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gfe - why and what is it

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Ok after 10 yrs plus in the industry from parlor worker to madam to indie to porn star and boobie prize I have still not go my head around this one.

Some have said I offer it after meeting me - but I do not really know what it is supposed to be, I am not your girlfriend by my definition - your lover for an hour or two yes - If I was your girlfriend I would expect a card at least on my birthday, call to see how my day was or be able to call you, a trip to the pics, taking turns to cook, to be able to moan about my mother to you but gawd help you if you utter a word against her...........and to be honest that is not why you are paying me.

So what is your definition of the gfe

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So what is your definition of the gfe

My definition would be a girl with a very friendly attitude who kisses with passion ------- even though she is acting, she would also be up for most things, within her stated limits obviously.

In the last year I have met three such ladies ---

naughty holly of Adultw0rk

Seductive Scarlett of Adultw0rk

Alex of the Bunny Lounge

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Ok after 10 yrs plus in the industry from parlor worker to madam to indie to porn star and boobie prize I have still not go my head around this one.

Some have said I offer it after meeting me - but I do not really know what it is supposed to be, I am not your girlfriend by my definition - your lover for an hour or two yes - If I was your girlfriend I would expect a card at least on my birthday, call to see how my day was or be able to call you, a trip to the pics, taking turns to cook, to be able to moan about my mother to you but gawd help you if you utter a word against her...........and to be honest that is not why you are paying me.

So what is your definition of the gfe

Better than the wife experience but worse than the bachelor experience.

(Sorry, in a bad mood)

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Ok after 10 yrs plus in the industry from parlor worker to madam to indie to porn star and boobie prize I have still not go my head around this one.

Some have said I offer it after meeting me - but I do not really know what it is supposed to be, I am not your girlfriend by my definition - your lover for an hour or two yes - If I was your girlfriend I would expect a card at least on my birthday, call to see how my day was or be able to call you, a trip to the pics, taking turns to cook, to be able to moan about my mother to you but gawd help you if you utter a word against her...........and to be honest that is not why you are paying me.

So what is your definition of the gfe

I agree it is difficult to define, if only because if the gf offerred what a wg offerred the who would use a wg?

To me a gfe is a warm, friendly, passionate experience. The girl makes me feel as if she is glad to see me and wants me to come back. Its all about the total experience rather than the specific services on offer. Having said that, passionate french kissing and owo are essential but I guess that in order to offer a true gfe, some services need to be withheld !!

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The Girl Friend Experience is supposed to be the type of experience which a man would expect to get with his girlfriend.

That would involve mutual pleasure rather than pleasure just for the person who has paid the money- in this case the man. So French kissing and mutual masturbation which give both partners enjoyment and reverse oral and "fingers" which give the lady only the physical enjoyment ( if done properly)- so effectively it involves the man not being selfish and behaving as he might in a loving relationship. This raises a couple of issues.

To the "fluffy"- giving enjpoyment is fun but many men would not see the point in this -especially if they did not plan to return and many punters only go to one WG once only.

The other issue is that, despite having had hundreds of unpaid encounters with ladies, the type of sex involved in the GFE has always for me been better that non paid sex or have I just been unlucky?

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Wot ee said.. and more.

Claiming to seek the perfect GFE: here are the factors that, IMHO, determine the Quality of a date.

In order of importance, they are:

1. Mental connect. Spark. hard to pinpoint.

2. Mutual enjoyment (Quality acting or real enjoyment)

3. Bedroom Mechanics, the PSE

4. Personality, Education, General background.

5. Looks and physique.

more of my ramblings on the topic...

Touting, by any other name...

I must say there are some Brilliant GFE's out there.

(you know who you are)

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I could never fake a girlfriend experience. Never in a million years.

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So what is your definition of the gfe

Having never experienced a girl-friend I have no basis upon which to compare, however as my reason for paying for sex is that I do not want to experience a girl-friend then logically, from my point of view, what is supplied by a prostitute might be GFE in sexual terms, but differs in every other way, and that is that it is for a limited period of time, is obtained by the mere expenditure of money and carries no expectations by either party.

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As I say, I make the appointment as "genuine" as I possibly can. It's about making the guy feel good about himself, putting a lot into the appointment without feeling fake.

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The GFE is just for the duration of the booking, which is why you don't send birthday cards. If someone wanted to book me for the year then I'm sure I could include a birthday card and meal in the experience.

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I am not your girlfriend by my definition - your lover for an hour or two yes - If I was your girlfriend I would expect a card at least on my birthday, call to see how my day was or be able to call you, a trip to the pics, taking turns to cook, to be able to moan about my mother to you but gawd help you if you utter a word against her...........and to be honest that is not why you are paying me.

So what is your definition of the gfe

Damn, that's exactly what I've done with at least a couple of girls now, give or take, and still not earned the boyfriend status - what am i doing wrong !

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For me GFE is too widely used and advertised to really mean anything .. everyone seems to offer it...

For me, walking away after an hour or so I would say I had a GFE if :

- Greeted with kiss, smile and warm hello

- Good balance between genuine conversation and action

- Must be mutual pleasuring. Reverse oral, touching and kissing a must

- no rush to get you out of the door if you only have 15mins left .. making the most of the time with either a shower together or gentle play.

- A kiss and a hug goodbye

We all know it is fake but if a girl offers the above - I tend to go back at least once more... if all I wanted is to cum I'd shut my eyes and knock it out myself a lot cheaper..

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I must admit this GFE came as a surprise to me, as I was quoted as given it in one field report.

As I never ever meet solo, to be tagged as a GFE was some what wierd!

