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Does Punting Set Your Sights Too High?

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This is a question for all those single guys out there.

For many I am sure punting allows us to have sex with girls way out of our "league" in everyday life.

Does this make it difficult to settle for someone more your level for love or marriage?

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This is a question for all those single guys out there.

For many I am sure punting allows us to have sex with girls way out of our "league" in everyday life.

Does this make it difficult to settle for someone more your level for love or marriage?

I dont view it as settling for someone in my league when i meet a woman and a relationship develops, if its love its love irrespective of what i do in punting which is for me just sex. I dont compare love and sex with a WG as they are two completely different things. So no i dont settle for anything, i seek and have been lucky enough to find some great loving relationships.

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girls way out of our "league" in everyday life.

Just how do you judge if a girl is "way out of your league"? I raised this question on a badly thought out thread a few months ago and perhaps now is the time to explore it again without my stupid original post getting in the way.

What are the factors deciding "league"?

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Your league: what are you; an octopus?

All working girls are human beings, some are prettier, some are taller, some have a posh background but at the end of the day all that separates them from any other women is that you can shag them for money (not necessarily that different but anyway...). If you won't approach a beautiful girl in a bar because you think she's better than you or won't fancy you because you haven't got a lot of money or you don't drive a fancy car or you have wonky teeth, you are making a big mistake which, left unchecked, will do you damage in the long term .

And what, exactly, is the difference between offering to buy a drink for a girl in a bar, and calling an escort for a shag. You are equally likely to succeed with either proposition. The negativity is in your head.

Get real.

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This "league" bollocks is just that, yes you can classify everyone into thier own little pigeon-hole (even I do that) but love is blind, and can hit any pairing regardless of race, social status or anything else, so no, I personally don't believe punting sets my sights too high,

Where it does distort things for me is that I (and I presume other punters and maybe even some of the ladies) get to have our fun without any of the bullshit that accompanies such liasons in the civilian world.

Funny then that some of our biggest critics are the advocates of that very same bullshit.

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it depends; after all if u want to meet a slutty lady then maybe one's wife should not be inclined this way -- unless she wants the attention :D....so, it could be sometimes deliberately setting one's sights too low -- or lower than.

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It hasn't made a difference to me.

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This "league" bollocks is just that, yes you can classify everyone into thier own little pigeon-hole (even I do that) but love is blind, and can hit any pairing regardless of race, social status or anything else, so no, I personally don't believe punting sets my sights too high,

In reality though, people do tend to pair up with others in the same class of attractiveness, unless there are other factors like extreme wealth.

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In reality though, people do tend to pair up with others in the same class of attractiveness, unless there are other factors like extreme wealth.

Do you think that's really true? I've seen and heard of so many exceptions to this that it seems like an old cliché that gets trotted out every time this subject is discussed. I'm a case in point, before punting I used to pull some right stunners and I've got a face like a bag of hammers.

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Do you think that's really true? I've seen and heard of so many exceptions to this that it seems like an old cliché that gets trotted out every time this subject is discussed. I'm a case in point, before punting I used to pull some right stunners and I've got a face like a bag of hammers.

It's your bollocks they are impressed by! :rolleyes:

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just close your eyes and dream of England :D

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I would say it's probably made me aim a little higher than I used to - I don't know if that's just down to confidence or knowing I've slept with better than the average girl on the street.

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u know what they say: one man's trash/quality .... :D

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it probably has but i have come to accept it.

how many ugly guys who are not rich do you see with good looking women? you never do. women only go with men who are good looking or extremely rich, or both. i am neither so i am screwed

the type of woman i would have a chance with(the type of lower class you see on the jeremy kyle show) i would not be interested in so i would be with someone for the sake of it so i am not on my own, which i perfectly comfortable with

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actually, and i won't start a new thread, this does beg the Q: do u get what u pay for > ? NO!

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It's your bollocks they are impressed by! :rolleyes:

As impressive a sight as my bejewelled nads undoubtedly are, they are not the first thing a lady sees; otherwise I would be writing this from B wing.

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Does this make it difficult to settle for someone more your level for love or marriage?

The only thing that counts as "being on my level" is how frisky a girl is. Nothing to do with physical attractiveness or other social criteria imposed on us by the media. And I'd hope that she felt the same way. I'd take a plain Jane who knew what she was doing in bed, over a gorgeous amazon who would just lie back looking gorgeous and amazonian, expecting the sex to be amazing by that virtue alone. That certainly goes for escorts aswell.

