccessary. I am sure you are very genuine in your feelings, but I fear you are taking the first step down a slippery slope. I still think that the subject of my first affections is a great lady sexually, sensually and socially - however I have learnt to get my mind around the relationship and enjoy it for what is is - and no more.

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Never buy a WG a cake. We think you all wank in them and then perv about us eating your spunk. You may think that it is mad but it would be a moderate tale in the line of freaky things done by regular clients.

Dont worry. I actually get the cakes and stuff from the supermarket.. I just tell her Ive spent time and effort baking it....

(Hmmm unless the guy behind the counter is tugging off into it :eek: )

Anyway when I tried to I slipped and fell off the counter top so wont be trying that again....

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I had considered before I made my earlier post that the name you know her by might not be her real name. I didn't think it matters. That is the name she uses when you see her so it is the reasonable thing to put on the cake. Better certainly to use her working name than ask what would probably prove an awkward question about what her real name is "for the cake". If the plan is that she takes home any of the cake that you haven't polished off together then just make sure you eat the bit with her name on first so one of her more inquisitive friends doesn't end up asking "Deidre, why have you got a half-eaten cake in your fridge that says 'Gladys'?"

If you do have a properly made cake, still boxed when she arrives or delivered when she is there, then the spunk-fear shouldn't arise.

It is a perfectly fair thing to treat a lady whose company you have enjoyed to a few gifts so don't worry about some of the more patronisingly superior responses you have received so far.

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I had considered before I made my earlier post that the name you know her by might not be her real name. I didn't think it matters. That is the name she uses when you see her so it is the reasonable thing to put on the cake. Better certainly to use her working name than ask what would probably prove an awkward question about what her real name is "for the cake". If the plan is that she takes home any of the cake that you haven't polished off together then just make sure you eat the bit with her name on first so one of her more inquisitive friends doesn't end up asking "Deidre, why have you got a half-eaten cake in your fridge that says 'Gladys'?"

If you do have a properly made cake, still boxed when she arrives or delivered when she is there, then the spunk-fear shouldn't arise.

It is a perfectly fair thing to treat a lady whose company you have enjoyed to a few gifts so don't worry about some of the more patronisingly superior responses you have received so far.

Or the good advice as i see it given especially by Jimmy Bond.

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I agree about the cake. Cake definitely good (if you're planning to share it get it from Konditor and Cook, if you haven't already ^_^).

If you want to take wine and have an idea of what she would like (or even if she likes wine - I once got a bottle of pretty chi-chi expensive vodka which was very thoughtful, but I don't drink it) then I don't see a problem with that either, but I would definitely skip the jewellery. Even if she's comfortable enough with you to take it graciously and not think it's a bit odd, it's likely to put her in a difficult or unpleasant position with her boyfriend/husband even if it's not wildly expensive. Stick to the perishable stuff.

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A card and a box of decent chocolates would fit the bill. Any more might be viewed as OTT.

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Don't do it. She's a WG, not your girlfriend - don't ever loose sight of that.

If you want her to be your girlfriend (and it certainly sounds like you do), then just ask her out on a (non-paid for) date. If she says yes - then awesome. If she says no - then at least you know where you stand.

This business is littered with men, like you, who fell for their WG's, and got fucked (and not in the good way) as a result. Tread carefully.

Also, even if she did genuinely like you, that plan you've got there does sound pretty overboard, and I suspect she might be a little creeped out.

^ The single greatest advice ever given by a punter. Read it and read it well.

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re-read Jim and re-read Annabelle. Follow that good advice.

And to make it really good for her: put some unmentioned bills in the "empty" envelope.

She is in the job for a reason, and helping her on that is probably the best present you can give her.

If you do get along that well: she'll reward you!

But dont let it get to your head.

btw: I think the term "the unpaid date test" needs to be defined.

As in: ask her out without payment, if it sticks, you are have something going (and still have a huge minefield ahead).

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Cards are shockingly expensive. Use instead, a not-too-crumpled piece of printer paper with a nice drawing of the house in which you will both reside as a happy couple. Crayons are useful tools for this kind of thing. Pictures of the two children and their intended names would be good. This action will open up that avenue of opportunity for safe and intimate communication, and adequately demonstrate your innate creativity.

If you follow my advice she'll love you forever. Don't forget to put me on the wedding invitation list.

Edited by WhilstNeroplays

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a packet of crisps would be the worst birthday present ever

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a packet of crisps would be the worst birthday present ever

Oh no!! A chocolate log would be far worse for me!

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Appreciated guys.

I have bought gifts in the past so I don't think she would be freaked out (atleast I hope not)

Regarding making her my GF, its a tricky one to say the least. I tell my self its wrong heading into that path as Jimmy Bond stated I would most likely get fucked in the wrong way but in her defense she has invited me to her home country to spend time with her (non-paid).

But like I have read many times I am trying to be as realistic as possible but we are only human I suppose.

PS the name on the cake would be her real name as she actually told me her real name a lil while back. She has used her laptop with me (whilst relaxing in bed) to show me some photos of her own country on her Facebook account too.

Edited by StarscreamUK

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Just don't do it. It's a slippery slope and down this path lay madness. You keep comforting yourself that it means very little anyway, but all your posts are indirectly saying otherwise. You are going in too deep with a prostitute who does not care about you and likely never will. It doesn't matter if she's invited you over to her country or whatever, she is just saying that because she knows it's improbable and wouldn't happen anyway.

Think about what you're doing. It's madness. This is a prostitute. It's not like in the movies.

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