To me it must mean a lady who is genuinely tactile, responsive and really does enjoy kissing.

Lucy.

(My daughters are both girlfriends to their guys, and personally I would run a mile from the experience they offer their guys!!!:o:D)

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I always thought that GFE stood for Good For Everything!

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Here's the first bit of my FR that got rejected, was a very good gfe read below:

Knocked on the door was met by Rebecca wearing normal clothes, tight jeans and red top, (very fetching), she said 'hi' we kissed.

Took me by hand lead into living room, she turned and immediately started french, (bloody excellent, an escort that knows why your thier, none of this massage or waste of time coffee crap).

We then moved through to the bedroom with ensuite, was asked 'do you need a quick shower'? decided to only because i was new and would make her relaxed, would probably reap benefits later! She lead me through turned on shower and left! stripped off and got under it, rebecca then reapered in just her undies, she took them off and joined me, she has the most sweatest little tits, bb or c i think (although i didn't check her bra later to confirm) applied some soap washed it off and sucked, very repsponsive in touch, feel and noise!, giving off little sighs and 'that tickles'.

Out of bath, quick dry down and onto bed, this was such a great gfe that when this first happened i pushed her onto her back and almost went straight into mish, only to have her push me off with a 'your not protected', i had genuinely forgotten!

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A true girlfriend experience would include them being late for the appointment, telling you off for not taking off your shoes, spoiling all your jokes, throwing a strop and going to bed on their own. However I am quite excited by the fantasy gfe described by various punters here.

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For me GFE is too widely used and advertised to really mean anything .. everyone seems to offer it...

For me, walking away after an hour or so I would say I had a GFE if :

- Greeted with kiss, smile and warm hello

- Good balance between genuine conversation and action

- Must be mutual pleasuring. Reverse oral, touching and kissing a must

- no rush to get you out of the door if you only have 15mins left .. making the most of the time with either a shower together or gentle play.

- A kiss and a hug goodbye

We all know it is fake but if a girl offers the above - I tend to go back at least once more... if all I wanted is to cum I'd shut my eyes and knock it out myself a lot cheaper..

Exactly how I see it too.

Since I usually seek out the GFE, I usually expect it to very more along the lines of a relaxing normal date rather than just paying for sex.

If the above happens than I've usually gone for a return visit. And usually for a longer booking.

As well as what jimlasker, A GFE in my view:

She doesnt strip off straight after shes got the money

She doesnt lunge straight for my trousers,

NOT talk dirty like a bad porn movie when we having sex (That just makes me laugh, and then she gets embaressed).

Ive even had one or two girls text me afterwards asking if I got home okay. I liked that. :o

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For me a GFE makes up in tenderness what it lacks in out and out raunch - I guess it depends on your experience you've had from girlfriends.:o

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For me GFE is too widely used and advertised to really mean anything .. everyone seems to offer it...

For me, walking away after an hour or so I would say I had a GFE if :

- Greeted with kiss, smile and warm hello

- Good balance between genuine conversation and action

- Must be mutual pleasuring. Reverse oral, touching and kissing a must

- no rush to get you out of the door if you only have 15mins left .. making the most of the time with either a shower together or gentle play.

- A kiss and a hug goodbye

We all know it is fake but if a girl offers the above - I tend to go back at least once more... if all I wanted is to cum I'd shut my eyes and knock it out myself a lot cheaper..

You have nailed it :o

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That is exactly what you give Pia. That is why guys like me want to return again and again:):o

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For me GFE is too widely used and advertised to really mean anything .. everyone seems to offer it...

For me, walking away after an hour or so I would say I had a GFE if :

- Greeted with kiss, smile and warm hello

- Good balance between genuine conversation and action

- Must be mutual pleasuring. Reverse oral, touching and kissing a must

- no rush to get you out of the door if you only have 15mins left .. making the most of the time with either a shower together or gentle play.

- A kiss and a hug goodbye

We all know it is fake but if a girl offers the above - I tend to go back at least once more... if all I wanted is to cum I'd shut my eyes and knock it out myself a lot cheaper..

ah I see though I do not kiss I do all the rest .............so that must be it

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Hi beth, It's when she looks pleased to see me.

Doesn't ask for money as soon as i get in the bedroom.

Offers me a drink.

Tells me she will do anything i want.

Doesn't watch the clock. Says it's her job only to please me .

Asks me to come back again soon.

[ had a gfe today ]

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i dont want the GFE, thats why i came to you!!!!!!

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My definition would be a girl with a very friendly attitude who kisses with passion ------- even though she is acting, she would also be up for most things, within her stated limits obviously.

In the last year I have met three such ladies ---

naughty holly of Adultw0rk

Seductive Scarlett of Adultw0rk

Alex of the Bunny Lounge

Give it a rest.

If the guy is lovely in his manner, polite, clean and makes an effort , we don't have to act

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For me GFE is too widely used and advertised to really mean anything .. everyone seems to offer it...

For me, walking away after an hour or so I would say I had a GFE if :

- Greeted with kiss, smile and warm hello

- Good balance between genuine conversation and action

- Must be mutual pleasuring. Reverse oral, touching and kissing a must

- no rush to get you out of the door if you only have 15mins left .. making the most of the time with either a shower together or gentle play.

- A kiss and a hug goodbye

We all know it is fake but if a girl offers the above - I tend to go back at least once more... if all I wanted is to cum I'd shut my eyes and knock it out myself a lot cheaper..

IMHO it is not always fake.

I have had many amazing experiences with clients. Yes , within the boundaries because obviously he is not my boyfriend and I am not his girlfriend. Or maybe I have misunderstood you and you mean fake as in , WG-Client so not in the real world.

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