I know I've probably had my sexual desires twisted a little or peaked higher by visiting certain escorts, or maybe more so for watching the enthusiastic talents of women like Gianna Michaels online, so maybe my own bar is set a little high in what I want out of a sexual relationship, but I hope I could deal with that. Or at least be with someone open enough sexually to have fun in guaging each others limits and whatever satisfies us.

Or just hope that I meet Gianna, and that she has a thing for English boys!

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mediocrity the new high ? it might as well be given that everything else meets this criteria nowadays lol. !

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Do you think that's really true? I've seen and heard of so many exceptions to this that it seems like an old cliché that gets trotted out every time this subject is discussed. I'm a case in point, before punting I used to pull some right stunners and I've got a face like a bag of hammers.

I do believe it to be generally true; you may have encountered many exceptions, but they are just that: exceptions.

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I think apart from some exceptions, generally people tend to form relationships with people of similar "attractiveness", but with a bias in general that men tend to get partners better looking than themselves more often than women - the laugh 'em into bed approach if you will.

Furthermore I think one can generally determine if a given girl is out of your league. Doesn't mean you can't pull her, but your goal average goes down dramatically the further out of your league you try and play. That's just human nature.

However, I suppose it's not unreasonable to question the underlying assumption upon which my original question is based, namely that when punting guys choose a WG that a general consensus would determine is out if their league. Maybe they don't. Maybe guys choose girls they feel "comfortable" with for a punt?

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Maybe guys choose girls they feel "comfortable" with for a punt?

But surely thats the same thing as staying within your league.

Personally, I have never punted with a fabulous "looker" for a number of reasons, not the least of which is, in my experience, too many of these women (in all walks of life) have their heads too far up their own ares to be any fun. Give me a interesting looking woman with a brain every time please.

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But surely thats the same thing as staying within your league. Personally, I have never punted with a fabulous "looker" for a number of reasons, not the least of which is, in my experience, too many of these women (in all walks of life) have their heads too far up their own ares to be any fun. Give me a interesting looking woman with a brain every time please.

Some do and some dont, it depends on the woman in my experiences. If i thought like you i would of missed out on some really fantastic WGs. A less attractive to me WG but who is seemingly friendly and enthusiastic beats a cold stunner every time though.

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I think apart from some exceptions, generally people tend to form relationships with people of similar "attractiveness", but with a bias in general that men tend to get partners better looking than themselves more often than women - the laugh 'em into bed approach if you will. Furthermore I think one can generally determine if a given girl is out of your league. Doesn't mean you can't pull her, but your goal average goes down dramatically the further out of your league you try and play. That's just human nature. However, I suppose it's not unreasonable to question the underlying assumption upon which my original question is based, namely that when punting guys choose a WG that a general consensus would determine is out if their league. Maybe they don't. Maybe guys choose girls they feel "comfortable" with for a punt?

I choose WGs by whether i fancy them and what kind of attitude they have, are they friendly on the phone, any hint of coldness and i go elsewhere. Its then a question of whether they actually offer the services i require as advertised at the price advertised.

As to all this out of your league stuff, it comes down for me to your own perception, if you think a woman is out of your league you have decided this without finding out if its definitely the case. Self confidence, good manners, charm and having a sense of humour can go a very long way in this world in my experiences. Think positive and things can be achieved that you thought impossible.

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I do believe it to be generally true; you may have encountered many exceptions, but they are just that: exceptions.

This wikipedia article has lots of references to psychological studies that tend to support your view Vin.

I once saw a TV programme that took 12 random couples and got a section of the general public to separately rate photos of each male and each female for attractiveness without knowing who was with who. The programme then paired up the most attractive male photo to the most attractive female photo and so on down to the least attractive pair (the programme admitted it was a "cruel" experiment). There was a really high correlation with the actual pairings when they were revealed at the end of the experiment.

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I choose WGs by whether i fancy them and what kind of attitude they have, are they friendly on the phone, any hint of coldness and i go elsewhere. Its then a question of whether they actually offer the services i require as advertised at the price advertised.

As to all this out of your league stuff, it comes down for me to your own perception, if you think a woman is out of your league you have decided this without finding out if its definitely the case. Self confidence, good manners, charm and having a sense of humour can go a very long way in this world in my experiences. Think positive and things can be achieved that you thought impossible.

So you mean I might still be in with a chance with Ann Widdecombe! OK smiths I think I'll go for it and report back.

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